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SHARING by Rodel Ramos
Sunday, 21 September 2008

Now Playing: Ramos Clan of Zambales
Topic: Ramos family tree

Ramos Clan of Zambales Update, January, 2007 

Agustin Ramos & Eugenia Inocencio (Patriarch) from Paoay, Ilocos Norte

1. Hermogenes Inocencio Ramos adapted by Juan Ramos when Agustin died        

2. Paula Inocencio Ramos Abiva was adapted by Paulino Ramos 

Hermogenes Inocencio Ramos & Petrona Tadena’s descendantsLa Paz, San Narciso, Zambales

I) Godofreda Ramos+ & Santiago Quintos+

1. Guadalupe Quintos+

2. Adela Quintos & Conrado Bactad+

     A) Windelina Bactad & Ulysses Nankil – a) Glenn; b) Wayne c) Cindy

     B) Ofelia Bactad & Florante Famisan –

          a) Gina Lei Famisan & Allan Gudaba - 

               i) Brandon & ii) Justin                       

          b) Bobby Famisan & Liz -                             

               i) Melissa                       

          c) Dianne

     C) Winefredo Bactad & Miriam Fanugao -                        

          a) Elaine

     D) Warner Bactad & Nenita Quilalang -                        

          a) Christopher Bactad & Frances Tamoro                                   

               i) Russel                       

          b) Jerry Bactad & Jeneffer de Leon                                   

               i) Jade & ii) Maris                       

          c) Stephan

     E) Tessie Bactad & Provic Almero                       

          a) Jonathan, b) Derick, & c) Zachary Conrad

3. Vicente Quintos+

4. Maria Quintos &            

     A) Sidney

5. Elena Quintos & Emeterio Advincula           

     A) Vilma Advincula & Art Apurillo                       

          a) Charlyne Apurillo & Benjamin Araos                                   

               i) Brett Julian, ii) Chelsea Austin, & iii) Andrea Jade                     

          b) Heather Joy                       

          c) Art Michael           

     B) Nelson Advincula & Naty Fuerte                       

          a) Sean & b) Vanessa           

     C) Israel Advincula+ & Mari Rivera                       

          a) Lindsay & b) Stephanie           

     D) Jefferson Advincula & Alice Agadier                       

          a) Jenelie & b) Jeffrey           

     E) Mario Advincula & Ledy                       

          a) Sharon, & b) Michelle

6. Felicidad (Ising) Quintos

7. Alejandria (Andring) Quintos+ & Perfecto Tadeo -            

     A) Silvenita Tadeo & Genry Rowe -                        

          a) Allyson, & b) Mark Allan           

     B) Kenneth Tadeo & Anne Mangalindan                       

          a) Jaymi b) Nathan Cole c) Samantha           

     C) Allen Tadeo & Marisol Pacheco

8. Silvina (Binay) Quintos & Fermines Almazan           

     A) Lalaine Almazan & Michael Tanaka -                        

          a) Jayden & b) Kian           

     B) Mary Ann Almazan & Devin Lawson -                       

          a) Ethan           

     C) Fermines Almazan Jr. & Ma. Theresa Miana -                       

          a) Ryan Patrick, b) Brandon & c) Lorraine Jewel           

     D) Jojo Almazan & Angela Lsaacson -                       

          a) Courtney Michelle, b) Megan Elise & c)  Kailyn           

     E) Maricel Almazan & David Custudio                       

          a) Cameron & b) Jonathan

II) Maxima (Mimay)+ Ramos & Numeriano Galace:

1. Mamerto (Merting) & Rosalia Ibarra

     A) Lily Galace Rathbone

     B) Linda+,

     C) Augusto Galace & Teresita Mercado -           

          a) Rafael

     D) Juanita Galace & Rodrigo Taruc -            

          a) Leah & b) Albert

     E) Mary Galace & Eduardo Trinidad -           

          a) Sofia & b) Eduardo

     F) John Dimas Galace & Nida Rodriguez -            

          a) Carmela, b) Emmanuel, c) Irene Celeste & d) Jeneses

     G) Joseph Galace & Rose Calizar -            

          a) Monica

     H) Antonio Galace & Maricar Cajigal -            

          a) Anthony Gabriel & b) Maria Christiana              

     I) Grace Galace

     J) Peter Galace & Jasmin Nario          

          a) Uriel & Miguel

     K) Benjamin Galace.

2. Wilfredo (Bidoy) Galace & Cristita Cuaresma -

     A) Joy Galace & Quintin Sajorda -           

          a) Generic Sajorda & Malou Jimenez - i) Michelle Angelica ii) Gabriel Angelo iii) Uriel           

          b) Arckay Sajorda & Christine Marfil - i) Danna Ray ii) Kendrick           

          c) Lara Joy Sajorda & nbsp;          

          d) Cerwin Mae Sajorda - i) Aidan Karel ii) Gaelan Kristen iii) Roshin Kalel         

          e) Ella Sajorda & Edgar Contreras - i) Leila Jewel

     B) Willie Galace & Helen Evangelista - a) Kristel & b) Calvin

     C) Brenda Galacea) Wilcesroy

     D) Cesar Galace & Feliza Ramirez - 
          a) Ivanka Galace & Samuel Reifmann -
 

               i) Rowanne Reifmann     

          b) Gherty
          c) Llewelynn
          d) Toni

     E) Ester Galace

     F) Rolly Galace & Juanita Reyman -  

           a) Phoebe & Kassandra,

           b) Oliver Kerby,

          c) Reymart John                      

          d) Jessa Cristina

     G) Hayde (Jade) Galace & Rolando (Bobot) Lopez                         

          a) Jade Loyce,

          b) Jaylan

     H) Chona Galace &

          a) Kristine Dianne,

          b) Jay-Jay,

          c) Evelyn &

         d) Alta

3. Larry (Loring) 1st marriage Virginia (Belen) Barreno                       

2nd Marriage Emilia Tivoli

     A) Eleanor Galace & Ernesto Galvez (Ist Marriage) -                          

          a) Judy Ann (PixieGalvez                 

          b) Zorina (Maja) Galvez    

Eleanor Galace & Glen Gilbert (2nd marriage)

     B) Edgardo Galace & Emilia (Ist marriage) -            

          a) Dionne Lyn, b) Kristin Ed & c) Michell    

         Edgardo Galace & Leila Gomez (2nd marriage) 

     C) Danilo Galace & nelia Gomez - a) Isaiah

     D) Evelyn Galace & Tom Santiago - a) Reili Jessica & b) Jordan

4. Gloria Galace & Marino Nobles+

     A) Vivien & Ronny Corpuz - a) Russel & b) Rachell

     B) Marino Nobles Jr. & Grace Furigay - a) Majid & b) Mark

     C) Ester Nobles & Jerome Baldonado - a) Marian Claire, b) Joan Kimberly, c)  Eugene Joseph & d) Thomas Lincoln

     D) Rosario Nobles & Kit Hebron - a) Kathlyn Rose & b) Lauren Christy

     E) Vida Nobles & Emmanuel Felarca - a) David & b) Vincent Manuel

5. Corazon Galace & Emil Felarca Sr.-

     A) Emil Felarca Jr. & Jacqueline Stark - a) Laura, b) Christina & c) Joseph

     B) Gladys Felarca & Howard Bishop - a) Stewart, b) Ryan & c) Michelle

     C) Consuelo Felarca & Rusty Pallas - a) Morgan

     D) Emmanuel Felarca & Vida Nobles - a) David & b) Vincent Manuel

     E) Cynthia Felarca & Walter Popoff. - a) Rebekah, b) Jo Anne, c) Mary, d) James & e) Anastacia

*More info Galace website:http://www.geocitie s.com/ecalag/ aqwg03.htm# 9

III) Domingo T. Ramos & (1st Wife) Isabel Arcala

1.Benita Ramos+ & Arnulfo Villanueva+ (1st husband) -           

     A) Ruth Precilla Villanueva & Frank Van Mierlo - a) Vincent & b) Martin               

     B) Frank Villanueva & Jovita Livioco - a) Benjamin Joseph, b) Christine Faye & c) Alexander John 

       Benita Ramos+ & Noel Fabella           

     C) Alma Fabella - a) Christine Anne, b) Patrick Daniel, c) Robin Daniel & d) Jerika Danielle           

     D) Roy Fabella & Celene Valdez -

2. Domingo Ramos Jr & Remedios Uson           

     A) Jurem Ramos & Mary Jane Sitchon - a) Abraham, b) David & c) Charis           

     B) Minerva Carol Ramos & Leanaro Alog - a) Daniel, b) Glorianne, c) Joy Lily d) Anne & e) Evangeline           

     C) Domingo Ramos III & Mary Jeannette Taluban - a) Aaron Kirby & b) Fritzy           

     D) Ma. Generosa Ramos & Leandro Nocum - a) Louie Matthew, b) Lauren Sandra & c) Lorenz Kayla           

     E) Emmanuel Ramos           

     F) Mark Ramos           

     G) Moses Ramos

Domingo Ramos Sr. & (2nd Wife) Florentina Rigunay

3. Hermogenes Ramos & Fe Roldan           

     A) Nathaniel John, B) Nevin Jorrel & C) Norman Joshua

4. Judy Ramos & Noel Hinoguin           

     A) Josiah Noel

IV) Angela Ramos+ & Jose Ralutin+

1. Conchita Mangalindan+ & Enrique Mangalindan+           

     A) Alice Mangalindan & Vedasto Lim                       

          a) Viviene Lim & Daniel Bombita - i) Darren Jacob & ii) Aaron                       

          b) Veronica Lim & Ramon Almeda - i) Joey, ii) Tonton, iii) Junie & iv) Kelly                       

          c) Vida Alicia Lim                       

          d) Victor Allan Lim           

     B) Mario Mangalindan & Teresita Holgado - 

          a) Michael Joseph,

          b) Leo Angelo,

          c) Gracia Teresita           

     C) Juan (Johnny) Mangalindan & Lani Peralta -                        

          a) Hilario and Joanna

          b) Francesca &

          c) Criselda           

     D) Teresa Mangalindan & Danilo Mariano - 

          a) Diwata - i) Angela                       

          b) Isagani                       

          c) Ramon Enrique           

     E) Luz Mangalindan & Reynaldo Padua -                       

          a) Paula Rica                       

          b) Ma. Angelica                       

          c) April Anne - i) Maaziah Roy Padua Murphy           

     F) Enrique (Jojo) Mangalindan Jr. & Rosario - a) Enrique III & b) Diane Marie           

     G) Corazon (Cutie) Mangalindan           

     H) Raul Mangalindan & Veronica (Vica) de Leon - a) Miguel & b) Gabriel           

     I) Rene Mangalindan+           

     J) Anne Mangalindan & Kenneth Tadeo - a) Jaymi, b) Nathan Cole & c) Samantha

2. Roly Ralutin+ & Millie Lagniton           

     A) Liza Ralutin & Ver Penaranda - a) Miguel & b) Gabrielle           

     B) Paul Ralutin & Carina Cruz - a) Polina, b) Isaiah & c) Malcolm           

     C) Suzette Ralutin & Roland Martensson - a) Andre

3. Evelyn Ralutin

4. Florizel Ralutin & Amelia Estrada+           

     A) Dennis,

     B) Kara &

     C) Dustin

V) Francisco T. Ramos+ & Illuminada Calara+ (1st wife)

1. Filipinas Ramos & Dr. Cipriano (Upid) Mauricio           

     A) Sebastian Hermogenes Mauricio & Ma. Teresa Diaz - a) Andrew & b) Rachel           

     B) Ruth Leah Mauricio           

     C) Cipriano Mauricio Jr. & Monica Sjursen           

     D) Ester Mauricio & Karl Swartzendruber - a) Mauricio

2. Josefina Ramos & Jose Aquino           

     A) Elizabeth Aquino & Brian Hill - a) Allyson, b) Alexander, c) Andrew & d) Chloe           

     B) Rose Aquino & Jimmy Chen - a) Hope, b) Ethan & c) Holly           

     C) Reynaldo Aquino & Agnes Alcantara - a) Noah & b) Eva           

     D) Michael Aquino

3. Francisco Ramos Jr+

4. Diosdado Ramos+

Francisco T. Ramos+ & Elena Jallorina+ (2nd wife)

1. Jesus J. Ramos & Rita Gabriel (1st wife)           

     A) Irish Ramos & Rodolfo Bautista -  a) Cle Anne & b) Leah           

     B) Crystaline Ramos & Eduardo Samaniego - a) Creszel, b) Jefferson, c) Kristine, d) Krisel & e) Ericson           

     C) Jade Ramos & Emma Perez (1st wife) - a) Mark & b) Jeffry           

     D) Tiffany Ramos & Alvin Nicolas - a) Arianna

1A. Jesus J. Ramos & Norma Merto (2nd wife)           

     E) Myra Ramos & Jonathan Abad - a) Prince           

     F) Rey Ramos           

     G) Israel Ramos & Grace Sison - a) Ken, b) Graciel, c) Israel Jr., d) John Lloy

2. Lourdes Ramos & Mariano Lalog           

     A) Rhoda Lalog & Emil -            

     B) Gracielle           

     C) Shiela

3A. Rodel J. Ramos & Violeta Gonzales (1st wife)            

     A) Voltaire           

     B) Vanessa+

3B Rodel J. Ramos & Rhodora Nillas Yang (2nd wife)           

     C) Allain Yang           

     D) April Yang & Joel Bernardo - a) Maiya Lyn Bernardo           

     E) Yvette Yang

4. Bernadette Ramos & Julius Bueno - A) Justine Ramos Bueno

VI) Epifania (Paning)+ Ramos &  Capt. Alfredo Piga (Piding)+

1. Lourdes Piga & Atty. Rodrigo Ridon           

     A) Ma. Vilma Ridon & Chito Tecson - a) T.J. Tomas III & Dianne Valerie           

     B) Ma. Victoria Ridon & Edgar de Leon - a) Edgar Allan           

     C) Ma. Lourdes Ridon           

     D) Louella Mae Ridon - a) Juancho, b) Rodrigo, c) Juan Miguel & d) Juan Carlos           

     E) Rodrigo Richard Ridon & Rachel - a) Raymond, b) Ralph & c) Ryan           

     F) Concepcion Imelda Ridon - a) Gabrielle

2. Domingo Piga & Adela Laquitan           

     A) Thelma Piga Estaris           

     B) Dominador Piga Jr. & Abadiano           

     C) Benjamin Piga & Dumayas           

     D) Francis Piga & Esposo           

     E) Mabini F) Delia Piga & Fruto            

     G) Eutemia Piga & Ladiero

3. Dionisio+

4. Francisco (Frankie) - Dr. Lolita Corusso -            

     A) Gina Piga             

     B) Ferdinand           

     C) ChristianD) Alexander -  a) Jonathan           

     E) Ana Liza           

     F) Ulysses

5. Florentina (Tinay) Piga & Domingo Corpus+           

     A) Michelle Corpus           

     B) Jeannette Corpus & Rody Delgado - a) Jonathan, b) Jennifer           

     C) Frances Corpus & Noel Fontimayor - a) Brandon           

     D) Christine Corpus           

     E) Stephen+

6. Aurora Piga & Orlando Zapanta -           

     A) Agnes Zapanta & Arly Gorra - a) Micky & b) Mica           

     B) Cynthia Zapanta & Armand Patiag - a) Kevin & b) Keith           

     C) Jun Zapanta & Mercy - a) JayceeD) Raymond            

     E) Jojo Zapanta - a) Francine           

     F) Liza Zapanta & George de la Rosa - a) Elisha           

     G) Ann Zapanta

7. Atty. Archimedes (Medy) Piga & Atty. Charito Bacalso -           

     A) Aivee Piga & Malcolm Crawley - a) Georgia Abigail & b) Thomas Cole  

     B) Karen Piga & Mark Anthony Marero - a) Alicia Anne & b) Kaira Anne           

     C) Jerome Jonathan8. Julieta Piga+

9. Plaridel Piga & Boy Mabayo

     A) Venus Bermejo,

     B) Jane & Boy Cirilo

     C) Grace Bermejo

     D) Ed Paul

10. Alfredo Piga Jr. & Gloria Legaspi.            

     A) Irene Irish           

     B) Apple – Sean           

     C) Precious           

     D) Ambeth

11. Epifania Piga & Eduardo Cruz - A) Friday B) Edward  & C) Chiekie
Ulysses Piga ulyhp@hotmail.com
 

VII) Emilia (Meling) Ramos & Mariano Bostillo

1. Remedios Bostillo+

2. Jose Bostillo+ & Nedelia Ramos -

     A) Joeby Bostillo & Tammy Few - a) Christy, b) Jason, c) Danny, d) Lailani & e) Shannon           

     B) Ezzel Rogan & Keith Rogan - a) Robert, b) Amanda & c) Berrett           

     C) Emelia Sides & Roger Sides - a) Ashley           

     D) Mariano Bostillo & Rubin DeNardo - a) Nikole & b) Samantha           

     E) Petrona Zorn & David Zorn - a) Justin, b) Karla & c) Joseph           

     F) Ronny Corpuz & Vivien Nobles - a) Russel & b) Rachell           

     G) Wilfredo de la Cruz & Carmencita de los Reyes - a) Leslie

3. Ben Emilia Bostillo & Angel Ramirez           

     A) Nora Ramirez & Raul Madarang - a) Leana, & b) Jahnel           

     B) Ronnie           

     C) Liza Ramirez & Kenny Carhart -

VIII) Mariano T. Ramos & Teodora Taylan

1. Enrique Ramos & Librada Opelanio - 

     A) Fredirick Ramos           

     B) Lora Lei Ramos & David Baptista - a) Faith Angelina           

     C) Jennifer

2. Josefina Ramos+

3. Hermogenes Ramos+

4. Benigno Ramos & Irene Felizmino -            

     A) Christian &

     B) Ana

5. Zenaida Ramos+

6. Nestor Ramos+ & Adelina Bacud - A) Tristan, B) Thia & C) Tiffany

7. Ramon Ramos & Evangeline Fontanilla - A) Kingsley, B) Liezel & C) Bradley

8. Renato Ramos & Renee Rose Enriquez -

9. Evangeline Ramos & Benjamin Ambon - A) Marvin, B) John Paul, C) Mari Chris, D) Marie Jean & E) Matthew

10. Prescilla Ramos & Dean Hughes - A) Ashley, B) Michael, C) Emelie & D) Glenn

IX) Manuel T. Ramos & Rosita A. Ballon+

1.Joven Manolito Ramos

2. Jose Anthony Ramos & Renalyn Belecina - A) Ma. Rosafina, B) Jose Antonio & C) Lorenzo Agustin

X) Isabel T. Ramos+ 

Paula Ramos+ (daughter of Agustin Ramos) & Nicolas Abiva Sr +

I) Luis Abiva Sr.+ & Asuncion Quiray+

1. Jacinta “Nena” Abiva & Walfredo Garcia           

     A) Jorge Garcia & Ma. Teresa Clotilde - a) Johann Paolo           

     B) Carolyn Garcia & Belodio Domingo Beltran - a) Irena Ann, b) Celina Marie & c) Miguel Franz           

     C) Jerome Garcia           

     D) Jonathan Garcia & Cheryl - a) Walfredo II

2. Felicito Abiva (Toots) & Teresita Romualdez           

     A) Ma. Melissa Abiva & Samuel Fata - a) Carlo & b) Gabriela           

     B) Ma. Asuncion “Marion” Abiva & Raymond Daniel Cruz - a) Gianne Erika, b) Ysabel Theresa, c) Daniel Dominic & d) Pio Francesco           

     C) Ma. Aileen “Mylene” Abiva & Reynaldo Sazon - a) Jeremy Eduard & b) John Augustine           

     D) Ma. Beatriz “Beth” Abiva & Eduard Isaac - a) Ma. Bianca, b) Jose Ruiz & c) Andrea Faustine           

     E) Ma. Rosario “Pinky” Abiva & Alex Francisco - a) Jacob           

     F) Ma. Lourdes “Lovely” Abiva           

     G) Jose Norberto Luis Abiva

3. Rosario “Cherry” Abiva+ & Danilo Casal+           

     A) Maricar Casal           

     B) May Ann Casal & Ron Soriano           

     C) Michael Casal & Grace Romero           

     D) Mark Danny Casal & Camille Chikiamco - a) Angelica & b) Kayla           

     E) Mia Casal

4. Luis Abiva Jr. & Thelma Garcia -           

     A) Louie Gerard Abiva & Kathrina Europa - a) Kiana Alexis           

     B) Thelma Grace Abiva & Vincent Leung - a) Lorenzo Armand           

     C) Thelma Gail Abiva

II) Cesario Ramos Abiva+ & Cristina Alcasid+

1. Vicente Abiva+ & Ofelia Corquera           

     A) Elizabeth Christine           

     B) Catherine Evelyn           

     C) Cresilda           

     D) Cecile Eileen Roxas

2. Julius Abiva+

3. Nepomoceno Abiva & Purita Rivadelo           

     A) Marilyn Abiva & Richard Powers           

     B) Manolito Abiva & Maureen           

     C) Mary Jane Abiva & Mark Hunt           

     D) Julius Cesar Abiva+            E) Irene Abiva

     4. Paul Abiva & Alicia Acay - A) Paul Gerard

5. Luisa Abiva+

6. Hegenio (Boy) Abiva+ & Julieta David           

     A) James Arthur Abiva & Evangeline Cadang - a) Justin Paz, b) Charmaine, c) James Ivan & d) John Carlo           

     B) Ma. Cristilita Abiva & Joel Fuertes - a) Cathleen Joy & b) Joel Christopher           

     C) Jorome Gerardo & Adona Gonzales - a) Ann Grace

III) Agelio Abiva+ & Juliana Fuertes

1. Romeo Abiva

2. Lourdes Abiva & Restituto Galarretta           

     A) Jorge Galaretta & Nimfa Mendoza - a) Joni, b) Fidela & c) Joanna           

     B) Flor           

     C) Restituto Galarretta Jr & Nori Manaoat - a) Ella Alyssa Noreen

3. Agelio Abiva Jr.+ & Esmeralda Cayme+           

     A) Marilou Abiva & Maximo Amoroso - a) Michelle, b) Mary Anne & c) Jay Ar           

     B) Agelio Abiva III & Marlyn Bonifacio - a) Sheila Mae, b) Jomar & c) Stephanie           

     C) Josephine Abiva & Ronald Allan Viado -           

     D) Ricky Abiva           

     E) Emilie Abiva & Randy Mata - a) John Christian

4. Wilma Abiva & Agustin Estabillo           

     A) Marlyn Matignas & Nino Matignas - a) Selina           

     B) Mari Cris Estabillo & Adolf Floresca - a) Christian Kenneth           

     C) Gilbert Estabillo & Mayleen

5. Marietta Abiva & Arnold Secuya           

     A) Mary Grace Secuya & Henrix Agagas - a) Decklin 

Other Ramos blocks (Emilia Mely Ramos recollection)

Block 1 Raymundo Ramos & Theodora Manuel

1. Pablo Ramos - Mercedes FontillasA) Flocerfina Fontillas

2. Andres Ramos - Dorotea Labuton

     A) Emilia (Mely) Ramos & Boris Senica

     B) Antonia Ramos & Jesus Ignacio - a) Edna,b) Romy c) Marites, d) Nellie, e) Arnel, f) Danny, g) Eileen

     C) Acela Ramos & Johnny Tabigne - a) Arthur b) Walter c) Florence, d) Bernadette

     D) Francisco Ramos & Rosario Venti - a) Manuel, b) Jeorge, c) Ronald & d) Celia

     E) Isabel Ramos - Marjan Krajne - a) Mark Krajne

     F) Rosalina Ramos+

     G) Perfecta Ramos - Khalid Shah - a) Naginna (Gina) Shah

     H) Marieta Ramos+

     I) Gerardo Ramos & Theresa Tantoco - a) Michael and b) Lesley ann

     J) Nestor Ramos & Luzviminda Fontelera - a) Niko & b) Nicole

3. Adolfo Ramos & Falaviana Labrador

     A) Porferio Ramos & Lourdes;

     B) Eliceteria - Fernando;

     C) Viliorita - Gadong Felarca

4. Barbara Ramos - Perfecto Concepcion

     A) Leoncia - Vecencio Pimentel - a) Vecencio Jr.+ b) Isabelita; c) Enrico; d) Alice & e) Rebeca

     B) Cresencia - Guillermo Falsario - a) Amado & b) Raul

     C) Asuncion & Cianoa) Imelda

     D) Crisostomo - Lolita

     E) Rosario - Ruben Bernardo

     F) Alejandro - Erlinda Ramos - a) Grace; b) Abraham; c) Marisa

     G) Julita - Celino Ramos - a) Carrol; b) Marlow; c) Judith

5. Juliana Ramos - Felipe Felarca

     A) Erlinda Felarca - Gregorio Mercadoa) Jeanie & b) Marites

6. David Ramos - Barbara Managan

     A) Divina Ramos - Nelfredo Sabado - a) Wendy & b) Wenston

     B) Wilson Ramos - Welhelmina Masangka - a) William & b) Walter

     C) David Ramos Jr. - Mellie Silao - 

7. Migdonio Ramos - Segundina Villanueva 

     A) Antonio Ramos - Adelaida Quejado - 

          a) Glen Ramos &Vivian - i) Omar Ramos (Australia); ii) Gigi Ramos                           

          b) Leah Ramos & Dennis                          

          c) Marites Ramos &  

          d) John John Ramos (Australia).                             

          e) Migdonio Ramos (U.S.)

     B) Amado Ramos - Fely Marcelo -                        

          a) Monette Ramos married & ____ Chua. - i) Joerel Ramos (New York)     ii) Jerry Ramos (Chicago).                          

          b) Jojo Ramos

     C) Cesar Ramos - Fely Arichea+ -                       

          a) Celia Ramos                        

          b) Cesar Ramos, Jr.                              

          c) Charitel Ramos

     D) Josefina Ramos - Martin Santiago -

          a) Ismael Santiago & Mary Ann Viluan.                          

          b) Karen Balas, &  - i) Kobe Balas & ii) Asya Balas.

     E) Belma Ramos - Rudy Navidad -                        

          a) Richard Navidad & Christina -.a) One son.                         

          b) Michelle Navidad+.

     F) Benita Ramos - Rogelio Fernandez (Sonny) - a) Rogel, b) Erwin c)Ruby d) Bryan e) Rachel. 

Block 2: SILVERIO RAMOS & ??? 

1. Maximo Ramos – Socorro (Coring) Buenaventura 

     A) Maximo Jr.

     B) Alberto

     C) Romeo

     D) Violeta

     E) Grace

3.        Andrea (Odiang) Ramos-Francisco Farin+1994

     A) Alice Farin & Leo de Leon - a) Heidi & b) Sherry

     B) Edgar Farin & Ana - a) Christine & b) Ed Jr.

     C) Florendo Farin & Lourdes - a) Nikki b) Melissa c) Alexis d) Arturo

3. Martina (Tining) Ramos  & Ignacio Bragado (+ 2004)

            A) Iggy Jr.

            B) Cynthia

            C) Paula Bragado/Mark - a) Emily & b) Ben

4. Maria Ramos & Fulgar - A) Meliton (+70s)- Luz Abrajano (+ 2004)B) Jesus; C) Tessie, D) Dionicio, E) Restituto, F) Junior, G) Norma and H) Vilma.

 

Block 3: From the UNION OF ??? RAMOS & ???

1. Dalen Ramos

2. Florencia Ramos – Filomeno Fontelera

    First wife of Pikong Fuerte

Block 3 and Block 5 are first cousins.  Fathers of Block 2 (Silverio) and Block 3 are brothers.

 

Block 4: From the UNION OF ??? RAMOS & ???

1. Nicanor Ramos (Ex Councilor) 1st Marriage

     A) Mely – George Ferareza

     B) Bidoy

     C) Ely

    2nd marriage

2. Santiago Ramos

Etcetera

 

Block 5: DAMIAN RAMOS – BENITA FARIN

1. Martina Ramos & Melanio Buenaventura

2. Segundina Ramos

3. Felix Ramos & Tinay Flauta

4. Maxima (Mimay) Ramos

5. Pablo Ramos & Sixta Bautista

6. Gaudencio (Godin) Ramos & Aurea Almazan

7. Porferio (Peping) Ramos

8. Pilar Ramos

9. Raymundo Ramos?

10. Teodora.?

 

Block 6: FLORENTINO RAMOS – MARIA FARIN

1. Ciriaca Ramos+

2. Alejandrino Ramos – Wenona Farne

3. Evangelina Ramos - ____ Dichoso

Block 5 and Block 6 are double first cousins.  Damian & Florentino Ramos were brothers; Benita and Maria Farin were sisters.

Block 7: From the UNION OF ??? RAMOS & ????

1. Leonor Ramos & Olong Bustamante

2. Isabel Ramos

3. Etcetera

Block 9: UNION OF ??? RAMOS & ??? 

1. Sidong Ramos 

2. Benjamin Ramos, Sr 

3. Arsenia Ramos 

4. Portia Ramos

Block 10: "The RAMOS in the Kaman of the Santo Intierro of Aglipayans."  Kapitan Timoteo Fernandez and Isabel Ramos.  

Block # 11

1. Marcos Ramos

     A) Susan Ramos

      B) Marcos Ramos Jr. (Boy)

2. Arsenia (Seniang) Ramos

3. Portia

4. Pering.

5. Nelly Blanco?

Block# 12

1. Berting Ramos

2. Toring Ramos

3. Paulina  Ramos  

Block # 13

1. Cristino

2. Conching Ramos.

3. Daling.

4. Saling Campos

 

Block # 14

1. Juliana (Iping) Felarca,

Linda,

Barbara

Delio.

2. Agustin Ramos

3. Berto Ramos

4. Juan Ramos

5. Manuel Ramos

6. Herbacia Ramos Deloso (Botolan)

Governor Amor Deloso

Gavino

Tiling

Aire Ramos - _____________

1. Liberato (Ato) Ramos:

2. Lourdes Ramos

3. Lorna Ramos  & Abad 

Gaudencio Ramos - Auria Almazan

1. Helen   

2. Perlita

3. Pilar Ramos

Block #  15

Calixto Ramos & Cristina Fuertes

Fructousa Ramos – Pedro Campos     

1. Mercedes Campos     

2. Marcial Campos d. Feb. 27, 1938     

3. Luz Campos     

4. Rizalina Camos b.1919 & Isauro Aquino                 

     A) Rosalind Aquino & Leonardo Gonzales - 

           a) Ronnie Gonzales & Josephine Barredo -                             

          b) Rocel Gonzales & Ely Cabuang -                             

           c) Christine Gonzales                 

     B) Liberty Aquino & Angel Quiaoit - a) John Erick & b) Allan Carl 

    C) Ricardo Aquino & Linaflor Alcayaga -  a) Deon Isauro & b) Lerrick 

    D) Ligaya Aquino & Henry Jimenez - a) Christopher Ryan, b) Jeffrey Lee

     E) Leopoldo Aquino - a) Keith Lee                  

     F) Carina Aquino & Max Santilla - a) Carriza & b) Casey                  

     G) Isaurita Aquino b.1961                 

     H) Annie Luz Aquino b.1958 & Felipe Cabacoy -                             

          a) Katherine Liberty                              

          b) Stephanie      

5. Leonides Campos Sr. b.1911 & Emilia Mora b.1913                 

     A) Feliciano Campos b.1935 & Nellie Chita Fernandez b.1936                             

          a) Feliciano Jr. & Apolonia Rosemarie Seneta - i) Feliciano Apollo III & ii) Kassandra Camilia                              

          b) Joel Campos                             

          c) Noel Campos                             

          d) Val Fenilo Campos                             

          e) Irene Campos                             

          f) Eillen Campos & Michael Lynn Luster - i) Michaelle Eillen Luster -    ii) Michael Aeron Luster                 

     B) Leonides Campos Jr.                 

      C) Norma Campos & Jacobo Sancho Sr.                 

     D) Cesar Campos                 

     E) Marino Campos & Ofelia Manglicmot                 

     F) Arthur Campos & Myrna Bermudez                 

     G) Mercedes (Mercy)                 

     H) Marilyn                 

     I) Florida

Victoria Ramos – Prudencio Academia     

1. Maria Academia     

2. Dominga Academia     

3. Margarita Academia     

4. Paz Academia

5. Antipolo Academia

6. Urbano Academia

7. Augustina Academia

8. Fedencio Academia

9. Vicente Academia

10. Basilia Academia 

Ramos of Botolan, ZambalesBlock I

1. Quirino Ramos

2. Fernando Ramos

3. Opong Ramos 

     A) Ethel Ramos

     B) Nelia Ramos

     C) Chit Ramos

Block II

1. Ruben Deloso Torres

2. Julius Deloso Torres – Dra. Milali Topacio

            A) Julia Lusanne

            B) Julia Drienne

            C) Julia Francesca

            D) Emil Lorenzo

            E) Neil Matthew

3. Atty. Lourdes Deloso Torres 

Block III Ramos sisters of Botolan  

Ramos of Iba, Zambales Block # I

1. Deling Ramos & Mariano Gonzales of Iba, Zambales 

     A) Oscar Gonzales (Ex-Mayor of Iba &  Vice Mayor Arsenia -

           a) Vicky Gonzales &  

     B) Marianito Gonzales

     C) Mely Gonzales

     D) Amor Gonzales       

2. Daniel Ramos

            A) Arlene Ramos

3. Daling Ramos

Block # II 1. Agustin Ramos and Seriaco Ramos of Iba.

Block # III 1. Romanban families of Iba 
The Tadena relatives from Sto. Domingo, Ilocos Sur.
The slain Mayor of Sto. Domingo, Ilocos Sur is a relative.
1. Petrona Tadena & Hermogenes Ramos (Patriach) 
2. Addong Tadena (brother)
     A) Silay
     B) Celing
     C) Dolpo and 
     D) Luis Tadena. 
3. Silvina Tadena Tadeo (sister) children are the Tadeos.of San Narciso
Block II - TADENAS OF LA PAZ, San Narciso, Zambales
1. Aureliano Tadena & 1st wife - Demetria Fuertes 
               A) Erlinda Tadena de los Reyes 
                               a) Zaida Farin; 
               B) Remedios Tadena Cuyo; 
               C) Myrna Tadena Bueno; 
               D) Alberto Tadena
1A. Aureliano Tadena & 2nd wife - Aning Fuertes (sister of Demetria) 
               E) Fe Tadena Favor; 
               F) Leopoldo Tadena; 
               G) Amerigo Tadena; 
               H) Brenda Tadena; 
               I) Ramon Tadena;
               J) Sally Tadena; 
               K) Freni Tadena; 
               L) Ariel Tadena; 
               M) Redentor Tadena 
2. Inez Tadena Ruiz – (Anong’s sister)
               A) Roland
               B) Roy
               C) Alan.
3. Amparo Tadena – (Anong’s sister)
Block III 

I) Rita Tadena & Mauricio Lontoc

1. Agnes Tadena Lontoc & Atty. Gaudencio Cabacungan -               

     A) Ben Cabacungan & Elsa Baltazar - 

          a) Kristine R. Cababcungan,                          

          b) Ben Cabacungan Jr.+             

     B) Salvador (Badong) Cabacungan & Evelyn Apostol                         

          a) Everlyn Cabacungan,                         

          b) Ciara Cabacungan             

     C) Patsy Cabacungan & Earle Puyot                         

          a) Dale Puyot             

          D) Pepito(Pito); Cabacungan & Lilibeth Conguines                        

          a) Jason Cabacungan

2. Ernesta (Erning) Tadena Lontoc+ & Paulino Agor             

     A) Nanette Agor Mullings                         

          a) Catherine Mullings & b) Sandy Mullings 

     B) Ruth Agor (Single)

 


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Saturday, 20 September 2008

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Topic: Unity

Unity, an impossible dream!

1.  Searching for Unity? By Rodel J. Ramos

For 15 years in Toronto, I worked so hard for unity. I thought I was close to it until the Centennial celebration in 1998 when my partner in unity, a publisher of a community newspaper was appointed Chairman of the Centennial Celebration in Canada. His character changed overnight from the humble guy to a god of the community. He got drunk with imagined power. He forgot our pledge to create unity among Filipinos in Canada. He refused to even sanction the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome (Rogers Centre), the largest entertainment center in the world.

I appealed to him to grab the one time opportunity to unite Filipino Canadians and be the hero of the hour who will be able to unite our people, a model to all without doing anything. We will do everything for him and our people. All he has to do is sanction the event. I pictured to him the event. We will invite all the different organizations in the different provinces of Canada including Pinoys in the U.S. to Toronto in one big celebration of the Centennial.  I already have from the different consulates their contact numbers. He refused because some of the organizers of that event are his enemies.

What he wanted was just have the ordinary Gala nights and picnics. He was going to have a celebration the whole year, all over Canada. In the month of August, his events have more entertainers than the number of people in the audience and his initiative died down.

We parted ways. We went on with the event and gathered more than 35,000 Filipino Canadians at SkyDome (Rogers Centre), the largest gathering outside the Philippines. We made history by celebrating history. He was the only leader outside in the cold while we were all having a good time.

From then on, I gave up on seeking for unity. It dawned on me that no country, no community or even a family has ever united completely. Not even the U.S. or Canada. There are always oppositions. There will always be different ideas and opinions. There are thousands of alternatives in solving any problem and you will never let everyone agree on one solution.

Look back in history and all the nations including America have its internal wars and disagreements. The greatest of heroes never was able to unite any nation. Even Rizal, Bonifacio, Aguinaldo, Magsaysay, Marcos were not able to unite our people at any time in history, what more of us ordinary people now?

The best thing we can do is gather the people who are one in our beliefs, visions and missions convince them to join forces and do the things we believe can change or influence our country or community. Never mind the narrow minded ones or the pessimists. Many just want to watch in the side and join only when they see that you are winning. That is what happened at the SkyDome and that has happened in any events including successful revolutions.

Get the best minds among the Pinoys and let them set up the plans, the foundation and put the plans into action. The risk will be lesser. That is how other nations and communities became successful. We just follow their success to reach greatness for our people.

 

2.  Do we need unity? By Rodel J. Ramos

 Why Unity eludes us?

                In spite of the claimed greatness of our heritage and brilliance of some of our people, unity in our community simply eludes us. In the process, we cannot accomplish anything significant as a group. Is brilliance a liability to Filipinos just like some persons who are so talented they have lost track of reality?

Some observe that in Winnipeg, Canada where there are not too many learned Filipinos, they were able to elect an MP, Dr. Ray Pagtakhan while in Toronto, we only have a Councilor in Markham, and a Mayor in Niagara on the Lake, Art Viola. In Markham, they can’t credit the Filipinos simply because there are just a few of them there. Alex Chiu our Councilor there has a Chinese name, speaks Chinese and therefore sways the Chinese votes. More so in Niagara on the Lake were Filipinos can be counted with one’s fingers.

Perhaps the saying, “Too many cooks spoil the broth” is quite true. Others say this “claimed brilliance” is questionable. Perhaps, “perceived brilliance” or “bilib sa sarili” is more appropriate.

Unity is a myth!

Think about it. No nation, community or organization has ever attained absolute unity. America is as disunited as Canada, Israel, Japan, England and many other countries. The only difference is those who roles are either faction who are in the majority, with money, organization or strategy and who support and protect each others interest.

Let’s stay closer to home by observing our families. Most of the time, there are always opposition to ideas. There is always a black sheep in the family, the bully who contradicts or acts just to be noticed insist on his idea or tries to prove that he/she is better or can do what ever he/she wants. And to think that our families are patriarchal or matriarchal in nature.

Reasons

                There are many reasons why we can not totally agree. There are hundreds of ideas for any given problem. Just take for example in the celebration of the Centennial. We have the traditionalist who clings to the yearly gala night and picnics. Others wanted to celebrate in their own private way. Still some wanted it with a big bang just like the SkyDome event. Many others do not want to have anything to do with the Filipinos and are shameful of them. Still some wants to join but does not have the time or the money. We have different priorities and who are we to judge?

                In the idea of getting involved in the Community alone, some will say I don’t want to get involved, others will say, “Magugulo ang mga iyan.” Others say, “Anong makukuha mo diyan?” or “Sakit ng ulo at loob lang.” Still some will say, “If you want to get something, you have to work for it. No pains, no gains.” and believe something has to be done. Some join because of personal or business interest. Many want to meet friends, pass away the time, wants to be known, to achieve something, to be recognized, to feel important, or create something.

Many of us work silently, sacrificing without complains for the Community. There must be many of us. Look at all the hundreds of organizations with their thousands of officers and members working without a salary, spending their own money, time and efforts just to serve their Community. Others get burned, masama pa sila.

                Still others have the band wagon mentality. When they see others winning, that’s the time they join.

Differences

                A people with different backgrounds, traditions, culture, habits, ideas, upbringing, religion, ethnic communities, political leanings, interest, hobbies, intelligence, education, sex, age, orientation are not expected to think the same way. How can you put together the Communist and democrats, the Catholics and the Baptist, Seventh Day Adventists, Muslims, Methodist, and Iglesia ni Kristo? They would rather kill each other than to have one belief or goal.

                And when you use the system of democracy where everyone has the same voice and vote, you get mediocre decisions. It is true that we all have talents and expertise but while many are good doctors, nurses, teachers, accountants, engineers and so on, only a few are experts in organizations with management and leadership expertise.

It is discouraging for experts in organizations, when they propose something, it is either they are misunderstood and objected. Who was it who said, “A philosopher can never argue with a non philosopher?”  How for example can you explain to accountants the importance of Marketing and Promotions when all they think is how to save money and balance the budget? Marketing and business people believe that “money begets money.”

                When some persons take an idea as there own and mix it with their egos and sensitivity, then a bigger trouble begins. The egotist will claim, Idea ko ito”, “Ako ang masusunod”, “Masmagaling ako sa inyo” etc. It is the “I, me and myself” attitude.

There are also the bullies in the Community who insist on their ideas, their ways or no way even if they are wrong. Of course there are always advantages and disadvantages no matter what idea is used. All problems have solutions and all solutions have problems. But we waste a lot of time debating and arguing even for small details. Others just want to show off that they are brilliant and have answers for every question and questions for every answer. Many learn from their mistakes. Some learn too late and still others never learn at all.

                If in a family of four, unity is impossible, why do we expect unity in our Community of 500,000 in Canada? Kung minsan, mag-asawa na lang, hindi pa magkasundo, nagpapatayan pa. Sometimes even a husband and wife can not agree on decisions, unless the decision is left to the other out of love, tolerance or patience. Many times, even a single person debates with himself what best to do, confused with the many alternatives and solutions.

                Take the brothers Abel and Cain. There were just the two of them at that time, and one killed the other out of jealousy. Christ was betrayed by his own trusted apostle Judas.

Scientifically

                Science has a theory, “In every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.” This means there is always resistance to everything. There is also that “enertia” the tendency of matter to resist change. Every new idea in this world was resisted in their beginnings - Christianity, Democracy, Communism, and the other isms.

                I was a believer in this absolute unity concept for years and in my writings I espoused this concept until the Centennial Celebration. We tried for months to involve everyone in the Skydome Festival until two months before the event when in exasperation I said to the group, forget about pursuing this idea of unity. Concentrate on those who are convinced on the project and those who are not committed. We do not need everyone in this project or any project. And we succeeded in spite of those who were opposed.

                                                                                Lesson from history

                Do we need absolute unity? The 1898 revolution was won in spite of the bickering of the leaders of the Katipunan. In the process, Andres Bonifacio, the founder was executed because of the disagreements on how to run the Katipunan. There were two factions then within the Movement, the Magdalo and Magdiwang. Gen. Antonio Luna was also ambushed by the men of Gen. Emilio Aguinaldo again because of the division within the organization.

During the EDSA revolution, the whole nation was not united. There were those who were still loyal to the Marcoses. Most of our people were uninvoled and did not care. The people who successfully staged that event were not even 1% of our population of 74 million.

                Every nation and community is controlled by no less than 1% of the population. The Liberals or Conservatives of Canada is less than 1%. The Democrats and Republicans of the United States is less than 1%, and so are the Communist in China and the former Russia. They just know how to influence or control power.

                The Philippine Centennial Festival at the Skydome started with only a handful of men and women mostly unknowns, but was able to rally 35,000 members of our Community.  In this event, we proved that what they said was impossible to attain became a reality. Yet even the Spirit of Kalayaan was far from united. Within the Steering Committee itself, less than a dozen men and women, there were bickering and major disagreements that forced me and my niece, Luz Padua to resign in frustration before the event. Only two of us believed we can fill up the SkyDome.

Are we ready for Unity?

                The Skydome event proved that our people were matured enough to rally behind good causes. Even before this, they generously donated to the San Lorenzo Ruiz Community Center project. It was the leaders who could not agree among themselves and who failed our people.

                Let us not waste our time for impossible dreams. All we have to do is gather the people with open mind and positive attitude, convinced them on our ideas, and pray that the good Lord would bless our projects for His glory and honor. Then work hard for it.

 

3.  Single handed, nobody can unite our people by Rodel J. Ramos

               

                Do not ever think, even for a moment that anyone of us in this Community can single handily unite our people. For more than 25 years, Filipino leaders much wiser than many of us tried to unite the Filipinos in Metro Toronto, men with stature like former Pangasinan Governor Tito Primicias, lawyers like Mel Catre, Phil Gorospe, Rey Hipolito, Sam Maristanes, Drs. Ernie Quinit,  Francisco Portugal, Mario Andres, Jun de Villa, Ambassador Clemencio Montesa; intellectuals such as Fely Villasin, Ging Hernandez, Ruben Cusipag; visionaries like Ric Torres; technocrats in the person of Adam Aspilla, Alex Santiago; businessmen Mann Nacario, Roland Chan; proven community leaders Frank de Leon; holy men like Fr. Rudy Imperial, Fr. Ted Valencia and many more. They failed.

                For more than 100 years, much wiser and influential men and women than any of us tried to unite the Filipinos in the United States, they failed.

 For more than 500 years, great Filipinos, martyrs and heroes, intellectuals, proven leaders and men of great stature like Dr. Jose Rizal, Emilio Aguinaldo, Antonio Luna, Manuel Quezon, Ferdinand Marcos, and many others tried to unite the Filipinos in our motherland, they all failed.

                Do not seek a perfect leader. There is none. It matters not who our leader is. Leaders are just fronts of a cohesive group of people. They may have all the honors, but they are not the ones who do the dirty work.

Whom are we waiting for to lead us? We have all the talents, competence, and honest men among us to gear us to success, yet in our narrow mindedness we refuse to recognize and follow anyone of them. We are like the Jews who refused to acknowledge Christ as the messiah. They even crucified Him.

Tried all theories

                We have tried all kinds of principles and theories for centuries - crab mentality (pulling each other down), kanya kanya (individualism), divide and rule, dictatorship, democracy and all kinds of isms. Nothing worked.

Who can survive when those who go up are pulled down? They can’t even concentrate on their jobs because they are busy defending themselves against their own people. Even for a million years, these principles will never work because they are the formula for failure. Why in heavens name are we still following the same path? Are our leaders blind, lost, or simply greedy for power and personal interest?

Only in unity can progress and power be attained. There is no other way. But in our individual hunger for power and prestige, we forget our common goals of unity and progress. Let us pull each other up instead of down, join our resources and talents instead of kanya kanya.

Part of a puzzle

                Each of us are only a part of the problem, therefore we can only be a part of the solution. We have to work together, perhaps in compromise before we can rise in harmony to solve the puzzle of unity.

                We were made to compliment one another, not to compete with one another. Often we think we know everything or that we are better than others. Let us stop for a moment and think that every human being was given a gift that he or she may contribute to a better world. While we may excel in an area, we know little or nothing in other fields. We must therefore respect, listen and learn from each other. Let us also learn from the failures and achievements of the past.

                We must rise above ourselves in the service of our people. We must conquer our pride, our sensitivities and insensitivity to the feeling of others if we want to achieve anything as a community. Otherwise, we can only conquer one another. Perhaps it is true that it is easier to conquer others than conquer ourselves.

Filipinos excel

                Let me remind you. Filipinos are the leaders in so many things. In Asia, we developed research in rice production, bangus and tilapia culture. Other Asian countries only came to learn from us. You may not hear about them but many of our competent and trust worthy people are hired by Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Japan, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Brunei and others as managers, consultants, advisers, engineers, professionals and technicians in their hotels, construction, factories construction and government projects. In North America, our doctors, entertainers and nurses, are considered among the best. Why then can’t we trust them in things as simple as being community leaders where we don’t even compensate them?

                We are among the first nations to declare independence against colonial masters in the world. Our Dr. Jose Rizal has only a few equals among the intellectuals of other nations. We showed the world how to be brave during World War II by defying the Japanese war machines for five months with antiquated guns. This inspired Asians and European fighters against the modern war machines of Germany and Japan. Our Muslims of Mindanao has never been conquered.

We set an example for the world to follow in the peaceful EDSA revolution that preceded the crumbling of dictators and even the mighty Communist governments of Poland, Russia, East Germany, Romania, Czechoslovakia and the apartheid of South Africa. We inspired even the Chinese to protest.

Well organized

                We are the most highly organized group among ethnic communities in North America, united in the grassroots with the many organizations we have. We are successful in any cultural, religions, social and sports activities we undertake. Our only weakness is that we concentrate on projects that do not contribute to our economic and political progress. We also refuse to cooperate and coordinate with other organizations.  It is time we link these power centers and get into bigger and meaningful projects via Federations or umbrella groups.

                Big companies merge, consolidate, and unite to protect their interest, what more of us small, powerless people? Can we not learn from the lessons of the small ants and the bees? Shall we wait for our people to be enslaved like the Negroes or persecuted like the Jews of the holocaust?     

The masses want unity

                Most of the people wants unity and are ready for it. It is the leaders who refuse to unite afraid of losing their small serfdom’s, stature and power like children clinging to their toys. A frustrated friend suggested that perhaps the best solution is to invite all these self professed community leaders to a gathering and blow them all up into kingdom come. I find this too brutal.

                We hear of stories, like a group of leaders walking out of a gathering because their “honorable” names were not announced by the Master of Ceremonies, of a Vice President who was asked to wait for another year before becoming president but could not. He formed another organization. Of people separating from their organizations and forming another because they were not elected president. Egos, egos and more egos are ruining our fragile community and we are sick of it. This is simply immaturity!

 History

                Learn from history. Only when the masses united with the intellectual and the wealthy had miracles of unity happened in our country. The Katipunan was able to conquer the Spaniards when Emilio Aguinaldo was supported by intellectuals like Gen. Antonio Luna, Apolinario Mabini and the wealthy like Jacobo Zobel and others. Before this, the internal squabbling triggered the death of Andres Bonifacio and others.

                In the EDSA Revolution, Cory Aquino consolidated with some sectors of the Army under Fidel Ramos, and Juan Ponce Enrile, Catholic hierarchy led by Cardinal Sin, the business sector under Chino Roces, the moderates, and left-of-center elements.

                I shiver at the thought that this generation will pass away before unity and faith in our people will ever come. Perhaps the next generation will be less sensitive and less egoistic than the present.

Mistakes will be made

                We will commit a lot of mistakes in our struggle to achieve unity and greatness. Which nation or community did not undergo this process? Some will abuse their power, others will be corrupted. But the wise learns from their mistakes. And all great nations went through great trials and tribulations before they attained greatness.

                Wise decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad and good decisions. Most of us do not want to learn from the experiences of others nor from history. We always believe we can do better than others until we take over leadership and find out that we are as mortal as them, repeating the same mistakes they did.

                Dream only of sowing the seed and pray that God will grant your wish. You realize that it is not on our time, but on God’s time that unity will occur. Love benefits only the loved, not the giver.

Start with Independence

                Merge all Independence Day celebration into one in Metro Toronto. We are wasting too much money, energy and time to satisfy the egos of a few self proclaimed leaders. If they want to show their greatness, let them conquer their pride and join in one celebration. One celebration can show Canadian politicians, the world and Filipinos that we are united at least in Metro Toronto.

                We can put up a bigger show perhaps with a parade portraying our history as a nation from the Aetas, Indonesian, Malaysian and Chinese migration to the Spanish, American and Japanese eras and the present. With our Ati-Atihan, Philippine Heritage Band, Fiesta Filipiniana costumes and others, this will be a most colorful event equal perhaps to the Caribana and will focus attention to our community. And it will bring pride and honor to our children. This will be an appropriate celebration of our Centennial Independence in 1998.

                The parade can be followed by a whole day program in CNE or the Sky Dome featuring our many talented entertainers coupled with 1 to 2 hours TV coverage. A one page feature in national papers will make our community more visible among Canadian multicultural spectrum. We can invite big names like Lea Salonga, some Canadian entertainers or Pres. Ramos himself, the Prime Minister and Provincial politicians to bring more prestige to the occasion. We can charge entrance fees to cover the expenses. We can invite our Canadian friends to enjoy our culture and talents and let them participate in our native dances like tinikling and pandango sa ilaw. We can even declare this as a Filipino Canadian Friendship Day to encourage Canadians to participate. A taste of our Filipino cuisine can make a difference in the affair. There is so much we can share and be proud of.

                If this is achieved, then our Metro Toronto leaders can claim that they have matured. For now, we can only declare all of them as immature and childish, or worst, stupid.

 

4.  Only God can unite us by Rodel J. Ramos

 

                In a TV interview in Montreal, I was confronted with a rather intriguing question, “How can Filipinos unite when historically, we have always been divided?” It is true. When Ferdinand Magellan landed in our shores, Datu Humabon was in a tribal war with the fierce Lapu-Lapu of Mactan. The Spaniards exploited this division. Near the end of their rule, they had the loyalty of the dreaded Macabebe Guardia Civil of Pampanga, many wealthy and religious groups which were the nemesis of the Katipunan and the reformation.

                But even during our times of so called conflicts, most of the country lived in peace. Only a limited area was affected and only a small percentage of the people toke sides. The rest lived in harmony - Muslims, Christians, Tagalogs, Ilocanos, Cebuanos, Ilongos and others. The Huk rebellion in the 1950’s for example only paralyzed a few towns of Pampanga, Tarlac and Zambales.

Every nation

                The history of every nation is stained by conflicts and divisions. The United States of America has its upheaval against its motherland, the Great Britain, which ended in independence. Before that, there were years of bloody battles against the Apaches and other Indian warriors. America had its Civil War that ripped the country into the South and the North. Even today, their blacks are fighting for equal rights, the native Indians claiming their aboriginal lands. Minorities, women, disabled, gays and lesbians are shouting discrimination. But from these challenges, Americans learned to live together in harmony and prospered.

                Germany, the most powerful among the European Union was united by the fall of Communism and brought down the Berlin Wall. Before that, it was the East and West Germany fighting each other. And let’s not forget their devastation and humiliation during World War I and II. Germany’s beginnings were a group of barbaric tribes invading and plundering one another.

                Japan before it became a Kingdom under one Emperor was just a bunch of warring tribes. And so was born the ninjas known for their fierce fighting abilities. And out of the ruins of Hiroshima and Nagasaki came today’s economic giant.

                England before it was united as one Kingdom had its War of the Roses (the conflict between the royal houses of Lancaster and York). Years before, England was just a group of small kingdoms overthrowing one another in bloody armed struggles. Born in this era were the Knights of the Round Table with their armors, shields and swords. So were the heavily fortified castles.

                China was a nation always at war. Its Great Wall was built out of attacks by merciless neighboring kingdoms like the Mongols. The empire of Genghis Khan, Attila the Han, and others were born out of these conflicts that brought horrors and death to the entire Asia and created the Dark Ages in Europe.

The holy people

                The Bible documents the conflicts and divisions even by the chosen people of God. It tells us of the wars among the tribes of Israel, of their ruthless wars with Babylonians, Palestinians, and others. Their history is of enslavement by Egypt and the Roman Empire. Even today, there are factions inside Israel divided among religious and political lines. It was the Holocaust that galvanized them.

From creation

                Mankind, in fact had conflicts with each other since the beginning when Cain slew Abel being jealous of his brother. This was so since Adam and Eve defied God’s will which cast them out of Eden.

Families

                Every family has jealousy, arguments and disagreements between brothers and sisters, husband and wife, in-laws, children, parents and grandparents. We often have a black sheep in each family who cause shame, trouble and headaches even if most of the family members live in harmony. We always have differences in ideas, beliefs, motives, ambitions and interests. Only our love, respect, tolerance and relationship bind us together.

Religious groups

                Even the Catholic Church noted for their vow of obedience to superiors has its internal politics. Once in a while there are Martin Luther’s who break their ranks and set up their own churches. The Muslim religion is today divided into fundamentalists, radicals and what have you.

Conflict within us

                In the hearts and minds of every man is an inner battle between good and evil, love and hate, charity and greed, fear and hope, obesity or abstinence. Man has to decide which one to follow before he can have inner peace, harmony with other beings and his environment perhaps because we have the body of an animal and the soul of the divine. Or that we were created imperfect and born in sin.

                Man also was not born with an eye to look at his fault to compare himself to others. He needs a mirror to reflect on. But he has two eyes to see the fault of others.

The I syndrome

                In every conflict or divisions within the Filipino community, we will notice some common factors. They originated from petty reasons mostly personality clashes between two or more persons within the organization.

                During these conflicts, someone made himself the center of the universe and played god. Everything must resolve around him and everyone must follow what he wants. This self centered person, nay selfish man thinks himself as the best - the wisest, strongest, prettiest, wealthiest, most popular, and highest in rank - and therefore has the right to lead and be right in whatever he/she does or say.

                And because there are thousands of I’s in the Filipino community seeking recognition, honor, power and prestige conflicts of ambition, egos, interest, ideas, beliefs and preferences are inevitable.

                And just like when mankind falsely believed that the Earth was the center of the Solar System and the Sun revolves around it, we will forever be lost in our belief that everything revolves around us and everyone must conform to what we want.

                If the Sun, Moon, stars, Earth and other planets were not in its own orbits, they would collide with one another. If there were no traffic lights in our streets and every driver is permitted to do what he wants without courtesy, there will be chaos in the streets so with the collision of egos in our small community.

                Again, only the love of the community, our people, country and God will bind us together.

                All these conflicts are normal however in every community, a process of learning. It is just that some communities learn faster from their bitter lessons than others. Some will never grow up. They will always have those tantrums of little children.

Example, SLRCCC               

Take as an example San Lorenzo Ruiz Community Center issue. If I was in the shoes of Dr. Jun de Villa and I had the I syndrome I will think like this: “I am one of the best Filipino doctors in Canada, a specialist in my field. I am well respected. I am one of the riches Filipino in Toronto. I graduated from U.P. Nobody should tell me what to do. No one should doubt my motive nor malign my dignity and honor. I worked very hard for that Community Center and even spend my own money. Why should I give the honor to others? In fact, they can’t build that center without me.”

                And others who want to be close to a powerful man like me will say, “You are right Doctor. Why should you give them the honor? You worked hard for that. Fight them. You have all the money and the power. Show them you can beat them and that they are nobodies.” And my ego will be lifted high.

                And if I was Fely Villasin, president of SLRCCC, I would be challenged. I would say to myself, “I am also a graduate of U.P. I am an international a scholar. I am a known leader of the community too and of the feminist movement. I am a leader of the leftist movement and have a vast following. I will not just give up a fight even with the almighty. I can build the community center myself. We do not need a Dr. de Villa.”

                And in this case, if I was God, I will show these proud souls that they are nothing. I will humble them by not giving them the honor to build that center and put all the hindrances in their way. I will then let a nobody, a humble man built it. And the great loser is the Filipino community in the fights of the gods.

God the center

                Until we see our smallness in relation to the great firmament above us. Till we give back the throne to God, the Almighty as the center - the source of power, strength, love, goodness, wisdom, justice, faith and hope - our creator. Until we surrender to his will, there will always be clashes among us.

                When we humble ourselves and accept our smallness, we will discover that we are a part of a vast universe, not just that small creature called I. We will begin to understand our oneness with others and accept them as part of our being.

                Then we will learn to forgive and forget, to love one another as God had always loved each of us in spite of our wickedness.

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Updated: Saturday, 20 September 2008 5:54 PM EDT
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Tuesday, 16 September 2008

Topic: Filipino Centre

How we build a Centre in 18 months.

 

For more than 30 years the Filipinos in Greater Toronto Area tried but failed to build a Community Centre. A number of groups have tried but every time someone or a group pulls it down. Silayan Community Centre first tried, then Culture Philippines, and San Lorenzo Ruiz Community Centre. They all failed. For the last time we asked the community to give us a chance and in 18 months, the Filipino Centre Toronto finally bought a building at Parliament and Wellesley. Below are the articles published in Toronto newspapers, promotions, marketing strategies we used to fulfill that dream, the joy and heart aches of the struggle. There are now 3 centres in Greater Toronto Area, 2 of which we have an influence -  Rodel J. Ramos, Publicity & Promotions Chairman

 

Filipino Centre Toronto (FCT), Promotion and Marketing

 

1. Erap instructed Embassy to get involved by Rodel J. Ramos

 

           

           There are times when the truth is never told and credit is not given to the right people. In fairness, the initiative to encourage the Community to build a Centre from the Philippine Embassy and the Consulate came from the President himself.

Erap corresponded with Secretary Domingo Siason Jr. of the Foreign Affairs to initiate the move. The Secretary forwarded that instruction to Undersecretary Clemencio Montesa, formerly our Consul General in Toronto. Mr. Montesa who is now the Undersecretary to the Americas, conveyed the message to Ambassador Francisco Benedicto and the Philippine Consulate in Toronto to drum up support for a Center.

Even before Consul General Susan Constrence arrived, Acting Consul General Olivia Palala in her speeches in Community gatherings was already urging us to support the initiative. Ambassador Benedicto did the same in his trips to Toronto because the instruction was from the Palace. Benedicto’s offer of giving $5,000 of his own money was a personal initiative.

            How did Erap get involved? After the collapse of Culture Philippines and the SLRFCCC, the Community Center issue was in limbo. We decided to do something about it.

In the early months of 1999, we formed a think tank to study this unfulfilled dream of our people. Members of the group were Vince Vargas, a retired technocrat with 30 years business and executive experience, president of Brampton Filipino Seniors and an adviser at the SkyDome Festival; Bernie Sychangco, former Section head of the Presidential Staff of Malacanang; Clemente Cabillan, a top real estate agent of Re/Max; Roy Start, President Estrada’s loyal friend; Freddie Toledo, President of Canadian Village Development; Manny Bade, Manager of Videophone Comm. & Surveillance and myself. This was to become the Filipino Clubhouse Inc.

We found out that the Consulate, the Trade Attache and the Trade Commission combined were spending $200,000 in rent every year. Clem Cabillan, being a real estate expert said that if we could get the Consulate to rent or invest that amount to the building, it is easy to convince the banks to give us a mortgage. The Philippine Government is a solid institution and is very bankable.

The proposal does not run counter with the plans of the Consulate. In the past, there were attempts to buy their own building even during the time of Mr. Clemencio Montesa and Francisco Santos. The problem was, every time they submit the proposal, it takes Congress years act on it. By that time, prices have gone up.

We agreed that the best way to convince the Philippine Government is go directly to the President using the proper connection.

Below is the letter I composed which Roy Start signed in behalf of the Filipino Clubhouse Inc. Roy is a close associate of Pres. Estrada when he was Mayor of San Juan. This letter explains a lot of things that transpired. This was mailed in April 16, 1999 via Roy’s compadre, Mr. Mat Guerrero of Malacanang.

 

Pres. Joseph E. Estrada

Care of Mr. Mat Guerrero

Malacanang Palace

 

Your Excellency,

 

RE: METRO TORONTO PHILIPPINE CULTURAL CENTER

 

            After my operation from lung cancer 4 years ago, I had more time to get involved in the concerns of the Filipino Community. One of the things they badly need is a Community Center. In my 21 years in Canada, the Filipinos in Metro Toronto have tried and many times failed in this project for what ever reason. Of all the ethnic groups, we are the only ones without a Center.

            Aware of your interest in this kind of project, may we request your help in fulfilling the Filipino Canadian dream to have its own Cultural Center?

            We have gathered together some of your friends, businessmen, professionals, and leaders of the Community to propose the establishment of a Philippine Cultural Center. It is now gathering momentum. With your support, it will be easier to convince our people to join and hopefully build one during your term of office.

            Our plan is to sell shares of stocks to Members as well as raise funds.

There are 2 things which we would like to request from your Excellency:

1.       A letter of endorsement to the project (sample attached); and

2.       Ask the Philippine Consulate and the Philippine Trade Commission in Toronto to join us in this venture either as partners or by moving their facilities to the building as tenants;

            I believe the 250,000 Filipinos in Canada will forever be indebted to you. For a greater glory of the Philippines under your administration, Mr. President, we are committed.

                                                                        Your loyal follower,

                                                                        Roy Henry Start

           

Ambassador Francisco Benedicto answered that letter of Roy Start dated May 31, 1999.

 

Dear Mr. Start,

            Your letter of 16 April 1999 to His Excellency Pres. Joseph Ejercito Estrada regarding the establishment of Philippine Community Center in Metro Toronto was referred to the Embassy by the Office of the President.

            I want to inform you that the establishment of Philippine Community Centers in major cities in Canada is one of the priority missions I have set to accomplish during my tenure as Philippine Ambassador to Canada. After I officially assumed my post as Philippine Ambassador I met with the Communities in Ottawa, Metro Toronto and other cities to encourage them to put up a center in their respective localities.

            I am pleased to inform you that, after several months of meetings and discussions, the Community of the Ottawa Valley has succeeded in incorporating and registering a non-profit organization called the Philippine Center.

            The Land and Building Acquisition Committee of the organization is now in the process of scouting for available site for the Center. The Fund Raising Committee on the other hand, has launched its first fund raising activity with proceeds from the May 8 performance of the Philippine Ballet Theater at the museum of Civilization going to the Center.

            I have met with some leaders of the Filipino Community in Toronto who share your dream of establishing a Philippine Center in Toronto. I have pledged a humble donation of $5,000.00 to the Filipino Community in Toronto with the hope that like minded Filipinos will share their time and resources and support this Philippine Center project.

            Should you be in Ottawa in the near future please do not hesitate to contact me at the Embassy. I will be pleased to meet with you and other members of the Community to discuss how we may be able to inform and enlist the support of the Filipino Community in Toronto for this project. Best regards.

                                                        Very truly yours,

                                                        Ambassador Francisco Benedicto          

 

We presented our own project proposal to Acting Consul General Palala, Consul Marasigan and the Labor Attache after this. We expected the Ambassador and the Consulate to get in touch with us on this.

Instead, the Ambassador went out convincing everyone who would listen to form a core and built the Centre. On their visits to Ottawa, Mann Nacario and Chito Collantes went were asked to get involved. This is how the Philippine Centre Core Group of Dr. Jun de Villa was formed with Dr. Vicky Santiago, Mann and others.

When Consul General Susan Constrence arrived, she had her own ideas. She wanted a Community consensus and asked for nominations from leaders of the Community. 

 

2. Consul General Castrence’s initiative by Rodel J. Ramos

 

           

           The Philippine Consulate’s mediation effort in the Cultural Centre issue is laudable. Her being new in the Toronto Office did not hinder Consul General Castrence from getting involved, head-on to the most important issue that has bugged the Community for more than 30 years.

            In the second meeting called by the Consulate, it considered the 37 names nominated more than 3 times by 208 organizations. A few names had 12 nominations but most were mentioned 5 to 3 times. They will choose from these nominees the 15 who will compose the Think Tank. This Body will study various proposals and initiatives and decide whom to support, and then create the organizational structure and committees’ necessary to implement the project.

            Some comment that these people won by popularity. Others wonder if nominated by 12 organizations or less is enough mandates considering that the list of organizations registered with the Consulate is around 230. But we have to start somewhere. As someone said, it does not matter who leads us as long as we built the Center. Expect an election as the next step.

            The purpose of the Consul General is to get the consensus necessary for the whole Community to support the project. As she often reminded us, this is our project, not of the Consulate. Their role is to mediate.

Other groups

            Meanwhile, other groups are surging on with their individual projects, believing they can do it on their own. However, they are all relying on the support of the Community that might not be there. My warning to them is this: The Community will not be able to support more than one Community Center for the moment. There is still that distrust on our leaders, and people will be cautious on whom they will support. You will just confuse our people. Also, our resources will be thinned out and you will all end up as failures.

            You can’t blame our people. Many have been burned before from the intramural of the past. There is distrust on the present leaders. This image has to be changed. If we install leaders with doubtful characters, it will be difficult to sell them to the people. Also, we have to make the people believe that no matter who the leader is, we can build the Center.

Eventually, we will need a Center in every area. But let us settle with one right now. If you think that you are better than Dr. Jun de Villa and Ric Torres in raising funds, think again. This is not just raising a few thousands. We need millions to built and sustain a center.

SLRCC

            The San Lorenzo Ruiz group under Joe Mari Azzaraga tried to tighten its grip on the group by passing a resolution requiring members to attend two meetings and sell tickets before they are allowed to vote. But they were outvoted. There is even a rumor that they will change the name of the organization to Carlos Bulosan Center, which will better represent their hidden agenda and radical ideology. One thing about this group, once they get hold of any organization, they find ways to cling on to power, no matter if they reach the goal of building the Center or not. They should be voted out from office in the next election and Dr. Jun de Villa take over again or Gie and Marie Asis. The Knights of Columbus who started this project should reconsider taking that organization back again.

We pray

            We hope and pray that Congen Susan Castrence would succeed where all of us failed for more than 25 years.  Some of the names on that list triggered the disunity in the Community. They divided the Community into their small kingdoms. A few of them will never work with others unless they are the leaders. Some have deep personal differences.

            To create teamwork and unity with people of different personal and hidden agenda is an impossible task. During the Centennial, we (Manny Bade, Sonny Lawzon and I) tried and even enlisted the help of Consul General Francisco Santos but gave up on it. The Spirit of Kalayaan people pursued this route until the last days of the Festival but failed. In the Marketing & Promotions, we realized the impossibility of making these people work together much earlier. We went above the leaders, direct to the people and the masses responded favorably. I said to them, only 10% of our people join organizations. You see the same faces during community affairs. And no one controls that big Community. The people will join if they believe in the cause and have fun with the proper marketing strategy.

Shortsighted

            Some of our leaders are short sighted. They would rather be “a big fish in a small pond than a big fish in a big pond.” Our hope is that they would finally realize that they had become the hindrance to our progress. That they have mellowed now that they are older, and noticed that all their achievements are so little compared to other ethnic groups with lesser populations. We also hope that this Center be their gift to our people in the new millennium.

            Some of them will have to swallow their big egos. There are too many differences and hurt feelings they have to first forgive one another.  What is ironic is that they all have good qualities as leaders but some just are not compatible like some husbands and wives.

Unity not important

            A hundred percent unity is the most ideal. It will make the job easier. All of these leaders have big followings in the Community. And they have vast experiences in leadership and mobilization. Some have the money. But from experience, unity has never been attained. So, let us not expect that miracle.

            What we have proven in the SkyDome Festival however, is that we do not need to unite everybody to succeed as a community. In fact, in any group, if you can unite 1% of the population, you can already achieve great things. We will always have the doubting Thomas dueling on negatives and pessimism. Some will never cooperate unless they are in control and their beautiful names are in the newspapers. They think they know what’s best. Many have the band wagon mentality and will join when they see success. Some will of course be crabs forever.

            Unity is only one of the major factors in this project. This can be offset by other greater factors. What we truly need is a good management team, innovative financing or fund raising (our traditional ways does not work), new marketing and promotions ideas, people with technical know-how on building construction, financial controls and transparency. Cultural Centers are all over the place and are not new ideas. We have to learn from others experiences and stop being crabs.

3. Tradition our worst enemy by Rodel J. Ramos

 

           Our greatest problem in the past was the snail rate our leaders raised funds (more than 25 years), draining the pocket of the community and throwing away most of the money raised.

We know that after three years, people will start asking why it is taking so long and where the money is going even if you show them financial statements. You cannot blame them. They will begin to doubt the capability and competence of the leaders. This is what happened in the past and hopefully the present Filipino Centre leadership would not repeat the same mistakes.

Focus on goal

In the business world, they always focus on the goal. Jim Ariz in his Feasibility Study has pointed out that our minimum requirement for the Centre is 20,000 square foot which will cost $4 - $5 million depending on the location in the City.

Why is the present leadership working so hard on projects that will only yield us less than $200,000 a year? To raise the $5 million, it will take us 25 years. Do they expect to be in office that long? Some of our leaders had been there since time in memorial. And they are the reason why we had gone nowhere.

It is because tradition is hard to die. Our present leaders are following traditional fund wasting (not fund raising) projects such as dinner and dance, bowling tournaments, walkathon and others, which draws a net profit of only 10% of the gross income. And we are not counting the waste in manpower, time and money.

It is a pity. We know that they are working hard like men trying to find gold where there is no gold. Of course there are pennies but it will bankrupt the whole community again if we keep on spending 90% of what we earn.

The Centre launching took us 5 months to prepare and only netted $11,000. We have already used 10 months of our 3 years term. We just have 2 years and 2 months to go. I am sure the leaders do not intend to cling to their jobs for another 25 years if they are still alive by then. It is just that traditions are hard to destroy.

Even the lottery that the Filipino Centre is now holding will spend no less than $75,000 in prizes, administration, publicity and ticket printing. The maximum net if all the tickets are sold profit if all the 110,000 tickets are sold will net.

New, bold, Innovative ideas have to be injected. And the present leadership should stop thinking that they know everything and that they are the teachers and everybody else are their students to be told what to do, say and think. Teachers should stimulate creativity, and teach people how to think, not what to think.

And when people have the attitude as if they are the most brilliant on planet earth and everybody should follow them even if they are wrong, then you have the right formula for failure.

A writer once said, “In the classic confrontation of Old and New, the New always wins. It also loses eventually, as it becomes the Old. But before New wins over Old, a great tension and struggle happens more as a process than an event. We are always in that process but now possibly nearing the event when the Old fades and the New begins its domination.

            That appears to be the law of creativity, of life perpetuating itself in ever-fresh forms. It is my conviction that this process is integral to life's design, and my assurance that Filipinos will transcend its patterned weaknesses towards growth and maturity.”

Our leaders are not dumb. They are the best and finest among us. But tradition is hard to kill. It blinds most of us. It makes the wrong right and the right wrong. I asked the leaders many times to review how they raise funds. They said, “It is tradition. People want to get something for what they give.”

It is natural for people to expect something when they give. A Centre has a lot to offer if packaged well. They can have discounts, their name be in the wall, have a voting right, etc.

I told them to explain that we are building a Centre, not having a party. That their money will go a long way to making themselves proud of being Filipino Canadians so that they don’t have to rent from others and the money will circulate in the Community. And they answered, “The people are not generous. They will not understand.” I told them our people are not dumb and they are under-estimating the intelligence and the capacity to understand of the Filipinos. That once they would realize the situation, they will agree.

No, our people are generous, but you do not realize the dream in 3 years, they will again begin to doubt and ask where the money is going as what they did in the past

But they want the easy way, which in the long run is the hardest way, because we will never build that Centre the way we are doing it. How long can we keep on fooling our people and ourselves?

Like a business

Another major reason for failure is the lack of profession managers. We have the talents in the community but they are not being utilized. When leaders think that they know everything and do not consult those who have vast experience and expertise on the different departments, the organization will just waste time, money, efforts and resources.

Distrust

Our main problem now is the distrust with our leaders. We only have to bring back the trust. There are still a lot of honest people among us. We only have to install the safeguards necessary to avoid misuse of funds like they do in business corporations. In fact the Filipino Centre should be run professionally like a business.

Apathy

            At the Pista ng Bayan, Chito Collantes asked people who want a Centre to raise their hands and everybody did. But when he asked them who wants to pledge, not even one did. This Centre cannot be built without us contributing to it. It is like a dream which you do not do anything. It does not happen. This is the tragedy of our Community.

4. Lessons of past efforts by Rodel J. Ramos

 

           "Successful Centres are not mere accidents. They blended the right ingredients and had experienced people to make their dream come true."

            I am proud of our people on how they created the miracle of overthrowing our corrupt leader. This is an example on what Filipinos can do if they unite and do something to destroy evil amidst the dangers to their lives.

            This is the third time we have shown the world the heroism of the Filipinos when they are fed up. It was the Philippines who rose against colonialism because of the efforts of an expatriate like us, Dr. Jose Rizal when he exposed the abuses of the foreign invaders. We were 50 years ahead of India and other nations.

            It was the EDSA peaceful revolution of 1986 which served as an example to the world and triggered the collapse of Communism in Europe including Germany and Russia.

            Here in Metro Toronto, it is about time we show that Filipinos can build a Centre of our own.

Financing

Last issue, I exposed the futility of the traditional Fund Raising techniques we tenaciously cling to for more than 25 years. That’s how long our people have been doling out money for the Centre. We can’t blame them if they are skeptical now. Money is not easy to earn. It was just like digging gold where there is no gold.

            We offered alternatives, more or less suggested that we re-invent the system, not just hit and missed solutions but using proven ideas. Community Centres are not new. By researching on what others did, we can cut on cost, efforts and time. And if we apply the right business methods, get experienced and honest people and blend the right ingredients together, we can do it like anyone can.

            The major issues are how to raise the funds for the building and sustaining the maintenance cost.

Transparency & Accountability

San Lorenzo Ruiz Community Centre and Culture Philippines failed because of lack of transparency and accountability. Safeguards and controls were ignored. They were therefore vulnerable to rumors and intrigues. For us who investigated the facts, we can attest that no money was lost. The $150,000 was turned over to the present officers. Dr. Jun de Villa’s integrity can’t easily be tarnished. Ric Torres of Culture Philippines was also found innocent of any irregularities. 

It is time to remind some of us that we are not the only ones who are honest. Let’s not compare our Community to the Philippine Government where people get paid and receive kickbacks.

In the new Filipino Centre, we installed controls and safeguards to avoid past mistakes. Proper accounting system and receipts in every transactions are required. A financial report is a must after every project and it will be published in a newspaper. A yearly audit was required and an external auditor will be hired. Two signatures are needed for withdrawals and approval of the Board of Directors for amounts more than $1,000.00. The Treasurer is required to post a bond.

Crab Mentality

            We are aware of the tendency of some ambitious people to create intrigues and gossips from within. Intrigues that consumed past Associations started from within. Damage control called Reconciliation Committee was created to handle this before it grows into big fires. The Publicity & Promotions Committee will counteract external intrigues.

            Some people use the hakot system to be elected. We saw to it that members are in good standing for a year before they can vote or be elected. Also, some people just run for office to have a name and are never active. Three consecutive absences without valid reason automatically remove an officer.

Trust in leaders

            We are aware of the damaged image of Community leaders and the lost trust in our leaders. Publicity and Marketing decided to confront the issues head on. We can prove that no one got rich serving the Community and no money were stolen. We only have to built on those facts and let everybody know that our leaders have reputations to uphold. Image building is the number one task of Publicity & Promotions.

            We have to built an image of trust by focusing on the reputation and experience of the new leaders. We have to prove that the dream is feasible. Experienced people have to be recruited both as volunteers and advisers to fast tract the project. The organization has to be run like a business, professionally managed.

             Constantly informing the public of what is going on is a goal with the help of the media.

Mindset of Filipinos

            We know that it is difficult to change a people. We studied the mindset of the Filipinos and used them to the advantage of the new group. We have to sway our people to change direction. If they want a Centre, they have to sacrifice many of their parties and enjoyment. But at the end, they will be proud that they have built a Centre, a legacy to our children and grandchildren.

            We are confronted with a negative image of the past Centre efforts, people who are fed up with donating to the Centre and solicitors who are tired of asking for favors. Also, the apathy and callousness of many is our number one concern. But we also know the band wagon mentality of many and once we can show that the efforts are sincere and the project is feasible, we expect others to follow.

            We are aware too of the thousands of people who are always willing to volunteer for a good cause especially of this lifetime dream of every Filipino Canadian in Metro Toronto. We don’t really need everybody in this project. If 4,000 people contribute $1,000 each, that is $4 million dollars which is more than enough to put as a down payment for a $20 million building. And if we can convince the Philippine Consulate to transfer their office in that building, our project is sustainable. The Consulate spend more than $200,000 a year on rent in their present office. It is about time, they contribute financially to the Community they depend on.

            People who party every weekend spend $3,000 to $5,000 a year. This does not include their party dresses, jewelry, gasoline and depreciation expenses for their cars and the time and efforts they spend to hold these parties. If there are 20,000 doing that, multiply it by $3,000, that is $9 million a year being thrown away. So, we have enough money to raise the Centre if handled right. And our people are known to be generous for good causes.

            We have injected great incentives for donors and solicitors so that they can not refuse.

 

5. Launching Logo Contest by Vince Vargas, Chairman

 

Objective: Promote public awareness of the community centre project.

 

Strategy:

1.       Conduct Press Conference during launching Event - prepare Press Kit, Presentation Materials, Invite Press People, Prepare Gifts for Press, Press table in Dinner-Dance.

2.       Distribute project brochure or concept paper to all attending the launching;

3.       Make visible the eye-catching signage’s of “Filipino Center in 2003”

4.       Prepare ID’s with “Filipino Center, Toronto” printed on it and have all board members wear this ID during launching and in all events.

5.       Press Releases before and after launching

6.       Prepare Flyers for shot-gun distribution

7.       Talk about the project in all other functions

8.       Email and/or fax Project Concept Paper to all known addresses

 

Objective: Raise Funds

 

Strategy:

1.       Get sponsors for the launching event

2.       Campaign for memberships

3.       Campaign for sponsorships for the project

4.       Print and sell Tickets

5.       Send letters to all presidents of organizations and enclose 2 tickets. Follow-ups on these letters

6.       Conduct raffles, 50-50, silent auction during launching

7.       Encourage pledges during the launching

8.       Encourage outright donation of whatever amount

9.       Come out with a Souvenir Program during launching

 

Objective: Promote organization/people behind the project in order to firm up credibility and to win the trust of everyone.

 

Strategy:

1.       Start every event on time.

2.       All Board Members should be present and show the solidarity and cordiality of the group.

3.       All Board Members should get lifetime membership.

4.       All should wear ID’s showing lifetime membership.

5.       All should commit to bring 5 new members to be inducted at the launching event.

6.       Include in the President’s Project Briefing:

·         Mission/Vision Statement.

·         Existence of an appropriate accounting system covering transaction and preparation of the required financial statements.

·         Announce the plan to contract an external auditor.

·         Announce the quarterly reporting on the progress of the project.0

7.       Report unaudited financial outcome of the launching event during the night of the event.

8.       Include brief resumes of each Board Member in the Press Kit, Project Concept Paper or Brochure.

9.       Invite highly known and respected personalities to be our Honorary Chairs or Board of Advisers.

10.   All Board Members should take the “Oath of Commitment” during the launching event.

 

Proposed launching program for discussion

 

Schedule of activities:

6:00 p.m. - Registration

6:30 p.m. - Press Conference (Board Members and Media Representatives)

·         Introduction - M.C. and Moderator

·         Project Presentation (Table: Lynda Javier, Pres

·         Presentation of Pledges Project - Vince Vargas, Chairman for, Rodel Ramos, Publicity & Promotion,

·         Presentation of the Raffle Project - Dr. Jun de Villa

·         Unveiling of the Project (Perspective)

·         Question and answer Portion

·         Presentation of Press Kit (Gift to Media Representatives)

7:15 p.m. - Dinner to be preceded by a Prayer or Doxology

            Entertainment within dinner time

8:15 p.m. - Program Proper

·         National Anthems

·         Welcome Statement and Project Briefing

·         Presentation of People behind the Project and taking the Oath of Commitment to be officiated by the Ambassador (?)

·         Short Message from the Ambassador

·         Formal Acceptance of Donations

·         Acknowledgements and Appeal for Support (donations, pledges, memberships, volunteers, etc.)

·         Induction and welcoming of New members

9:15 p.m. - DANCE, DANCE, DANCE

1:00 a.m. - Adjournment

 

6. Critics asked to give FCT time by Rodel J. Ramos

 

I am glad that we are getting a lot of comments for the Filipino Centre, good and bad. It means we are being noticed, nay becoming the talk of the town. Our promotions are effective. The Centre being the dream of every Filipino in Metro is a concern for all and it needs the attention it is getting.

            We love comments, because by them, we can feel the pulse of our people. We have however to distinguish constructive criticism from the destructive.

Friends comment because they want us to improve and we appreciate that. A father or a mother wants their children to be perfect and so they correct their child’s every mistake and that is great. We should listen, especially to the experts and experienced ones, not necessarily do everything they suggest.

            On the other hand, what ever we do, people will comment. From experience, especially with projects that others failed to achieve and in a community that love to comment, no matter what you do, you will hear criticisms. All these are challenges for those with courage to continue the dream. It is however a discouragement to the faint of heart.

Some of us just comment without thinking whether it hurts others. A few speak up to show off that they and their ideas are better than those who are working - “Dapat ganito, dapat ganoon.” If you are better, put up your own centre.

            Talk is cheap, and we are good at commenting on what others do even if we have not contributed to the project. If we are too sensitive to all these comments we will go crazy.

            There are thousands of ideas out there, but many have tried and failed. Give a chance to the present group to try what we know. We have just started. Don’t expect us to be perfect, because you are not. Give us time to prove our worth.

If you think you have better ideas, please come forward to try yours and show us that you can do better. We are always willing to step down. One of the reasons we took charge is most of us had given up on the dream.  And we refuse to give up because we believe we Filipinos can do it if other ethnic communities can and we have ideas to make it happen.

We know there are lots of you better than us, but some do not have the time or care for the community only in words. We are committed on this project. We have the time (some of us are retired) and we are working hard.

We can’t build the gigantic project alone. We need your help. If you are skeptical on this project and do not want to get involved, please step aside and let us show what we can do. Refrain from destructive comments. Wala na nga tayong naitutulong, sinisira pa natin ang pangarap ng bayan.

Remember that the one of the main reasons why San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre and the Culture Philippines failed is because of the destructive criticism of people from within the group and it snowballed until the leaders gave up.

Answers to comments

“While the space could seat one thousand people, only 400 were invited during the Launching.”

            The event was open to the public. Our press releases invited everyone. If you were truly concerned and interested to go, all you needed was pick up the phone for a ticket. We tried to sell as many tickets as possible but the time constrain, limited manpower and the expensive price gave us in. In any project, the beginning is the hardest. There are many skeptics and we expected this. Many will just sit in the fence and watch. When they see us succeeding, then they will join to be part of the success. I see this comment as just another excuse for not getting involved.

“While the project calls for the involvement of the community, only four community organizations were represented.”

            We called a meeting with organizations at Metro Hall but only a few came to get their tickets. All the Board of Directors were given a list of organizations to contact. We invited everyone who wanted to come.

            We are glad that the comment was that they were not invited. That means they wanted to join. We are now generating the bandwagon interest.

            But it was not true that only 4 organizations were represented. All the 25 Board of Directors represented different organizations. We just did not mention them.

“Officers should have tapped local businesses to help the project. If they can give sponsorship of $1,000 for concerts, they could certainly afford to help in this noble project.”

            In due time, we will reach everyone. We have just organized the Pledges and Donation Committee under Vince Vargas, Celia Mojica and Chito Collantes on February 10 and the Launching was March 10. We have to formulate the Entitlement Package and be approved by the Board, recruit volunteers, set the sub-committees; prepare a marketing and promotions plan, etc.

“Why should we pledge if the directors and officers themselves have not pledged their own money?”

            Most of the pledges and donations we have were the efforts of Chito Collantes, and our publisher Ace Alvarez. They did it on their own initiative even before we were truly organized.

In our agenda is to ask all Directors to pledge no matter what amount. Not everyone in the Board of Directors is rich but they have something to contribute.

This drive is not all about money. A Group required all the directors to pledge $1,000. They excluded people who had the expertise in raising money and have the time. What have they achieved since a year ago?

            Just accepting a Directorship is a big sacrifice. If you put a dollar value to the time, efforts and expenses just going to meetings and working for various committees, it amounts to thousands of dollars. The expertise of some of us cannot be measured by dollar signs. Some of us have 30 to 40 years of management, marketing and promotions experiences. We don’t get paid in all these. So be careful when you belittle our humble contribution. And please look at yourself in the mirror before pointing your fingers at others.

Some of us are gifted with talents to make money. Others have the experience and ideas that can generate funding and support. They are as valuable as donations and pledges. The idea here is you contribute what you can and have.

“Money credited to Dr. Jun de Villa from Filipinos for Progress and Unity.”

            Here, there was a miscommunication. During a meeting, Dr. de Villa just said that they have $3,200 and will give it to the Centre. We understood this to come from his pocket. Everything was corrected and the money will be In Memory of Mrs. Ging Chan, mother of Pauline Chan, Anchor Woman of CFTO. The late Mrs. Chan worked with the Filipinos for Progress & Unity during the Marcos era.

“It was not the Philippine Dental Association that pledged $5,000 but the Philippine Medical Assn. presented by Dr. David Sarile.”

 

“Some of the contributors were not acknowledged.”

            As much as possible, we tried to acknowledge the contribution of everyone. We do not want to hurt people who sacrifice for this project. But we are only human and the stress of the event was too much for all of us. Our President, Lynda Javier lacked the sleep for 3 days. And she has to take care of her bedridden mother during those times. 

            This is a community project. Why do we expect to be acknowledged for every good thing we do for the community?

“This project is only for the elite?”

            Some sector thinks that because a lot of the rich and famous in the community were in the launching, that the Centre will only be for the elite. This is far from the truth. Because we cannot build a Centre without money, we are trying to solicit the contribution of the moneyed among us. But it is the masses that will benefit from this project. Services for the new immigrants, the jobless, seniors, the youth and overseas contract workers are part of the program.

            Because the contributions are in the thousands, it is perceived that we are disregarding the donations of the ordinary people. It is not so. We accept amounts even a $10 a month donation or whatever one can afford.

           

7. Filipino Centre Membership Drive On by Rodel J. Ramos

 

            Filipino Centre, Toronto Membership Committee headed by Chairperson Zoraida Locquiao, launched an aggressive Membership Drive. This is to gather enough community support to build the Centre. Zoraida said that the Centre would not be build without the overwhelming effort of the community as this is a very huge project.

The Drive goes hand in hand with an education and awareness Campaign to inform the public of the goals, proposals being studied, strategies being pursued and the developments in the various Committees.

To encourage Membership, the Centre offered a low membership fee of $5.00 a year and $50.00 for lifetime membership. For organizations, the fee is $100 a year.

Benefits for members are: a) A vote during elections, be qualified to be nominated and elected to the Board of Directors and Executive Council or appointed as head of Committees. The biggest beneficiary is the Community specially the less priviledged because of the varied facilities and community services that we can provide.

Zoraida offered prizes to the three (3) Most Outstanding Solicitors. First Prize will win $500 in cash; the Second Prize $300 and the Third, $200. The winner solicitors must recruit at least 100 members to qualify.

The Membership Campaign will end on June 2002. Those who are interested to join the Drive and win the Membership Contest can contact Zoraida Locquiao at: 1.905.428.7690 or 416.323.6400 Ext. 4248. Her fax No. is 1.905.323.6116. She will send you the materials, receipts and Membership form needed. Cheques must be addressed to Filipino Centre, Toronto.

The Membership form printed at the bottom of this press release can be filled up and faxed or mailed to Zoraida Locquiao, 47 Coles Avenue, Ajax, Ont. L1T 3H5.

The goals of the Centre are: 1) To realize the illusive dream of every Filipino in Metro Toronto, a Cultural Center; 2) To preserve & showcase our cultural heritage, history, traditions, and customs; 3) To have a place to display, promote & be proud of our arts, crafts, paintings, products & pictures of Phil. sceneries; 4) To leave a legacy for our children and future generations; 5) To service the various needs of the growing Filipino Community; 6) To bring pride and honor to our people; 7) To create jobs for Filipinos and Canadians; 8) To give extra income for our people instead of catering to other facilities; 9) To promote the concept of multi-culturalism and unity; 10) To have a place for Filipinos to socialize, maintain fitness, etc.; 11) To make the Filipinos visible in the Canadian mainstream.

The various facilities being proposed and studied, depending on availability of

Feasibility, financing and sustainability are: 1) A Philippine Consulate Office, Philippine Trade Commission and the Philippine Labor Attache if the Philippine Government would agree to move their offices to the facility; 2) Business offices; 3) Senior Citizens apartment; 4) Hotel facilities for Filipino tourists from the U.S., Philippines and Europe; 5) A Theater for concerts and cultural shows; 6) Party rooms (large & small rooms/expandable/movable/sliding walls); 7) Church (ecumenical, multi-purpose room); 8) Meeting rooms; 9) Library - books, CDs, tapes, videos, history, pictures, artworks; 10) Miniature Philippines  (Philippine Village); 11) Filipino Restaurant/caterer/karaoke bar; 12) Sports Center - tennis, basketball, basketball, Fitness; 13) Daycare center/Kids Playroom, playground; 14) Recreation Room; 15) Bowling; 16) Golf Course; 17) Picnic ground; 18) Parking; 19) A Cooperative Grocery/Souvenir Store; 20) Philippine Trading House - display of Phil. products & services; 21) Silayan or Kababayan Community Services.

 

8. There is no turning back for FCT by Rodel J. Ramos

 

            Filipino Centre, the merger of Philippine Centre, Toronto led by Dr. Jun de Villa, Mann Nacario & Dr. Vicky Santiago and the Core Group formed by the Philippine Consulate led by Dr. Francisco Portugal and Lynda Javier will launch the kick off campaign on Saturday March 10 at the Constitution Hall, Metro Convention Centre, Toronto. Cocktail is at 6:00 p.m..

Ambassador Francisco Benedicto was instrumental in merging the two groups. He also kick started the project by pledging $5,000 of his personal money. Consul General Constrence is credited for forming the Core Group which became the nucleus of the two.

            Lynda Javier, a retired teacher, run for Trustee in Peel region and head of Quezon Provincial Associations of Canada (QPAC) was unanimously elected President. Dr. Francisco Portugal is her Executive Vice President and Chairman of the Fund Raising Committee while Dr. Jun de Villa is Chairman of the Board with Tessie Jew as Vice Chairperson.

Honorary Chairpersons are: Ambassador Francisco Benedicto and Dr. Rey Pagtakhan, recently appointed Minister of State of Asia-Pacific Region.

            The Community raised hope that the Centre will be built this time by the merged Group.  The merger was hailed by a lot of organizations as a step in the right direction. This is the first time that two community organizations joint ranks to support a major project. 

Pres. Lynda Javier wishes that the Kalayaan Cultural Centre of Mississauga and the San Lorenzo Ruiz will realize that this is a gigantic project and can not be built by any one organization without the support of the whole community. Having different Centre projects at this time when the people are still burnt out and suspicious with the past failed attempts to built the Centre  will only confuse the people and give unnecessary burden. She appeals to the leaders of the two organizations to join forces.

More than 25 years have passed and the Community is still to realize their dream of a Centre because of individual ambitions which end up in failures. Eventually, the Community will need a Centre in every city because of our growing population and the difficulty of commuting.

The Community has to raise $1 million dollars a year if we want to see the dream within our lifetime. It will need extra ordinary efforts from everyone and an aggressive marketing and fund raising ideas.

            While the group is launching the project with a Dinner and Dance Party, Lynda Javier acknowledged that it is impossible to built the Centre by this traditional means. Our fund raising efforts for the past 25 years throws away in expenses 90% of the gross income and leave only a maximum of 10% to the organizer. It is also competing with the more than 350 organizations. They are overburdening both contributors and solicitors and takes too long. She will unveil their strategies of raising funds during the event.

            Officers of the Filipino Centre met the presidents of different organizations on Thursday, January 18 at the Metro Hall to discuss their plans and gather suggestions from the Community.

Pledges

            Meanwhile, a total of $32,000 have been pledged by various generous individuals. Ambassador Francisco Benedicto gave a cheque of $5,000 to Dr. Jun de Villa. Dr. Chito Collantes has his 2 cheques of $5,000 as a part of his pledge of $10,000. Consul Olivia Palala donated $500.

Other pledges to the Centre are: Roland S. Chan, $5,000; Dr. Jun de Villa, $3,000; Roland Tallud, $1,000; Rose Cruz, $1,000; Cecille Mojica, $500 which will still be collected.

            Co-Chairs of the Launching are Edgar Adan and Erlinda (Erlie) Gallardo. Edgar Adan is also the Chief Financial Officer and Erlie Gallardo is the Treasurer. Ed Birondo is the Asst. Chairman.

            Other Sub-Committees are: Corporate & Private Sponsors: Dr. Vicky Santiago as Chairperson, Members: Dr. Guillermo de Villa, Dr. Francisco Portugal, Dr. Mario Andres, Dr. Ferry Trenholm, Mann Nacario, Rick Falco, Chito Collantes, Lynda Javier.

            Protocol & Invitation, Cocktail/Press Conference Committees are: Tessie Jew & Evelyn Laraya. Budget/Finance Committee: Edgar Adan, Erlie Gallardo & Dr. Ernie Quinit.

            Ticket Control Committee: Ed Birondo as Chairman and members: Precy Tumulak, Ledy Ramos, Lourdes Alonzo, Baby Reyes, Verth Bugtong, Ely Ramos, Joy Frondes and Tobby Mendoza.

            Reception Committee: Zoraida Locquiao, Lily Victorino, Alam Benemerito, Norma Carpio, Julie Corpuz, Miss QPAC, BPAC, Miss Manila, etc.

            Inside Coordinators are Manny Boado, Alex Parucha, Tobby Mendoza and Rose Mendoza. Promotion/Publicity are Rodel Ramos, Jun Cruz, Lynda Javier and Vicente Vargas

            Program/Entertainment/Technical Support are Wendy Arena as Chairperson, and members, Albert Alonso and Joseph Redobaldo.

            Souvenir Program Committee are Celia Mojica, Jun Cruz as Co-Chaipersons and production are Bernadette Zaragoza, Jim Ariz, and Ores Ting. Advertising Coordinators are Evelyn Laraya, Alma Benerito, Zoraida Locquaio, and Dr. Ernie Quinit.

            Decor Committee Chairperson is Dario Meriales and members: Julian Locquaio, Ely Ramos, Joby Paminial, and Nards Vergara. Silent Auction Committee are Dr. Ferry Trenholm, Chito Collantes and Ores Ting. University students are members.

            Raffle will be handled by Mike Saavedra and Ely Ramos.

Major Committees

Committees appointed by Pres. Lynda Javier are: Research/Feasibility Study & Registration, Jimmy Ariz & Bernadette Zaragoza, Government Grants & Political Lobbying, Tessie Jew for Provincial & Local Governments and Mann Nacario for National Government; Legal Affairs, Rick Falco & Alex Parucha; Secretariat,

Ores Ting & Julie Corpuz; Admissions/Membership, Tessie Jew, Zoraida Locquiao & Mann Nacario; Organizational Liaison, Dr. Ernie Quinit; Ethnic & Mainstream, Dr. Chito Collantes & Dr. Vicky Santiago; Financial Planning & Investment, Edgar Adan; Information Technology Systems, Jim Ariz;

Panel of Advisers, Vince Vargas; Strategic Overall Planning, Lynda Javier, Dr. Francisco Portugal, & Dr. Jun de Villa; Official Spokespersons, Rick Falco, Lynda Javier, Tessie Jew, Dr. Portugal & Dr. Jun de Villa; Conciliation Committee, Dr. Mario Andres & Vince Vargas;

Grand Fundraising: Dr. Francisco Portugal; Publicity & Marketing, Rodel Ramos; Pledges & Donations:Vince Vargas Celia Mojica, Chito Collantes, & Mann Nacario. Corporate Sponsors: Dr. Jun de Villa & Dr. Vicki Santiago; Volunteers/Recruits & Seniors, Ed Birondo & Wendy Arena; Youth, Sports & Multiculturalism, Manny Buado & Zoraida Locquiao.

Other officers and members of the Board are: Bernadette Zaragoza, Secretary to the Board; Ores Ting, Secretary of the Executive Council; Cecilia Mojica, Internal Auditor.

Other Board of Directors are: Dr. Mario Andres, Dr. Chito Collantes, Dr. Ferry Trelholm, Dr. Vicky Santiago, Wendy Arena, Manuel Buado, Ed Birondo, Vince Vargas, Rodel Ramos, Evelyn Laraya, Mann Nacario, Alex Parucha, Julie Corpuz, Rick Falco, Zoraida Locquiao, Dr. Ernie Quinit.

 

9. Sensitivities and Insensitivities by Rodel J. Ramos

 

            Officers and active members of the Filipino Centre, all volunteers, without remunerations for their efforts and sacrifices, spending their own money, time, efforts and talents for our dream of a Centre, want to focus on the goal of building the Centre that is in itself a huge task. However, we cannot ignore negative comments to the group no matter how trivial. We are afraid that the Community, fed up with what happened in past efforts would turn their skepticism to cynicism. (Cynic as defined by Webster is a person who believes that only selfishness motivates human actions.)

            One of my colleagues in the press seems to leave the impression that the media people whom we invited to the Filipino Centre Press Conference paid for their dinner. It was not so. While there are still a few people within the group who believes that the media should not be treated special, we have explained to them that they spend money for film, development, gas, printing and time to come to cover the occasions. And to think that newspapers are given free to the public. Their only income is from advertisements. And it is not a joke to publish a newspaper.

            But we in the Centre, having been entrusted with public money have to be careful on what we spend on. We can’t just throw their money away. Remember that this is not our personal project and no one of us will benefit from it. This is a project of the Community, and we are just there to oversea it. It will benefit all of us. Forget about our names being sikat. We would rather be unknowns than being subjected to too much criticism from people who thinks that they can do better and yet when you let them do it, they would screw it up worst than what we are doing. Remember too that there are no perfect animals.

All the officers and other guests paid for their food from their own pocket except the media people. We took that as a price of our involvement.

            There are always two sides to a story. True to the Filipino hospitality as a host, we treated the media in a special way as we know. We know their importance. They can make or break this project as they had broken it in the past. That is how powerful these media people are. And we know it. But do not ask us to kiss your ass nor will we permit ourselves to be humiliated or lied upon. Some media people thinks that they are gods and that they can destroy anybody they want to destroy.

            My colleague revealed his reason for attacking us when he said that during the Launching of the Centre, how come some media people were represented there by three people while their newspaper was only given one free ticket. He despised that because he said that he had contributed to the project by driving with our publisher to Ottawa to talk with Ambassador Francisco Benedicto.

            Chito Collantes, explained that those were paid by some members of the Board of Directors. The ticket of the publisher of Atin Ito was paid by Roland Chan of Liland Insurance.

            I was only given 5 tickets to distribute to the media people and they specified whom to invite. In fact, we did not give Loo of Filipiniana a ticket because we knew Loo do not accept free lunch when he covers events. And there were many media people who were not given tickets nor invited. It was expensive, and we were trying to reduce expenses. We ourselves paid for our tickets and our wives.

            Intention, reason for outrage, vengeance 

 

10. Questions & answers about the Centre by Rodel J. Ramos

 

Q. Do we need a Centre?

A. Among ethnic nationalities, the Filipinos are one of the very few who does not have a Community Centre of their own.

It is estimated that the 350 registered organizations and another 350 unregistered. There are 200,000 Filipinos in Metro Toronto and we spend more than $4 million a year just in renting banquet halls, community centers and hotels for our parties.

This is besides the expenses in food, music, entertainment, decorations, party dresses, gas, etc. Organizations rent for meetings and other functions. We are throwing away all these money. If this circulates in the community like it does with the Jewish and Chinese, we can make some of our kababayan richer and they will be more generous when we approach them for donations. We can create more jobs for Filipinos and we can use the money to serve our needs better.

The Consulate with the Trade and Labor Attaché spends $200,000 for rent a year. Our seniors spend much in rent, so with Child Care and Geriatric care. Many of our doctors, dentists, travel agencies and other businessmen rent for their offices and facilities. Let this amount circulate in the community as well.

We have new immigrants to service, overseas contract workers. Our children need to see some of our cultures, books and artistic creations. The Centre will house a Filipiniana library and a museum. We need an ecumenical chapel to service our different religious groups.

Q. Walang mangyayari diyan! (Nothing will happen there)

A. There are always negative people in every community. Kung walang contrabida, walang bida, hindi ba? If what they say discourages us, we won’t be able to accomplish anything. Sometimes, this is their way of avoiding their obligation to our Community. Oftentimes,

it is a way of bragging that they are better than us. But if they are better, they should be offering their services and prove their worth.

Observe that there are only few heroes in a nation or in a community. They are the ones remembered and honored. Critics and indifferent people die in oblivion.

But it will be these people who will ride the bandwagon when they see that we are succeeding. They will grab the honor and the glory.

 

Q. Is the Community Centre feasible?

A. 1.  Consulate spends $200,000 a year in rent.

2. 5,000 Filipinos contributing $1,000 each is $5 million. 10,000 people at $500 each are $5 million. We have an easy payment plan.

3. With our 350 organizations and the many birthdays, weddings and anniversaries in the community, we spend more than $4 million a year in rentals of banquet halls, hotels and community centres. If we have a centre, a portion of this money can circulate in the Community and can be used again for the needs of the people.

 

Q. Our Community is tired of supporting this project because of what happened in the past.

A. We understand that we got burned in the past. Even the solicitors are tired of the project. But we must try again because this is the dream of every Filipino in Metro Toronto. If not us, who, if not now, when

 

Q. Who are the proponents (involved)?

A. Lynda Javier, President is a retired teacher and run for trustee in Peel Region. She is a product of the University of the Philippines. She is also President of Quezon Provincial Association of Canada (QPAC)

            Dr. Jun de Villa, Chairman has vast experience in fund raising as President of San Lorenzo Ruiz Community Centre who was able to raise $150,000. The money was turned over to the present officers.

            Dr. Francisco Protugal, Executive Vice President is an acknowledged leader of the Community for more than 25 years. He has been President of PIDC, an umbrella organization in Toronto and various other associations.

 

Q. You have the same people with San Lorenzo Ruiz?

A. We need everybody in this huge project. People like Dr. Jun de Villa have the experience in fund raising. As leader of SLRCC, he was able to raise $150,000 which was turned over the present officers. A lot of people still have high respect for Dr. de Villa specially the doctors and the elite among us. The Project is mostly about money, so we need the people who can afford. We need people like him to solicit donations from the rich and influential in the community. However, he is the Chairman of the Board which is the policy making body. The President and CEO is Lynda Javier who does the implementation of projects.

Q. Is this not another San Lorenzo Ruiz Community Centre?

A. We have studied what went wrong with all past efforts to build a Centre. There was no transparency, no public accounting. That made them vulnerable to inside and outside intrigues. And they had no Public Relation Committee in place to counteract any criticism.

Regarding transparency and accountability, we have installed safeguards and controls in the constitution. Luckily, no funds were lost. The $150,000 was given to the officers of the SLRFCC.

1. We bonded the Treasurer;

2. All bank withdrawals are signed by 2 people;

3. More than $1,000 withdrawals need the approval of the Board of Directors.

4. There is an internal auditor to audit the books every time there is a project.

5. There is an external auditor who would audit the books at the year end.

6. Income Statements will be published within 2 months of project completion.

Conflicts happen within the organization which results to divisions and destruction from within the group, sometimes from people with good intentions and sometimes from ambitious oppositions from within. Knowing this, we created a Conflict Resolution Committee to handle internal problems before they get big.

For external intrigues and destructive attacks, the Publicity and Promotions people will handle those problems. We also established rapport with media people have a friendly relationship.

We will run this efficiently and effectively like a business corporation.

            But the worst thing about the traditional fund raising practices is, they were wasteful, tiresome, time consuming, and only 10% is profit. 90% of the income goes to expenses. We corrected this and are now concentrating on new fund raising ideas which retain more for the building than the expenses such as the pledges and the raffles.

 

Q. Why don’t you just join all the organizations building a Community Centre?

A. That is easier said than done. Sometimes, it is personality conflict. Some people do not want to join with others unless they lead. We have already merged Dr. Jun de Villa’s group with the Core Group of the Philippine Consulate. Kalayaan wants their Centre in Mississauga. San Lorenzo Ruiz has its own reasons. Hopefully, the leaders would realize that this is a gigantic project and no one group can built it without the support of the Community.

 

Q. What are going to be parts of the Centre?

A. The things we are studying are: 1) Party & concert rooms; 2)Filipino Restaurant, karaoke; 3) Offices - doctors, dentists, travel agencies, businesses; 4) Philippine Consulate (if they decide to join us); 5) Seniors’ home; 6) Child care facilities; 7) Sports facilities - basketball, tennis, etc.; 8) Parking lot; 9) Filipiniana Library; 10) Museum; 11) Ecumenical Chapel; 12) Geriatric Homes or Seniors Homes; 13) Hotel; 14) Offices to serve the new immigrants and contract workers, etc.

 

Q. Is this going to be done in 1 stage?

A. These will depend on financing, zoning bylaws, time table and whatever the majority of the officers decide on what they perceive as the priority needs of the Community. It construction will be by phases.

 

Q. What do we get as donors and sponsors?

A. Pledges entitlement

1.       Your picture and name will be published in the newspapers;

2.       Your name and picture will be in the lobby of the building ($5,000 and above with picture)

3.       A Certificate of Donation

4.       A lifetime membership Card

5.       Discounts in the use of facilities for you and your family

6.       You and other Filipinos will feel proud of being a part of the building

7.       Filipinos will be more visible to the mainstream

8.       This will be your legacy to your children and grand children

9.       We can create jobs for Filipinos and Canadians

10.   We can serve the needs of our people specially the seniors, new immigrants, unemployed

Q. How much should we donate?

A. $1 million - the building will be named after the donor. Ex.: DR. JUN DE VILLA BUILDING

$100,000 - a room will be named after the donor; Platinum - $15,000; Gold - $10,000; Silver - $5,000; Bronze - $1,000; Any amount will be appreciated

Q. How are you going to sustain the maintenance cost?

A. The rental income from parties and concerts, sports facilities, offices for the Consulate, business offices, restaurant etc. will pay for the mortgage, administrative and maintenance cost..

Q. How do you get funding?

A. We are presently studying all possible sources of funding. We tend to shy away from the traditional fund raising practices but it is difficult to kill tradition. Filipinos love to party, eat and dance. They can’t be avoided but can be minimized. We are eyeing at: 1) Pledges; 2) Raffles; 3) Gov’t funding; 4) Corporate sponsors; 5) Mortgage.

Q. How do we join?

A. As donor, solicitor or volunteer

Q. How do you safeguard our money?

A. The President and Treasurer are bonded. Checks more than $1,000 require 3 signatories. We will be as transparent as possible. An annual report will be published. We have an internal and external auditor to check on the books of the Centre.

Q. Where is the location?

A. Right now, we are looking at a building at Parliament and Wellesley.

Q. What is your estimated cost of the building?

A.  We are looking at a minimum of 20,000 sq. ft building. At $200 - $250per sq. ft., we are looking at$4 to 5 million depending on whether we buy and renovate or buy a lot and built from scratch. It will also depend on the location. It is cheaper in Etobicoke and Scarborough than Toronto or North York. Architects, engineers, real estate brokers and other experts can only answer this. What we can do now is raise money and hope that we can accumulate enough to start planning the structure. This will depend on the responds of the community.

Q. Are there any Government funding?

A. Right now, what we hear is that the Government does not grant money for buildings. But for programs to hire people, they do. But there might be some exceptions and our research with other community centers might help us discover hidden grants and how they were able to get them.

Q. Are you going to buy an existing building or built a new one?

A. This will be studied. It might be cheaper to buy an existing one. You don’t have to get permits, zoning etc. Materials now are much more expensive than before. However, existing buildings might not fit our needs and we can’t have what we really want. We will identify our needs and wants, examine our available resources and decide what to do.

Q. Are you going to build a small one or a big one?

A. We will study the advantages and disadvantages, pros and cons, the problems of both proposals. Also, we are constrained by the available resources. If the responds of the community is favorable and we can see that we can sustain a big one, then we will go for it.

            We can also buy a small one with a big lot and then expand when we have the money.

            Or we can buy a small one, sell it and then buy a bigger one.

Q. How can we help?

A. You can pledge, solicit donors or volunteer.

            As volunteers, we have different committees in Membership, Fund Raising, Secretariat, Publicity and Marketing, Technical Aspects and Management areas. We need people in IT. We need people on research, recruitment, etc.

            We need solicitors for pledges and ticket sellers for the raffle.

 

11. Logo Contest Launched by Rodel J. Ramos

 

            The Filipino Centre, Toronto, the merger group which was mandated to built a Community Centre by most of the Filipino Canadian organizations in Metro Toronto, is inviting artists to submit their proposals for the Official Logo of the Centre and the future building.

            A $500.00 cash prize was donated by Dr. Jun de Villa, Chairman of the Board of the Filipino Centre, Toronto to be given to the Winner of the Logo Contest. He/she will have his/her picture and logo artwork published in newspapers. The Logo will be the official symbol of the Filipino Centre, Toronto in all its billboards, brochures, posters, advertisements, press releases, letterheads, envelops and website. It will be a great pride for the creator and will be his/her legacy to the Community and his/her parents, children and grandchildren.

            The Contest is open to all except the members of the Logo Contest Committee and the Board of Directors of the Filipino Centre, Toronto.

            The Criteria are: 1) Originality (self interpretation) - 30%; 2) Symbolism (significance to Filipino Canadians) - 30%; 3) Catchy and easy to remember (memorable) - 30%; 4) Simplicity & neatness - 10%.

            Other guidelines are: 1) Colors must be complimentary to the subject (Filipino Centre, Toronto); 2) Three (3) colors mixed with screen; 3) Must be readable at reduction of .35 inches (smallest); 4) Size: bond size, 7 inches radius; 5) Submission: Diskette, PC or Mckintosh format (diskette supplied by contestant)

            Ownership and right to publish will be surrendered to Filipino Centre, Toronto. All submissions will be owned by Filipino Centre.

            Artworks must be submitted on or before the April 15 deadline to this address: Rodel J. Ramos, 536 Luzon Cres., Mississauga, Ontario L5B 3W9. The winner will be announced at the May issue of Filipino newspaper.

            The President of the Filipino Centre, Toronto is Lynda Javier. Chairman of the Logo Contest is Vince Vargas. Other members of the Committee are: Wendy Arena, Zoraida Locquiao, Ed Birondo and Rodel Ramos. The 3 top contestants will be decided by the Committee and the final winner will be selected by the Board of Directors. The decision of the Board is final.

 

 

12. Logo Contest Rules Revised by Rodel J. Ramos 21 March 2001

 

The rules for the Logo Contest of the Filipino Centre, Toronto was revised to accommodate more entries. The former rules were too high tech for some artists because it was computer oriented. We want to give a chance to those who have not updated their skills in computer graphics but have the artistic talents and ideas to get a greater selection.

The deadline was also moved from April 15 to April 30 for the submission of artworks. Entries can be mailed to these addresses: Vince Vargas, Logo Contest Chairman at 28 Mallard Cres, Brampton, Ontario L6S 2T5 or to Rodel J. Ramos, 536 Luzon Cres., Mississauga, Ontario L5B 3W9. For inquiries or questions, call Vince Vargas at 905.791.4933 or Rodel at 905.615.8727. The winner will be announced at the May issue of a Filipino newspaper.

            A $500.00 cash prize was donated by Dr. Jun de Villa, Chairman of the Board of the Filipino Centre, Toronto to be given to the Winner of the Logo Contest. The winner will have his/her picture and logo artwork published in newspapers. The Logo will be the official symbol of the Filipino Centre, Toronto in its building, all billboards, brochures, posters, advertisements, press releases, letterheads, envelops and website. It will be a great pride for the creator and will be his/her legacy to the Community and his/her parents, children and grandchildren.

            The Contest is open to all except the members of the Logo Contest Committee and the Board of Directors of the Filipino Centre, Toronto.

            The Criteria are: 1) Originality (self interpretation) - 30%; 2) Symbolism (significance to Filipino Canadians) - 30%; 3) Catchy and easy to remember (memorable) - 30%; 4) Simplicity & neatness - 10%.

            Other guidelines are: 1) Colors must be complimentary to the subject (Filipino Centre, Toronto); 2) Three (3) colors mixed with screen.

            Ownership and right to publish will be surrendered to Filipino Centre, Toronto. All submissions will be owned by Filipino Centre.

            The President of the Filipino Centre, Toronto is Lynda Javier and Chairman of the Board of Directors is Dr. Jun de Villa. Members of the Logo Contest Committee are: Vince Vargas, Chairman; Wendy Arena, Zoraida Locquiao, Ed Birondo and Rodel Ramos, members. The 3 top contestants will be decided by the Committee and the final winner will be selected by the 25 Board of Directors. The decision of the Board is final.

 

13. Logo Contest Winner Announced by Rodel J. Ramos 17 May 2001

 

 

            The winner of the Logo Contest sponsored by the Filipino Centre, Toronto was announced during the Unveiling Ceremony and Press Conference on Thursday, May 17, 2001, 7:00 p.m. at the Pearl of the Orient Restaurant.

      Twenty-seven contestants submitted their entries, some of them with 5 entries. A total of 54 entries were received. One contestant gave 24 entries but only 5 were considered. The participants are:  Rolando Cabrera, April Casala, Philip dela Cruz, Santiago de Villa, Romi Guevara, Alda Guevara, Rudy Leyco, Heginio Manaois, Maria Russel Mangilinan, Rey Mangilinan, Ricardo Mirasol II, Antolin Neo Asor, OSA, Darius P. Reyes, Ed Robles, Frank Tonido, Ador N. Obtinalla, Omel Masalunga, Jacquelin Asuncion, Antonio A. afable Jr., Romeo Mananquil, Jhun C. Diamante, Calixto Quiachon, Dino Arrogante, Joe Arrogante and Noli Aguillon, and Thea Sahagun.

            A $500.00 cash prize was donated by Dr. Jun de Villa, Chairman of the Board of the Filipino Centre, Toronto to be given to the Winner of the Logo Contest. The 2nd Prize is $200 and 3rd Prize wins $100. Logo Chairman Vince Vargas and Mrs. Erlie Gallardo donated the prizes for the 2nd and 3rd prizes. Erlie is the Treasurer the latest addition to the Board of Director substituting for Tessie Jew who is on leave. Mrs. Gallardo is the wife of Dr. Rodolfo Gallardo.

The Logo will be the official symbol of the Filipino Centre, Toronto in its building, all billboards, brochures, posters, advertisements, press releases, letterheads, envelops and website. It will be a great pride for the creator and will be his/her legacy to the Community and his/her parents, children and grandchildren.

The Logo Committee Members headed by Vince Vargas chose the three finalists from the many entries during their meeting at the Police Headquarters at 40 College St. They had a difficult time because of the many beautiful and professionally done artworks. Other members of the Committee are: Wendy Arena, Zoraida Locquiao, Ed Birondo and Rodel Ramos. Bernadette Zaragosa was the Auditor of the Contest. The Board of Judges choosed the winner during the May 10 Executive Council meeting at the North York Civic Centre. The three Finalists chosen by the Board of Judges were Darius Reyes, Romy Guevara and Ray Pangilinan.

During the May 10 monthly meeting of the Board of Directors, they picked the entry of Rey Mangilinan as the 1st Prize Winner; Darius Reyes for 2nd Prize and Romy Guevara for 3rd Prize.

            The Criteria were: 1) Originality (self-interpretation) - 30%; 2) Symbolism (significance to Filipino Canadians) - 30%; 3) Catchy and easy to remember (memorable) - 30%; 4) Simplicity & neatness - 10%.

            Other guidelines are: 1) Colors must be complimentary to the subject (Filipino Centre, Toronto); 2) Three (3) colors mixed with screen.

            Ownership and right to publish will be surrendered to Filipino Centre, Toronto. Filipino Centre will own all submissions.

 

14. WIN BIG IN FCT LOTTERY by Rodel J. Ramos 17 May 2001

 

            The Filipino Centre, Toronto will launch a Lottery with more than $60,000 prizes at the Pista ng Bayan on June 9, 2001 at the Philip Square, Toronto. The target is to sell 250,000 tickets worth of $2.00 in one year. This will generate $500,000 gross income. This is the boldest fundraising campaign so far in the Community.

            The Grand prize is a sports utility vehicle, a Honda CR-V worth $35,000; the 2nd Prize is a complete Home Entertainment System worth $10,000; 3rd Prize is a Trip for 2 to the Philippines which includes 6 nights five star hotel accommodation worth $5,000; 4th Prize is a Caribbean Cruise worth $3,000; 5th Prize is a Weekend get away for 2 to Atlantic City worth $ $2,000)

            An early bird will be drawn on a Christmas party in December 2001. One ticket will be drawn with a Prize of $3,000. The final draws will be in June 2002 at the Pista ng Bayan.

            The drive will need an army of 600 volunteers to distribute 25,000 booklets of 10 tickets within 12 months period. The President, Lynda Javier of the Filipino Centre, Toronto and Board Chairman Dr. Jun de Villa appeals to the community to volunteer for the huge project. Dr. Jun de Villa is also the Chairman of the Raffle Committee. A Director will be hired to manage the project.

            There will be 50 Team Captains, 25 of them will come from the Board of Directors. The team captains will form their own groups to distribute the 25,000 booklets to the various organizations, stores, clinics and other volunteer members.

            Dr. Jun de Villa made the deposit requirement of the Ontario Lottery Incorporation of $60,000 from his own money. This is to insure that the prizes will be given to the winners. Meanwhile, his money will be held in trust until enough money is generated to pay for the prizes.

Loonie to fulfill our dream

            Benjie Bondoc will launch a Loonie/Penny for FCT this May. They will distribute to all the stores a Plastic see thru Box with the slogan “A Loonie for FCT”. The Plastic Boxes will be donated.

                                      Other fund raising

            Meanwhile, Vice President and Grand Fund Raising Chairman Dr. Francisco Portugal is arranging other fund raising events.

In July, PACA schedules a Jumbo Garage Sale. In February, a Valentine Party by FCMA/Dental, a Bowling Tournament, a Golf Tournament on Aug/September. On December, a Misa de Gallo and other projects.

 

15. Feasibility study of FCT released by Rodel J. Ramos 17 May, 2001

 

            Feasibility Study Committee Chairman Jim Ariz released to the Board of Directors a comprehensive study of the proposed building for the Filipino Centre, Toronto. This was done in less than a month after his appointment. Jim Ariz is an Engineer and has an extensive experience in planning and construction of buildings with Living Waters Residence, formerly Sampaguita Seniors Residence. He is now the President of Living Waters and works with Enbridge Consumer Gas as an Engineer. Dr. Jun de Villa, Filipino Centre Board of Director Chairman commended the professionalism of Jim Ariz how the Study was presented.

            The study was conducted to determine the financial requirement, location, available land or building, capital and operating costs, financing, manpower requirements, timetable and other needs.

The Committee recommended implementing a needs assessment survey to solicit community input and participation in the center development process including hiring a professional architect to design the optimum viable space configuration of the facilities from the survey results.

Conclusions & Recommendations

            Using the “top-down” design approach, the study indicates that the building space minimum requirement for the Filipino Centre could be in the neighborhood of 23,000 square feet having a footprint of about 15,000 square feet.

            There were three alternative proposals: a) Purchase land and build; b) Purchase an existing property and renovate; and c) Lease a property and renovate. In Toronto, to purchase a 22,000 square feet property and build the facility will cost from $5,5 million in Scarborough, $3.1 million in North York,  $4.6 million in Toronto, and in Etobicoke $2.1 million.

            The second option, to buy an existing property and renovate in Toronto, it will cost $2.95 million, in Scarborough $2.73 million, in North York $2.2 million, and in Etobicoke $2.3 million.

            To lease and renovate in Toronto, it will cost $510,000; Scarborough $480,000; North York $480,000 and in Etobicoke, $472,500.

            The facilities process of the First Option consists of two stages: the Design stage and the Construction stage. The Design stage has four phases: 1) Formulation; 2) Preliminary Design; 3) Design Development; and Construction Documentation. The Construction Stage consists of: 1) Bidding/Negotiation; 2) Construction; 3) Construction Closeout. It was recommended that the first two options be pursued.

Space requirement

            The community is strongly encouraged to have a say in the selection process and to suggest what facilities and services they want in the Centre. Please fill the questionnaire at the bottom of this article and mail it to us. Photo copy the form and give it to your friends and relatives so that they can also participate in the selection.

            Proposed Main Level, Block 1 with 7,500 sq. feet will have a multi-purpose hall for banquets, theater, auditorium, pageants, basketball, volleyball, etc. Block 2 with 7,757 sq. ft. will house the library, Day Care Centre, and 3 Store Spaces. The Second Level, Block 3 will have the Rental Offices, Expandable Meeting Rooms and Professional Offices for a total of 22,951 floor area minimum requirement with a Building Footprint of 15,257.

            Jim Ariz said that his survey indicates there are 127 vacant lots for sale in Toronto, 46 in Scarborough, 98 in North York and 16 in Etobicoke. There are also 73 Industrial Properties for sale in Toronto, 66 in Scarborough, 48 in North York and 51 in Etobicoke.

Funding requirement

            The results indicate that the building project cost with the two options investigated range from a maximum of about $5.5 million in Toronto to $2.1 million in Etobicoke for the Purchase-Land-and-Build-Option. The cost of purchasing an existing property and renovate range from $2.94 million in Toronto to $2.28 million in Etobicoke.

            A time table for 33 months for the Property Acquisition, Design and Construction process for the Build on Vacant Land Option from Formulation, Needs Assessment & Land Purchase Planning, Preliminary Design, Design Development, Construction Documentation, Bidding/Negotiation and Construction. The Community will see a completed building at the end of 2003 or early 2004.

            In the Purchase and Renovate an Industrial Property, a 29 months timetable is estimated from Formulation, Needs Assessment and Renovation Option Planning, Property Search and Purchase Negotiation, Rezoning Approval, Purchase of Property, Preliminary Design, Design Development, Construction Documentation, Bidding/Negotiation, and Construction.

            The Study even listed the properties for sale and vacant land available and a price survey for each area.

 

16. FCT calls for consultation by Rodel J. Ramos June 25, 2001

 

            Filipino Centre President Lynda Javier arranged a Consultation meeting with the Presidents of all Filipino-Canadian organizations who share the dream of a Community Centre for Filipinos in Metro Toronto on Sunday, July 8, 2001 at the Metro Hall at John and King Sts., Toronto, 1:30 p.m.

            The meeting was called for to exchange ideas about the Centre, listen to comments, answer questions, and update the community on the project. Please call Maryann San Juan, or Secretariat at 416.492.7313 or 416.394.1022 or Rey Ballares at 416.575.1240 or 905.276.9524 for further information.

 

17. WIN BIG AND FULFILL OUR DREAM! PRIZES WORTH $44,000 UP FOR GRABS AT FCT GRAND RAFFLE! By Rodel J. Ramos July 19, 2001

 

            The start of the biggest Raffle Draw ever in the Filipino Community was announced by Dr. Francisco Portugal, Grand Fund Raising Chairman. Prizes worth $44,000 are at stake. The Grand Raffle is sponsored by the Filipino Centre Toronto that is mandated to build the Centre for the Greater Toronto Area. 

A CR-V Honda 2002 worth $31,000 will go to the lucky 1st Prize winner, the 2nd Prize is a $7,000  Home Theater and 3 Panasonic Camcorders worth $1,000 each goes to three 3rd prize winners.

An Early Bird Draw is set for December 15 at Humberwood Community Centre. The prize of $3,000 awaits the lucky Early Bird ticket holder. The grand draw will be at the Pista ng Bayan Philippine Independence Day Celebration on June 2002.

 Attractive posters will be strategically posted at Filipino stores, restaurant, doctors, dentists, and churches. Filipino businesses, and professionals are asked to take advantage of the project to increase their sales by giving their customers a chance to win the CR-V Honda 2002. It is proposed that they give a free ticket for the purchase of $100 or more of their products. That means donating to the FCT $2.00 per $100 purchase. This will encourage Filipinos to buy from their fellow Filipinos and fulfill our long elusive dream of a Filipino Community Centre in GTA.

Sponsors will have their logo in posters and ads for 12 months and will be given 100 tickets worth $200 to give away or sell. The sponsorship is $500.

            Five team leaders will handle the distribution of 110,000 tickets worth $2.00 each to Filipino organizations and individuals. If all the tickets are sold, it will raise $220,000 for the building of the Centre.

Those interested on volunteer work and help built our dream Centre can get in touch with the Team Leaders or their members. Dr. Jun de Villa who has the most experience in Lottery Raffles is the Chairman of the big fund raising initiative. The Team Leaders are: Lynda Javier (905.275.5848) with Zoraida Locquiao, Evelyn Laraya, Alex Parucha and Jim Ariz as members; Dr. Jun de Villa (416.243.5084) with Bernadette Zaragosa, Ric Falco, Manny Buado and Mann Nacario as members; Wendy Arena (416.416.281.2408/416.816.4740 cell) with Dr. Vicky Santiago, Dr. Mario Andres, Rodel Ramos and Ores Ting as members;

Dr. Kiko Portugal (416.928.1197) with Dr. Ernesto Quinit, Dr. Chito Collantes, Vince Vargas and Dr. Ferry Trelholm as members; Edgar Adan (416.635.0009) with Celia Mojica, Julie Corpuz, Ed Birondo and Linda Gallardo as members. Members will have $4,400 tickets to sell. Organizations and individuals interested on volunteer work to help built the Centre are urged to get in touch with the Team Leaders, members or Rey Ballares, who is the Administrator of the Lottery Raffle at (905.276.9524 or 416.575.1240)

FCT Office at Wilson

            Meanwhile, President Lynda Javier announced the Filipino Centre Toronto has now an office at 365-A Wilson Ave. Ste. 201, on top of the Aristokrat Restaurant and Cine Manila Video Store. This is to facilitate the realization of the Centre and for members to have a place to meet and service the community needs. Rey Ballares (905.276.9524 or 416.575.1240) will administer the Office.

Associations can use the Office free but will be asked to donate any amount to the Centre. To use the Centre, a Board of Director has to sponsor an organization.

            Members of the Board have a gathering on July 28 at Dr. Jun & Nanette de Villa’s residence and will meet again on August 9 at the Filipino Centre Office in the evening.

Councilor Li Pritte to help

            President Lynda Javier had a meeting with Toronto Councilor Peter Li Pritte of North York who was introduced by Ang Bisaya officers Dolphing Tigley and Nick Alo. She is pursuing the possibility of securing a piece of land from the City of Toronto. Li Pritte said that he has been trying to convince the Filipino Community through Dolphing Tigley to have a Centre of their own. The problem is, we do not have an umbrella group to lobby for the concerns of the Filipinos.

            He said that there is no money for Community Centres but the City will donate a piece of land if the Community Centre is incorporated into a low cost housing project that the City encourages. He has facilitated a deal like this for the East Indian Community and the small Ghana Community. Why not for the Filipinos who are close to his heart? Lynda was referred to a Consultant who packages these kinds of proposals.

            On the other hand, Dr. Jun de Villa is exploring to get a piece of land from the Federal Government at the former Downsview Military facilities for a Centre. However, politicians want to know now many will benefit from the project. The FCT is therefore asking every Filipino to sign up for membership to show Canadian politicians that we have the political clout, the only language they understand.

            Meanwhile, a Committee was formed under Conrad Fajardo to research on how other communities were able to build their own Centres so that we can learn from their experience. He has reseached on 5 already.

Bowling & Walkathon

A Bowling Tournament and a Family Walkathon are being planned for the summer.

 

18. FCT donors & sponsors offered goodies by Rodel J. Ramos

 

            President Lynda Javier and the Board of Directors of Filipino Centre, Toronto decided to deviate from traditional fund raising after the Launching Dinner and Dance. They do not get the desired results, are too expensive, too tiresome and too long. Our people are burnt out and tired of such projects and we only keep less than 10% of the income. However, we can’t avoid parties as an activity because our people love to dance, eat and have fun.

Pledges

Ambassador Francisco Benedicto, Mann Nacario of the only Filipino TV Program in Toronto, Philippine Sundae, Chito Collantes of CWSS and Ace Alvarez of Manila Media Monitor started with a Pledges Drive which when packaged well can attract donors and be the key to the realization of the Centre.

            So far, a total of $31,000 have been pledged by various generous individuals to them. Ambassador Francisco Benedicto gave a cheque of $5,000 to Dr. Jun de Villa. Dr. Chito Collantes of CWSS has his 2 cheques worth $5,000 as a part of his pledge of $10,000. Consul Olivia Palala donated $500.

Other pledges to the Centre are: Roland S. Chan of Liland Insurance, $5,000; Philippine Medical Association, $5,000; Dr. Jun & Nanette de Villa, a gynecologist and a heart specialist husband and wife team, $3,000; Roland Talud of RCT Travel, $1,000; Rose Cruz of Ladies of Rizal, $1,000; Cecille Mojica of Cavitenos, $500 which will still be collected.

Estimate

It is estimated that the Community is spending $4 million in renting banquet halls, community centres and hotels to hold parties. There are more than 350 organizations with a minimum of 2 events a year. There are also thousands of birthdays, weddings, anniversaries and reunions held by families and friends. With that amount, we can built 1 Centre a year. If this money circulates in the Community like the Chinese and the Jews, we can create more jobs and businesses within and our community will be richer.

It is projected that if 5,000 Filipinos pledge $1,000 each, we can generate $5 million to buy or built a Centre. This amount can buy a $20 million building. The Filipino Centre projects a conservative estimate of $500,000 pledges, donations and proceeds from the raffle in the first year. With the generous pledges of our people, we can generate $500,000 in the first year as projected. Imagine some of us are pledging $5,000 to $10,000 like Ambassador Francisco Benedicto, Dr. Chito Collantes of CWSS, and Roland Chan of Liland Insurance.

Entitlement

The Pledges Committee Chairman Vince Vargas and Publicity & Marketing formulated a bundle of goodies as benefits and entitlement to donors, sponsors and the community. It is natural for people who donate to ask what they can get out of their contribution and we have to satisfy their needs. They would also want to know how their money is safeguarded.

The following are the proposed benefits and entitlement to donors and sponsors: 1) Their Picture & names will be published in a Filipino Community paper. 2) Their Picture & names will be engraved in the lobby of the building up to $5,000. For less than that, only their names will be listed. 3) Discounts on rental facilities for family and friends. 4) Will have a say where his/her money goes. As donor, they are entitled to (1 vote per $100.00) for life. 5) Can be nominated to the Board of Directors or the Executive Council. 6) This donation is tax deductible when Charity No. is granted. 7) The books of accounts will be open to donor at reasonable time notice. 8) They will receive a Certificate of Donation. 9) They will receive a lifetime membership Card. 10) Will have the pride as partner in building of the Centre. 11) The building is his legacy to his children and grandchildren. 12) Filipinos will be more visible to the Canadian mainstream. 13) Serve the needs of the Filipino Community better. 14) Create jobs for our people and others.

There are 5 types of donations: Platinum - $15,000; Gold - $10,000; Silver - $5,000.; Bronze - $1,000. Pledges must be made in the name of the Filipino Centre, Toronto.

Easy payment plan

Not all Filipinos are rich, but everyone wants to have the honor of being a partner/contributor in this worthy project. An easy installment plan was devised to give everyone the chance to be a part of the project. Ex: For $1,000 donation, 1) donors can pay a monthly installment of $100.00 for 10 months; 2) $50.00 a month for 20 months (1 year & 8 months);

3) $25.00 for 40 months (3 years & 4 months). Smaller donations will also be accepted.

Chairman Vince Vargas appealed for volunteers and solicitors.

Solicitors incentives

To motivate solicitors to work hard for the project and defray transportation and meal expenses, a 10% finder’s fee is offered. While others may see this to be generous, it is only giving away 10% for expenses, compared with the old system where we throw away 90% of our income and end up with only 10% profit. Also, if we want people to work for our project, we have to give them the right incentive. This will encourage those without income or needs more money to survive while helping the community built their Centre.

Solicitors can either donate their finder’s fee to their organization, the Filipino Centre, or spend it for their family. If they donate it to the Centre, they can have their names also have the same entitlement as donors. It is a win-win situation where the Community and our people benefits.

Cash prizes for the 1st 3 highest solicitors is also offered. The 1st Prize is $1,000; 2nd Prize - $700; and 3rd Prize - $500. To qualify for these prizes, they must solicit at least $10,000. Cheques must be in the name of Filipino Centre, Toronto. Finder’s fees will be paid after pledges are collected.

Members of the Pledges Committee are: Vince Vargas, Chairman, Members are: Chito Collantes, Mann Nacario, Dr. Jun de Villa, Dr. Vicki Santiago, Dr. Ferry Trelholm, Dr. Francisco (Kiko) Portugal, and Rodel Ramos for publicity.

The President, Lynda Javier is appealing for volunteers. This is a huge project and we need the help of everyone to carry their share of the burden. Call: Pres. Lynda Javier @ 905.

275.5848; Secretariat, Maryann San Juan @ 416.394.1022 or 416.492.7313; Fund Raising, Dr. Francisco Portugal @416.928.1197; Membership, Tessie Jew @ 905.508.5366; or Publicity & Marketing, Rodel @ 905.615.8727.

 

19. Multi-faith Memorial Service by Rodel J. Ramos September 11, 2001

 

            The Filipino Centre, Toronto (FCT) and the Philippine Consulate headed by Consul General Susan Constrence are jointly sponsoring a Multi-Faith Memorial Service for the terrorists’ victims of the World Trade Center, Pentagon, Philippines, and other parts of the world.  More than 52 Filipinos perished in the WTC alone.

This is to show our sympathy and oneness with the victims and their families, and to pray for world peace. It will also be a prayer for those who are displaced and are suffering in Afghanistan war and other countries.

            The Memorial Service will be held at the Council Chamber of the North York Civic Centre, 5100 Yonge St. North York, on Thursday, Nov. 1, 2001 at 7:00 p.m. For further info, call Chairperson Zoraida Loquiao at 416.323.6500 Ext. 4248 or 905.428.7690 or Evelyn Laraya at 416.927.5411 or 905.829.2267. Donations to the Red Cross for the Filipino victims are welcome.

            November 1 is All Saints Day in the Philippines, a day of prayer for the dead.

Tarlac donates

            Tarlac Cultural Assn. led by Ely Ramos donated $1,000.00 as their initial share in building the Centre for Filipinos. It is estimated that if all the 350 organizations in Metro Toronto donate the same amount, that is $350,000 a year towards the building. This does not include individual donations.

Fiesta Filipina

            Fiesta Filipina Dance Troupe representative Betsy Walter Abarquez offered the services of the Group to perform a show for a fund raising project. FCT plan includes a place where our colorful dance troupes can practice and keep their props.

Raffle Tickets selling well

            Evelyn Laraya, Chairperson for the FCT Lottery Raffle Draw for the Centre said that so far ticket sales are doing well. Nearly 50,000 tickets have been distributed to stores, individuals and organizations. Raised from sponsors alone is $7,500, which will take care of the advertisement. The Centre is expected to raise $220,000 if all the printed tickets are sold. The 1st Prize is a CR-V Honda 2002 worth $31,000; 2nd Prize is a Home Theater worth $7,000 and there are three Camcorders for 3rd Prize. With the rate tickets are being sold, the final raffle will be drawn earlier than expected. For tickets, call Rey Ballares at Tel: 416.473.2724.

            Some businesses like Forex Door to Door Services are using the Lottery to promote their products by giving a FREE Ticket for every box or $100 purchase. It gives their customers a chance to win a $31,000 worth CR-V Honda 2002 and the other prizes.

            Associations are also giving out free Lottery tickets for every purchase of their dance/dinner fund raising projects.

Early Bird Draw

Early Bird draw of $3,000 will be on Saturday, December 15 at the Christmas Dinner/Dance Party of the Filipino Centre Toronto in coordination with Quezon Province Association of Canada (QPAC) at the Humberwood Community Centre, 850 Humberwood Blvd, Etobicoke. Ticket is $20.00 and attire is semi-formal. Contact persons are: Wendy Arena T416.281.2408 or 416.816.4740 or Erlie Gallardo T905.896.4353 or 416.530.6394.

Membership Drive

            The Executive Council passed a resolution that every purchase of 1 booklet of tickets will entitle a buyer to FREE membership for 1 year. This is to drum up the Membership Drive of Chairperson Zoraida Loquiao. Increase in membership is important to the FCT because they are negotiating with the Federal Government for a land in Downsview Military Airport and they are required to submit a list of members. Associations are urged to register their members to the FCT to show that Filipinos have the political clout.

Website

            Meanwhile, a Committee was formed to decide on which proposal will be accepted to construct the FCT website. Horizon Network headed by Mark Gellegan and Danny Samson’s company has proposals to undertake the project.

Bowling Tournament

The Bowling Tournament at the Paradise Lane in Scarborough last August 18 headed by Ed Birondo made a net profit of $800.00 for FCT.

Walkathon

            Consul General Susan Constrence and imported Singer Yoyoy & Hannah Villame graced the 1st FCT Family Day Walk on September 23 at Earl Bales Park, on Bathurst St. Marilyn Palileo, Erlie Gallardo, Ed & Evelyn Birondo headed the Walkathon Committee. Free T-shirts were given to those who pledged $100.00 and above. The weather was perfect for the run. Additional income came from sales of the T-shirts. Gross income for the walkathon was $2,600 with for than 150 people in attendance.

            Clem Cabillan of Remax Realty donated the hotdogs Dr. Vicky Santiago paid for the Pizza, FCT President & CEO Linda Javier donated the soft drinks and Chito Collantes, PhD. the bottled water.

 

20. History repeats itself by Rodel J. Ramos

 

            . It happened every time – Culture Philippines under Ric Torres, San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre under Dr. Jun de Villa, and now with Silayan, Filipino Centre Toronto and again Culture Philippines. In San Diego, somebody reported their fellow Filipinos to the FBI for investigation and their more than $350,000 budget was frozen. They don’t know now how they can survive. Hawaii has a similar problem. Yet we don’t hear this self destruction among the other ethnic groups.

Linda and I drafted the Constitution of Filipino Centre Toronto. As our experience with Filipinos, I knew that when there is already money and the project had succeeded, the crabs will try to pull us down. During the drafting of the constitution, I suggested we create a Conflict Resolution Committee to protect the FCT from internal and external intrigues. Unfortunately, the committee was neglected and FCT was caught unprepared by these attacks.

It is good that we have established partnership with the media and they helped us tremendously in the realization of the project especially Paul de la Cruz of PPC-O, Rolly Cabrera of Taliba, Tess and Ruben of Balita, the late Roger Turino and now Turing Muere of Likha, Hermie and Mila of Philippine Reporter, Lagring Bautista, Joe Baking, Ace Alvarez of Manila Media Monitor and Front Page Philippines, Bin Kon Loo of Filipiniana and most specially Carlos Unas of Filipino Bulletin.

            FCT was built in 18 months with the hard work, dedication, talent, ideas and sacrifice of a few. It was not a miracle. It proved that if we have the right people with vision, passion, dedication, talents and faith, we can do it. It brought back faith in the Filipino and trust was restored. The media cooperated and our people once again started giving. Now, we are back to square one.

            As one of the major proponent of the FCT, the one who triggered the revival of a Centre issue when almost everyone believed it is impossible to build a Centre in a community where talangka abound, permit me to express my views on the subject.

            Leaving Kalayaan Centre in 1998 after we successfully promoted and marketed the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome with the late mentor Vince Vargas, we orchestrated the events leading to the realization of the Filipino Centre Toronto. Vince chaired the Logo Contest that created awareness of the project and I headed the Publicity and Promotion. My first task was to bring back trust to our leaders. Without trust, we can’t achieve anything as a community.

            There are basic issues we have to resolve in this controversy. The FCT is owned by those who contributed to it, not by the Filipino Canadian community which is a myth and none existing. This is an internal problem. Disagreements and problems must be resolved within not in the media or the courts. Bringing it out is unprofessional and is washing dirty linens in public.

There is no Filipino community. Yes, we have common origin and culture but we don’t have a common government where everyone pays taxes or contribute. Many just share the glory from the sacrifice of a few. And they are the first to criticize and condemn.

Some people believe that they are the guardians of the community. You should first look at yourself in the mirror and see if you are without blemish or that you have contributed to this cause. When you were the leaders of the community, did you submit an accounting of your projects?

            There is an $11,000 that is being questioned here. While they can be subjected to suspicion of conflict of interest because Felino who managed the renovations and repair is the husband of the President, I do not think that this couple will risk their name with that amount. Linda is a former school teacher and Felino was a Vice President of a Marketing company before retirement. They signed as guarantors in the purchase of the Centre. It means that if we fail to pay the building, they will run after the assets of these husband and wife. If there were other volunteers, I am sure Felino would let others do it, but who was willing to do the job?

            This couple worked 7 days a week on that building for more than 2 years. The cost of the building was one million and fifty thousand. The assessment is now $2 million or double the purchased amount. And those who claim that FCT is going bankrupt just want to pull the organization down perhaps out of envy because they failed to accomplish anything during their terms as leaders of the community.  That questioned amount of $11,000 which according to Windy Arenas was spent for the louvers, and lightings all over the building. Felino bought these materials from their former company and charged it using their receipt. The materials are there and can easily be checked and estimated by contractors and suppliers. 

Managers and workers deserve a salary like any charity organization but they just get gasoline allowance which is even smaller than my pension. It is not fair to expect others to sacrifice their lives while we do nothing yet harshly criticize and condemn. I would not even doubt the integrity of these people and the passion and dedication to the community. Without them, that building would not materialize. But it seems this is the way we reward our heroes.

            Linda and Felino I am sure are not perfect. But who among us is perfect? This couple had saved us a lot in that building. The renovation of the Rizal and Ottawa halls was quoted by contractors at $310,000. Felino and members of QPAC volunteered their time to do it and the materials only cost $46,000.

            When you start destroying the integrity of people in public, you expect them to get back to you and everything having touched the sensitivity of Filipinos. Batuhan na ng baho iyan. Now, I am hearing a possible libel case. Sige, magubusan kayo ng yaman. Matutuwa ang mga abogado ninyo.

            At least you gave the community some entertainment with the soap opera but again the community is the biggest loser. Sino pa ang gustong maging leader na matino kung tuwing mayroong gagawa ay sisirain lang natin?At sino pa ang magbibigay?

            In the beginning, I had proposed a private corporation where we will sell shares of $1,000 each. It should have been easier to raise money and the public can’t scrutinize the records. With 1,000 contributing $1,000 each, it should have been paid at the start. All the income of the building should have been profits. And they could pay their managers and personnel salaries. We bought this for one million and fifty thousand. Today, it is assessed at $2 million. We should have all made a killing. But Linda would not even listen to me because she wanted the community to benefit from her work.

They would rather do it the hard way. FCT opted for selling lottery raffle tickets and gala nights which are hard to sell, take so much time, efforts and are wasteful. You have to talk to so many people. Eighty percent of the money you raise goes to expenses.

Ngayon, samaan pa ng loob. At maraming mga hindi naman nagbigay ay nakikialam, hindi na nahiya. Pera daw ng bayan iyon. Anong bayan ang pinagsasabi ninyo? When you don’t contribute to a community, you don’t belong. Kung may bayan man, hindi kayo kasali dahil wala kayong ginagawa kung hindi manira ng ginagawa ng iba. And yet during your time, you were only good at organizing gala nights and picnics. And you never made an accounting of your income and expenses. Kung pababayaan mo sa kanila ang community, we can’t accomplish this dream of a Centre.

This Centre was build on solid foundation, and no matter what you do, you can never destroy it.

 

21. Without Lynda Javier, the FCT did not exist! By Rodel J. Ramos

 

(The author helped start the Filipino Centre Toronto with the late Vince Vargas. They both promoted and guided it as Chairmen of the Promotions Committee and Logo Contest. Rodel and Ace Alvarez convinced Ambassador Benedicto to merge the groups of Dr. Jun de Villa and Lynda Javier)

 

            It is true that hundreds contributed to the Filipino Centre Toronto venture buying lottery tickets, going to the fund raising events and volunteering their time, efforts and money to this cause. The media played an important role in this project too specially after Dr. Jun de Villa resigned from San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre and the community no longer believed it was possible for the community to have a centre.

            But it was Lynda Javier’s determination and great sacrifice more than anyone that made the Filipino Centre Toronto a reality. Lynda and her husband Felino with a few officers spend much time, money and effort there.

We were able to raise only around $160,000 to $170,000 from the Lottery Raffle, dinner and dances and other fund raising activities for 1 ½ years. When the offer of the present building came, we needed more than $300,000 as down payment. The offer was a bargain. The owner spent $3 million in constructing the building but was selling it for $1.05 million for some reason. Lynda placed an offer for FCT. She did not know where to get the rest of the money when the deadline came. It was her daring and do-or-die character that pushed her knowing she has the backing of her husband Felino and the wealthy members of the Board. They were negotiating for a loan from David Liu, husband of Dr. Vicky Santiago but the night they were suppose to meet, David died of a massive heart attack.

Lynda prayed hard and the night before the deadline she called the moneyed members of the Board and officers even after midnight. Dr. de Villa wrote a check for $20,000 as a loan, Dr. Mario Andres $20,000, Dr. Vicky Santiago $50,000, Camilla Jones $20,000, Anita Caquicos $10,000, Aida d’Orazio $10,000 and Jazmine Dakahashi $10,000. Felino gave the remaining balance of $9,820.00. This is one of the amounts the opposition is claiming to be fraudulent. But there was a record with the real estate lawyer that all these money were deposited.

It was only Lynda and Felino Javier who signed the purchase contract as guarantors to the mortgage. It meant that if the group fails to pay the mortgage, the bank will run after them. Only a few among us are crazy enough to risk their personal properties, a lifetime savings for the community. We need more leaders of this kind of commitment.

Felino and a handful of volunteers worked for months cleaning up the place. It was infested with rats and cockroaches and smelled like shit. They renovated 3 offices, the Rizal Hall and Ottawa Hall, 2 lobbies, the lower and 2nd floor hallways, and suite 103 which became the FCT office. They knocked down and changed walls, ceilings, lightings, and washrooms, all without pay. Two companies were asked for quotations on these renovations. Both quoted above $300,000 which the organization did not have. For labor alone, they were charging more than $100,000.

 Without much funds, Felino found ways to renovate the place. He used to work with ALC Groups Inc. which manufactured lighting equipment and accessories that went bankrupt and could not pay his salary. They agreed on an arrangement that he get paid in materials so he took their louvers and used them in FCT charging only the basic manufacturer’s cost. Felino charged only $11,836.46 for these materials and his labor was free. This amount was claimed by the auditor as fraudulent without purchase orders or original invoices claiming Felino profited from them. They did not take into account the hundreds of thousands in savings and hard work of the man. Other groups would praise him into high heavens as a hero, but in our community we have the nerve to call them “thieves”.

Lynda went to the building almost every day including her weekend also without pay. They were allowed gas allowance which was claimed by the “Save the FCT Movement to run as high as $1,000 a month. When asked, Lynda said, “I wish.”

Could the wife and husband team enrich themselves with the Centre? We can call Lynda as arrogant, domineering a dictator even, frank even feisty and vulgar at times. I had my fights with her as Chairman of Publicity and Promotions. She treats the members sometimes like her school children and call them “boys and girls” during meetings reminiscent of her being a school teacher. But calling them “thieves” as claimed by a placard during a rally is too abusive, not a way to reward our heroes who sacrifice their energies and resources to the community and is a total lie. What is worse is when we subject our leaders to trial by publicity. We subject all our leaders to suspicion including those who perpetuate it.

If Lynda and Felino wanted to get rich, they should have kept on working for a living instead of wasting their time, efforts and money with the community. They can spend their retirement in a cruise to the Caribbean, Europe or the Philippines and with their children.

When we started the Centre, having observed this community for more than 25 years, I knew what happened to San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre, Culture Philippines and other Centre projects will repeat itself because we never learn from the past. It will be subjected to a costly court battle and sparing of egos that will only enrich the lawyers. I then proposed to turn this project into a Private, for Profit Corporation and sell shares of $1,000/per share. We will avoid this kind of trouble and people who did not even put a cent into the project will not have their voice. There are so many free loaders in this community and only a few really works. But when they see money, they would grab the glory and claim it for themselves.

It should have been much easier to raise the funds of a million dollars. And we could have been rich. Imagine the market value of the building is now worth more than $2 million in less than 5 years.

Lynda Javier opposed that idea and so did Consul General Susan Castrence. They wanted the community to own it. Today, they already have spent $199,000 in court and counting fighting allegations of wrong doing. Their names are maligned and smeared.

 Lynda made a lot of mistakes and so with some of the officers and members of the board. She was inexperienced with community organizations and the dogs eat dog culture of Filipino politics. But she was sincere in her desire to give the community a Centre. What does she know of purchase orders and invoices? There where people in place that were suppose to install the accounting system but did not do their jobs. Or course Lynda also seldom listen to others. But she was a fast learner and did spend time to learn the business.

As in the other cases, the trouble started from within. If you don’t know Lynda, you will be offended simply by the way she talks. Mayabang talaga at siya palagi ang bida. Her character is her worst enemy. And she did make a lot of enemies even from within. But she would not tolerate wrong doings especially with money.

Drs. Vicky Santiago, Jun de Villa and Dr. Mario Andres and many of the members of the Board also will not tolerate wrong doings especially with money. They are all honorable people with great dignity like the others opposing the group. But even the most honorable among us sometimes are vengeful and vindictive. We have big egos and once this is hurt, we fight all the way no matter what.

I beg all of you to settle this case outside the courts. It has damaged the community more than you ever know. It took us years to bring back the trust and faith of our people to their leaders after we brought down Dr. Jun de Villa in San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre and Ric Torres in Culture Philippines also on false allegations. For 30 years many tried to give us a community centre but failed. Lynda and this group did it in 17 months. 

Instead of fighting each other, let us focus on bigger dreams for our community. We need a credit union, a cooperative and even a bank. We need more community centres. Our seniors, youth and young children even our caregivers and new immigrants. We need Filipinos to represent us in the 3 levels of government or at least a lobby group. Use your talents and resources for them, not to satisfy your big egos and little dreams.

 

22. Re-elected Board of FCT thank community by Rodel J. Ramos

 

            The re-elected Board of Directors of the Filipino Centre Toronto thanks and congratulates the community for an intelligent vote in spite of the negative publicity by the opposite camp. Lynda Javier who was the target of the hate campaign still got into the top 4 elected.

            While there were appeals for reconciliation between the two camps, Dr. Andres said that for now there is too much hurt that it is too early to forgive. They intend to pursue three more cases in court to give those who try to destroy the integrity of leaders in the community a lesson. However, we appeal to both sides, forgiveness may not heal the hurt but will enlarge the future. Much time and money had been spent in court cases.

            Now that one problem has been cleared, the Board wants to appeal to the community and even to the other candidates who did not make it to volunteer to the many activities aligned for this year if they really are sincere in their desire to serve the community.

The committees that need volunteers are: School Outreach Program where Ontario registered teachers are much needed; Golf Tournament; Line Dancing instructors; PGIF dancers for the seniors program; the Pistahan; Cabbage Town Festival; Filipino classes; Search for Young Filipino Entrepreneurs; Outstanding Academic Awards; Medical Seminar Workshop; Basketball tournament; Homework Club; Income Tax Seminar; Will & Testament Seminar and some other programs. The number to reach is 416-928-9355.

23. Lessons from the battle for FCT by Rodel J. Ramos

 

The conflict as to who should manage the FCT was resolved by the election but how about 3 years from now when another election comes? Shall we repeat this kind of expensive comedy and tragedy at a heavy cost to the community?

We should look at making the FCT into a private corporation as I suggested in the beginning to stop any hostile takeover. Let’s learn from history. A few will always find ways to take over organizations specially when there is money involved. Assign shares and votes to associations who have contributed heavily on the project and others who contributed money, efforts, talents and ideas. Then, sell shares to pay for the balance of the mortgage. Ask a lawyer how it can be done.

Then, use the equity of the building to get a loan and buy more community centres around Metro Toronto. Or expand into credit union or consumer cooperative to service the needs of the community even more. However be sure to secure control of management of these ventures.

The Filipino community is a myth. Only a few dedicated, hard working souls deserve to be called members of that community. Most are just free loaders ready to grab the glory when we have won the battle just like when Pacquiao won in boxing, most Filipinos ride with the win even if they did nothing.

I am not saying that those who started the trouble did not sacrifice in the making of the Centre. The trouble started from within the organization from disgruntled and dissatisfied officers and members. Both sides had their faults. The president and the board violated parts of the constitution. All troubles in organizations start from within. They ignored the Conflict Resolution committee which handles such cases from escalating into total war. Then the community newspapers sided without knowing both sides. Personal issues burst into a scandal of untold proportion consuming the whole community.

There is no recognition of volunteers. Only money contribution is valued. Time, efforts, ideas and talents exerted did not matter much. It is time we recognize those factors. There is nothing free in this world. In the business world, these are all valuable. Many times we are lavish in criticism and so stingy with praise. How expensive is it to recognize others’ contribution?

            We organized the Philippine Press Club – Ontario and rallied the media to support this frustrated dream of the Community. Most of the publishers went out of their way to help specially Filipino Bulletin, Taliba, Balita, Ano? Sino? iFilipino magazines, Philippine Reporter, Likha, and Filipiniana. Their contributions were seldom recognized. That is why when the conflict progressed, some took sides.

It is about time we pay managers salaries not just allowances. Treat it like a real business enterprise and hire professional managers.

Separate the ownership of the building to the community services. Then we can ask for grants for these social services and programs.

Reduce the Board of Directors to seven members. Nineteen are too much. We only accommodated that because we merged Dr. Jun de Villa’s and the Consulate’s group.

It is also about time that leaders who have been around for decades to step aside especially those who have not achieved anything concrete except gala nights and picnics. Some of you have become hindrances to the dreams of the community. Let go and give others a chance.

 

24. One Stop Shop Centre for GTA 2001 by Rodel J. Ramos

 

It was the original proposals of our think thank to make a One Stop Shop Centre for GTA. In our mind it was very feasible. The Filipino community was wasting so much money including the Philippine Consulate. The Filipinos like to party a lot. Every organization has 2 or 3 dinner and dances a year. Our families have parties for weddings, birthdays, and other occasions.

Below are some of the expenses we make:

1. Philippine Consulate, Labor Attache & Trade Commission office rent -        $200,000/year

 

2. Community Centre Project – needs a minimum of 20,000-sq/ft spaces is needed by the Centre. The plan is an adjustable/convertible and can be broken down into smaller dance halls/theater/chapel area that can also be used for meetings, cultural presentation, arts, sports & dance classes. It can also be converted into a basketball, tennis, ping-pong court when needed. The Centre will house a Filipiniana library, museum and Community Centre office to service the community. There are 3 groups that have accumulated some money but refuse to merge.

            Filipino Center Toronto has now $  85,000

            Kalayaan Cultural Centre -            175,000

            San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre -            150,000

            Total                                         $410,000 If the 3 groups decide to join.

            It has to be strategically located near Mississauga but in Metro Toronto

 

Statistics:

a) The community spends from $4 – 5 million dollars a year in banquet halls, hotels, party rooms with food and drinks every year for fund raising, weddings, debut, birthdays, etc. and also concerts.

b) There are now 250,000 Filipinos in Metro Toronto & growing.

c) More new immigrants are coming every year

d) The population is growing with newborn babies.

e) There are 280 organizations registered with the Consulate and another 100 unregistered (Religious, sports organizations such as Couples for Christ, Bukas Loob, El Shadai). These groups have a minimum of 2 parties a year – fund raising, Christmas, Independence, etc.

 

f) There are 2 basketball tournaments a year and also tennis, bowling, and a lot of golf tournaments once a year.

 

3. Seniors/Retirement Apartment homes – (this is a growth area because the 1st Filipinos here are retiring, selling big homes and moving to condominiums and apartments to avoid shoveling snow and cutting grass. They want to stay where they don’t have to go far to buy their groceries, and other needs. They need extra services like house cleaning, and need friends to talk to, etc.

 

4. Geriatric Care for Elderly – (Growth area) There is no facility like this for Filipino elderly now and the elderly is growing. They would need a lot of care and we can create jobs in this area too.

 

5. Childcare – The seniors can baby-sit the children.

 

6. Contract workers and domestics are growing too with more coming. They need a place where they can be with friends during weekends. Also, there are workers who live out.

 

7. Offices/Apartment for Filipino-Canadian businesses and professions. The seniors, children, and contract workers need doctors, dentists, hairdressers, travel agents, money remittance, restaurant, convenient stores, etc. They have a captive market here.

 

8. Silayan & Kababayan Community Centers are renting an estimated value of $24,000/year.

 

9. There is a need for a 1st Class Filipino Restaurant & Catering to service Canadian mainstream market and affluent Filipinos.

 

10. Filipino tourists coming to Toronto needs cheaper hotel accommodation than the existing hotels now.

 

11. The 1st floor of the building can house a Restaurant, Convenient Sari-Sari Store, hairdresser, doctor’s office, barber, etc.

 

25. Promotions Goals and Structure by Rodel Ramos

 

Objectives:

1.       Plan, budget, organize and supervise the marketing and promotions.

2.       Generate ideas and program to attain objectives.

3.       Change the wrong perceived image of past community leaders and bring back trust.

4.       Built a good image for the Centre, the leadership, the organization and the project.

5.       Damage control. Protect the reputation and image of the leaders and the organization from criticism and scandals. This is important because of the crab mentality of a few people in the community and from the bad experience of past leaders.

6.       Public awareness of the project, its goals and how it will benefit the community.

7.       Stress on the need for the center (Importance of the project):

  • Every Filipino in Metro Toronto dreams of a Community Center.
  • We spend from $4 to $5 million every year to celebrate our parties just for facilities alone. This should circulate in the community.
  • Pride for Filipinos in having a Center of their own.
  • Will create jobs for Filipino Canadians.
  • Will bring benefits for Community instead of giving it to others.

8.       Change the mind set of the community (resistance to change) on fund raising and supporting worthy projects. (Traditionally, dances, concerts and parties to raise funds where too much time, money and efforts are wasted and profits are less than 15%.

9.       Inform community of developments

10.   Explain viability of the project & benefits to community;

11.   Involve media on projects;

12.   Promote recruitment of volunteers & workers;

13.   Raise funds, solicit sponsors & donors

 

COVERAGE:

1. Market research and development - attitude of market, what would interest them,target market, income bracket, needs, how they would benefit. (Need for security,  recognition, belonging, achievement,

2. Packaging - package the products and services so as to make it attractive and sellable.

3. Pricing - a costing of expenses and allowance for profit.

4. Sales - canvassing, prospecting, presentation and closing.

5. Advertising & Promotion - ads, sales kit - brochures, posters, press relation - press releases, press conference

6. Channel of distribution - existing organizations, religious groups, sports, cultural, social, youth

7. Educational & Motivational programs

8. Incentives for sales force

 

Public Relation Committee (Media people) -

1. Press Release,

2. Image building - vision, drive, activities, development, leadership

3. Public information,

4. Education

5. Destroy the image of distrust among Filipino leaders and community Centre projects, use for personal gains, lost money

6. Encourage volunteers, donations/

7. Destroy apathy, indifference, non-involvement and negative attitude

8. Damage Control -

9. Speakers Bureau -

10. Writers Group

 

Other functions:

1. Website: IT Information -Maintenance of website, email address, receive inquiries, application forms and pledges, discrimination of information to members with email and public using internet.

 

2. Market Research Committee - demographics, statistics, share of market, direct & indirect competition, and target.

 

3. Mktg. & Promo Planning Committee - Planning the Marketing & Promotion Strategy, timetable, feedback, measure results,

Information Technology (IT) Committee - Website, emails, graphics, latest development

 

4. Artists Group - graphic artists

5. Ads - Purpose, concept, copy, artwork & design, which media is the best for project, director

6. Promotions - press conference, press release, ads, brochure, flyers, and packaging

7. Brochures - goal, copy, artwork,

8. Flyers; 9. Posters; 10. Packaging;11. Distribution; 12. Sales; 13. Pricing.


Posted by Rodel Ramos at 7:49 PM EDT
Updated: Friday, 19 September 2008 7:51 PM EDT
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Monday, 15 September 2008

Topic: Community Center
How not to build a Community Center, a Toronto experiences  

1. Only God can unite us by Rodel J. Ramos

 

In a TV interview in Montreal, I was confronted with a rather intriguing question, “How can Filipinos unite when historically, we have always been divided?” It is true. When Ferdinand Magellan landed in our shores, Datu Humabon was in a tribal war with the fierce Lapu-Lapu of Mactan. The Spaniards exploited this division. Near the end of their rule, they had the loyalty of the dreaded Macabebe Guardia Civil of Pampanga, many wealthy and religious groups which were the nemesis of the Katipunan and the reformation.

But even during our times of so called conflicts, most of the country lived in peace. Only a limited area was affected and only a small percentage of the people toke sides. The rest lived in harmony - Muslims, Christians, Tagalogs, Ilocanos, Cebuanos, Ilongos and others. The Huk rebellion in the 1950’s for example only paralyzed a few towns of Pampanga, Tarlac and Zambales.

Every nation

The history of every nation is stained by conflicts and divisions. The United States of America has its upheaval against its motherland, the Great Britain, which ended in independence. Before that, there were years of bloody battles against the Apaches and other Indian warriors. America had its Civil War that ripped the country into the South and the North. Even today, their blacks are fighting for equal rights, the native Indians claiming their aboriginal lands. Minorities, women, disabled, gays and lesbians are shouting discrimination. But from these challenges, Americans learned to live together in harmony and prospered.

Germany, the most powerful among the European Union was united by the fall of Communism and brought down the Berlin Wall. Before that, it was the East and West Germany fighting each other. And let’s not forget their devastation and humiliation during World War I and II. Germany’s beginnings were a group of barbaric tribes invading and plundering one another.

Japan before it became a Kingdom under one Emperor was just a bunch of warring tribes. And so was born the ninjas known for their fierce fighting abilities. And out of the ruins of Hiroshima and Nagasaki came today’s economic giant.

England before it was united as one Kingdom had its War of the Roses (the conflict between the royal houses of Lancaster and York). Years before, England was just a group of small kingdoms overthrowing one another in bloody armed struggles. Born in this era were the Knights of the Round Table with their armors, shields and swords. So were the heavily fortified castles.

China was a nation always at war. Its Great Wall was built out of attacks by merciless neighboring kingdoms like the Mongols. The empire of Genghis Khan, Attila the Han, and others were born out of these conflicts that brought horrors and death to the entire Asia and created the Dark Ages in Europe.

The holy people

The Bible documents the conflicts and divisions even by the chosen people of God. It tells us of the wars among the tribes of Israel, of their ruthless wars with Babylonians, Palestinians, and others. Their history is of enslavement by Egypt and the Roman Empire. Even today, there are factions inside Israel divided among religious and political lines. It was the Holocaust that galvanized them.

From creation

Mankind, in fact had conflicts with each other since the beginning when Cain slew Abel being jealous of his brother. This was so since Adam and Eve defied God’s will which cast them out of Eden.

 Families

 Every family has jealousy, arguments and disagreements between brothers and sisters, husband and wife, in-laws, children, parents and grandparents. We often have a black sheep in each family who cause shame, trouble and headaches even if most of the family members live in harmony. We always have differences in ideas, beliefs, motives, ambitions and interests. Only our love, respect, tolerance and relationship bind us together.

Religious groups

Even the Catholic Church noted for their vow of obedience to superiors has its internal politics. Once in a while there are Martin Luther’s who break their ranks and set up their own churches. The Muslim religion is today divided into fundamentalists, radicals and what have you.

Conflict within us

In the hearts and minds of every man is an inner battle between good and evil, love and hate, charity and greed, fear and hope, obesity or abstinence. Man has to decide which one to follow before he can have inner peace, harmony with other beings and his environment perhaps because we have the body of an animal and the soul of the divine. Or that we were created imperfect and born in sin.

Man also was not born with an eye to look at his fault to compare himself to others. He needs a mirror to reflect on. But he has two eyes to see the fault of others.

The I syndrome

In every conflict or divisions within the Filipino community, we will notice some common factors. They originated from petty reasons mostly personality clashes between two or more persons within the organization.

During these conflicts, someone made himself the center of the universe and played god. Everything must resolve around him and everyone must follow what he wants. This self centered person, nay selfish man thinks himself as the best - the wisest, strongest, prettiest, wealthiest, most popular, and highest in rank - and therefore has the right to lead and be right in whatever he/she does or say.

And because there are thousands of I’s in the Filipino community seeking recognition, honor, power and prestige conflicts of ambition, egos, interest, ideas, beliefs and preferences are inevitable.

And just like when mankind falsely believed that the Earth was the center of the Solar System and the Sun revolves around it, we will forever be lost in our belief that everything revolves around us and everyone must conform to what we want.

If the Sun, Moon, stars, Earth and other planets were not in its own orbits, they would collide with one another. If there were no traffic lights in our streets and every driver is permitted to do what he wants without courtesy, there will be chaos in the streets so with the collision of egos in our small community.

Again, only the love of the community, our people, country and God will bind us together.

All these conflicts are normal however in every community, a process of learning. It is just that some communities learn faster from their bitter lessons than others. Some will never grow up. They will always have those tantrums of little children.

Example, SLRCCC               

Take as an example San Lorenzo Ruiz Community Center issue. If I was in the shoes of Dr. Jun de Villa and I had the I syndrome I will think like this: “I am one of the best Filipino doctors in Canada, a specialist in my field. I am well respected. I am one of the riches Filipino in Toronto. I graduated from U.P. Nobody should tell me what to do. No one should doubt my motive nor malign my dignity and honor. I worked very hard for that Community Center and even spend my own money. Why should I give the honor to others? In fact, they can’t build that center without me.”

And others who want to be close to a powerful man like me will say, “You are right Doctor. Why should you give them the honor? You worked hard for that. Fight them. You have all the money and the power. Show them you can beat them and that they are nobodies.” And my ego will be lifted high.

And if I was Fely Villasin, president of SLRCCC, I would be challenged. I would say to myself, “I am also a graduate of U.P. I am an international a scholar. I am a known leader of the community too and of the feminist movement. I am a leader of the leftist movement and have a vast following. I will not just give up a fight even with the almighty. I can build the community center myself. We do not need a Dr. de Villa.”

And in this case, if I was God, I will show these proud souls that they are nothing. I will humble them by not giving them the honor to build that center and put all the hindrances in their way. I will let a nobody, a humble man built it. And the great loser is the Filipino community in the fights of the gods.

God the center

Until we see our smallness in relation to the great firmament above us. Till we give back the throne to God, the Almighty as the center - the source of power, strength, love, goodness, wisdom, justice, faith and hope - our creator. Until we surrender to his will, there will always be clashes among us.

When we humble ourselves and accept our smallness, we will discover that we are a part of a vast universe, not just that small creature called I. We will begin to understand our oneness with others and accept them as part of our being.

Then we will learn to forgive and forget, to love one another as God had always loved each of us in spite of our wickedness. 

2.  Revisiting SLRFCCC by Rodel J. Ramos

 

Six years ago, I investigated the controversy surrounding the San Lorenzo Ruiz Filipino Canadian Community Center. To refresh your memory, Dr. Jun de Villa resigned because of the agitations of a few who called themselves the Concerned Group. They questioned why the income statement was not being reported.

 

During Dr. de Villa’s term of office, SLRFCCC raised almost $150,000.00 and a piece of property was purchased in Markham with $120,000.00 as down payment, $20,000.00 of which came from Markham Federation paid directly to the Developer. Luckily there was a clause in the contract that the money will be returned if the project did not push through.

Dr. Jun de Villa and his faction resigned because they believed their integrity were being questioned, leaving the SLRFCCC in the hands of the Concerned Group. After a year and a half of dormancy, Chairman of the Board Conrad Roncillo called a meeting. One of those invited was Fely Villasin and her associates. Fely became very vocal in that and subsequent meetings that she was elected President when an election was called. Dr. de Villa’s faction boycotted those meetings and the election that followed.

 

Dr. de Villa refused to give the money to the newly elected Officers. His reason was, many people gave their contributions because of their trust with the Doctor and he is obliged to protect it. He believes the new group did not have the capacity to build the Cultural Center and will just spend the money elsewhere.

 

The direction of SLRFCCC turned into a bitter court battle that is still going on. Although both sides have softened - The last Board of Directors passed a resolution to settle out of court. Dr. Jun de Villa also is willing to give the funds if satisfied that the present Officers will carry on with the promise of building a Community Center, not just use it for a year or two in renting a space. 

 

During these four years, with credit to Fely Villasin, the organization was run smoothly, bringing back the democratic process the Concerned Group wanted compared to the autocratic or “dictatorial” ways of Dr. de Villa. They were also able to raise $36,000.00, of which $17,000.00 was wasted on lawyers in trying to retrieve the $150,000. These are amazing accomplishments for an ordinary community group. But I am sad to comment that, to built a Community Center with less than $10,000.00 a year profit will take us 100 years to raise $1 million dollars which is just a down payment for a respectable Cultural Building. We will all be dead by then.

 

The Concerned Group complained so much about the way Dr. de Villa handled the organization. Now that they had a taste of it, did they handle it better than the doctor? Did they raise more than he did? Many times, we think we are better than others until we are given a change to take over and we turn out to be worse.

 

Recent Election

 

I went to the SLRFCCC election and induction of new officers recently to check on their progress. Gone is the enthusiasm and hope of the Community to SLRFCCC which started with a promise to give us a Cultural Center. Out of the 36 present during the election, 7 did not even renew their membership.

 

There was no election at all, either there was lack of interest in serving organization among members or the election was cooked so that opposition would not have a chance to get in. There are too many restrictions to discourage outsiders from getting in. And I thought our goal was to build a Community Center. In a project as gigantic as this, are we not suppose to encourage the best minds and most experienced in raising funds or at least the moneyed people.

 

There was a time SLRFCCC encouraged everyone to join and take part. Dr. de Villa went to most Community functions to invite organizations to help. He believed that no one organization can bring this dream into a reality.

 

They also did not allow the old officers from running again, putting a limit to only two terms. With this act, their limited manpower was still reduced and their past experiences were wasted. Continuity is also an important factor in this project.

 

If the attendance at the Induction Ball is an omen on their future, it will be an uphill struggle.

The lessons

I think that there are lots of lessons we learned in this battle of wits. Some of them are:

Building a Community Center is not about a democracy where every Tom, Dick and Harry can have their ideas heard and adapted. Marami sa atin, pagka wala pang pera, puro pintas ang naririnig mo. Pagka may pera na, sila pa ang unang makikialam. Para bang sila ang naghirap, kahit na wala silang ginawa. In our Community, even those who did not put a cent for the project wants his or her ideas followed. Many times, those who do not contribute do much talking often to criticize, not inspire. Well, these are the easiest thing to do.

If the goal was to build a Cultural Center don’t you think it should be handled more like a business corporation where the President and Board of Directors have the power to plan and implement as long as the goal is met. 

They questioned about Dr. de Villa’s accounting of the proceeds and put doubt on his integrity. But if we can not trust a man with unquestionable integrity, whom are we going to trust? The present leadership, Joe Mari Azzaraga and his board members are almost unknown in our Community. We need high profile personalities with integrity who understands aggressive marketing and promotions to handle this project.

 

Put your acts together

The Community is sick and tired of this battle of egos. They want their community center in this decade, not when we are all dead. And they don’t care who the leader is as long as they get it. If those in power are not sure of giving us this center, will they please step aside so that those who have the vision, ideas, drive, expertise and are willing to work hard may have a chance.

The Community Center cannot be built by a few. We should learn from history. The Katipunan did not win the battles until the illustrados and the masses joined their efforts. The EDSA revolution was won because of the joint efforts of the rich and the poor. The support of the masses is needed, but many of us have a hand to mouth existence. Even if we want to be generous to the Community, we can’t. It is the moneyed people who have the capacity and the extra money to build that Center. We can only provide our talents, efforts and time. And these are not enough. The Center can only be built if all of us join our resources and talents.

When Conrad Roncillo approached me to help promote the SLRFCCC, I said, “It is like selling a product. You must have a good product and the people behind are promotable. In this case, they must be known and with integrity. SLRFCCC has a bad image. Settle the case first. Then we will talk on how to promote it.”

I have suggested to Joe Mari to settle their differences with Dr. de Villa, to offer him the Honorary Chairmanship, and give him half of the members of the Board. They have nothing to lose and everything to gain. They can turn the present Board of Directors into a Selection Board to harness the best minds in our Community and appoint competent and experienced Board of Directors and hire a Manager to run the organization.

 

A good Marketing & Promotions Committee has to be created, a Recruitment Committee to handle volunteers is needed, and another Committee for soliciting sponsors and donors, and one to handle the ambitious Fund Raising Projects to raise $1 million a year just like the Chinese are doing. Let us not wait for another 2 years to see whether the new board will succeed or fail. Without the support of the entire Community, all our leaders will surely fail.

Once they have settled this problem, they can talk to the Steering Committee of the Spirit of Kalayaan who has another $130,000.00 or more, from the proceeds of the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome which they already agreed to use for a Cultural Center. Ask them to put the money together.

 

Also, Culture Philippines has $60,000.00 which was frozen by the Government because of the making of another group in Mississauga who thought that they would do better than Ric Torres in building a Cultural Center there. The Cultural Center bought by Ric Torres was foreclosed and more than $100,000.00 were lost because of these people with “great intentions”. But even the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

 

As someone said, “There are too many brilliant people among us.” If this is brilliance, we definitely use it to annihilate one another. Like one minus one equals zero.

 

Then, with this joint amount of $340,000.00, purchase a property or a small building so that the people will see where their money went. Then, you can go back to the people and I am sure they will generously give. But put your acts together, you proud but sensitive Community leaders.

 

How long are we going to let our Community suffer from our crab mentality? When are we going to learn? Ang tanong ng iba, “Matuturuan pa ba ang matatandang kalabaw?” But we are not carabaos. So, there must be hope. Happy New Year!

 

3.  Ric Torres found innocent by Rodel J. Ramos

 

A few years ago, the internal squabbling in Culture Philippines reached scandalous proportion, with one side asking the Government to persecute the founder and president Ric Torres of defrauding the organization, stealing a sum of money, and converting with intent to defraud and in contravention of the trust law on lotteries for charitable organizations. Ric Torres was declared not guilty of any of those charges.

Unsatisfied in their vengeance, the “Reform” block convinced the media to expose their dirty linen in public and the soap opera became the topic of gossips that engulfed the whole community.

As a consequence, all accounts of 3 non-profit groups were frozen and their bingo fund raising stopped - Culture Philippines, Canadian Spectrum, and C.S. Hospital Fundraising Group of Mississauga. Gone also is the 3 unit commercial complex worth $364, 000.00 purchased with a $100,000.00 down payment which was to be a Culture Philippine Centre. It was foreclosed for none payment.

 

The group might have meant well in what they did, but as they say, even the road to hell is paved with good intentions. It destroyed completely the dream of the Filipino community in Mississuaga to have a centre of their own.

Truly, it is our duty to see justice done when people go wrong, but in this case as in many personal fights that turned nasty in Filipino organizations, the goals of the community was once again sacrificed.

 

There are also a few unanswered questions which leave doubt to the intentions of those who triggered these charges. Did this issue not started with the personal disagreements between the two opposing factions? Is it not a known fact that some leaders of the “Reform” bloc have tried to unseat Ric Torres running against him for 3 years but failed? Some sources said that if they won, it should not have gone this far. Was this not another internal power struggle that turned into personal vendetta?

 

Although I cannot judge the acts of the “Reform” group, yet in every organization there are always power hungry individuals who will pull down people in power like crabs, on their way to attain their petty dreams.

Obsessed with their selfish ambitions, they search for faults. They are masters of criticism but offer no alternatives. They suspect any move of their opponents and intrigues their members to join their hidden motives on the pretext of the good and well being of the organization. They pay membership dues for recruits to gain votes. They always think they can do better than the incumbent until they take hold of that glorious position and find it empty of glory. They find themselves surrounded by other crabs that will one day pull them down too the way they did.

A lot of leaders fell from within because of internal power struggle. Brutus stabbed Caesar. Andres Bonifacio and his brother were murdered by the Aguinaldo faction. Dictators knowing this internal threat often purge their ranks and hang these traitors. But in our community where the crab mentality is the norm, this disloyalty is encouraged, nay rewarded.

It is easy to destroy. It took one nuclear bomb to destroy Hiroshima killing hundreds of thousands. A match can burn a building complex. One rumor can deny a whole community its dream.

On the other hand, there are overstaying leaders in the community who would retire but cling to their positions like kings having their own serfdoms. Some of them are the reasons we can never unite. But there are others deserving to stay because no one can implement their visions better.

 

Let us be aware of these factors. Before we take sides in these power struggles, we must get into the roots of things. 

Let us not forget Ric Torres contributions to our community and to Mississuaga. With his position as TV anchorman, he made the Filipinos visible in Peel region more than anyone of us or all of us combined. His C.S. Hospital Fundraising Group donated $200,000 to Mississauga Valley (Trillium) Hospital and $50,000 to Credit Valley Hospital mostly out of his group’s initiative. His efforts became the example and envy to other ethnic groups to donate to worthy causes in Peel Region.

Culture Philippines had in fact raised $300,000 and had purchased the building for our Cultural Centre. No Filipino group ever raised that much money.

Ric’s burning desire to raise the Filipinos to prominence in Mississauga, and for Canadians to know our culture better started the Horizontal Multiculturalism Movement, the sharing of cultures through community involvement. He founded the Canadian Spectrum Multicultural Community Group in order to make Canadians appreciate Filipino talents in the Media and the Arts. More than any other, he lifted the Filipino image in Peel.

With his many talents in arts he staged, directed, wrote, promoted, marketed or performed in several fund raising shows such as: “To Share Our Culture” for Credit Valley Hospital; “Sayaw Awit” (Song & Dance); “Let There Be Peace”; Operation 26 Telethon for Mississauga Hospital; “World Christmas” for Foodpath and Unicef; “Reflections,” a musical drama written by Rick Torres for the benefit of Meadowvale Theatre, and many others.

He was founding Vice-Chairman of Carassauga, and the Peel Children Multicultural Festival.

He produced, directed and hosted the Canadian Spectrum Radio Chin, 1540 AM; Canadian Spectrum TV Show - Rogers TV 10; “Spotlight:, “Youth Forum”, “Expressions” etc.  He promoted multiculturalism in various conferences. He was a Volunteer Board Development Training Facilitator of the United Way and past VP of the Peel Multicultural Council.

As a result of his years of tireless efforts, vision and determination to see the Filipinos recognized in our second country, he received various awards: Les Carbot Award, Min. of Communications, for outstanding volunteer service in heritage retention and sharing through the arts; Canada 125 Commemorative Medal from the Governor General, in recognition of significant contribution to compatriots, community and to Canada; Prime Minister’s Special Appreciation for the “Candlelightr Vigil” for the World Summit for Children and for “World Christmas: for UNICEF; Canadian Citizenship Award, Min. of Multiculturalism & Citizenship; Outstanding Lion Award; Ten Year Volunteer Award, Ontario Min. of Citizenship; Most Outstanding Service, Peel Multicultural Council; Volunteer Award, United Way Campaign; and Cable 10 Awards as Producer of the Year; Most Outstanding Contribution and so on.

This man whom we condemned even when the case was pending in court has sacrificed much of his time and efforts for our community. Let us not forget that it was his leadership, dynamism, tireless efforts, vision and dedication to the community which brought the success of his organizations. It was his resourcefulness which tapped the bingo as a source of funds for his group and produced the nearly half a million in their coffers in spite of the less than a dozen hard working members of Culture Philippines at that time. This is not to undermine the efforts of a few others who worked hard with him. But it was his leadership that provided the drive. A leader such as this cannot just be discarded in a community which badly need funding. If we treat our leaders like these, how can we attract technocrats and real leaders to led our community?

It might be true that Ric has the tendency to dictate and be secretive but this comes from his limited time to argue and impatience with people who cannot understand his vision, ideas and direction.

He also believed it worthless to cater to the powers that be in the community. Thereby when he had trouble, he could not count on their support even in the media. But who among us have no fault?

Ric was hard working. He spends most of his after work hours and weekends building our dream. His children and wife were sacrificed for the community. Is this the price of service?

Time has proven Ric Torres innocent of all accusations. It is time we restore his place in our Community and let the man regain his dignity. No was able to replace his resourcefulness, vision, hard work, and drive. 

4. Time to resurrect Rick Torres by Rodel J. Ramos

One of the unjust things we did during the early years of the 1990’s was to pull down Ric Torres. With the prodding of jealous leaders, a “well-intentioned” kababayan reported Rick Torres to the Gaming Commission on suspicion of pocketing some of the money of the bingo charity funds he was holding. These people did not realize that by doing so, they killed our dream of a Community Centre in Metro Toronto and hurting the livelihood and family of a great and noble leader.                

After many years and because many of us have tried and failed to built a community centre, we realize the greatness of this hard working, talented, energetic and resourceful man. The sum total of what his successors have done and sadly all the fundraisers in our community very much pales in comparison with Rick’s achievements. Canadians were amazed at his talents, achievements and contributions; they lavishly honored him with awards and recognized his greatness. Rick’s own people whom he loved and worked all his life to serve, betrayed and crucified him.

Rick Torres, the former founder and past President of Culture Philippines raised funds faster than any Filipino alive or dead and in the magnitude no one ever imagined. He was the first leader to build a Community Centre in Metro Toronto with his hard work, ingenuity and persistence.

Rick already bought a 3 unit building for the Culture Philippines at Traders Blvd, which was the 1st Filipino Community Centre in Metro Toronto. He already made a down payment of $100,000 for the 5,000 sq. ft. facility. Plans for a theater, dance hall, meeting rooms and offices were already in place. Permits were already being processed.

But sometimes, fate and society are cruel to some leaders and heroes. The Katipunan executed Andres Bonifacio, ironically the organization he founded. Benigno Aquino was murdered on his return to the Philippines. His own people betrayed and crucified Christ.

Our crab mentality sometimes shows its ugly claws to pull down and devour potential great leaders - Dr. Jun de Villa, Tony Archangel and Rick Torres etc.

History however is kind to them who have consecrated their lives in the service of the Filipino people without compensation. Time proves their greatness and clears their names. And the community realizes their great contributions. They are missed, and their virtues and contributions cited.

As the martyred Benigno Aquino said when he was being court marshaled for treason by the Marcos dictator, “Today, you are the judges, tomorrow, history will judge you.”

Rick Torres and his family suffered humiliation. He was hailed in court and accused of misuse of public funds. He lost his show at Rogers’s television, which brought visibility to the mainstream of our talents and other minorities.

Court proved Rick Innocent

The court case against Rick dragged on for almost 5 years.  Financial and emotional toll on him and his family seemed insurmountable. He had to spend his own money to prove his innocence. In the process, he went financially bankrupt and lost his already paid off home. In the end though, truth always triumphs – Rick Torres was cleared of all charges! Time and history vindicated Rick Torres and his good name.

Innocent until proven guilty!  Well, not with some Filipinos, especially those who envied Rick Torres and tried to grab power and glory by destroying his reputation.   They went to the extent of holding a very questionable election when Rick and Fely, his wife, were away on their wedding anniversary. And then, in May 1996, they filed a court injunction for Rick Torres and the incumbent officers to turn over all properties to them. As expected the judge ruled against the group citing the irregularity of the concluded elections, virtually making them usurpers. This ruling further proved Rick’s innocence.

His family and friends know how much sacrifice Rick did. He worked 7 days a week 16 hours a day focused on one goal, to give the Community a Centre. He did not have much time for his children and wife. During the court case, his lovely daughters vowed never to get involved with our ungrateful Filipino community ever again. In dismay and frustration Rick aid, “Maybe we don’t really deserve a community centre.”

The Culture Philippines Centre bank accounts were frozen. Rick till tried to save the building with bake sales, barbecue sales, etc. but the court sessions dragged on far too long. The building was foreclosed and the down payment of $100,000 was gone too! All the Bingo licenses were cancelled and bank accounts frozen. Up to now, around $60,000 is still frozen. This is how we damaged the community. The irony is that the people who did this to him are proclaimed heroes and are awarded with control of two of the most known organizations in Mississauga.

A brilliant man

His creative genius in raising funds is way above all of us. He knew how to use the system and where to seek funds. With the help of only a handful of Filipinos, he was able to raise with his charities a total of $700,000 in 2 years. Compared to how we are raising funds today, nay wasting funds, we are nobodies.

The incident showed how low some of us would go to pull down our own people who rise above us and whom we envy. It showed how dirty the community politics we play and how power hungry some people are. We hope we learned our lesson in that tragedy.

Rick’s nature is to trust people. He always says, “You earn trust by trusting others”. But the very same people who signed lease agreements between the Culture Philippines of Ontario and the Culture Philippines Centre making it legal to use bingo proceeds for the fruition of our dream, were the same people who went to ministry anyway and alleged that Rick was misusing the funds. They thought the investigation would only affect Rick; and since it would be a long process, they would take over and continue what Rick started and claim all the credit for it. Wrong.

Now that he was cleared of all the charges, it is our duty to resurrect this man and restore his noble place among us, if he still sees any nobility in associating with us.

Who is Rick Torres?

While we find it almost impossible to raise funds, Rick Torres found an easy way to make hundreds of thousands from bingo and fund raising concerts. He raised and donated $200,000 for Mississauga Valley Hospital (now Trillium) and $50,000 to Credit Valley through C.S.Hospital Fundraising Group of Mississauga and Multicultural Community Fund Raising for hospitals, which he founded.

Ric and a few Filipinos in Mississauga worked hard to have some streets be named Luzon, Manila gate and Pilcom.

Some of his awards from the Canadian Government are: Lescarbot 1993 Volunteer Award from the Ministry of Communications for outstanding volunteer service in heritage retention and sharing through the arts; Canada 125 Commemorative Medal from the Governor General in recognition of significant contribution to compatriots, community and to Canada; Prime Minister’s Special Appreciation for the Candlelight Vigil for the World Summit for Children and for World Christmas for UNICEF; Cable Ten Awards as Producer of the Year and Most Outstanding Contribution; Canadian Citizenship Award, Ministry of Multiculturalism and Citizenship; Outstanding Lion Award; Ten Year Volunteer Award, Ontario Ministry of Citizenship & Culture; Most Outstanding Service, Peel Multicultural Council; and Volunteer Award, United Way Campaign.

He founded the Culture Philippines of Ontario, Horizontal Multiculturalism Movement and Canadian Spectrum Multicultural Community Group whose aims are the sharing of cultures through community involvement, media and performing arts participation.

Rick staged, directed, wrote, promoted, or performed in the following fund raising shows: To Share Our Culture; Sayaw Awit ’86; Let there be Peace; Reflections; The King & I; Fiddler on the Roof; Anne of Green Gables; The Miracle Worker’ World Christmas; at various Theaters for the Credit Valley Hospital, Mississauga Hospital and St. Joseph Health Centre, Foodpath, Unicef and Sightfirst, Lions International and also of “Operation 26” a Telethon for the Mississauga Hospital.

He was a Founding Charter Vice-President of the Mississauga Cooksville Lions Club; Founding Chairman, Peel Children Multicultural Festival; Founding Vice-Chairman and Pavilion Coordinator of CARASSAUGA; Co-Founder, Pilipino Community of Mississauga to which the street Pilcom was named after.

Rick organized and conducted Educational Workshops among ethnic parents and educators to bridge cultural and generation gap.

He was producer, director and host of Canadian Spectrum TV & Radio – CHIN, 1540 AM and Rogers Cable, “Spotlight”, “Youth Forum”, “Expressions” at TV 10.

He was United Way Volunteer Board Development Training Facilitator and Vice-President of Peel Multicultural Council. He was also Conference Speaker in Cable TV Programmers, Pembroke; Multiculturalism & the Media, Thunder Bay; and Racial Harmony in Oakville.

He took Broadcast Technician at George Brown College, BS Chemistry and Bachelor of Arts (Communication) at the University of San Carlos in Cebu.

His expertise are in organization & management, marketing & public relations, fundraising, producing, staging & directing theatrical & television shows; media & performing arts workshop facilitator; radio/television technical & creative production; playwright/artistic director and in the performing arts (acting, singing, dancing, directing, etc.). He is also a keynote & resource conference speaker.

We are humbled by his awards and accomplishments, if we compare our achievements or none achievements. No wonder, so many people are jealous of him.                

It is time we resurrect this man and give him back his honor and dignity. Those who betrayed, persecuted and crucified this great and noble man should have the nerve and decency to say, “We are sorry.”  But only a few of us have the courage to admit our mistakes and swallow our pride. Hopefully, this Holy Week, they will be bothered by their conscience. And may our community who benefited from his work bestow on Rick the honors that he deserves. We need more of this rare breed of leader. 

(Comment on article) Resurrect or recollect? by Roger Torreno, Editor’s notes & thoughts (Likha newspaper)

In the Manila Media Monitor, March 2002 issue, page 6, is an article by Rodel Ramos entitled “Time to resurrect Rick Torres.” In this article Rodel attempts to resurrect Rick Torres, a community leader who laid low because he was questioned about organizational assets several years ago.

In Rodel’s effort, however, instead of helping his subject, he aggravated his situation. Presently, Rick has retreated from the community scene and he is in the process of gathering pieces of his shattered ego. He could still be hurting, but surely he is in a transitional state of peace and quiet. Now comes Rodel opening up the can of worms that has long been buried and free all over against those “jealous leaders” and those “whom he (Rick) loved and worked all his life to serve, (who) betrayed and crucified him.” For all we know, these people might already be in the process of healing and forgetting, too, and Rodel is once again waking them up.

Rodel likened the fate of Rick Torres to that of Andres Bonifacio, Benigno Aquino, and Jesus Christ. By this comparison, is he helping the cause of Rick Torres?

Again, he cited that “Rick was able to raise with his charities a total of $700,000 in two years” without enumerating the charities where this money went. People tend to ask, “Where did the money go?” In so doing, Rodel is subjecting Rick again to questions, even from those who have never heard of this story before.

Let me put something straight. The part where Rodel wrote that “one of the legacies of Rick Torres for the Filipinos in Canada are the streets in Mississauga named Luzon, Manila Gate and Pilcom, he and a few Filipinos worked hard for these: is a magnified turn-around of credit. The fact is that Nonoy Pacis, the husband of then Pilcom Chairperson Dr. Lydia Pacis, Pilcom president Ding Tesoro, and his vice, Geopo Dacanay led Pilcom and worked towards this project, not Rick Tores, by giving a massive backing to the candidacy of then Larry Taylor who later repaid by seeing to it that these streets come out in Mississauga. Rick Torres then was chairman of the Multi-cultural Committee that was only a part of the bigger Pilcom.

Rodel’s intention for Rick is laudable, but the adjectival praises was in a blown out proportion and his timing to resurrect is off and too early. Did he put this out because he has other intentions other than help Rick? If the answer is yes, he is missing his intended target and aggravated the position of Rick with fuzzy rhetorcs.

When Rodel made an effort to clarify Dr. Jun de Villa’s position with regards to the San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre debacle, I consider that as a good move. It is proper as Dr. de Villa continued to participate and donate his services and money towards something that is good for the whole Filipino community in spite of frustrations he encountered in the hands of other Filipinos. He did not retreat, in fact, he persevered that today he is helping out again through the Filipino Centre of Toronto (FCT).

In Rick Torres’ case, it could have been better if Rodel left the embattled Rick in peace, for now.

There are times when resurrection is better left to Jesus Christ alone!

6. Rodel’s response on the comment of Roger Torreno Sir Roger Torreno,Editor, Likha Newspaper 

Here is my response to your comments on my Rick Torres article. Hope you will publish it too.

Some people cannot really resist the temptation of kicking someone who is down, isn’t it? You should walk a mile in Rick’s shoes before judging his withdrawal from the community after he was accused.

He did not totally hide. He was partly responsible for promoting the popular Chick-Kulits that sang at Ed Marvish birthdays, the Liberal Party celebrations and a lot of community concerts. He worked also with Ora singing group, whose video were shown at Much Music TV, its CD’s were played in radio stations all over Canada. Ora was nominated at the Juno, the most prestigious music award in Canada. Both groups excelled and brought pride to the community. Rick worked behind the scene training these groups with Clemente Cabillan but claimed no credits. 

He devoted his time organizing and training a church choir, holding concerts and raising funds for that church. He just avoided publicity. And he has to focus on earning a living to pay for his court cases. Rick has to make up for the time he lost neglecting his family. What do you expect a guy to do in his situation?

I did not totally credit Rick with the 3 streets in Mississauga named after the Philippine places. You admitted that he was one of them. Rick at that time has the most influence because of his TV show, Canadian Spectrum at Rogers and his donations to Charity. All the big names in Mississauga knew his influence including the Mayor Hazel McCallion. Remove half of the achievements and contributions of Rick Torres and he will still be greater than most of us.

I compared Rick to Bonifacio, Aquino and Jesus because they were all persecuted by their own people not to show that Rick was perfect. No one among us is perfect. You should look at the sins of those who throw stones at Rick, I am sure their sins are equal if not worst.

The unforgivable crime is the destruction of our dream of a Filipino Centre and the lost of trust to our leaders as a result of this case. Rick did not do that. It was people who envied him and wanted to grab the glory of what he has established. You never mentioned this crime against the community. Do you condone this act?

 

When people put their ambitions above the interest of the community, they have crossed the line. More so when they pull down somebody just to be there.

You called my article untimely? We waited for a decade for those who pulled down and replaced him to achieve just a fraction of what Rick has achieved. They failed. Shall we wait another decade for a great leader?

You questioned my intention in writing the article. People have lost trust on our leaders because of past cases. Someone has to unearth and expose the other side. Rick’s story has never been explained and his achievements, talents and contributions never mentioned. He was simply painted as a culprit.

 

We have to learn from those mistakes and bring back the faith and trust of our people. We cannot achieve anything great as a community without it. A people without faith in themselves and their own race are doomed to be servants forever and ever.

 

And we needed a leader with the talents, vision and drive of Rick Torres. I do not see any of the present leaders with such experience and talents as this man. Do you? That was my intention, nothing else. What do I gain personally writing it? I do not write anything personal. It is simply my burning desire to uplift our people to greatness. I know you share that feeling too.

 

7.  It is easy to destroy by Rodel J. Ramos

 

We never learn or have a short memory. It was only a decade ago when we pulled down Culture Philippines which had already bought two units in Mississauga for a Centre. Their money was frozen by the Canadian Government and the Charity Bingo which was the source of their income was stopped. They lost that building unable to pay the mortgage after a down payment of $150,000.

 

Then we also destroyed San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre by spreading rumors of anomalies. The court case that followed cost both sides $17,000 each and more than 5 years wasted. Now it is the Filipino Centre Toronto we want to pull down. Silayan was taken over by another group and Culture Philippines is in the news again with two of their leaders claiming the presidency. Even the most honorable Knights of Rizal has been shaken by the manipulation of a few. When are we going to stop destroying our community? Who profits from this? Para bang mga asong gutom na nagpapatayan sa kapirasong boto. This also reminds me of little children fighting for a toy.

It is easy to destroy. It only takes a match to burn a house, an atom bomb to destroy a city like Hiroshima and Nagasaki of more than 300,000 in a few seconds, a crazy leader like Hitler to kill 6 million Jews. It just takes a rumor to wreck a community’s trust or a person’s reputation and dignity especially where people love to intrigue and gossip yet seldom seek the truth. It takes decades even centuries to build something concrete. It takes many years to grow a tree but only a few minutes to cut it down. It also takes decades for a child to grow into adulthood but it will only take a bullet or a knife to kill him/her. Any idiot can cause destruction.

 

When you are a destroyer of dreams, what will you say to your children, “I destroyed the dream of our people?” Your children will find you crazy. In time, you will be forgotten like all the Judases of history condemned by most including your children. 

 

 How can a people work together without trust of its leaders? What can we accomplish without trust and faith? That is what we do when we leave doubt on the integrity and honesty of our people without solid proof. “Faith as a small as a mustard seed can move mountains”, Christ said.  This is the reason why while other ethnic communities are conquering the world, we are just conquering each other.

 

When you try to destroy others, they will get their revenge some other day. All our time will then be consumed fighting, defending and destroying each other. We will not have time to build. And that is what is happening to this community. Every time someone built something, someone or a few wrecks it. To think that our time on earth is short, why waste it on destroying each other and our community?

 

No one is perfect and we will always find a fault to criticize in any person. All of us have our weaknesses and skeleton in the closet. Even their good sides can be turned into something bad by gullible people.

 

Many times, friends become worst enemies because of this destructive tendency of our people. Of course there are no permanent friends or permanent enemies, just permanent interest. But these are wasted relationship. And yet they are all wonderful people.

 

In our community, a lot of enemies spend all their time planning their revenge and all their energies, time and money are spend in their battles. Sometimes, this animosity is passed on to their children and grand children. What a waste of talents and lives.

 

The worst thing is that while we are discriminated against by the mainstream, we discriminate against each other. It is like in a war, the enemy is shooting you and your people are stabbing you at the back. No wonder we never win our battles. We have to watch all fronts.

There are a few people who find enjoyment in the misery of others. Perhaps some were born to destroy. But these people should work for wrecking companies instead of the community. May bayad pa sila. There is no glory in destroying your community. You are just shooting yourself in the foot and at the end, it will also consume you. It is this habit of ours to pull down those who achieve better that put us all below instead of pulling each other up. It is also the reason why it took up more than 30 years before we can built a community centre.

All of these came from bruised egos. Sobra na kasi ang pagtingin ng ilan sa atin sa sarili nila. Akala nila mga diyos na sila. Ngayon, nagdemandahan pa. Sige, mag-ubusan kayo ng yaman. Who will win in the end? It will be your lawyers. Sana ibigay na lang ninyo sa community iyon. Magpapasalamat pa ang mga tao.

Don’t make mountains out of anthills. We should be doing greater things than fighting each other. Of course we know you all have good intentions. But even the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

There is something fundamentally wrong with our leaders’ attitude that’s the reason why our people no longer support our initiatives or trust us. But this usually happens to former colonies. We are like robots programmed to self destruct when we seek freedom. We become like our former masters.

Be careful therefore when spreading a rumor or gossip unless you have evidence to support it. You might be destroying the dreams of our people and that includes yours.


Posted by Rodel Ramos at 6:27 PM EDT
Updated: Monday, 15 September 2008 6:56 PM EDT
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Sunday, 14 September 2008

Now Playing: Traditions Questioned
Topic: Tradition

Traditions Questioned

1. Gift Giving by Rodel J. Ramos               

In my search for greatness for our people, I have tried to analyze everything we do, think and say. I went back to our past, our community, organizations, attitudes, character and values compared them with successful ethnic groups to find out why we are behind even with Indonesia and Malaysia. “You are what you take” said Bo Sanchez.                

We have to know what are our strength and weaknesses, what can motivate us to greatness and why we succeed as individuals but fail as a community, as a nation.               

Today, let us question traditions. Many still cling to century old traditions and are proud of them. Of course there are good ones but we must admit that some hinder our progress.               

There is that inertia, the tendency of matter to resist change until a strong force changes its course. That is why there is a need to form that strong force among ourselves to create the needed change.               

Businesses corporations always assess the progress of any project to see whether they are on goal. Our community was never assessed and only a few notice that we are just running in circle like a chicken without a head.               

Everybody seems so busy organizing picnics, parties, cultural activities but no one questions where these activities lead us. What benefits do we get from them? Perhaps it is time to stop and analyze the significance of these activities to our goals and progress as a people. We must even question if we have a common goal at all or are we just doing things without thinking of its effects and consequences. Are we complementing each other or just duplicating, competing or opposing what others do.               

In business, because labor is expensive and time is of importance, they become more goal oriented and plan their activities to increase productivity, reduce cost, time, efforts and manpower. Since we are all volunteers, we waste too much time in meetings and talking and because most of us are not trained in our task we make too many mistakes.               

One of the hot topics we discuss in gatherings is giving gifts. Our traditional way is buying something which we think the other person needs or want. It is a guessing game. Many times the receiver already has the same item or does not need it. Sometimes, a lot of people bring the same gift and they end up having so many of one item and the recipient would never use them later. Sometimes the items are not appreciated and end up in some corner, never used or are given away on other occasions.

Sometimes, it is very practical to give money instead of gifts. It is more appreciated and most people need money. The receiver can buy what ever he/she wants with it. There is no waste and they are most thankful. Perhaps they can save it to buy more expensive items which they would cherish and keep for years to come.

The young who are mostly brainwashed to buy designer clothing do not appreciate nor wear what we give them. Sometimes our style is different from the new fashion or they don’t really need what you gave. Thinks ends up just in the closets gathering dust and will just be given to Salvation Army or be out of fashion.

There are a few among us who see this wasteful tradition especially among those who has practically almost everything specially the older generations. And a few knowing that most guests bring in gifts notify their guest to just give money so that they can buy what they really need.

However, some of us are offended by this saying it is in bad taste and out of tradition. But who started this tradition and for what reason? Perhaps it was good during the olden days when people in the barrios and small towns who are poor do not have much and what ever you give them was used or needed. People’s wants were simple. But today, things have changed and there are so many things we need and want.

Let us therefore adapt to the times and welcome the suggestions or wish of people who are having birthdays, weddings, baptism, Christmas, and many more occasions. Nobody among us wish our gifts to just sit in a corner of the house and never used at all. But that is what always happens with our old tradition that some of us refuse to change. Let us be practical and modern. 

2. Our famous hospitality by Rodel J. Ramos               

Of all the ethnic groups in North America, the Filipinos are the most lavish when it comes to preparing food for our guest. Most of our parties have at least 10 kinds of dishes excluding desserts and drinks. The party is not complete without pansit. We have litchon, adobo, kare kare, minudo, dinuguan, pinakbet and many others. If we don’t have time to cook we simply order from restaurants or caterers to add to our specialties.               

Caucasians are amazed at our hospitality. We have so much food that we even expect our guest to take home some “pabaon” (take home). Do we want to show off that we are rich or that we can afford? Has it become a competition among our people? Nakakahiya kung kakaunti ang handa mo, baka mapintasan pa ng iba. Is this not a big waste of food, money, time, and efforts? There are so many poor in this world and yet we are wasting so much. Don’t we end up poorer than others this way?               

Our children who grew up in Canada don’t appreciate this lavish preparation and we have to cook their spaghetti, hot dogs and burgers on top of all these handa.                Compare this with Canadian parties where they only have finger foods (carrots, celery, etc.) wine, fruits and cheese. And if it is a garden party they have hot dogs and hamburgers.               

And so our guests are spoiled with our tradition. We now compete with each other on who has the most to serve or who is the better cook. If someone prepares less than 10 dishes, especially without pansit, you will hear all kinds of criticism. Sometimes, we don’t even appreciate the efforts of the host.               

And of course, the best plate and utensils displayed in our “aparador” and are only used for special guests are used.               

And then after so many parties, we wonder why we are all growing sideways and front. We are puzzled why many of us have beer belly including our women who don’t drink beer. Why so many of us have high blood pressure, stroke, heart disease, diabetes and many other ailments as a result of our gluttony and too much partying. And then we spend thousands of dollars in diet clinics, exercise machines, surgeries and make ups to hide our fats.               

What makes it worse is we are not taught to exercise by our parents and teachers in school. Our women were warned not to because they might lose their virginity.                Obesity is now our number one problem in the community. While in the Philippines people die of malnutrition and poverty. Here, our people are killing themselves with over eating without exercise. We find out that there are more diseases from too much food than being poor.               

Our children spend more time in front of the computer and TV playing video games. No more running outdoors. Combine this with fatty and junk foods and you can predict that most of our children will suffer more diseases and die younger than us.               

But we can’t resist it. Nakakahiya kung hindi tayo pumunta sa party ni kumara. Nagpakahirap maghanda iyon. At magagalit kung hindi tayo kumain ng husto.                And then we and our children are bombarded by advertisements on TV, radio and newspapers. Food is so cheap the rich and poor can afford it.               

Unlike in the Philippines where the sun is hot and we perspire almost every day, here we don’t especially during winter. The toxins and fats are retained by our bodies. We were used to eating more vegetables, fish and fruits because meat is so expensive. Here we have more meat which is bad for the body.                

So, we have to rethink this tradition and perhaps change it to something that would lessen the damage to us and our community before we die of over eating or is it gluttony? There was a time when gluttony was a sin. But a friend said, “Hindi bali na, at least hindi nila masasabing namatay sa gutom, sa sakit ng mayaman.” 

3. We brought fiestas with us by Rodel J. Ramos               

In the 1960’s the late Senator Raul Manglapus, the Don Quixote of Philippine politics wrote a book “Revolt against Tradition”. He blamed the Fiesta as one of our many traditions that chained our people to poverty. Raul said that the poor is pressured by society to borrow money even if they can’t afford it, just to feed their visitors because of “hiya” (shame). Then, they work the whole year just to pay off their debts.               

The festivities start with Masses the whole day in Church, dancing during the eve of the Fiesta with coronation of the Queens and Kings and their princesses. These beauty contests are sometimes called money contest because the winners are judged by their donations.                

Of course families and friends use this as a reunion. The people are forced to raise poultry, goats and cows months in advance for the celebration.               

The Spanish conquerors started this tradition to keep us entertained and busy so that we would not think of rebelling against their oppression, poverty, and sufferings of the people. Now we call it tradition and nobody wants to question or stop it.The Church of course profited from these Fiestas with the sponsorship and donations from businesses and wealthy Indios whom they threaten with hell fire if they don’t give to the Church. Every barrio has a patron saint and these folks usually have their baptism, confirmation and weddings during these Fiestas. The government profit from taxes and licenses.

Traders love the Fiesta because they make a killing in sales of their products and services. Think about the hundreds of chicken, pigs, cows and goats and the thousands of fish slaughtered for these festivities. Tons and tons of vegetables, fruits and desserts for consumed during these occasions.At the end of the 2 day celebration, most of the people don’t have money but the Church and business people go home with their profits.

It was during the ‘70’s that we started to revolt against this tradition. Many believed it was impossible to stop the Fiesta. We proved them wrong in St. Joseph Parish, Quezon City around Project 2, 3 and 4. During those years of recession, people were feeling the hardship, and many lost their jobs. We asked our Parish Priest to celebrate the Fiesta only in Church and spare the people of the agony. He refused.

I lead a group of young people and we went around the parish asking them to sign a petition to hold the Fiesta only in Church. We brought the thousands of signatures to the Priest and he had a high blood pressure that night. The people told their friends and relatives that there was no Fiesta that year. That is how we ended one of the most lavish Fiestas which clogged the streets with visitors and vehicles. We proved that we can stop tradition               

We brought this fiesta tradition abroad with our penchant for parties and we waste millions to entertain our guest and have a good time. With the many Filipino organizations, those who can’t refuse invitations go to parties almost every weekend. It is estimated that if you go to these parties, you will spend from $3,000 to $5,000 a year not counting the cost of dresses, make ups, gasoline, and shoes. Some use it to show off that they have made it, or just show off their new dresses, jewelries, cars and make ups.

But others just love to dance and have a party. Many disguise this as fund raising. I call it fund wasting because organizers only make from 10% to 15% of what you spend. If you include your efforts in selling tickets and other activities, you don’t really make money. But at least you enjoyed the party.               

If you count the money spend on these parties, it is millions of dollars and would be enough to build a community centre every year or make a million homes for the poor in the Philippines if you donate it to Gawad Kalinga. You can claim it as tax deduction too. But who is brave enough to stop wasteful traditions? Even if you tell people that there is no future in that tradition, they still want to continue.


Posted by Rodel Ramos at 11:01 PM EDT
Updated: Sunday, 14 September 2008 11:09 PM EDT
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Now Playing: A Path to a Better Community
Topic: Comm., A Better Path

A path to a better community by Rodel J. Ramos 

(Rodel has 45 years of business, community, student and religious organization experiences and has a BS Business Administration, major in management, marketing and promotion. The article is from 30 years of participation and observation of the Filipino Community in Metro Toronto, Canada.) 

1. Visionaries and architects needed by Rodel J. Ramos            

Every great civilizations and communities have visionaries, architects and builders who planned, and led their people to greatness. America is not the most powerful nation on earth without its great forefathers who built a strong foundation and guided its future. Japan would still be in ruins from World War II if not for the vision and guidance of its leaders. Israel, a desert nation with so little resources, surrounded by its enemies stands strong because of the vision, discipline, determination and dedication of its leaders and people.           

Egypt and the Incas had their great architects and builders for their pyramids. Singapore, a small state in Asia progressed because its leader engineered its progress. Las Vegas, a desert became a city because of the visions of its builders. All the marvels of civilization were made by progressive and visionary individuals.           

All these countries learned from their past and the success of others. Some send their best minds to progressive countries, gathered ideas and technologies, trained their skills and talents and planned their future.            

These great civilizations were not built by one person but a group of experts and probably thousands to implement their projects.           

Ordinary people built ordinary things. Great architects create great communities. We must remember this. Of course everybody can learn a trade or a profession but it takes years of study and experience to be a specialist in them.           

When we are sick, we go to a doctor. In fact, we see a specialist when serious. We hire an architect and experienced builders to construct our houses. Yet when it comes to our community, we do not even check qualifications and expertise. We take whoever volunteers or elect the most popular. We assume that they know. Added to this, we discuss everything among members even if they know nothing about the topic. There are too many cooks and it spoils the broth. This, I believe is where we went wrong.            

There are great talents in our community but each one has his/her own expertise and limitations. God saw to it that no one can master everything. We have to realize and accept this human limitation. He is a jealous God and he is afraid of someone taking his place.         

There are too many self proclaimed experts in our midst and we just accept their words for it without checking their credentials. And because talk is cheap, anyone can claim to know everything. And we are not great judges of character and experience. Yet we can’t build a great community out of talks and egos. It is the reason why we make too many mistakes and repeat the same mistakes all over and over again.           

We have to identify and acknowledge these visionaries and true leaders with experience among us and ask them to lead us. Inspire and motivate them to volunteer their talents. Let us protect their integrity from the rumors and gossips of the community. Give them incentives to contribute their talents, resources and time.            

It’s just like when we want to build a 20 story building. We gather the architects, draftsmen, civil, electrical, mechanical engineers, masons, and carpenters, suppliers of materials, builders, financiers, managers and construction people. You also need people who will promote and market the buildings. They have to be well trained and experienced.           

Let these experts and specialists create a goal for us; identify the talents and resources needed, conceptualize on how to attain those goals, the structures, finances and technology required and map how we will get there.  If we want to achieve greatness, let our experts plan and implement their vision. We can not let ordinary mortals plan our future. Let us gather positive, progressive, liberal minds that have a great vision for our people and let them plan and implement their ideas.                        

Sometimes we can not fathom their ideas, we think they are too ambitious, egoistic or crazy but they know what they are talking about because that is their expertise. We ordinary mortals must have faith and trust in them and support them in what they need.           

Let us offer them incentives and protect their integrity from malicious people who has nothing to do but destroy our dreams and ambitions. Let us respect, honor them and give them a place in our hearts and in history. This is the only way we can attract the best among us to volunteer in our community.  

2. Leadership training a must by Rodel J. Ramos            

 Join any company and no matter how good you are, they will let you undergo some sort of orientation – about the company, the products, the people, your duties and responsibilities, rules and regulations, code of ethics, culture and values and an on the job training. You are considered temporary until you pass the three months probation.           

They emphasize the importance of training, teamwork, leadership, focus on the goals, and your role in the whole team.           

Later, you will have seminars or forums to continue your education, and exchange of knowledge. All these are for the improvement of your job and attainment of the goals of the company. The company reports on its progress, and measures it against its goals and discusses problem and how to improve.           

If you are in sales, motivation seminars to keep you positive in attitude and spirit are almost daily. An assessment of the performance of the sales team is part of these seminars. You study market share, present practices, competition, market trends, advantages of your product, etc. The learning is endless.           

All these educational process and training is important for the achievement of the goals of the company, increasing productivity, sales and profits and moral of the work force.           

Compare this with our community. There is almost no training especially on leadership. The last leadership training I remember was more than 23 years ago sponsored by Alice Edano when I was new in Toronto. We always assume that everybody knows what they are doing or that things are so simple. This is one of the reasons why we make so much mistakes, waste so much time, money and energies and get mediocre results. Many astray from the goals while most companies always remind workers to be goal oriented. Others stick with traditional activities and policies that hinder creativity, innovation, productivity and progress itself. Mention leadership training to our officers and members and they get offended and say, “Ano ako, tanga?” But ask them if they know the basics, they will evade the questions.           

Many of our organizations run in circles, repeating the same mistakes all over and over again. Our democratic way of selecting officers without pre-qualification is the main reason why we need leadership training. Business has a selection process of written test and interviews. We do not select the best qualified but who is the most popular, the loudest, the good looking guy, etc. They need training and orientation.           

There is no communication among organizations. Everybody is on their own. They are doing it the hard way. Others just don’t want to have a joint project with others. They do not trust each other. They believe they can do it better (Bilib sa sarili). Sometimes, it is personal egos and personality conflicts. Some say, everyone wants to be the leader.           

We went to school for 4 to 10 years to study and excel in our professions after grade school and high school. And we know the importance of education and knowledge to excel. Why do we refuse to have leadership training when we have seen the results of our negligence? Are we satisfied with what we have achieved as a community for the past 30 years?           

We need to know why we succeed as individuals yet fail as a community. Education is important for a people to succeed. There is so much to study. Attitude is important in the success or failure of a person or a community. We must understand the mindset of our people, how they can be motivated and inspired. What their strength and weaknesses are. The basics of creative problem solving, parliamentary rules, group discussion, are vital. The basics of management and leadership – planning, finance, marketing, supervision and control, etc. should be learned. Public relations and public speaking, the secret of success of great men, communities and nations is a must so that we can at least equal their achievements or emulate them. If we think that success can come easily without sacrifice and learning, think again.           

Have you ever wondered why we act and react the way we do? Why we are so sensitive to criticism yet insensitive to the feeling of others?             

Unless we recognize the value of leadership training and education, we will always be mediocre, running in circles and waste too much time, money, resources, and energies. This is one of the ingredients missing in our quest for success. But who is willing to learn when we all think we are already great?  

3. Assessment needed by Rodel J. Ramos            

We have been active as a community for more than 30 years. It is time to pose for a moment and reflect on what we have achieved as a community, as organizations and as individuals. Have we maximized our potentials as a people?           

In business, there is an assessment after every project or at the end of the year whereby every department render a report on what they have accomplished, how they did it, where they failed, what went wrong, and how they can improve their productivity, save on time, money and materials. Also, how they can motivate their people to be achievement oriented. This is standard operating procedure (SOP) in well managed organizations. This is not to point blame or accuse those responsible but to improve the systems. Their evaluation is always measured with their goals.           

A people who do not learn from their mistakes will surely repeat them. And that exactly is what is happening to or community and organizations. Some are just running in circles going nowhere. Many of us however have gotten used to it and are in fact happy with it. It has become tradition and we have to continue them to kingdom come. In this case, tradition becomes the hindrance for progress.           

The first question that is asked for the goal oriented groups are: “Have we achieved our goals?” Where did we succeed? Where did we fail? How can we improve next time?           

As a community, how much have we achieved? In spite of big population, the Tamils, East Timorese, Vietnamese and Thai Landers have more accomplishments. We have the most number of organizations, more than 350 of them excluding the religious and sports groups. The truth is we are the most active ethnic group. Yet we can show nothing much in achievements. We only have a few solid legacies.           

We should look around for better models. Let us measure ourselves with other communities who are not as active yet get millions of donations for their projects from their communities, the government and private industries. Let’s research and find out how they do it and adapt their techniques. These are already proven techniques. Sometimes, it is only a matter of ideas and systems. Or it might be a matter of orientation and education.           

If we are not attaining our goals or not achieving much, there is something wrong with what we are doing or how we do it.           

Is it not time we evaluate if we are doing things right? It is like digging gold where there is no gold. If we are in the right direction, why have we not achieved much? Should we not redirect our energies to more worthwhile things? We should gather all our organizations and have an evaluation session.            

Where are we going? In a community which has the “kanya kanya” and sometimes the crab mentality, it is difficult to progress. All of us are competing for the money of our people. Many have the same goals. Have you observed that sometimes, there are five parties in one weekend? Is it not about time we prioritize, communicate and coordinate and have joint projects?            

Our community is getting bigger and problems are getting more complicated. We can not just hide them under the carpet pretending that they don’t exist. It will one day explode in our faces just like the Jeffrey Reodica case. We only act when it is our family that is affected.            

We do not have even an umbrella group addressing the problems of our people. The PIDC and Kalayaan are just for celebration of our Independence and promoting our culture. What about addressing racial and sex discrimination, high taxes, staggering cost of education, benefits for seniors, healthcare, the problems of caregivers, drugs, domestic violence, our youth, unemployment and under-employment, the problems of our businessmen, etc.? Are we just good for good times and when our people have problems, bahala na kayo? What kind of friend or kababayan is that? No wonder, not too many people are involved with the community. It offers nothing but waste the money of its people in parties.           

Of course we document our parties and gala nights with souvenir programs and try to show off that we have the best parties. Someone said that we just document our mediocrity. What glory do you have in parties? Anyone can set up a party. It is like the fiestas we have celebrated for centuries that have sunk our people to poverty.            Observe that most organizations think of fund raising to achieve their goals. Yet the way we do it waste too much money and they just break even or make 10% to 15%. If you put value to the time, money, efforts of the officers and members preparing for that event, it is really a lost. Is it not better to ask people for donations and put all the money in the project instead of paying hotels, banquet halls, restaurants, disc jockeys thousands of dollars?            

Some people say, Filipinos do not give without getting something in return and they are used to parties as a means of fund raising. Well is it not high time that we explain to them that we are just wasting money and changing their attitude towards fund raising? We have already lost millions in this practice and people remain poor because of this. And nobody among us profits from it.           

Did our organizations spend too much time debating on issues and topics, sometimes arguing for hours on minute detail? How much time is given for debates? Many of us want to indulge in arguments to prove we are better than others or that they are wrong. Do not involve in discussions people who will not be participate in the implementation unless they are experts in that field. “Too many cooks spoil the broth.” Talk is cheap and if you listen to all the people who does not really know much on the project, it is disaster and a waste of time and money.           

We owe it to ourselves and our children to analyze where we are going, what we have done and how to do it better.   

4. A Question of Perception and Trust by Rodel J. Ramos            

Perception is everything. When people believe that you are a crook even if you are not, the trust is lost and it will be difficult if not impossible to bring that back. And no matter what you do, you are branded for life. It is the end of your ambition especially if you are in business, or politics.           

The lost of trust is the main cause of our lack of progress as a community, as a nation. Only a few wants to contribute to the community or a nation because they are afraid their money will be wasted, squandered or stolen by our leaders. You can’t blame the people. They have been victimized many times or have heard of stories of malversation, corruption or waste of money due to incompetence. Even if the story is proven false, the doubt still lingers. Added to this is the image of our Philippine government officials as corrupt. Our people overseas link us to them. Media also thinks that bad news is good news and they want their papers to sell, so they sensationalize scandals that eventually destroyed the faith of Filipinos to their own kind.           

Because of these stories and rumors, some of our people have already formed a bias against fellow Filipinos. You hear them say, “Basta Filipino, manluluko!” They would rather buy, invest or lend their money to Caucasians than their kababayan. It is not that Caucasians can be trusted more. Every nationality has their share of crooks. Even Christ had his Judas. We already convicted our people of being guilty before proven innocent. This has become a mindset of many of our people.           

There was a time when our people were perceived as honest. In the Chinese history books, they described an Island in the exact position of the Philippines and said that the people were so honest that they can leave their goods in any place and the people will never steal it. There were laws in placed where stealing was punished by cutting off a finger for first offense. It was the Spaniards who first taught us corruption. The position of Governor General was auctioned to the highest bidder. The Governor General therefore required each provincial governors and town mayors to pay for their privileges. Even the Church coerced parishioners to donate money and properties for the forgiveness of their sins. They also grabbed the best lands like what they did to Rizal’s lands in Calamba.           

If we do not trust our own people, who would buy our products and services? Who would invest on us? To make matters worst, we often tell others that Filipinos are not trustworthy? And when we destroy other Filipinos, we destroy our own image. Many times, foreigners trust us more than our own.           

The Jews help each other especially in business and politics. They buy from their own people; give them credit, discounts and lend them money to start a business. Chinese in the Philippines did the same to fellow Chinese. And because they support each other, they grew by leaps and bounds and now control the Philippine economy. They create high paying jobs for their people while we stagnate and compete in low paying jobs.            

Because we would rather go to mainstream and Chinese groceries, they get richer while we get poorer and poorer. Nothing goes back to our community and therefore to us. Then we wonder why most of us are poor.            

But our leaders are also to blame for this. They themselves spread rumors of other leaders as not trustworthy. And we believe them without proper investigation. We also do not confront those who start these gossips. And as Mao said, “A lie said a thousand times becomes the truth.”           

Are our people really crooks? Look at yourself in the mirror and ask that question, “Am I a crook?” Most of us are as honest as other people. The banks, lending institutions trust us with hundreds of thousands in mortgages and thousands on our master cards and visas. So, why is it that we can’t trust our fellow Filipinos? I am not asking blind trust. There is a way of knowing the credit standing of others by asking for references but most of us don’t because of “hiya”.           

It also comes from the lack of transparency and accountability among our leaders. There is no check and balance or controls of money in some of our organizations. Others simply don’t know how to account for their expenses. And when you don’t show any accounting, you open yourself to doubts and criticism.            

Some of us who go into partnership have no experience in business or partnership and are easily intrigued by others. When someone gossips that their partners are not trustworthy, they start doubting or become confrontational without investigating.             If we do not bring back the trust to our fellow Filipinos, we can never progress as a people because this is basic for business deals and relationship. The problem is how? This is not impossible to do. Other Filipino communities have done this. We only have to copy their examples or those of the Chinese and Jews. Unfortunately, many of us want to learn from bitter experience. 

5. Funding the Community by Rodel J. Ramos            

We all agree that a car can’t run without gas, a family can’t survive without food, shelter and clothing. A person denied of food will die, so also, a community can’t work without money.           

The Government can built great infrastructures, fund healthcare, education, hire hundreds of thousands of executives and employees because it gets more than 30% to 50% of our income via taxes.           

You ask some people to volunteer or give for the community, and you will hear them comment “Anong makukuha ko diyan?” If you do not work, you do not eat. If you don’t give anything, you can’t get anything in return. But many of us are still like small children used to being parasites on their parents, used to dole outs and they think the world owes them a living. They don’t have to contribute to get the benefits, to have the glory but not the hard work. Community building is not a spectator sport where you can just boo the loser and rally behind the winners but many do it.           

So, do we wonder why the community has not achieved much? Yes, we now have the Filipino Centre Toronto, the Markham Filipino Centre. Kalayaan Centre with funds from our success at the SkyDome is trying to have their own building. We have the Bayanihan housing in Brampton and the Sampaguita seniors’ home in Mississauga.           

We have achieved much for the caregivers and new immigrants. Some organizations gave to charity or helped their towns and provinces in the Philippines. But these are in spite of the apathy and indifference of most of our people. It is the sacrifice of a few unsung heroes who are sometimes suspected to pocket the money. They are overburdened and had sacrificed their families and financial ambitions to serve the community. Yet when they succeed, we all claim their achievements and are proud of them. When you have not contributed anything to a project or a cause, is it fair to claim credit for it?            

When the project is still beginning, only a few wants to work and you get all kinds of skeptical comments. When there is already money, people start to fight over it and even those who did not contribute think they have the right on it. “Pera ng Bayan iyan!” you can hear them shout. Anong Bayan? May Bayan ba kung kakaunti ang tumutulong? Kasama ka ba sa Bayan kung hindi ka nagbigay? There is no Filipino community in Toronto at all. We are just different groups claiming to represent the Filipinos as a community.           

We can achieve a lot if only more of us share the burden of community building in a bayanihan spirit. We have lots of concerns – in the field of social justice, education, youth, seniors, caregivers, new immigrants, child care, the sick, sports, etc. These are not addressed because we don’t have the money. We are treated unjustly by a racist system like what happened to Jeffrey Reodica murder case by the police, but because we don’t have the power and the money to fight back, there will be more of our children killed by the system and we can only cry silently in anger.           

Of course, our leaders are also to blame. A few were suspected to have squandered money of associations. And the jealous opponents spread unkind rumors. And because we love to gossip, we don’t investigate the truth. But did anyone take money from you? How much was taken? Did anyone get rich serving the community?           

In other ethnic communities, there are full time qualified managers to oversea operations and they are paid salaries. We only have volunteers who spend their time, own money and efforts in serving our kababayan. We should find a way to compensate them in some form and protect them from gossips. Even charity organizations pay their executives highly and spend up to 50% of donations. No wonder the most qualified shy away from serving the community. Sometimes, only those who have nothing to loose, the big egos and little dreamers fight for leadership.           

Our past leaders ruined the trust and faith of the people on other leaders including themselves. And when trust is lost, people will not give money at all. So, the problem is how to bring that trust back and motivate them to give. Transparency and accountability is important. Check and balance must be in place like in a real business organization.           

Our way of funding like having gala nights, dinner and dance, and concerts are too wasteful. We only make 10% to 15% of the gross. The rest of the money goes to food, rent, entertainment, music and other overheads.  If we factor in the efforts, time and money spend by the officers and members; we only break even. Project this into thousands of parties and when we make $1 million dollars, $900,000 goes to waste and only $100,000 is profit. This is not the way to do it. It is about time we tell our people the consequence of our traditional fund raising. That it is wasteful, tiresome, and requires too much manpower.

In a study, they found that if a couple goes to parties almost every week; they would spend $3,000 to $5,000 a year. And this does not include gas, car depreciation, party dresses, shoes and jewelries. It would be cheaper to just donate $1,000 each to a trust fund and we don’t have to work hard organizing those parties. Imagine, if only 1,000 of us donate $1,000 dollars each to the community, that is already $1 million. If we have 10,000 at $1,000 each, this is $10 million dollars. We can build or buy one community centre every year which will appreciate and make our money grow. We can own a bank, a chain of groceries, restaurants, department stores any many more businesses. Being owners, we get profits, discounts, work as executives and employees and are proud of owning businesses rather making others rich from our sweat and blood. But then, we would rather fight each other to become president of a small organization. That is why others call us the “tingi” mentality. Think of what we have missed as a community. This kind of idea is too ambitious and too mind bungling to us. And yet, a Loida Nicolas Lewis and many other successful Filipinos who already achieved this and can show us the way.           

Silayan, Kababayan, Intercede has gotten funding from the government via their programs. Gateway Centre in Mississauga bought a $1.8 million dollar Centre via private foundations. Their key is a Grant writer who knows where to get funding and what these groups want. The Filipino Centre Toronto got their initial funding from lottery raffles and the rest of the down payment of their $1.05 million building was lend by 6 board of directors. The building was recently assessed at $3 million after only two years.           

The most ideal of course is for all of us to contribute in a trust fund to address the concerns of our community, lobby for our benefit and support politicians who spouse our causes. But when are we going to mature as a people and to trust our community? Are we just going to suffer all kinds of discrimination in silence? We know that we can’t do it alone and has to have a community that will work for us instead of fighting our battles alone. We should fund our community. 

6. What Filipino Community? by Rodel J. Ramos            

For more than 30 years, Filipinos in Greater Toronto Area called themselves “Members of the Filipino Community”. Do we really understand the meaning of that word? Webster’s dictionary defines “community as a group of people who reside in a specific locality, share government and often have a common cultural and historical heritage.” It is true we have common cultural and historical heritage and reside in a specific locality but do we share a government? If we follow the strict definition, we do not have a Filipino community at all.            

Many of us refuse to be governed or share in the burden of government. We only have selfdoms just like our small tribes and regions that were easily conquered every time there are intruders in our land. Most do not get involved or share. Pang-sarili lamang ang karamihan sa atin. “Wala akong makukuha diyan”, “Magugulo ang mga iyan”, “Mag-aaksaya lang ako ng oras diyan”, “Sama lang ng loob ang makukuha mo diyan” some would say, yet when they need help, they come to the community or Filipino friends. There is little support, and therefore little benefits.           

There were millions of our people and only hundreds of invaders but because we were totally divided and not prepared for wars, we were conquered. Some even collaborated with the enemy.When are we going to learn from history? Do we content ourselves as a people without strength in spite of our 700,000 number in Canada unable to defend ourselves against stronger force, to be victims of bullies, abusers and an unjust system?  

Europe was many tribes’ centuries ago and when the hordes of the Roman Empire, Alexander the Great, Genghis Khan and even Hitler came, most of them fell. They learned their lessons, organized themselves into strong governments supported by the people and allied with other tribes and nations. They trained and prepared themselves for war and equip themselves with modern weapons because there will always be ambitious rulers who take advantage of the weaknesses of others. The Jews united because of the holocaust and now continue to contribute to their nation even if they are overseas.  

Filipinos all over the world should form their own umbrella governing bodies, contribute to a fund, and share in the responsibility, authority and the burden of community building. We should ally ourselves with other ethnic groups. We can’t just be spectators who rally behind the winning team and boo the losers. Some join small organizations to party and picnic disguised as fund raising projects. Other communities involve themselves in politics because they know the power and influence is there. They contribute to a common fund and fight for their concerns and needs. And because number is strength, they get what they want easier and faster. The government is afraid of their number and clout. They merge their resources and talents together and form corporations. And because they are also the market, they prosper faster than we do in our community model.            

If we do not contribute to the task, it is unfair to share from the benefits of the achievements, honor and glory of our people. But in spite of the indifference and apathy of so many, we were able to accomplish a lot, thanks to the sacrifice of a few who are overburdened with the many task of community building.            

They serve as volunteers donating their time, efforts and spending their own money. They should get paid and given other incentives and awards. Yet they are sometimes suspected of pocketing the money of organizations or maligned by some as if they are donating money to the organizations. We are slow in giving praise and lavish in criticism.           

When they achieve some accomplishments, so many wants to grab the glory or join the bandwagon. If you did not work for it, you have no business sharing that glory.       So, are you a member of a Filipino community or just a spectator or a critic? 

7. We need An Umbrella group by Rodel J. Ramos            

In Toronto, we have a grassroots network of more than 350 organizations. This does not include the religious groups like Couples for Christ and sports organization. While some of these were offshoot of the break up of some groups. This is not a sign of disunity as others claim. Without this network, it would be impossible to mobilize our people in a short time. We now only have to tap the leaders of these groups instead of talking to each one of the individual members.

To prove our point, we used this grassroots network to gather 35,000 people in 6 months at the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome (Rogers Center) in 1998. We rallied them to a common goal (mission and vision), gave them an organizational structure, something to be proud of and provided them leadership they could trust. We proved that Filipinos can unite as a people at least for a day. Our grassroots organizations were a great blessing which we do not appreciate and use.           

These organizations at the present time however have no common goals. Most do not communicate or coordinate with each other. They do not recognize a common leadership. They are completely separate from each other oblivious of the existence of other groups like the small tribes of our ancient past many times duplicating each other, most of the time competing for the same resources. And in this redundancy, we are wasting too much time, money, energies, talent and manpower.

Some organizations address valid concerns, needs and problems like the caregivers, new immigrants, seniors and youth. Quite a few are helping their provinces, towns and barrios. Others are in sports, religious, culture and arts. Many are just there to party or picnic pretending to raise funds for some charity but they spend more than they earn.           

We have two umbrella groups, the Kalayaan and the PIDC which were formed to celebrate our Philippine Independence. It promotes our culture, arts and talents mostly among ourselves. Of course our young have a training ground. They are able to gather a lot of organizations in their wings and have some communication, coordination, joint projects and common leadership. They are able to unite for a common cause. This proves that a national umbrella organization is feasible. We only have to focus their activities in more worthwhile projects.           

There was once upon a time a national organization of Filipinos which was able to get funding from Ottawa. It was led at one time by our beloved former Member of Parliament Rey Pagtakhan. But it was not so visible in Metro Toronto nor did it have an influence. I wonder where it is now.           

While we can exist and survive separately, we are not able to accomplish greater things. There are problems we can’t solve without the support of a greater base while there are things we will never agree on. We lack visibility with the mainstream. Canadian politicians and businesses take us for granted because they think that we can’t make a difference or deliver votes during election, business and other areas in spite of our more than 500,000 population all over Canada 300,000 of which are in Ontario. In the world of politics and business numbers count, the perception is that we are divided and therefore has no strength.           

We should recognize that our number is a potent force. It can make or break a political party in an election time. If 150,000 of us make a minimum of $15,000 a year, that is $2.25 billion dollars a year. With that money our buying power is gigantic. It is more than the assets of the biggest company in Canada. If we save and invest together 10% of this which is $225 million a year, we can buy and control large corporations or put up multinational companies and take over as managers, directors, presidents or employees. 

But it seems we don’t have much faith in ourselves and would rather work as caregivers and employees rather than bosses with hundred thousand salaries. Most of us think small, and therefore will stay small forever and ever. We refuse to merge our strength and resources out of suspicion, distrust, and jealousy or believe Filipinos can not achieve great things even if you show them that it is possible. We do not have faith in our own people. We do not flex our muscles. Some are contented or believe they can’t be better than laborers and caregivers with big egos and little dreams.           

We let banks, insurance companies and others use our money and they make huge profit from us when in fact we can own those institutions. Why not put up our own bank, use a portion of our savings it to buy companies and earn profits together? We have people who know how to do it, but we would rather trust white people to handle our money, even if we know that they get rich from it, not us.           

Like an elephant which was chained to a tree as a baby, when it grows and can uproot the tree, it does not because it was trained to be so.           

A piece of stone does not become a castle unless it merges its strength with other stones. We will never make a difference unless we join forces with other Filipino Canadians and perhaps other ethnic groups.           

If we are to be recognized by Canadians, we must organize a national umbrella group like the National Federation of Filipino American Associations (NaFFAA) that has now made inroads in the United States. We must have common goals and mission. We have to have an organization that will coordinate, communicate, plan, promote, and supervise the existing hundreds of Filipino organizations all over Canada. We must make our people realize that we can not be something here unless Canadians perceive us as united and strong. Otherwise our concerns will not be addressed and we will forever be second class citizens in this adapted country.           

If others can get rich from us, why can’t we get rich from our own money? 

8. Motivating our people to greatness by Rodel J. Ramos 

A lot of leaders in the community have come and gone in these three decades and we can count with our fingers the few who were able to motivate our people to accomplish greater things than parties, concerts and picnics. Every new leader thinks he/she can achieve better but end up just as bad or worse.

And to think that all of them were motivated to sincerely serve our people. They remind me of my school days when student leaders start and end with an induction ball.Other leaders believe that it is hard to motivate or inspire our people to participate in activities.

Many of us are experts in criticism and very stingy in giving praise or appreciation for others contributions. Some grab the ideas and achievements of others and claim it as theirs. Para bang natatakot na masapawan sila. (As if they are afraid they would loose their leadership.).

A true leader recognizes the contributions of their followers and rewards them. This develops loyalty and inspires them to work harder for their leader. Remember that these people are not getting paid and the only thing they expect is being recognized. Many times their contributions are forgotten and present leaders claim those achievements. Then, when new leaders take over, they also do not acknowledge past leaders. And the community loses touch with how things were achieved and repeat a lot of mistakes once again. This happened with many organizations including San Lorenzo Ruiz Centre, Kalayaan Centre and Filipino Centre Toronto.

Nawala na ang ginawa ng mga nagumpisa. (The contributions of the founders are forgotten.)How much does it cost to recognize people for their contribution? A certificate of appreciation cost less than $2.00. A plaque or a trophy is less than $100. Including the names of the founders of Kalayaan and Filipino Centre Toronto in the walls of these buildings does not cost much. Why are these not being done? What are we to loose? If we do not learn to honor those who sacrificed their precious time, money, energies and ideas, how are we to encourage others to contribute?

We complain that are contributions are not recognized, yet we have forgotten our duty to honor and respect those who came before us. We must know the mindset of our people in order to inspire and motivate them.

When we started the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome (Rogers Centre) which brought together 35,000 Filipino Canadians, most were skeptical. We used our knowledge of the mindset. We knew then that Filipinos have great trust with Caucasians, so we asked Ed Mirvish of Honest Eds to be our Honorary Chairman. We asked Dr. Vicky Santiago and Dr. Rey Pagtakhan who was an Member of Parliament then to be honorary chairs because they had credibility.

In spite of us being unknown to the community then, the people knew this was no longer a joke. We knew that if the project was promoted in the mainstream, Filipinos will be proud and with their band wagon mentality will come in droves to this big event. When they saw the TV commercials in CBC, Rogers Cable, posters in Go Train stations, ads in Toronto Sun, and radio stations announcing the event, they bought tickets in droves. The Centennial and the SkyDome were big attractions to them. Performers could not resist doing their thing at the SkyDome (now Rogers Centre). And people want to be a part of a big event.Money is the best motivator, so we gave sellers of tickets $5.00 (1/3 of the proceeds) for each $15.00 ticket sold.

A week before the event, Ticket Master was wondering if the event will still push through because they only have sold 3,000 tickets by then. But our more than 300 organizations had already sold more than 15,000.Before this event, people believed that the hundreds of Filipino Canadian organizations were a sign of disunity among our people. We proved to them that this was a sign of unity and with the proper motivation, leadership and trust, this structure will fast tract our dream of uniting the Filipinos. We touched on the pride, patriotism and nationalism of our people. We also touched on their wanting to party, be entertained and have fun.

Others suggested we import Philippine entertainers but we said that we have good performers here and we have to expose and train our local talents. So we had more than 1,000 entertainers in a 15 hours show that was the biggest gathering of Filipinos outside the country.  We convinced the charismatic religious groups and our association of Filipino Priests to join by having a Mass and in the early morning, we already had 5,000 people there and at the end of the day had 35,000.

We left Kalayaan Centre because the leaders there did not recognize our contributions and grabbed the honors for themselves. We wanted to show them that we will build a community centre first in spite of their having the seed money from our sweat. We started the Filipino Centre Toronto.

Again, nobody believed we can build a Community Centre because for more than 30 years, others attempted and failed including moneyed people like Dr. Jun de Villa. We knew that Filipinos believe in authority and we asked President Joseph Estrada to endorse the project. This was before he was accused of plunder. So it was the Philippine Embassy with Ambassador Francisco Benedicto who donated $5,000 of his own money, Consul General Susan Castrence and Consul Olivia Palala who pushed the project.

We proposed a private corporation to make the dream a reality easier and faster to raise money but Consul General Castrence and Linda Javier wanted it opened it to the public. Our first task as Marketing and Promotions Chair was to bring back the trust of the people. The late Vince Vargas came out with the Logo Contest and we held press conferences to get our media people to support the project. What was not achieved in 30 years was done in 17 months with the hard work and determination of only a few.You must also know that there are four desires of people.

They are the desire for security, recognition, belonging, and achievement. Give them one or a combination of these four and you will be able to motivate them to get involved.So you see, we can achieve greater things than we can imagine if we know how to motivate our people but we have to know how to. And it does not take so many to achieve great things. 

9. A weak foundation by Rodel J. Ramos            

Most of us know the great potentials of our people. We also know that many of our talents and resources are not put to maximum use. We are successful in our individual careers and family lives.           

There must be something wrong with what we do and how we do things. We can no longer blame our colonizers. They are long gone. It must be us, because we were given the freedom with the sacrifices of our forefathers and the freewill by the Almighty God. The Jews were enslaved and were persecuted worst than us but their people are very successful and contribute heavily to their country of origin and community. Japan was a devastated and humiliated country with Hiroshima and Nagasaki ruined by the atom bombs. Germany was a humiliated nation after World War II. But they rose from the ashes, why can’t we rise from being caregivers of the world?           

We wonder why we run in circle like a chicken without a head. Our community is the most active among the ethnic groupings, but after more than 30 years of existence in Canada and longer in the U.S. , what can we show as our solid achievements? It took us 30 years to built 2 centers in Greater Toronto Area while other ethnic groups have huge centers in every district. While other communities have million dollar corporations, most of ours are hand to mouth businesses.

Perhaps we focus on activities that do not bear fruits like treasure hunters digging in the wilderness. Or we are centered on parties, and picnics that are gone after a day of fun.Even a piece of brick wants to be a tall building and it merges its strength with other bricks. We want to be the greatest among men but we refuse to unite or merge our talents and resources with others. The ray of the sun only produces heat and light when it is too dispersed. When focused, it creates fire. Our energies are so dispersed in different directions, many times against each other that it cannot even create a ripple.           

And we have forgotten the power of bayanihan where we can lift even a house with the strength of the many.

Importance of study           

Perhaps, our foundation is weak. The scriptures clearly advise to build your house upon a rock, not upon the sand to withstand storms. It also says, a house divided against itself can not stand.           

A house has its strong foundation, a roof, post and braces. The foundation of a corporation are its strong management structure and leadership, financing, manpower, marketing and promotions strategies, accounting system, code of ethics and their use of technologies           

This comparative analysis is to find out what is wrong by comparing us with others. We will start by studying the difference between corporate organizations against the structure of our community in Greater Toronto Area.           

A corporation has a common goal or purpose; our community is too divided to agree on a common goal. Our different organizations are pursuing separate goals like a person with the many heads thinking of so many things, the hands, feet and other parts of the body acting separately and without coordination or correlation. Most are just having parties, picnics and concerts like small kids happy playing with their small toys.

A corporation has an organizational structure; we have umbrella organizations, the Philippine Independence Council (PIDC) and the Kalayaan of Mississauga, but their goals are only to celebrate Independence. What happened with our other more important needs and concerns like of the elderly, children, youth, caregivers, and new comers? Some of our children are joining gangs because their parents do not have time for them. Others are out of job, or are being swindled. Our foreign diplomas are not recognized.

Who lobbies for our needs? Many of us are retiring and getting sick. We seem to be on denial on these problems. Parties and fiestas should be the last among our priorities, but we are focused on them. Is this not the way the Spanish colonizers told us to entertain ourselves to forget our miseries and poverty? Yet, we call it tradition and preservation of culture.

Good leaders don’t get involved

True leaders look after the needs of their community. They develop programs that make their people physically, mentally, spiritually healthy, to progress economically and politically. We do not have the vision, mission and direction for our community unlike in a business organization. Our leaders do not know how to inspire and challenge us. They do not even know our strength and weaknesses. Many of us refuse to follow others and are like crabs pulling each other down.           

We have brilliant Filipinos just working for others and making the big corporations richer. We should acknowledge and harness the best among us and let them lead us instead of letting the traditionalists and those with big egos and little dreams lead us to nowhere. Let these geniuses and people with expertise propose a plan and implement a program of action to uplift us from where we are. We cannot content ourselves to be servants of the world forever. We have the same talents and resources as the Jews, Americans, Japanese and British.            

We are trapped in traditions that retard our progress and development. Who will unchain us from our enslaved minds? We wallow in small projects, yet we know that we spend the same time, efforts and talents with small and big projects. Many of us do not want to venture into bigger projects afraid of failure and the unknown. We also do not trust each other.

Organize structure           

We have strong grassroots organizations with our hundreds of organizations, but they do not have any link with each other. “To each is own” is our motto. Some of our leaders want to keep their own serfdoms and proud of their smallness. The ants are better than us. They have a common goal and they divide the jobs among themselves. That is why in spite of their smallness, they can build anthills a thousand times larger than their size.           

A company has its structure linking each department and unit. There is management, supervision and control, teamwork, communication, and division of labor in our communities. Responsibilities are shared with authorities and accountability. This system is lacking in our community.           

We do not have proper planning. Before we built our houses, we get the best architect our money can hire, a corporation determines their goals, conducts a feasibility study and hire the best planners who visualize the future and what direction the company will take; our community does not have that. We do not have policies, procedures, rules, code of ethics, or program of action to govern our community. These are important elements to avoid problems and create harmony in relationship. We thrive in “bahala na” and end up making too many mistakes and waste too much money, time and efforts. In a corporation, this is called low productivity.

Hiring vs. election

Corporations have a human resources department, which recruit (screen, interview, hire and fire) based on qualification and experience. We elect our officers based on popularity, and then we complain that they are not achieving our goals wasting our money and making so many mistakes.

In a corporation, there are job orientations on the goals, values, responsibilities and authority, systems and practices, policies, procedures and code of ethics. That is why, their officers are the best qualified, efficient, and productive. These are missing in our communities. We presume that the officers and members know what they are doing. It is difficult to introduce new and ambitious ideas in the community because traditionalist resists new and liberal ideas. We therefore are stock with traditional activities that will never bring us progress. Like the fiestas, which if projected in a hundred years is just a waste of resources and make the business people richer, and all of us poorer.

There are incentives like salaries, bonus, and stock options in companies. They are given motivational programs. We are lavish in criticism rather than praise for volunteers in our community. Sometimes, they would even grab the glory of your achievements and claim it as their own. Some of us seem to be publicity hungry or egomaniacs. They would even spread rumors that you are stealing the money of the organizations. So, why would the best of us volunteer just so their names will be maligned or their time wasted? What is their incentive?

In a company, there is product and market research and development while we have none. We have promotions only among Filipinos; they have promotions in the mainstream. We market our products and services among ourselves, and competing heavily with our own people. They market on the mainstream where there are millions of buyers. Our sources of financing are the dinner and dance, concerts and small events were 90% of our gross goes to expenses and we net only 10% to 15%. When you make a million dollars, you throw away $900,000 of our people’s money and keep only a hundred thousand. That is why our people’s pockets are drained and no one profits in it except the hotels and restaurants where we party.  A company’s sources of funds are shares of stock sold in public which generate billions of dollars, sales of products and services, loans and line of credits from banks etc.

There is check and balance in place to reduce tampering with the money. There is transparency and accountability. We seldom have these.We seldom make a feasibility study, budget, projected income statements or break-even analyses.  These are important if you want to see if your projects will make money or achieve its goals. We do things in a hit and miss as if we are not professionals.

There are so many foundations missing in our community that is why we are not achieving anything solid. Any serious leader should look at these missing ingredients before they go further to do anything in our community. Like a house built upon sand, our community always blows away at the approach of the first storm.

True leaders want to leave a legacy in their communities. Our leaders compete with each other on who made the best party, picnic and concerts. At the end, they can show nothing concrete as an achievement. We might as well follow the advice our teachers when we don’t study our lessons, “Go home and plant kamote.


Posted by Rodel Ramos at 10:30 PM EDT
Updated: Sunday, 14 September 2008 10:57 PM EDT
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Friday, 12 September 2008
Community issues
Topic: Community

Community issues among Filipino Canadians

Note:  I believe our experiences as Filipino communities all over the world are similar. We are victims of a dysfunctional system and have a lot of traditions, attitudes, character and culture that triggers division.  Many of our believes, training and practice of so called democracy are not condusive to a progressive community. By reading our experiences in Toronto, Canada with my various articles below, I am sure you will relate and relive your happy, funny and many times frustrating memories with your communities.

Wise men/women learn from others’ bitter lessons not from theirs. We often think that we are better than others until we go thru the same sad experiences. Many great men and women have tried in the past to unite and motivate our people to greatness but failed. Understand the factors that affect us and influence these factors or play with them. Otherwise, you will just repeat our costly and destructive mistakes like a chicken running without a head. - Rodel J. Ramos, Writer 

1. The negatives among us by Rodel J. Ramos 

Walang bida kung walang contrabida. (There are no heroes if there are no villains.) If the Spaniards did not conquer the Philippines and the arrogant Friars were not there, Dr. Jose Rizal and others who fought them would not be heroes and so with Benigno Aquino and those who died for freedom during the Marcos regime.

Without problems, what is there to solve? Without challenges, what are there to conquer? It must be a boring world without them.In electronics, there is a negative and positive electrode. Engineers learned about these forces in nature and used them to advantage. They invented resistors and capacitors to control and use them. In every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.

In every family, there is a black sheep and in every society, every nation, there are good and evil people. These are given forces around us. In fact, there is evil and good within each one of us. Which one wins depends on which we nurture. We need them to compare what is evil and good, what is just and what is not, what is acceptable and not. By knowing the characteristics of these negatives and how they act, we can use them to uplift ourselves like we use the tide of the sea for surfing and floating in the waters. We know they are there and they will come. We should be ready for them and in fact use them for our advantage.

Ang kuwento sa akin ng pinsan ko sa movie promotion ng mga artista, madalas, pinag-aaway nila kunwari ang mga artista para may pag-uusapan ang madla. They did this with Nora Aunor and Vilma Santos and many others. People like intrigues, gossips, something to talk about especially about others. As long as they are not the focus of gossips but when they are, they go ballistic.

There is evil and good, yen and yan, darkness and light. Our animal instinct tells us to avenge our hurt – a tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye. Even the Old Testament documents these events. Stalin, Hitler, Genghis Khan and many dictators purge their ranks to get rid of their enemies and traitors from within, also to strike fear and loyalty to their subjects. But Christ taught us to love our enemies, do good to them who hate us, pray for them who persecute us. But even Christ had his Judas. Without being betrayed and dying in the cross, we should not have been saved from our sins and he could not have shown that he was man and god and has conquered sin and death by his resurrection.

Many times, our worse enemy is ourselves. Even our strength sometimes becomes our weakness. How come we don’t hate ourselves? When we smoke, take drugs, eat too much, drink alcohol, womanize have no control in our eating habits and other vices like gambling, we know that we are slowly and surely killing our body and our lives, but we can’t even control our urges. We hide them in our closets, deny, rationalize, or even point blame on others. Our thoughts, words and actions become habits that at the end control and destroy us.

Other times, our enemies become our best friends because they point to us our faults so that we can correct them or improve ourselves. But we sensitive Filipinos do not want to be criticized; we just want to be flattered. Yet, many of us had mastered the art of criticism rather than praising, so we make a lot of enemies.Sometimes, our best friend or closes relative becomes our worst enemy because they know us better than anyone.

Chinese are taught early in childhood not to trust anybody especially with money.But when we fight each other instead of our outside enemies, what is there to gain? It is like destroying your own family and house. If we distrust each other, what can we accomplish? Time is too short to spend on bickering and self destruction. Why not use it on building rather than destroying?

Do not be too sensitive in life. Be wise as a serpent and wise as a dove as the Bible advises us. Forgive and forget, the first is good for your soul; the second is good for your body. There are no permanent friends and enemies, only permanent interest. Your friend today will be your worst enemy tomorrow and vice versa.

2. Claiming the credit by Rodel J. Ramos, year 2000                

This is a letter I wrote my friend and publisher. I write a column in his community newspaper in Toronto. I asked him to publish “The inside Story of the Philippine Centennial Festival” two years after the event and he was hesitant. I was the chairman of the Publicity and Promotions during the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome (Rogers Centre) in Toronto. Two months before the event, they asked me to resign claiming I was in conflict of interest situation. Then, when they saw that the publicity stopped, they begged me to return.               

“I thank you for pointing out my weaknesses, specially seeking credit for what I worked for. I believe in that saying “Give credit where credit is due.”  Call it egoistic, but I worked hard for that and you can’t blame me for asking credit for it. I think most people want a place in history. What is wrong is when people create the impression that the work of others is theirs as what has happened at the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome (now Rogers Center) and grab the glory.               

Also, I believe that the community deserves to know the truth. The Skydome (Rogers Center) while successful in some aspects has its shortcomings which can be improved. That is why I included those shortcomings. The Spaniards and Americans twisted our history and brainwashed us to believe that they are good and we are inferior. They murdered hundreds of thousands of our people and explored the wealth of our shores. Look how our people still believe those lies and still feel inferior to them.                

Why are some people afraid of the truth? Let us tell our people the truth now so that they can learn from them. Those shortcomings are lessons in disguise. We cannot only learn from our success but also from our failures. Hiding the truth only gives our people the wrong impressions. As Jean Jovellanos said, “You can’t let Carlos Padilla and his cohorts get away with a crime.”               

You have noticed that I waited for 2 years before I wrote this exposure. I had that patience to wait. What I am impatient with is that the dream of the Community Center is in the hands of people who can’t make the dream come true. I can’t wait 10 to 20 years. I will be dead by then or too old to work on that project. I have worked with these people to know their capacity and attitudes.                

I tend to have the impression that your attitude to the Community is “Don’t rock the boat.” I don’t blame you for it. I use to have that attitude myself. I advised the same thing to Agnes Villanueva, a leader of the Ilocano group of Mississauga when she wanted to expose the manipulations of Carlos Padilla, Ching Quijas and their group in Kalayaan four years ago. I told her, the community does not need another scandal. They already have so many doubts on the leaders of the Community after the San Lorenzo Ruiz controversy.                

Later, I found out that there are so many who does not like what these people are doing in Kalayaan - Ruffy Romano, Rene Galvez, Fe de la Cruz, Ralph Logatoc, Frank de Leon, Jean Jovellanos, Gerry Villaruel and many more. It was so hard to get support in Mississauga for that Centennial project. I have to get it from people who do not know them, and I have to bring my own group.               

We have to rock that boat, shake and roll it; otherwise nothing will happen with our dream of a Center.                

Regarding my book, it was more of analyses of what ills our people. You can’t give solutions before stating the problems. You have first to identify the problem, break them down into smaller problems, and analyze them. It was the first part which you read. The last parts are the solutions. How can you judge the book by reading the first part?                

I use to be generous to the community with my ideas. These people including Eddie Lee taught me to be selfish because they just use you. I am a little cautious now with giving away my solutions to problems in that community. I will share it with people who have better intentions and know how to be grateful.               

I believe you have also judged my article about the SkyDome without reading the whole story. Again, perhaps you have only read the first part. 

3. The Mindset of a Servant by Rodel J. Ramos 

More than a century after we declared independence from our colonial masters – nearly 400 years under Spain, 50 years with American rule, and five years of Japanese oppression – we seem to be thinking, talking, and acting in the same pattern as we did during those years of servitude. Read the novels of Dr. Jose Rizal, just change the characters to the present people and you will notice the similarities.

We have not changed our treatment of our people. We still look down at the poor, our servants and revere the rich. We cling to a colonial mentality, loving stateside goods and biased against our people. We cater to American and Japanese products and services and then we wonder why they progress while Filipinos don’t. We marvel at their achievements while belittling ours. We continued the division which our masters used to manipulate mestizos against the indios, the Tagalog against the Pampanguenos, the Ilocanos against the Visayans.

Today, we even made it worst – the Muslims against the Christians, the leftist against the rightist and the center, the professionals against the caregivers, the provincianos against the Manilenos, the expatriates and overseas Filipinos against those in the mainland, the feminist against the machos, gays and lesbians, the youth against the older generation.

We still laugh at people who speak English with an Ilocano or Visayan accent. We are proud of being proficient in English but do not care knowing our language or dialects.A good example was an argument where I was asked to intervene. A guy was proud of speaking English without an accent. The others were furious because this guy claims to be better than them. My advice was “You should be ashamed when you no longer have the Filipino accent. This is your trademark as a Filipino. Without it, what are you?”We are still proud to be seen with white friends or married to a white man/woman; some are ashamed of being called Filipinos. We look at whites as beautiful and black as ugly.

A domesticated elephant

An elephant trainer knows that if you tie an elephant to a tree when it is young, it will never try to free itself when it grows old, even if is strong enough to uproot that tree. Like an eagle hatched with the chicken and trained to scratch the ground for food, it follows the same habit, and never learns to fly like a true eagle. Like a robot programmed to be a slave forever and to self-destruct if it becomes free.               

Our education is still patterned after the American system, which doctored our history and taught us what to think and not how to think – to compete rather than work with one another. And we proudly claim this knowledge as truth and superior and possessing it, we proclaim ourselves highly educated, and measure others by it. No one questioned why this education never made us great as a nation, and why after nearly a century of “independence” we still tend to divide, rather than unite.

Pride of a slave

When we arrived in North America and started working, some of us buy expensive cars, have our picture taken and sent it to our kababayans who will die of envy, even if we have to work seven days a week in two jobs.               

When we go home as balikbayan, many of us show off the best clothes, jewelry and spend lavishly for friends and relatives, even if we just borrowed the money. We boast of making it good in America, even if we are just laborers, clerks or washing dishes. If they only knew, they will laugh. Canadians and Americans would not brag about it nor be ashamed. They dress for comfort while we dress to impress. The maids from the provinces who work in Manila are like this too. They go back to their hometowns wearing expensive clothes with curled hairs, manicured fingernails with shoes and expensive jewelry to show off.               

Like the blacks herded as slaves to North America, they want to be seen in flashy cars, wear expensive jewelry, talk and act with arrogance. Is this not the insecurity and inferiority complex of a slave? They forget that they are now free, and free men need not show off.

Sensitivity of a servant

We are sensitive to what others say about us – the way we look, speak, and do. When someone criticize us or even look at us the wrong way, we explode like a volcano as if we are being murdered. And many times we look at ourselves in self-pity or hate the whole world. At times we say, “nakakahiya.” (It is shameful)               

We bend or bow when passing between people talking, thinking this is a sign of respect, but is this not the way we bowed to our Spanish and American masters?

The use of freedom            

There was a college girl from an exclusive catholic school who lived in a dormitory for years under strict guidance of a mother superior. Once she came out, “parang nakawala sa coral.” Like someone who escaped from prison. She did not know what to do with her freedom, its responsibilities or its consequences. She goes out partying every night, dating with different guys, smoking, drinking and taking drugs. This is what is happening now to the countries freed from Communism and all the third world countries, former colonies of imperial powers that are divided and poor.               

They were not taught the responsibilities of a free man. They were not made aware of the limits of that freedom and the consequences of abusing it. And they have to learn from their bitter experiences, repeating the tragedies of history.

Pride was lost               

We were born free with a great culture, a system of self-government, and our own alphabet. But all these were taken away from us and were left nothing to be proud of. The Mongols did that to Europe during the Dark ages. The Americans did the same to the North American Indians, the Spaniards to the Incas and the Mayans. This is what they did to the Jews – stripped them of all their belongings, giving them only a number to break their pride and spirit, to dehumanize them. They also do this to prisoners of war and criminals.               

And they called us indios or indolent people. They even debated whether we were barbarians or humans. You wonder why we would rather be Americans or have our country as a state of America.               

We forgot the legends passed on by words of mouth from generation to generation, of a brave leader called Lapu Lapu who refused to be a slave and subdued a foreign invader, Ferdinand Magellan, in the shores of Mactan. We forgot our brave warriors from the island of Sulo who helped the Sultan of Borneo ward off invaders. In gratitude, Sabah, a land as large as Mindanao was awarded as a gift.                

We do not remember the martyrdom of three Filipino priests – Burgos, Gomez and Zamora, of Dr. Jose Rizal, and all our heroes who tried to open our eyes to the follies of colonizers and seek freedom. Now that we are free, we want to be slaves again.

Not only with chain               

But slavery, we discovered, is not only by a chain or a shackle. You can also enslave the mind to let people think, speak and act like a slave. You can even make them proud of being one. You can teach them to distrust and destroy their fellow slaves so that they would never unite to overcome their servitude. And you can make them think that they are free. You can educate them to be servants forever by injecting negative attitudes, characters, traditions beliefs and values. And once these are engraved in their small minds as truth, they are forever your servants like a drug addict, an alcoholic or a smoker or a faithful customer to your goods and services.

Stop this insanity               

Struggle to be free. Let us together identify these negative thoughts inculcated in our minds by colonial masters and continue to practice. Let’s resolve to unchain ourselves for we are all victims of our past.               

Let us fly like a true eagle. We are not chicken led to the slaughterhouse by the wills of its owner. We are humans, made in the image of God just like the Americans and Canadians, second only to the angles, given that will and freedom to choose his destiny.               

But we can only be truly free when we no longer envy slaves, when we stop pulling down one another like crabs, when we accept others as our equals, not our superiors nor inferiors, when we have accepted our responsibilities as a free man.               

We can call ourselves free when we have overcome our foolish pride and sensitivity yet sensitive to the feeling of others, when we have learned to be proud of our race, correlate ourselves to our roots, yet grow freely like a tree with its branches reaching the limitless sky. When we learn to love our fellow Filipinos the way we love ourselves, when we have cast aside negative thoughts, attitudes, and characters implanted from our colonial past, then, and only then, can we claim ourselves to be free. 

4. Our worst sin is indifference

Father, forgive us for the things we failed to do by Rodel J. Ramos, 2007

There are 85 million of us in the Philippines and another 7 million outside all over the world. With this number, we should be able to solve the problems of the nation and have progressive communities all over. But the saying “There is power in number” does not work with us.                

A few hundred Spaniards conquered our nation 500 years ago because our small tribes were busy fighting each other.  We did not have the superior weapons or the skills to fight a superior force. A few hundred Americans also overcome our Katipuneros due to lack of arms, training and again we were divided as ethnic groups. Also, there were the traitors among us who would rather collaborate and serve the foreigners for mere pennies and betray their country. Also, most of us are cowards.               

Again in WW II, Japan subdued our unprepared nation. We relied on the big brother Americans to defend us and who abandoned us to save Europe first.While we are busy with our individual lives, no more than a million politicians and government people are looting the country and are making a mockery of laws and justice. These criminals in our police, military, courts and even in the senate, congress and the executive department are abusing our people. There are 90 million of us all over. Rizal said, “In a country where there are no slaves, there are no masters.” But most of us are indifferent, some connive with corrupt officials, others tolerate them. And the only thing for evil men to rule over us is for good men and women to do nothing.               

We are good critics of the system. But do we get involved in solving the problems? We pass the buck and say “Ano ang magagawa ko?” (What can I do?) But how can that government correct itself when they are the problem and they profit from corruption and crimes?               

Even the rebels who are willing to risk their lives do not want to eliminate the problem and are content with banditry terrorizing the masses and extorting money from landowners and business people. They let the cancer grow which they are part of because they thrive on it like a virus.               

The biggest reason why we continue to have the crises is because not even 1% of us are involved in correcting the problem. Of the 350 Filipino Canadian organizations, only a few are committed on the Philippine problems and most of them are giving dole outs. Not one focuses on corruption.               

In the community centre issue, how many of us are involved? It is the heroism, hard work and determination of a few that we now have a building within 2 years of its establishment and we still have more than $800,000 to pay. It took us 30 years to have one. Now, everybody is proud to have the Centre even if they did not contribute a cent. Imagine the people who have the guts to claim that they are a part of something they did not work for. Where is their shame?               

If only 100,000 of us contribute $100 dollars each, that is $10 million dollars. We can build 10 community centers with that. But who else care?               

We are supposed to be our brother’s keepers. But what have we contributed to the community or the country except attend a party and call it fund raising when it is only for fun. We are like small children who let our parents work while we play.               

We proud ourselves as Filipinos, but citizenship or membership in a group entails responsibility and obligation. Many of us just want to have the honor and glory, but avoid the obligation and the hard work. Some of us always have a free ride, and a few do not have shame.                

We are like 87 disabled millions relying on the few government officials and a few heroes to do the work for us. Our organizations are like vehicles without direction, without focus. Most are just for socials pretending to be charitable.And many of us have lost hope for our people when they have not even tried to do anything to solve the problems. Malas daw talaga ang Pilipinas. Perhaps we can start by asking the Lord to forgive us for our indifference, for not doing our obligations, as Filipinos. We have no one to blame for our misfortunes now but ourselves. 

5. Our smallness (Tingi mentality) by Rodel J. Ramos                

A town mate Cleofe Nelmida Chatting sent me a copy of an article written by Quijano de Manila, the pen name of Nick Joaquin. The title is A Heritage of Smallness. Quijano notes that “Society for the Filipino is a small rowboat: the barangay. Geography for the Filipino is a small vague saying: matanda pa kay Mahoma; noong peacetime. Enterprise for the Filipino is a small stall: the sarisari. Industry and production for the Filipino are the small immediate scratching of each day: isang kahig, isang tuka. And commerce for the Filipino is the very smallest degree of retail: the tingi.                

Perhaps, it is only in the Philippines where people buy and sell one stick of cigarette, half a head of garlic, a dab of hair pomade part of the contents of a can or bottle, one single egg, one single banana. He forgot to mention, kapirasong mantika.               

He argues that to foreigners used to buy things by the carton, the dozen or by the pound, and in large economy sizes, our tingi transaction is Lilliputian. So much effort by so many for so little! Like all the children risking neck and limb in the traffic to sell one stick of cigarette at a time or those grown up men haunting the sidewalks all day to sell a puppy or lantern or a pair of socks. The amount of effort they spend seems out of proportion to the returns.                

Such folk are, obviously, not indolent. Laboriousness just can never be the equal of labor as skill, labor as audacity, labor as enterprise. We do work long and hard but make less. Why? Because we act on such a pigmy scale. We have the habit, whatever our individual resources, of thinking poor, of thinking petty.

Is that the explanation for our continuing failure to rise--- that we buy small and sell small, that we aim small and try small that we think small and do small?Are we not confusing timidity for humility and making a virtue of what may be the worst of our vices? Is not our timorous clinging to smallness the bondage we must break if we are ever to inherit the earth and be free, independent, and progressive?

The small must ever be prey to the big. Aldous Huxley said that some people are born victims. He observes that the Filipinos are the “least original” of peoples. Originality requires daring: the daring to destroy the obsolete, to annihilate the petty.Quijano urged us to stop talking about “our heritage of greatness” for the national heritage is—let’s face it—a heritage of smallness.

However far we go back in our history, it’s the small we find–-the nipa hut, the barangay, the petty kingship, the slight tillage, the tingi trade. Our barangay settlements displayed the tendency to petrify in isolation instead of consolidating, or to split smaller instead of growing. That within the small area of Manila Bay there should be three different kingdoms (Tondo, Manila, and Pasay) may mean that the area was originally settled by three different barangays that remained distinct, never came together, never fused; or it could mean that a single original settlement, as it grew, split into three smaller pieces.

Philippine society, as though fearing bigness, ever tends to revert to the condition of the barangay: of the small enclosed society. We don’t grow like a seed, we split like an amoeba. The moment a town grows it becomes two towns. The moment a province becomes populous it disintegrates into two or three smaller provinces. The excuse offered for division is always the alleged difficulty of administering so huge an entity. But Philippine provinces are microscopic compared to an American State like, Texas, where the local government isn’t heard complaining it can’t efficiently handle so vast an area.

We in the other hand, make a confession of character whenever we split up a town or province to avoid having to cope with big problems and operations.On the Feast of Freedom, we may do well to ponder the Parable of the Servants and the Talents. The enterprising servant who increased the talents entrusted to him was rewarded by his Lord, but the timid servant who made no effort to double the one talent given to him was deprived of that talent and cast into the outer darkness. “For to him who has, more shall be given; but from him who has not, even the little he has shall be taken away.

My comments:

Our people can not be judged by our historical achievements in the Philippines. The Philippines is a new country inhabited by people who fled wars and oppressions in mainland Asia. Who knows if some of our ancestors were instrumental in molding the history of Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Cambodia, Chinese etc.

While these observations are all true of our people, there are also Filipinos who rose above the crowd to built large corporations like the Ayalas, Concepcions, Sorianos, Puyats, etc. You might say they are Chinese or Europeans in origin but they are Filipinos now.We have a local saying, “Maliit man daw ang buhangin, nakakapuwing din.” Even the small has also an advantage.

But what is the difference between the Americans, British, Japanese, Canadians and us Filipinos? What they can do, we can also achieve.It does not mean that if one was born from a squatter area, that he will forever be stuck in that hole. It depends on the attitude of the people. The anecdote says, “There are two friends in a prison cell. One saw the mud, the other saw the stars.” If we keep on thinking that we are small, that we can do nothing about it. That we will just be servants or slaves of the world forever, we will not rise from what we are.Japan was in ruins after the bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. They rose again to dominate world trade. The Jews were slaves of Egypt and were persecuted more than any other during World War II. They rose again and many of their people still influence commerce in Europe and North America.

It is our observations in dealing with Canadians and Americans that they are not as superior as we were made to believe. Many of those whom we work with are ordinary folks who did not even go to university. Some of them are just farmers and fishermen picked from the streets. Only a few of them excel because the Government and other enterprising companies support their expensive research and developments. And while many of us have an inferiority complex, they have a superiority complex or that they think they are just equal as anyone.

We are stuck on this hole only because while we are discriminated against by other people, we also discriminate against each other. We pull each other down like crabs. Observe that with crabs in a basket, some attempt to escape but no one does because they are pulled down by others. It is like a man shot by the enemy and stabbed at the back by trusted friends.

Also, we do not support the people with ideas, dreams and talents. We would rather envy them, spread pessimism with what they are doing; others consider it an achievement to pull others down. Many pour cold water to other people’s brilliant ideas.Our Government is poor and can’t afford to support those with talents and ideas. Research and development are expensive.Our big disadvantages are our big egos, sensitivity and little dreams. 

6. No one should profit from our community? by Rodel J. Ramos 

Not a few people believe that “No one should profit from the activities in the Community.” They reason that what ever you do or give for the Community, do it for the love of our people, nothing else. Personal interest should be put aside. I questioned this belief at one time in the planning of the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome (Rogers Centre).

I was arguing about the marketing strategy of selling 50,000 tickets for the event. I wanted to give commissions to sellers and agents in order to motivate them. Someone said arrogantly, “I don’t want anybody to profit from this project.” My answer to that statement was, “For years and years and years our people had sacrificed their time, efforts, talents and money for this Community. They have taken back nothing. It is time to give them something at least for gasoline expense. Besides, if you want to sell 50,000 tickets, you have to give them the right incentive and the best motivator is money.

We all know that those who accommodate organizations by going to their benefit dances, donate or sponsor their activities spend from $3,000 to $5,000 a year. If they do not get something back, how in the world are they expected to continue supporting the Community?Most of us are not millionaires who can continuously support our people without feeling the pain and becoming broke. There are also many in our midst who are just struggling to keep both ends meet. Many officers and members are already sacrificing their time, efforts and families for our people. They are not getting paid, and not getting anything out of it, not even a thank you.

Most don’t support

Some of our businesses are already the milking cows of organizations. Yet we hear some people proudly say that they do not cater to them. “Mahal ang bilihin sa kanila.” (Their goods are expensive) I even heard someone comment, “Bakit ako bibili sa kanya, pagka yumaman iyan, pagyayabangan pa ako.” (Why should I buy from them? When they get rich, they will just look down at me).Yet when we need advertisements or sell tickets, we squeeze them to death.How many of us support our lawyers? We would rather go to Canadian lawyers. The reason of some is, “Mga tsismoso ang mga Pilipino. Baka malaman pa ng buong bayan na ang anak ko ay nagnakaw sa tindahan, nagcarnapping o nahuling nagdrugs.” (Filipinos are gossipers. The whole community might know that my son stole from the store, car napped or did drugs.) o “Baka malaman pa nila na nagbankruptcy ako.” (They might know that I got bankrupt.)

But lawyers are sworn to secrecy. I know that Attorney Bayani Abesamis does not tell anybody about his clients. When he was handling the San Lorenzo Ruiz case, in spite of my being a “bilas” (brother-in-law) he never told me anything about it. I always asked him how it is going and he would just tell me, “Ayos lang.” (Everything is fine.)One Filipino lawyer talked about his disappointment. He said that he supports a lot of organizations sponsoring that and this project. “But they never come to me when they have cases or when their children are in trouble. It is ironic. A Canadian friend asks me to do some of his work because he is overloaded and pays me a lot less than the normal fee. What is painful is, I find out that they are Filipinos, sometimes friends of mine.”

But we cater to Filipino doctors. The reason is obvious. How do you tell a Canadian doctor, “Doctor, masakit ang kasukasuan ko.” O “Doctor, may almuranas ako.”Compare this attitude to those with the Chinese or the Jews. Observe how they have become progressive while most of us remain middle class or poor. The Chinese cater to the Chinese businessmen. They help and trust each other or give discounts to their own race. They would rather give the business to their own people. And because the money circulates among them, their people grow richer. In return, they can support their Community needs - built cultural centers, housing for the Elderly, temples etc. They also create jobs and develop their entrepreneurship. They are able even to loan money to their citizens to put up businesses and support each other.

This is their formula in the Philippines, how the Chinese were able to control many of our manufacturing, importations, trading, banking, telecommunication and other services. Taiwan, Hong Kong and China lend their citizens in the Philippines money, discounts and credit lines through their Chamber of Commerce and other organizations. Helping each other instead of giving their money to other groups is the secret formula of their success.

The Jews have the same attitude. They cater to each other’s businesses and give credit to their fellow Jews. Compare this to our businessmen who kill each other’s business by dropping their prices to the losses of everyone in the industry.I have been a member of the Jaycees and we support each other’s businesses. The Freemasons have a vow to support, protect and help their own brothers except on murder. Of course there are codes of ethics they follow. The Iglesia ni Christo does the same and they are all progressive.

Of course this can be subjected to abuse. Some of our leaders are there to promote their products and services. We buy from Canadian Companies and other ethnic groups, why not from our kababayan? There is a saying, “Sino ba ang magtutulungan kung hindi tayo din.” (Who else will help each other but us?) But then, others have a “one way traffic” attitude. Puro pakabig, walang tulak. (Just take and take.) And our system is already being abused and nobody is benefiting from it.

We are not talking here of people who join to swindle others of their money. We are talking of legal businesses. In fact, no one had become rich joining organizations nor had anyone stolen money of organizations. All that we hear are rumors to discredit those in position of power.Those who have the above mentality, I implore you to rethink your position. This formula is the cause of our failure as a Community. We have used this for more than 3 decades in Canada and for centuries in the Philippines. I would rather that we adapt the line, “Everyone should profit from our Community.” Otherwise, there is no reason for us having one? 

7. Our Filipino loyalty by Rodel J. Ramos (May, 1998) 

The Philippine Centennial fever is now generating such steam that with different groups staging separate celebrations, even the most casual observers cannot help but be caught in Community politics. I was swept into it too.  For the past 5 years, I am on record of having pushed unity in my column Thinking Aloud.  I thought that the magic of the Centennial being held in the SkyDome, the world’s greatest entertainment centre would be too irresistible for our leaders to pass up, that our dream of unity would finally be realized.  But I was wrong.  Though with the help of several people I have tried very hard to broker even a semblance of unity with one centennial celebration, we failed to convince Eddie Lee, the appointed National Coordinator of the Philippine Centennial Movement in Canada to sanction the Kalayaan’s SkyDome initiative.  It was sad that the one chance we have had to join hands as one people have actually slipped through our fingers.  It hurts more to think that in fact in this once in a lifetime event our community is more divided than ever.

Hope

There is still hope however. We are united in celebrating the centennial. It is only on the way we celebrate that we differ. Some of us prefer it simple, others want to go all the way for something memorable, and we did just that at the SkyDome Philippine Centennial Festival on July 11, 1998. We have made verbal agreements with PIDC which is a part of the group of Metro Toronto Phil. Centennial Commission Chairwoman Norma Carpio. Mann Nacario is working in cooperation with PIDC and has invited us to participate. The National Congress of Ricky Castelvi and Chito Collantes have also asked us to invite the people during their event. They all agreed to be at the SkyDome. Even most of the leaders of Eddie Lee will come. Since this is a year round celebration, there is room for all of us. But we are already happy at the cooperation and the agreement. Who ever does not come will only have themselves to blame for not being a part of this historic Festival.

People overburdened

The only sad part is, these numerous celebrations spread us thin, and place a tremendous burden on the community that is even now reeling from the effects of the recession, job cuts, etc.  Imagine going to all these events, paying $25.00 to $75.00 each time, (double for couples) plus parking, gasoline and party dress. The performers too are overtaxed, running from one occasion to another. It is a crazy situation, but some of us support such madness, and we all suffer. 

The most galling part is the perception of other peoples of our disunity. I mean if we could not agree on an event as important as the centennial of our independence, then what could we really agree on?  Do you think it is worthwhile to continue doing this? As it now appears, of all these events, it is only the Skydome project that is giving money to the community, in more ways than one. 

And ironically, in spite of its huge projected cost, the scale of the project is such that we can actually set the admission at such a low price for a day and night of entertainment and partying.   Imagine this:  the Skydome event will entertain as many as 50,000 people continuously for 16 hours.  It will showcase our history and talents like never before.  Yes, it will cost more than $100,000.00. And yet, we only charge $15 for admission.  

Whoever said: “whatever the mind can conceive, it can achieve” must have been thinking of the SkyDome project, because this gigantic event started with a simple idea.  Also, a new industry is created with the sale of the tickets!  Esther Windsor mobilizes her friends to sell tickets and thus earn extra money for themselves.  They are now singing praises for her and for The Spirit of Kalayaan 98!

Funny

The funny part is that I had to fight my way through the maze of distrust even with the Spirit of Kalayaan 98 Steering Committee for at first, on the one hand, the association suspected me as a spy of Eddie Lee; while on the other hand, Mr. Lee doubted my loyalty. At the end I was pressured by Vic Cruz, my erstwhile editor at Atin Ito and my great mentor to declare my loyalty and true color. My answer was simple, “My loyalty is to my Country and my Community.”

Colonial masters               

This brought to my mind how our Country was ruled by our colonial masters by using this touchy issue of loyalty. Master manipulators use this word to divide and rule a group, a people and a country. The Spaniards gained the loyalty of one tribe by giving those gifts, privileges, doing those favors or giving them positions of power or promising support. Then, they ask that the favor be returned in terms of loyalty, being a faithful follower, and supporter. They would demand faithfulness as long as one is alive, and they expect their children and grand children to be indebted to them forever.                 And if you fail to return the favor, they would brand you as “Walang utang na loob!” (Ingrate!) And so for centuries, this has become the tradition in our beloved Country. Up to this day, our leaders, relatives and friends use this guilt trip to make us follow their wishes, or extract favors from us.

We have many examples in history of how loyalty was used to divide our people. When the Spaniards came to the Philippines, the Portuguese colonizer for Spain, Ferdinand Magellan made Rajah Humabon the representative of the King of Spain and ruler over all the surrounding kingdoms. And Magellan used him to extract taxes from them. Of this, Lapu Lapu resented and said, “I don’t understand why I should obey someone whom I have long been accustomed to command”. And this infuriated Magellan which led to their confrontation at the Battle of Mactan where he met his end. Humabon and the other Chieftain having seen the vulnerability of their new masters gathered enough nerve to get back at the Spaniards.

When Miguel Lopez de Legaspi came back after more than 50 years, he used the same tactic to divide our people. And we know from history how they made the Makabebes of Pampanga the guardia civil and used them against the Katipunan. When the Americans came, they used the arch enemies of the Katipunan, these same Makabebes to capture Aguinaldo.  The Americans later used the Igorots to betray the defenses of Gen. Gregorio del Pilar at Tirad Pass.

They later favored the ilustrados, the wealthy and influential who favored the new masters over the revolutionaries and our own countrymen. After consolidating their power, the Americans then used the Chinese merchants to gather products for export to America. As rewards for their collaborations, the friar lands and the haciendas owned by Spanish landlords were given to the ilustrados and the current owners were allowed to hold on to their land instead of distributing them to the people. Had they done otherwise, history would have been drastically different.   The Americans, supposed champions of the downtrodden, and the poor, actually abandoned their principles and sided with the oppressors.During the Japanese occupation, the Makapili, Filipinos whose faces were covered by paper bags, spied on the guerillas and supporters of the underground resistance.                

Some leaders know this weakness of our race and still use it to manipulate other leaders and their followers. This is how they were able to keep their fiefdoms and continue to divide our fragile Community.

Divinity complex               

Nero who partied while Rome burned was one of the world rulers who believed that they were gods. They were even called Divine Emperors. It was their belief that people who serve them are lucky to be of service to their divine lords and masters. And for this, they demand favors and loyalty. They even decided the life or death of their slaves. They also bought and sold them like merchandise.               

Some leaders of the community are like this. Even if you have served their interest without being paid, they believe they have given you a favor and therefore must remain loyal to them forever. They believe that they are the center of the universe that everything revolves around them.

Used by older siblings                

This thing called loyalty is also used by families where older siblings sponsor the younger brothers and sisters, or children sponsoring their parents and other relatives. A couple who sponsors a domestic or contract worker would say to them, “You would not have been in Canada if not for me!”(Hindi kayo nakarating sa Canada kung hindi sa akin!) They use this to extract favors from their sponsored relatives, many times forever. Parents often use this tactic to tell their children that they must take care of them in their old age because they sacrificed so much to bring them up and paying for their education. Coupled with this practice is the Nakakahiya (shame), and utang na loob (debt of gratitude) guilt trips.

When does loyalty end?

When does loyalty begin and end? To my mind, there is a hierarchy of loyalties. First is loyalty to God, second to Country, then to family, friends and last to self. When the self interest or of friends are in conflict with your duty to God and to Country, the first has precedence over the second. Some people have loyalty to “I, me and myself.” Others are willing to sacrifice God and country for friends and self. But when you take this route, you are bound to accept the consequence of others doing the same. And when do all these things end? 

8. Our faults by Rodel J. Ramos                 

There are 85 million Filipinos 8 million of which are overseas. When we discuss why the Philippines is poor, and that there is injustice, corruption, a problem of peace and order etc. we point our fingers at the government. We don’t realize that we are pointing three fingers at ourselves and one finger to God.               

Do we really think that one person, the president, even if she/he had all the power in the world can create the miracles we want to happen with us not cooperation and helping? Less than a million government people can’t serve the needs of 90 million Filipinos. Even if all of them are competent, efficient and honest, it is impossible to serve all our needs. More so when many are corrupt and are incompetent because of “palakasan” and “compadre” system hiring their friends and relatives even if not qualified.               

We asked a councilor of our town of San Narciso, Zambales to give us a breakdown of the income and expenses figures. She said that the 4th class municipality earns P26 million pesos from their share of the Bureau of Internal Revenue. This amount is only more than $500,000 dollars. This is less than the salary of 25 of us at $20,000 a year income. What improvements can this make? Then we expect the government to provide security, health care, sanitation, education, infrastructure, and even pensions for seniors.               

If our people do not pay the right taxes and would rather bribe officials, what money will be used for services? If we refuse to obey the laws, sell our votes and would rather bribe the judges, policemen and military what do we expect?                

Then, we expect government people to reform themselves without us doing something. They won’t because they benefit from this corrupt system. We want a perfect situation without us doing something? This is wishful thinking. Even the freedom that we enjoy was won with the blood, sweat and tears of our martyrs and heroes. Vigilance, sacrifice and hard work are the price of liberty. Our values have changed. What was evil yesterday is accepted today as good. The good ones are pressured to follow the bad ones or they will be harassed, persecuted, intimidated, threatened or killed. We learned to tolerate these evil doers and in fact encourage, and join them.               

Change must come from us overseas Filipinos as it came from expatriates during the time of Rizal and during the 2nd World War. We are the ones who have extra income with the leverage of our dollars. But most of us are contented with what we have and we don’t have anymore care about what happens to the Philippines. “Bahala na sila sa buhay nila, wala na akong pakialam.” Yet if our families and friends are gunned down or die of poverty and decease, we cry. We share in the pride of the country but not in its shame. We shout with joy in the victory of Pacquiao but do not want to do anything for the poor and problems of the nation.                

With this attitude overseas Filipinos will not start the change. They will curse to high heavens about it like what we now do in the internet, but wont’ lift a finger. They will wait for others to lead and die for them. Then when these heroes are winning they will rally behind them and even claim their victory and glory just like when Marcos and Erap were deposed. We are good at that, claiming the glory that others had worked and sacrificed for like spectators in a sport event. 

Some think they are already Americans or Canadians without shame. Even the Church had been corrupted receiving money from the evil doers in the government. Our youth seems to accept corruption as necessary evil. Justice takes more than 10 years and judges sell them to the highest bidder. The people sell their votes and so with their souls. So, where will hope come from?

God will enlighten and touch the hearts of a few of us to lead our people to greatness. For it does not take so many to trigger a change for the better. Once in a while, a Magsaysay, a Cardinal Sin, a Ninoy Aquino or a Cory comes around to take that challenge and inspire the goodness in the hearts and souls of our people who still believe that goodness will triumph in the end. But then again, the spectators will claim the glory. 

9. Who profits from our colonial mentality? Rodel J. Ramos                

One day, my son read the headline in our Filipino community newspaper about Ma Ann Dionisio and several others being chosen for roles in Miss Saigon in Toronto. He asked, “Why the fuss over these Filipinos landing the cast for Miss Saigon?” I answered that to us it is an achievement because Filipinos are rarely featured in American or European shows.               

After I watched Miss Saigon, I wondered whether we really should be proud as Asians being featured as prostitutes. But we seem to equate success with being recognized by foreigners, particularly from the west.               

We do not recognize the talents and contributions of our people until they are acknowledged by our past colonial masters. Ging Hernandez was never accepted by us despite her two decades of services to the community until one day she was featured by the Toronto Star as Woman of the Year for her small work in the Canadian mainstream and in the women’s rights movement. Then all of a sudden we placed her on a pedestal. And so with others in history – Carlos P. Romulo, the “little brown American”, President Manuel Roxas, President Ramon Magsaysay, “the American boy: and lately Lea Salonga.               

In Canada, we take pride of our Filipino MP Rey Pagtakhan, refugee board members Mila Eustaquio, Cornelia Soberano, Tessie Jew and others who were appointed in Canadian government offices. Did these people acquire fame overnight or have we continued that colonial instinct of distinguishing only those among us who are honored by our masters? Ironically, we ourselves are dying to be recognized in the community but refuse to acknowledge others who are better than us unless it comes with the blessings of our former colonizers.

Trained abroad

Filipino doctors and other professionals trained overseas are considered by most people to be more knowledgeable, even if we know that some worked merely as orderlies or assistants. We often say, “Aral sa States kaya espesialista.”

Feel inferior

Many of us feel inferior in front of Westerners – traces of our colonial past – to be respectful and humble before our masters, bosses, friars, teachers, superiors and elders. We were told never to question their wisdom and never answer back. We believed colonizers were more superior in knowledge, technology and wealth. And we were given the impression we belonged to an inferior race.               

We tolerate the patronizing attitude around westerners even if we know we may have better education than some of them. Yet we refuse to recognize our kababayan who are more educated than we are. And we say to them, “Sino ka ba? Sa Canada, pantay pantay lang tayo.” (“Who are you? In Canada, we are all equal.”)

Stateside goods    

We often equate quality with American-made goods and perceive them as status symbols of the rich. And so we buy foreign goods rather than our local products even though their prices are often three times more expensive and the quality the same. We find out when we’re abroad that many of the people who make these goods are less productive and less creative than our Filipino workers.               

And because we did not support our industries, we have to work abroad as laborers rather than practice our professions in the Philippines. We suffered humiliation and discrimination. We cried for years longing for our loved ones and friends, enduring the hardship, braving cold winters. We gave up the luxury of maids and the company of friends. Was everything worth the sacrifice?               

This kind of colonial patronage made our country one of the poorest in the world when we should have been self-sufficient – having a bigger population than Canada and were leading in technology and knowledge in Asia. We complained that there were no opportunities. Of course, if you do not cater to your products and stimulate your economy, where will the businessmen find the money to pay higher wages that we enjoy here and hire professionals? And where will the government find the money to fund social programs like we have here in Canada and the United States? We cheat the government of taxes.                

The American and Japanese bought our cheap raw materials, processed them into finished products and sold them to us at a hundred times its value. And we wondered why multinational corporations get rich while our country remains poor? And they can afford to pay high wages in North America while we are paid cheap labor.               

In North America, we have a disappointing tendency not to support Filipino businesses. Yet ironically they are among the first people we approach for donations. How can they support our causes if we cater more to Canadian and American businesses instead?               

The Japanese patronize their local products, and look where they are now – one of the world’s wealthiest nations. We may have enjoyed criticizing the poor qualities of our goods, but we were laughing at ourselves. The rich countries carried home our money and laughed at our stupidity.               

We envy the success of the Japanese, Jews, Koreans and the Chinese. But this comes from a combination of great sacrifice, discipline, frugality, cooperation, nationalism and teamwork. In fact, precision, planning and implementation, faith in their own people, patience, positive attitude and patronizing their own products were their key virtues. These were certainly not the result of a colonial mentality that ruins one country while enriching others.

Canadian friends

 A distinguishing habit of some of us is to prefer to have Canadian friends rather than Filipinos. They say Filipinos gossip a lot, stab you in the back and are “mayabang”. Only to find out that other groups are not much different. As we have weaknesses, others have them too. But the warmth and friendship of Filipinos are rarely found among Caucasians notwithstanding our inequities. When we are in need, we still rely on our Filipino friends and relatives for help.               

A few of us feel proud when their children marry Caucasians, and feel disgraced when they marry blacks.

Dream of being American

Many years ago, there was a move to annex the Philippines as a state of America. They argue that if the U.S. did not give us independence, we could not be as poor as we are today. We even called America “Uncle Sam” until a U.S. senator told us bluntly that America always works for American interest, period. This is the essence of colonial mentality, mistaking an exploiter as a relative or a godfather.               

My friends, we are like this today, partly because we became a colony of the United States. They may have given us education but they taught us English which, among other things, has created a market for their products – books, machinery educators, media, food, services and American culture, movies, music etc. And because they have the money and the technology, they owned most of the mining, manufacturing and service industries in the Philippines. They controlled our media and doctored our history, systematically erasing our memories of their atrocities against our people.               

They cheated us of our freedom for 50 years after denying Pres. Emilio Aguinaldo of their promise of independence while giving it to Cuba. Mark Twain questioned this foreign policy when he asked, “Are there two Americas? One who helps to free a people and one who enslave another?” Was America not born out of hate of imperialistic powers? In the Philippine-American war, more than a million Filipinos, mostly civilians, women and children were slaughtered by less than 30,000 Americans. And they had the nerve to say we cheated them in the Little Baseball League game. It was through watching the United States government work that we learned to cheat, lie and double talk.                

They claimed to have given billions of dollars in aid – obsolete war machines and equipment which have zero depreciated value in their books and restored to their original value to make the Americans appear generous. Look who prospered in the Philippines. It was the multinational corporations and their Filipino dummies.

Perpetuating colonial mind

 

By buying stateside goods and sending them to the Philippines so that our relatives and friends can show off, we perpetuate the superiority of the rich countries. It will make them richer while our people remain poor.   

By showing off when we go home that we have a good life here even if we are just washing dishes or working as laborers continues the myth of North America being a land of milk and honey, an old cliché, where money grows on trees. We may enjoy for a moment being flattered by the praises and envy of our friends, but whom are we fooling but ourselves?

English status symbol

We poke fun at our people who have Ilocano, Visayan or Pangasinan accents when speaking English even if we ourselves have the local accent. As if our standard of perfection is how westernized we can talk and act. Why do we expect our people to be proficient in English? Is this our mother tongue? It is fair to say we can speak and write English must as well as most Europeans. They can’t even speak a single Tagalog or Ilocano. Jamaicans, Scottish, Irish, East Indians and Chinese have trouble with their accents too when speaking English, but they tend not to make it a laughing matter. Why this enchantment with the language not our own? Why did we make it the status symbol of intellectuals and the rich? Is this not also the language of millions of unlettered and illiterate American, Canadians and British subjects?

Western media               

We believe everything the western media publish not suspecting that they have their ulterior motive of converting us to their culture and to forget ours. Those publishers have their profit motives and there are some racists among journalists. We do not expect them to protect our interest yet we believe all their lies.               

They typically portray the third world inferior and their society superior with the sad effect of making their people feel good about themselves and us feeling bad about outs. But we have seen their crime statistics and are witnesses to their millions of poverty stricken people in ghettos and some of their politicians are as incompetent and corrupt as ours.

Stop this charade               

If we are truly as sensible as we claim, let us stop for a moment and examine ourselves. Who are we? What are we? Why are we still less progressive than others?                Nowhere in the world or in the history of mankind have a people progressed without having faith in themselves and their own people. We are partly to blame for our miseries and we need to change.               

Let our generation profit from our lessons of history and stop the process that made intelligent and resourceful people like us relegated to the status of “servants of the world” forever.               

Let us rise above ourselves. 

10. A challenge to the best of us by Rodel J. Ramos                

Discouraged by the situation in the Philippines – lack of jobs and business opportunities, crimes, killings, poverty, drugs, smuggling, corruption, pollution, overcrowding, land grabbing, - the crème of the crop, the most talented, highly educated among us are being lured by the vast opportunities overseas and the chance of earning more, the peace and order, clean environment, honest and caring government but most of all a better future for our children.               

Lately, I saw a picture of the alumni of the best graduate school in the Philippines, the Asian Institute of Management in their Christmas Dinner at the Balita. In their website are these words, “For more than three decades, the halls of AIM have witnessed the growth and passage of some of Asia’s best minds – leaders and managers of the present and the future.” Graduates of U.P., Ateneo, Mapua, De La Salle, U.S.T and other most distinguished schools are among us too. These great minds are losses to our nation but could be a blessing to our Filipino communities overseas if they get involved.When we arrived here, our new world was not as rosy as we were promised. They took away our dignity and pride by rejecting our education and experiences which we worked so hard for many years. We were asked for Canadian experience and are discriminated against because of our color, being new immigrants, and gender.               

Many of our doctors, engineers, architects, lawyers, teachers, are just worked as clerks, factory workers, flipping hamburgers, and caregivers receiving minimum wage. It is all a waste of talents, education, and experience. They are either unused, or underused. We are like eagles with clipped wings unable to fly freely into our dreams and ambitions.  

We seem to have accepted our fate as if God had sent us here to suffer and get old, not to adapt to it and change this place being now our home. We have not explored our great potential and our God given talents went to sleep. A few use them to take advantage of their fellow Filipinos. Those who were lucky to land better jobs and make more money do not care about others and even use their positions to belittle their own kind.

It is a waste of resources and in time all these will be lost. Remember that God rewards those who make use of their talents and punish those who do not use them by taking them away. In our old age, all the gifts including the wealth and power we worked so hard for will be taken away along with our hearing, eyesight, and memory. They will be replaced by aches and pain and all kinds of health problems. God will also take away our pride, power, glory, honor, beauty, brilliance and strength. We will learn to pray and bend our knees before Him in humility and be closer.

But we don’t have to accept this fate. We know that God help those who help themselves. God has a grand design for all of us. It is written in the Bible that the bright light of Christianity will come from the East. We are the new Israel. He forced us to exile all over the world so that we can show others how faithful we are to Him. Today, we know that the Filipinos are revitalizing the Christian Churches by their mere presence and volunteerism.

But we can do better than that. We can accomplish greater things if our talents are explored and maximized. Let us gather the best minds among us and plan our future, not just let others decide what we can achieve. We have tolerated and accepted to be victims of situations rather than the creators of situations and opportunities.

We know that we are the best minds among our people, the crème of the crop. And we know that we are equal or better than many Canadians. They have an advantage now because they own the big corporations and control the government. But we also know that some minorities like the Jews, Japanese, and Italians have overcome their situations and are now in control of some industries. They have flourished because they have faith in themselves and their people have taken note of their strength and weaknesses and used them to improve themselves. We must follow their examples.

Let us put our heads together, meet and discuss, examine possibilities and explore what are open for us. Let us get experienced consultants. Let us study the strength and weaknesses of our people like we did analyses in school and dissect the facts and compare them with others.

Let us take control of our community and lead our people to greatness. Let us stop being lead by the blind and the mediocre among us.We are the fathers of our people now. We are now the messiah because Jesus is within each one of us. Let us stop pointing blame to our government, the system, and our people. We only have ourselves to blame for accepting our fate. We are no longer small children who can run to our daddies and mommies. Let us accept responsibility and cloth ourselves with the authority to take control our destiny. It will be our legacy to our children, and people. We overseas Filipinos will ultimately be greater heroes. And our names will be enshrined in history. But most of all, the world will recognize our achievements and our genius.

We can rise above what we are today. Let us not forget that crises create opportunities and God is creating them so that we can use the talents and resources He gave us. This is the challenge and an opportunity to the best of us. 

11. Our love affair with the English language Rodel J. Ramos                  

Joseph Estrada’s winning the Presidency of the Philippines once again brought into focus our romantic affair with the English language. He was the butt of jokes in a book ERAPTION mainly because of his lack of knowledge or proficiency in speaking English, his difficulty in speaking straight English. At one time he answered his critics “Being good at speaking English does not make you solve the problems of the country.”               

Later, Joseph delivered his Inaugural address in Pilipino, the only Philippine President who did so. A few days before, the Chinese President Jiang Zemen went on Television with Clinton speaking in Chinese with an interpreter. And nobody laugh at him. We Filipinos are truly a unique people, easy to mock their own kind yet tolerant of others.               

Some of us make it a habit of belittling our kababayan who has the local accent - Ilongo, Cebuano, Ilocano, Pangasinan, and so on. Others laugh at kids born or who grew up abroad trying very hard to speak Filipino with an American or Canadian accent.                Leandro V. Coronel in his Phil. Daily Inquirer column said, “Isn’t it a shame that even Filipinos in high places can’t properly pronounce letters like “f”, “v” and “ph”? Take the name of our country; many pronounce it “pilipins,” without the “f” pronunciation of “ph” and the peens” sound of “pines.” If should be pronounced “filipeens.” We pronounce “Ferdinand” as “ferdinind” when it should be pronounced “ferdinaand.” Worse, we often pronounce it perdinind.”               

We have a hard time distinguishing between “I” and “e,” thus “this” and “these” are often pronounced the same way, which is “dis.” “These” should be pronounced “theeze,” We also have a problem with “a” and “u,” with words spelled with an “a” often pronounced with a “u” sound, as in “playbuck” or “come buck soon.”               

He proudly said, “In my book, however brilliant you may be if you can’t pronounce simple letters properly, that takes away from your stature.”

Colonial               

To me, this is one of the signs of our colonial mentality and love of everything from our former masters.               

Most of us have to think in our local dialects first and translate our thoughts in English. That is why it takes us longer to respond or talk in this foreign lingo, unlike those who were born with the language who thinks and talks in English.                

What really is this pride in something foreign to us? English is a universal language which we have made into a status symbol for the intellectuals, learned, and rich in our country the Philippines. We also use it to belittle the unlettered and the masses. English is also the language spoken by millions of illiterate, bums and winos in Europe, the United States of America, Canada, Australia and others. Of course they can speak fluently in English without our accent because they use and practice the language every day of their lives. But all of them also have peculiar accents which distinguish them as from the south or the north, Canadian or Australian. The British, Irish, Scottish, Caribbean have their own accents, and they are not ashamed of it.               

If one is used to a local accent, you can’t just remove that easily unless you go through extensive training. Most carry it even in old age.               

Is this not a replay of the Spanish time when the Spanish speaking class mocked the Filipinos who can’t speak Spanish or with an accent? But unlike the Spanish language which was denied to our common tao and was spoken only by the elite and influential during the Spanish times, English was taught to everyone in school by the American colonizers. It became the medium of instruction and the official language in Government Offices. But while our early teachers were Americans, in later years, the language was taught to us by Filipinos who has the local accents and pronunciations.

Abroad               

When abroad, we realize that we are much better in speaking English than other nationalities and ethnic groups like the Chinese, Jamaicans, African, East Indians and other Europeans whom we barely understand when they speak English. Even the Scottish and Irish have very heavy accents which is hard for us to decipher.               

We write English better grammatically than most North Americans even if it is a foreign language for us.  In fact a lot of Canadians and Americans are amazed how fluently we speak and write in English. They would often ask, “How did you learn English?” They think we are brilliant.               

And our advantage is that we speak English, Pilipino, and various local dialects which others do not have the gift to do. In fact, we can be categorized as linguists.               

Do not be ashamed in speaking English even with an accent. We do not laugh at Chinese, Jamaicans, Scottish and Irish when they speak worst English than us. Why should we laugh with sarcasm at our people as if they are so ridiculously uneducated? Languages were made to communicate and even if you are an expert in a language you are not assured of success because communication is only one aspect of success.               

We should in fact be ashamed when we no longer have the Filipino accents, because this is one of our distinguishable trademarks of being Filipino just like our flat noses, height and dark colors.                

Do not laugh at kids who are trying to speak Filipino. They are turned off by it being as sensitive as we are. Kids should never be ashamed of speaking Filipino with Canadian accent. Language is practice and if you do not practice it often, you will never learn it or loose it. 

12. Path of innovators Rodel J. Ramos 

There is always resistance to change. Lots of people want to preserve traditions, cultures, habits, attitudes, and mindsets. When Galileo talked about his theory of a round Earth, he was accused of heresy by the Catholic Church. The thinking of that time was the Earth was flat.

All innovators and agents of change met their challenges and resistance sometimes leading to their persecution and death. Christ was crucified for showing exposing the defects and abuses of the Pharisees and the Jewish religion. Dr. Jose Rizal was executed for seeking reforms and exposing the abuses of the friars, Spanish colonizers, and the Filipino people of his times.

There is that inertia, the tendency of matter to resist change. It takes a strong force to change the motion or inaction of things. That is why it is almost impossible to change a people specially the older ones who already have formed habits, beliefs and attitudes. They cling to traditions, and old customs. And they will die or kill for them. This is especially true to a people who are jealous of the ideas, popularity or advancement of others and who are contented with the status quo. There are always those who just find fault and because it is so easy to destroy or criticize even without thinking.

The path of innovators is a hard, many times fighting in long struggles. There are times when you can compare it with cutting your way into a thick jungle where there are so many obstacles in your path. There are constant challenges. There is no easy road to greatness. On the other hand, we know that all problems have solutions and all solutions have problems. You must be aware of these resistances to change and be prepared to counteract them or ride over them.In most organizations – business, social, religious, student groups you will encounter resistance to new ideas and change. In most schools resistance to change comes ironically from teachers and school officials who are suppose to teach their students to have an open mind and how to think, not what to think.

There are irreconcilable principles especially among different professions. For example, accountants are trained to hold on to money and you need to convince them well before they release any amount. Marketing and promotions people however believe that “money begets money.” You have to spend to promote and market your product before you earn a profit.

There is a saying that philosophers can never argue with non-philosophers. This is so with the educated against the ignorant. They have their own mindset. It pays therefore to know where people are coming from. Promotions and marketing people try to understand first what the market of their products is and analyze the mindset of these people and what are the best approaches to introduce their product.

People always ask, “What is it for me?”, “What do I get back in return?” or “What are the advantages.”Marketing people are taught that there are four desires of men. They are the desire of security, recognition, belonging and achievement. Give him/her any or a combination of these and people will buy or accept your idea or product. Everything begins and ends with the customer.  Not all will resist you. You will discover that most people are passive or don’t want to get involved. You will find some people who have the same conviction, belief, ideas as yours.

Get them together as your support group and built on their strength. Know also their weaknesses. There is a saying, “The only thing that does not change is change itself.” which is opposite to resistance. We all grow old and eventually die and another generation takes over. It is the young who are receptive to new ideas. They have their own culture, are brainwashed by TV, radio and newspapers into developing new characters, habits and cultures.

Every now and then there are new technologies that change the way we do things. Typewriters became obsolete with the introduction of computers; letters to emails; horses into cars, trains and airplanes etc. There were resistance to these products but with the creative promotions and marketing of businesses that profited from these products, they changed our attitudes towards them. So, it is not impossible to change people’s perception about ideas, goods and services. It only takes time, so you have to be patient and have the resources to overcome resistance.               

In the political scene, we learned of the passive resistance of Gandhi that freed India from its British masters. We also have our People’s Power peaceful revolution which brought down a dictator and a plunderer president without bloodshed.               

Observe that most of the innovations and products around us which have revolutionized the way we live and die were all resisted in some ways when they were being introduced. It required strength and determination even stubbornness of inventors and proponents to bring them into reality.

Only a few will support something unknown or alien to the group until we convince the more influential people to accept or support it.  There is Saul or St. Paul who converted the Romans into Christianity by saying that he represents the unknown god among the many gods of Rome. So, there are many ways of creating change among people and they are all done almost everyday by promoters and marketers of products and services. We only have to find the right combination of elements to bring about change. Many times it takes bold ideas, money, power, force, the support and connivance of influential people, even luck and God’s blessings and the determination of the proponents and innovators.Be aware that there are those who are waiting for you to succeed and then phase you out to grab the credit and the glory. Prepare for them. 

13. Has Democracy become a hindrance? by Rodel J. Ramos                

The Americans defined Democracy as the government of, by and for the people. The late Sen. Raul Manglapus at one time defined democracy, Filipino style as the government off, buy and fool the people. Some call it democrazy for a reason. The ones who has the money to buy votes, the most popular personalities (screen, radio and TV actors & actresses), good speaker or those who tamper with the ballots gets elected.                

We became obsessed with this popular election that we carried that practice in Canada. For more than 3 decades, the politicians among us manipulated the community using this process in their favor. We often elect, not the most qualified but the most popular, the ones who brings in the most voters with the hakot system.               

And there are no pre-qualifications to voters or candidates. As long as they are present during elections even if they do not know the candidates. Voters need not even pay their dues as members. Basta kaibigan, kamaganak, guapo or magaling magsalita, mahusay ang pakikisama, okay na. Ano ba ito, popularity contest? I thought that we elect people to get the best leaders who will lead our people, do their jobs with efficiency. What happened to qualifications and experience?               

Compare this with the way we select people in business. We find out first the requirements, responsibilities and authority of each job. Then we select the applicant who is most qualified for the job. Experience, education, character and attitude carry more weight. We test their capabilities, ask for references and give them three months probation. This is done even with factory workers. And the selection committee is well qualified people. We require even for a janitor in the Philippines to be a high school graduate.               

This corporate practice had been used by millions of business enterprises, schools and governments worldwide and they are found very effective.               

Can our election process be one of the reasons why we can not progress as a community? In spite of many of us having the best experiences in managing organizations, we are a complete failure because we do not use the proven methods of selection when choosing our leaders.               

We forget the basic success of organizations comes from their leaders and executives who have the most experience, training, and achievements. We also forget that commitment and time are very important factors. However, a good leader knows how to delegate and share authority and responsibility.               

We also do not have incentives and motivational programs to attract the best to serve in the community.We are not a stupid people. We have the expertise. Our talents are exploited by Asian and western countries to manage their business, governments and projects. This happens even in Canada and the U.S. That is why they recruit so many immigrants from the Philippines, the cream of the crop.

*The reason we often fail is because we have abused the democratic system without pre-qualifying people. If the purpose is to select the best people to serve the community, then we must have pre-qualification standards. Many times we place a square peg in a round hole. We do not even ask them for their program or platforms. We want to stick to these democratic traditions that made us fail as a community, as a country for more than 50 years. Yet these traditions were installed by others who did not know the consequence of what they have done.

Of course each of us have our own expertise, but even doctors have their specializations. They can’t know everything.  One way is to create a screening committee to pre-qualify candidates and scrutinize their qualifications and character. And voters must know the qualifications and the platform or program of each candidate so that they can vote intelligently. Before members can be qualified to vote, they must have at least 1 year residency in the organization to discourage the hakot system. 

14. Democrazy vs. Business Culture

Why greatness elude our Community by Rodel J. Ramos                

When we are sick, we go to a doctor; and when it is serious we ask to be referred to specialists. We do not want to take the risk. We go to the best lawyers our money can hire when we have a case in court, to a dentist for toothaches, to an architect when building our house.               

We do not just hire a manager, an accountant, engineer or a clerk in our businesses by impulse. We ask for their diplomas, experiences, resumes and references. We sometimes have a panel of expert interviewers to judge the capacity of the person. We even require a high school diploma for a janitor. We make sure we have the right people on the right job not square pegs in round holes. We know that problems will be solved by their expertise and mistakes are minimized. Goals are attained at the minimum cost, time, and effort at maximum result. Millions of big businesses all over the world do this and they are efficient, productive machines. They reduce risk, red tapes, and costly mistakes.

Democrazy

But when it comes to choosing our community leaders, we employ the democratic system.  We give everyone a vote, even the idiots. We do not ask for qualifications. We elect a friend or relative whom we owe utang na loob. It is whom we know, the most popular, the best speaker, the moneyed, the most handsome/prettiest, best in PR. What does these things got to do with being a good manager of an organization?               

I am not saying, we elect the dumb or idiots. I am sure; these people are the specialists in their fields – the best doctor, teachers, engineers, dentists, etc. But do you ask a mechanic to operate a cancer patient, a doctor to build a house? Dr. Francisco Portugal is an exception however. His basement looks very professional.               

The late Senator Raul Manglapus defined democracy as the government off, buy and fool the people, not as we are made to believe that it is a government of, by and for the people?               

And we wonder why our community runs in circle like a chicken without a head, why it is chaotic? Why we have achieved mediocre goals and nothing great for the past 30 years. It took us so many attempts to even build a Community Centre. It was only when the people with expertise intervened that we bought one in 17 months.               

I can think of no other reason why we fail as a community. Most of us are successful in our individual professions because that is our specialization. We devote our time and money in studying that profession. But we cannot be specialists in all fields. We must accept this weakness and start recognizing the experts among us in leadership, marketing, promotion, organization and planning.

Leadership, not simple               

Do we think that leading a community is as simple as cooking rice or cleaning the house? Leadership or management is a different profession and is a science by itself. People who specialize on this go for 4 years of university and even have masters or doctorate. Some even go to Harvard. It is an art of identifying the talents and resources you need for a project, getting the right people for the jobs and motivating them to attain the goals. It does not mean that because we are successful in our specialized fields or have amassed lots of money, that we can be good managers of community organizations? Yet we refuse to even learn the basic rudiments of leadership and management. And there is no seminar on leadership at all.               

I am sure many of us had been officers or president of class organizations, of small hometown or provincial associations. But what have we achieved in those except mostly parties and picnics? Anyone can stage a gala night or picnic. When some leaders proudly say that they can make a big difference, I just laugh knowing they don’t have the training to lead our people.               

We have experts in organizations, management, marketing, and finance who get involved. But they get frustrated because they waste too much time discussing and debating with people who do not understand what they are saying. And when the vote comes in, of course, the majority who are traditionalists wins. The experts are not believed, treated like aliens and even ostracized. Politics and waste of time in the community discourage them. And there are no incentives to attract the best minds among us.

Election irregularities

Some of us are experts masterminding elections - fixing, cheating and rigging them. And they would do anything to win, even sell their souls to the devil. They know all the dirty tricks.

Goal orientation

Democracy encourages personality cults, and so people want to always be in the newspapers or be officers of a lot of organizations without contributing much. Business culture is more goal-oriented. It does not matter who the leaders are as long as the goals are met.

The solution

It will be difficult to change the tradition of a people even if they are convinced that it is wrong. They will not give away their right to vote or the glory of being called the president or chairman. It is insulting to say that they do not have the qualification to vote. So, advocates of the business culture will have difficulty convincing the people. What might be acceptable to them is to have a blending of the two.               

We can create a pre-screening committee composed of independent, experienced personnel managers to screen applicants or nominees for the jobs. They will give the guidelines on the job requirement, the minimum qualifications needed etc. They will review the resumes and platform of the candidates, interview them and select the best 3. The public will then vote on whom they want among the candidates. Even committee chairs must be pre-qualified, even if they have to be appointed by the President.                Committees must be given the freedom to plan and implement on their programs, and given the budget to work on. The tendency of organizations is for everyone discusses even the small details of every plan and program. This is counter-productive, and wastes too much time and effort. Only those knowledgeable and involved in the implementation must join in the discussion as long as they conform to the goals. Committees and people given the responsibility must be given the authority to plan and act on a project. We cannot send people to war without the right weapons, training for the job and the power to shot the enemies.

Leaders must learn

If we are serious on becoming leaders of the community, we must educate ourselves on the rudiments of leadership. Management has many aspects like planning, organization, supervision and control, motivation, training, evaluation, etc. Many of us do not even know how to conduct a meeting. Who knows group discussion techniques, parliamentary rules and creative problem solving techniques? And we proudly call ourselves leaders.               

And we should learn from the lessons of the past. We keep on repeating the same mistake because new leaders come in with their big egos and think that they can just change the world without knowing the past and without a plan or the talent to motivate our people. You cannot achieve much alone. You have to harness the talents and resources of the community.

Create the incentives

If we want to attract the best minds among us, offer them incentives. We do not have to pay them but at least protect their integrity and follow them. We have lost faith in our leaders but we are to blame for placing untrained people in office. Let us therefore analyze seriously which is better in achieving results, democrazy or the business culture? 

15. Filipino Action Network (FAN) holds first Open Forum  by Rodel J. Ramos               

The latest Filipino Canadian group called Filipino Action Network (FAN) held its first Open Forum among Provincial candidates in Mississauga Centre. The newly elected Liberal MPP Harinder Takhar, former MPP Rob Sampson and NDP candidate Mike Miller discussed their platform and answered questions from the mostly Filipino audience at the Older Adults Centre in Square One last Sunday, September 28, 2003 before the election.  

FAN intends to make its presence felt among politicians and the community more and more with its planned activities.FAN feels the need to mobilize the Filipino Canadian community. Other ethnic groups have made headway in Canadian politics and benefited more. It believes that number is power. Our 350,000-population base can sway the votes to candidates who support issues that concern us.There are some Filipinos who are already involved in politics.

FAN intends to bring them together in a dialogue to see what we can do together. FAN is a lobby group to spouse issues and concerns of the Filipino Canadian community to politicians. To be a member of the selected group, one has to pass a rigid screening by a committee of 7 and take a series of seminars on leadership and political orientation. Quality rather than quantity is emphasized here. It does not matter what political stripe you belong too. What matters is that we are one in issues that benefit the community.

The Board of Directors of Filipino Action Network (FAN) headed by Ralph Logatoc and Julius Tiangson has just finished formulating its policies and position papers after months of serious meetings and consultations. The aim of FAN is to "Mobilizing Filipino-Canadians for politics". Its Mission Statement is "To increase the political presence of Filipinos in Canada." The Board agreed on a Vision Statement "To mobilize the Filipino communities to become politically active and elected in the municipal, provincial, and federal governments within 20 years.

"There are three Important Steps that they will follow. (1) Political process in the GTA; (2) Mobilization of Filipino-Canadian communities; (3) Objectives: (a) Educating Filipino-Canadians about the Canadian political system; (b) Identifying and encouraging Filipino electoral candidates; (c) Homeland relations: absentee vote in Philippine elections.They will use three Methods: (1) Quarterly Political Round Table Meetings; (2) Youth Symposiums; (3) Media Coverage.FAN will adhere to 7 Important Values: (1) Excellence; (2) Goal-oriented; (3) Principle; (4) Transparent; (5) Inclusive; (6) Aware; (7) Visionary.FAN Board of Directors are: Chair - Ralph Logatoc, a founder and former president of Kalayaan of Mississauga; Vice Chair - Julius Tiangson; Corporate Secretary - Neil Tolentino; Treasurer: Norman Lardizabal; Financial Secretary: Popoy Cana. 

16. Filipinos shall inherit the earth by Rodel J. Ramos                

The Bible said, “Blessed are the poor for they shall inherit the Earth.” Is this not happening to us overseas Filipinos who are being scattered all over the world? Because poverty, corruption, incompetent and greedy leaders, and lack of opportunities are driving us Filipinos all over the globe, it seems we are destined to fulfill Christ’s prophesy with other poorer countries.

The Statistics Canada’s latest figures are a warning to the government and businesses. Canadians are producing 1.5 babies per family which means they are not even replacing themselves as a family. It also shows a continuing aging population and they expect deaths will outpace births within 20 years. Without immigration, population growth will decline even at the increased level of 320,000 immigrants a year, up nearly 100,000 from this year. And consider that Canada is the largest country in the world today. The Philippines would fit in a land area 1/3 of the province of Ontario.

The median age of Canadians is expected to rise from 38.7 years now to 42.5 years in 2020 and 43.6 in 2025 unless immigration levels are dramatically increased.Canada is competing with Europe, America, Japan and other developed countries for immigrants. This will force them to increase incentives and recognize the foreign credentials of immigrants from the third world because of their needs. Right now, doctors and engineers are driving taxis and washing dishes.

This depopulation of progressive countries comes because it is very expensive to raise children. It needs time, money and patience which some people lack. People have become so selfish that they have given priority to ambitions, money, pleasure, and lust without responsibility. Having a family is to them a heavy burden. They would rather make money and enjoy it.

Their right to abortion (killing their babies), use of condoms and pills to avoid pregnancy are making it worst. Legalized marriage of gays and lesbians means lesser children.These situation are an advantage for us from the third world where we have fewer jobs and less entertainment like TV, and radio especially in the barrios where there is no electricity and therefore nothing much to do except make love and therefore babies. We also have more time and patience to raise them but with less money for their subsistence and education.

With immigration, eventually, we will replace the population of these developed countries and on time will become the majority.It is unfortunate for countries like the Philippines who are neglecting the needs of their citizens and even encouraging their people to work abroad. The country will loose its brightest and their best. Eventually, we bring our families to the adapted country, sell our properties and cut connections with our homeland.

Our children will consider themselves Canadians, not Filipinos.In time, we will learn to unite especially when we experience persecution and discrimination, vote in blocks and gain influence in our adapted countries. Our children will intermarry with the mainstream and the discriminated colors of our skin will disappear. We will learn to go into business. We can easily do that with our acquired wealth, the leverage of our dollars and our newly acquired knowledge and connection. If 200,000 of our 500,000 Filipino Canadian population earn an average of $15,000, our buying power is already $36 billion a year which is a lot of money.

Right now, Churches are revived because of Filipinos. Most hospitals have Filipino doctors, nurses and nursing aids. Filipino caregivers dominate the market and these people influence the education, cooking, religious beliefs and manner of living of the most influential families. Some intermarry with Canadians. Our children are more Canadian than Filipinos now. Some even teach them our dialects and eat our food. Some Canadians are also learning and adapting some Filipino traits, traditions and customs. We will in the near future break the ceilings in business and politics and will lead or influence decision making in this country.

These are all bright forecast for Filipinos. We came as servants but will one day inherit the earth. But we have to be aware of our competition which is China and India where most immigrants are coming from. We should learn from them particularly the way they are gaining influence in politics and business circles faster and we have to prepare our children for these opportunities. Instead of competing and fighting each other in some small organizations, let us gather our best minds and plan our future and educate our children for towards leading this emerging opportunities.

Fortunately, these two countries China and India are raising more baby boys than girls and they will need women in the future. They will turn to the Philippines which is producing girls in record number. This will be another opportunity we can take advantage of until we will inherit the earth and perhaps rule it.  

17. Some lessons in saving by Rodel J. Ramos                

If I was to start a financial plan again, I would live life the way we were raised and taught to earn and save for the future as Ilocanos. Unfortunately, it is too late since I am in my retirement years.

You see, early in life, we Ilocanos are taught to work hard and save something for the rainy days. Ilocanos are noted for their thriftiness, spending money wisely and industry. Some call us kuripot (stingy) but we are not.

Life in Northern Luzon is hard. Most of the people there are farmers and fishermen. As you know, there is an average of 15 typhoons that visit the Ilocos Region every year. And there are times when there is no harvest or catch. Farmers plant rice once a year during rainy season, twice or three times if there is an irrigation system. After which they wait for four to five months before harvest. If their palay (rice) is hit by a heavy typhoon, they suffer the losses and wait for another crop which is many months.

Even if most people are self sufficient (they grow their own vegetables, fruits, chicken, pigs, goat and cows or water buffalo for meat and milk and perhaps a fish pond in the side), money is hard to earn in the provinces. And so we were taught to remember the hard times and put something in the piggy bank or a bamboo tube for the rainy days or days for crises. Some cut a hole in the bamboo post of the house and start their savings there.

We Ilocanos believe that saving is half of the battle in creating wealth.I did not follow the advice of our elders, because I was driven by ambition. I believed even in my youth that I was not born to be an ordinary man. So I aimed for the stars. My father was my idol. He was a big time businessman, farmer, and politician in those days. I wanted to follow his footsteps and bring back his past glory. But God seemed to have other plans for me.

I went to study business in university going to this and that seminar and training, preparing myself and dreaming of duplicating my father’s business empire. I started a handicraft and export business right after college. I resolved to be better than my father as most children do. Today, as I look back in my success and failures and compare it with my father’s, I would say I have not even reached one tenth of what he had achieved.

I worked 16 hours a day, with a job during the day plus overtime at McDonnell Douglas (Boeing) and two businesses - a social club and a real estate investment company. But as in any business, there are ups and downs, and if you are carrying the lode alone with your limited resources, it is easy to make a mistake, stumble and never recover.

Of course there was a time when I had five houses with a flourishing business in Asian Connection. But when the recession came in 1989 and real estate prices dived so low, interest rates went up to 21%, people were losing their jobs and tenants can’t pay their rent and just run away, my businesses collapsed like a domino. All I worked for all those years vanished in smoke. Of course when people say that I am a failure, I always tell them not to laugh because they have not reached what I had. At least I tried the limits of my capacity and perhaps have more guts and wisdom than those who were afraid to try.

The tragedy of our community is that there are a few among us whose only happiness is to laugh at the misery of others, not knowing that every man will pass thru their own trials and tribulations, successes and failures, joy and pains, sickness and death.  During those times, people were saying I was already a millionaire, but in truth, all my earnings went into mortgages and debts. I would say, I am richer now because I have at least $10.00 in my bank account under my name. And nobody envies me, no one to borrow money from me or get hurt when I can’t lend them anything. That’s perhaps the reason why some of the rich pretend to be poor.

We reward achievements and success with so much glamour, not understanding that in every success are years of sacrifice, sweat and blood, a lot of costly mistakes. That it is 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration. That it is a combination of management, marketing, technical, financial skills, lots of financial backup, guts, timing, luck and most of all, God’s blessing.

And it was because of this ambition that I never had time for my kids who were growing up - my son was starting drugs, smoking and alcohol - when I woke up to my stupidity. My marriage was near its breaking point because the stress and problems of business and fatigue was carried home to the family. I had a short temper most of the time, and my family suffered from my frustrations. Coupled with this was our culture where we demand so much respect from children. Even when they just reason out, we interpret this as lack of respect and are hurt that the children whom you sacrificed so much in life for are rebelling against your wishes.

And in the business that I was in, there were so many temptations and sometimes with your power and wealth you think that you can do everything, even abuse your position of power.One thing good about the collapse of my business is I found more time to relax and enjoyed precious moments with my children and my late wife before she passed away. We had a time for vacation together and had the greatest times of our lives even if we had to make a loan to do them. I learned to be patient and control my temper. It was on these terrible crises that I returned to God because there was nobody there to help you and I learned to accept His will. I believe now that in every misfortune, there are blessings. And you are much wiser than before.

I don’t care what others said about me, because what ever you do, people will always have something to say. In fact I consider it an honor when people talk about me; it means I am important and popular like an actor. I just pray that when the same things happen to them, that they will have the courage to stand up where they stumbled and face the challenges of life like I did. For each one of us has his/her cross to carry, and when you cry, you cry alone.

As my father said, “The greatness of a man is not measured by his success but the number of times he rises every time he falls.”Some people say that I was a failure because I declared bankruptcy. One thing good when you are down is you can’t go anywhere but up. And I kept telling people who were trying to destroy me that they can’t do that because I am already destroyed. If God made me rich, I would be luckier than all of them because I will have everything. I have a young, loving and beautiful wife and family. I am still alive. I am well known in the community. I am blessed with a lot of good and generous friends and family. And I believe I have a good future to look up to.

Western lifestyle

Because most of us believed that North America is a heaven, that it will be an easy life all the time, we have lost the wisdom of our elders who warned us that there will always be times of hardship, rainy days, or that we some day get sick and old. The temptation to buy is always there, and we are bombarded by promotions every minute in television, radio, billboards everywhere we look. There is the easy access to credit cards where you can buy without money. Then also, we want to show off to our friends and relatives here and at home that we have made it. We usually buy or spend more than what we can afford and buy things we don’t really need.

In many Filipino homes you will see an expensive glass dining cabinet full of classy chinaware which is just brought out when we have rich visitors, basically there to impress.Others follow the Joneses, whatever his friend or neighbor has, he or she also wants to have. If his friends have expensive jewelries, they would buy the same. If they have a luxury car or a house, they want to have the same. They buy a lot of things because of peer pressure. What I found out is we don’t need so many things we bought.

Most Ilocanos are taught that it is better to have a lot of money in the bank than to show off with expensive cars, jewelries, furniture, or a luxury house. They tend to save as much and pay off the mortgage before they engage in any luxury or expensive vacation. This way, nobody would be jealous of you nor would even think of asking for a loan or be offended if you deny them help. They would even pity you and give you things they can’t use.

Of course there are some stories of going over the border line of being stingy like a friend of my officemate in Montreal many years ago. They bought a house but stayed in the basement and rented the main floor. Because when they came, internal organs and heads of pigs were given away, they subsisted on these, and refrained from buying unnecessary things.

My friend was laughing at their life style but one day he was surprised that they already paid up the first home, bought another one but still live in the basement of the first house while my friend was still renting an apartment.

Another Ilocano friend refrained from attending parties in the community. Everybody called him snob and killjoy but he did not mind. They both just worked and took care of the kids. Today, they go out and accompany the kids every weekend. Their house is paid up and they have lots of investments in stocks and bonds.

And there is that one Ilocano filling up his rusty, dilapidated car in a gas station. Another Filipino with a sports car approached him and arrogantly said, “Pare, palitan mo na naman iyang kutse mo, nakakahiya na iyan, baka matitano ka pa.” (My friend, you should change your car, you might get tetanus from it.)   He retorted, “Pare, bayad iyan.” (My friend, this car is paid) knowing that the sports car was purchased on credit.

Suggestions

Live as simple as possible. In housing, you can save more if you live together with other members of your family and share in the expenses especially when you are a new immigrant or during hard times. Some of us can’t live together because we try to control or dominate the lives of the other members of our family and friends. Let us not impose our own morality and desires on others. And let us not be over sensitive. Try to understand the reasons why people act and say things.

Some buy and eat too much food which is bad for our bodies. Some of us have become voracious eaters. Some have parties almost every weekend - birthdays, weddings, picnics, anniversaries, etc.

Still others buy so many things which we do not really need and end up with so many junks; we have to get more and more space. Some buy large houses with large spaces they really do not need, and they spend more on maintenance, electricity, heating, air-conditioning and taxes.

Read books

It is worthwhile reading books that advise you how to handle your money. One is The Richest Man in Babylon. The book tells of a young man who met the richest man in the wealthiest city of the ancient world, and asked him to impart his secret. The man advised him that “Wealth is like a tree. The first dollar that you save is the seed. And the more you nurture and water it with more savings, the earlier you will retire in its shade. 

18. Maturity of Filipino leaders by Rodel J. Ramos 

The joint project of the Philippine Independence Day Council (PIDC) and the Philippine Chamber of Commerce Toronto (PCCT) this weekend is a sign that our leaders had matured. They are now thinking outside the box looking at things they can do together in spite of their being competitors.

It took us more than 30 years to convince our hard headed people to work together rather than against each other - that we are not enemies but partners in spite of our differences, that we can trust one another. It also took us that long to evolve leaders with vision and dream of greater things. It was difficult to bring about this situation in a community of big egos and little dreams, with our “tingi” and crab mentality and many of us thinking of conquering each other rather than working together in conquering the world. This usually happen with former colonies.

These are good signs of progress. But still there are much to do and so little time for older generations like us. And the younger generations don’t listen or learn from our mistakes so they repeat the same cycle of failure. They want to experience the bitter lessons we had and many will realize when it is too late. They have past their prime and have no more strength to work their dreams. Tradition also has hindered our progress and it is so difficult to break.Hopefully, our businesses will work closer together and explore what common problem they have and how merging their strength can make their businesses more successful so that they can in return also support the community.

We are not reinventing the wheel here, others succeeded because they worked together. But we have to have a code of ethics and rules of engagement which is not yet installed.

There are still many rooms for improvement. Because many of our businessmen are small time and some were lured into business because they were jealous of others or the prestige of being called a businessman is so attractive, so many are loosing or are just making enough to stay afloat. Yet they refuse to learn more about the business. Others do not realize the value of advertising and promotion. Some believe that be just lowering the price of their services or goods, customers will go to them but you must balance cost and pricing to leave you some profits and salary.

Still others do not know how to compute the price.Some do not have good public relations and would not even talk to their customers. In marketing we were taught that customers are first and last. In the restaurant business, some start with good quality food but change as time goes. You should listen to what your customers want and need. They are your reason for being in business.We should think big and global, outside the box and work together. 

19. A second look at recruiting non –Filipino judges by Rodel J. Ramos 

Congratulations to the Philippine Chamber of Commerce for their much needed project, “The Outstanding Filipino Canadian of Ontario” (TOFCO) awards. This will encourage Filipinos in Ontario to excel in their respective fields.

It will remind us that there are so many outstanding kababayan in our midst who deserve to be recognized for their contributions and that we should be proud of being a part of this brown race. These outstanding men and women will serve as inspiration and role models for our youth.  Positive motivation is one of the missing ingredients in our quest for unity.  Our lack of pride in our people is one of our weaknesses as a community.The Chamber’s choices of awardees too are commendable. The prestige of the people behind the project are unquestionable. They deserve our praise and support.

There is however a seemingly minor aspect I beg to disagree with. It is getting other races as judges. This is not an isolated case however, because there were already some examples in the past years and seems to be a trend. I do not blame the promoter of this idea. I am sure it was well intended. It was done to avoid criticism and suspicion of lutong Macao or rigged judgment. Some contests in the past were suspected of being bias. I was once a believer of this great concept - recruit whites (symbol of our colonial masters), doctors, lawyers and priests (professions we idolize and trust) and ergo, nobody will question what you are doing.  And it is true.  Till now, nobody has come to question their decision. And so it seemed we solved the problem of perception and trust, but have we?

Before we continue with this practice, however, let us answer some valid questions. Are we not going backward and perpetuating the number one cause of disunity, low self steam and inferiority complex towards the white race?  Is getting white judges not negating the very purpose of these awards?   Are we not catering to the bakya mentality which we have brainwashed ourselves in believing that Basta Pilipino, hindi pagkakatiwalaan, siguradong manloloko o hindi gagawa ng mabuti, which is not true.

We are no longer an enslaved and uneducated people but this is a similar to what the Spaniards used to tell our ancestors “Ang mga Indio ay mangmang at walang gawang mabuti. Nararapat lang sa kanila ay sumunod at magbayad ng buwis. This is from Rizal’s Noli Me Tangere written 100 years ago. And we also continue the hunger of our elders for honor from our masters - the approval of the friars, and Spanish authorities, and landlords who took away our lands and made us servants, and then of the American colonizers who taught us their language and culture to be a market for their products.

Mixed message

In awarding the best among us and appointing whites as judges, are we not sending our people a contradicting message - that we are proud of the accomplishments of our people but we do not trust them as judges?          

Have we seen Americans recruit Africans, Asians or any race to judge their capabilities as a people? The Japanese, Jews and even Chinese would frown on this idea. Only people from third world countries who have a colonial past would be proud. This proves that we have not grown up and are still chained to our past. No wonder Rizal insisted that we educate the people first and prepare them for freedom. A domesticated elephant remains domesticated and will show its offspring the same habits.

I am sad that this idea was proposed and carried on by us who have worked and lived in North America. We see white bums, drug addicts, prostitutes and lunatics in the streets. We work side by side with white Canadians and we know that most of us are as educated as they are, some are better. The color of one’s skin does not prove his or her superiority to others in judgment, intellect nor values.

Who can judge?

Who can judge Filipinos better than their own people? Others do not know how we feel, think and do.

Fear of criticism

Should we be concerned with some people would say? No matter what you do, others will have something to say. It is the easiest thing to do and you are not punished for it. We know that in any community some people would believe every gossip or opinions without investigating the truth. Even during the Spanish times when it was unlawful to criticize the friars and the Government, there were critics, what more in this age of tolerance and without punishment. As long as we have done our best, we should not be afraid of what others might think.

Many times, those critics are sour grapes, were not chosen in the contest or have an ax to grind with one of the judges. Some just want to prove that he or she is a wise critic by concocting arguments and comments without thinking of the damage to the community.  

Faith

Faith is the foundation of a strong community. If we do not have faith in our people, we might as well renounce our community, claim ourselves Canadians or Americans, stop speaking Filipino, dye our hair   blond, have a nose lift, bleach our skin, and speak English in slang like some people we know.   But while we still have dark skin, an Ilocano or Visayan accent, with flat nose, eat bagoong, tuyo and balot, wear umbrella in a hot day and many other signs of being a Filipino, we are just fooling ourselves.

Let’s continue to find solutions to our problems, but don’t sacrifice our basic faith in ourselves and our people. Let us rely in our resources and our strength. As Pres. Manuel Quezon once said, “I prefer a Government run like hell by Filipinos than a Government run like heaven by Americans.” Because it is only by doing it ourselves that we will learn. A child does not learn to walk by just watching other kids.    

He has to do it himself and learn from mistakes.As long as we do not have faith in our people, there is no future for all of us. The burden of success is too heavy for any one man to carry in a world where we are already discriminated against, and still doubted by our own people. We might as well not have faith also in ourselves, for the people we doubt are ourselves.  

20. What I wish to see this millennium by Rodel J. Ramos, January 2000               

Other writers would dwell on past achievements or history, just like old folks. We can’t get anything from the past except to learn from it; to recognize our strength and weaknesses, to know what we truly are and of our capacity to excel. We know we can do better than what we have achieved if only we can put our acts together. But most of us in our stubbornness do not learn from the past. Just like our children who must experience from their own struggle and learn the hard way. And so, the cycle of failures and success will keep on going until someone or we ourselves create the ideas to break that chain.

I would rather dream of the future and generate ideas to break away from our past. It gives us more hope. And all great achievements start with an idea or a dream. 

Philippine Heritage Band

One of the groups we owe our visibility in the mainstream Canadian community is the PHB. It was the vision of its founder Oscar Farinas, the cohesiveness, and hard work, self sacrifice of the parents and Band members and its tireless President Carol Banez.

I wish to see them recruit members from the mainstream Canadians in all schools to expand their membership. This would make the Filipino community more visible.We can then teach Canadians our music, arts, culture and even our language and values. Target: Have a band in every district - Mississauga, Toronto, Scarborough, etc. Conduct a contest among different bands. Also, import the musical instruments of Bandang Kawayan (Bamboo instruments), learn to use them and teach them among our people and among Canadians. Those instruments are original Filipino inventions and amazes everyone who hears them. We will be an attraction and remembered more for originality and creativity.

Our folkdance groups               

Other groups that brought us so much pride are the Fiesta Filipina & Folklorico. Canadians love them specially the Tinikling, Pandango sa Ilaw and Singkil. They are so colorful and lively. Teach our Philippine Folkdances to Canadians. Recruit members from mainstream Canadians and other ethnic groups for a fee. If we can promote and teach Hawaiian dances, why can’t we do it with our very own folkdances? Develop and sell video tapes as instructions to teach Filipino folk dances. You can make money from it, orient mainstream Canadians of our dances, culture and arts. Then, later, sponsor contests to encourage more Canadians to learn the folkdances. Invite these white people to perform in our Country.

Go to schools and recruit volunteers, perhaps suggest to them to make it an extra curricular activity with folk dances from other lands.

Politics               

Have our own Member of Parliament & Member of Provincial Parliament, more councilors and mayors in Metro Toronto. Organize as a political group. Gather the best minds and experienced politicians and create a master plan to gain influence and eventually power. In the Philippines, we should lobby for dual citizenship, ownership of land, support to overseas workers and immigrants; minimize graft and corruption, development of the countryside, business opportunities for overseas Filipinos, etc.

Entertainers and Artists               

We are starting to break into the Canadian market with the entrance of Ora, Joselyn and in TV and radio. Much Music, Electric Circus and many radio stations have featured them. Their records are being played in major radio stations almost every day. Their CDs are selling well in record stores. Invite record companies, talent scouts, to lecture on what they are looking for and how they can act professionals. Let them hear the varied talents in the community. Give them awards so as to be recognized by them. Ask them to teach our talents the rudiments of presenting themselves, portfolio preparations, stage presence, etc. And promote our talents collectively.

IT Technology               

Gather and band together our experts in IT specially the young and promising with talents. Encourage, support and nurture them even financially. Who knows, we might discover a Bill Gates among our young.The youthMore sports club, cultural clubs, etc. to keep young people busy and away from drugs, cigarette & alcohol. Computer literacy form a youth group to get involved in molding the character and values of the young.

Religions               

I once read a book that appealed on leaders of the different Christian religions to bow their heads a little so that the people can see Christ. In their desire to have power and wealth, they have forgotten that their purpose is to propagate Christ, not their own images.               

I pray that the movement to bring all religions in harmony will succeed in the next millennium so that the world can finally have peace.

Umbrella Organization               

It is time for some of our leaders to initiate a get together of all organizations, formulate rules, create an organizational structure, policies, guidelines, qualifications, meetings, committees, goals, financing. An umbrella group in each district, and a mother umbrella to coordinate, supervise, influence and direct the activities into more worthwhile projects in Metro Toronto. 

Community Leaders               

The people who brought us too much shame are some of our leaders who kept the Community divided and are in fact the hindrances in our progress.Learn more on leadership, humility, human relations and how to motivate people. Many of us are good in criticism and slow in praising our members. Some are good in grabbing the achievements of others. Study why you can not unite, and how to unite. Learn from other ethnic groups their common experience, problems and how they were solved. Invite their leaders to lecture.

Community Center in Metro                

Create a mother Community Center to bring pride among our people. Then, build small centers in every district. You will all fail if you try to build many at the same time.  

Restaurants & stores               

Have common and collective ads in Canadian mainstream newspapers to increase visibility of Filipino businesses. Promote Filipino cuisine. Ask suppliers and importers to help promote your products. Also, form a cooperative for your purchasing and advertising needs to reduce cost and be competitive.

Travel agencies               

Have our own tourism representative in Metro Toronto to promote travel to the Philippines and coordinate tourism initiate to the Philippines and Filipino tourist to Canada. Coordinate the different travel agencies and encourage them to promote the Philippines in ads and press releases.

Filipino Businesses               

Form cooperative marketing board - purchase in bulk, guarantee each other in financing and advertise collectively. A four party financing from Philippine Government, Exporters & business community, Filipino Stores in Canada and the Community which can give a credit line at cheaper prices will give them enough edge against competition. Buy into and control a Canadian grocery corporation and use this company. to advertise, market and buy Philippine products. 

Seniors               

Harness the potentials of our senior citizens to mold the young in their values, and teach them our history and heritage. Bind them together to lobby for more benefits and concerns of our old people.               

Some of our seniors have expertise in areas which we badly need. Find out what they can do and ask them to volunteer their talents. Encourage them to write their biography for the sake of history and their children to know their heritage.               

Happy millennium! May God bless and be merciful to all of us sinners. 

21. Are we the new Wandering Jews? by Rodel J. Ramos 

We Filipinos are all over the world driven away from our homeland by poverty, lack of opportunity, injustice, civil war, crimes, corruption and incompetence of our government. Many left in search for a better future for our children. More than half a century ago, it was the persecution of the Nazis in Europe that made the Jews fled to populate the world just like us Filipinos. We were not massacred by the millions like the Jews, but many of us suffered the separation of families, others the humiliation of working as prostitutes, caregivers and laborers, our professions and experiences not recognized and racial discrimination.

In the ancient times, the Jews were conquered and enslaved by Babylon (now Iraq) under Nebuchadnezzar.  Fortunately the King treated them like its citizens and sent their children to school. Egypt also bought and sold the Jews as slaves until Moses unchained them and brought them to the Promised Land.

Many years before that Joseph was sold into slavery in Egypt by his jealous brothers. When the King sought the help of prophets to interpret his dream Joseph came forward and said that his dream means 7 years of plentiful harvest and 7 years of famine for Egypt. Joseph gained the confidence of the Pharaoh and he advised him to built warehouses and stock grains for those years and he was appointed to administer this task. It was during those hard times that his brothers came to Egypt to seek food and he supported his family just like what we do now to our families in the Philippines.

Maybe God has a grand design in all these sufferings of the overseas Filipino workers and the poverty of the Filipinos just like he did with the Jews. Perhaps he is cleansing us of our sins just like the way we trim the trees to make them grow robust. Perhaps like the Jews who were scattered all over the world to be its servants, we will one day be delivered into the Promised Land. The question is are we going to wait for thousands of years before we learn from these crises or can we learn from the Jews experience and follow what they did to uplift their people?

Are we going to wait for the messiah or develop and train ourselves and our people to lead the Filipinos to greatness? Are we not the hands and feet of God? If we are, we have to take the responsibility of freeing our people from the bandage of poverty, corruption, incompetence and evil that has taken over the country. The reason why we are all overseas is because we always point the blame to politicians when we know that they only look at their selfish interest and don’t care for ours. They always steal the money of the people and we just close our eyes or have resigned to this fate, and as usual say, “Talagang ganyan na tayo, wala na tayong magagawa diyan.” (This is what we are; we can’t do anything about it.)

Even if it is their responsibility to serve the people, they can only do so much. We have to do our share.The crises can also be opportunities for us to be heroes of the hour but it seems we no longer have a Rizal, a Bonifacio or even a Ninoy Aquino among us who have the conviction and commitment to sacrifice for our people.

We know that most of us have not really tried to do anything to change the situation. Some did participate in EDSA 1 & 2 but after that stood back to watch events unfold. Is it not said that eternal vigilance is the price of good government? We know we can do something if we want too. We have given up so easily when it comes to our country, yet are strong and innovative fighters when it comes to our families and our own ambitions. Yet many of our sufferings come from the failure of our government and its system.

Many of us are retiring now and are eager to go home to our homeland. Our dollar pensions can bring progress to our people. But we are afraid to go home because of the crime rates, kidnapping, pollution, and the volatile political situation. We know that these will not change unless some of us do something about it just like what the Jews did to regain their homeland.

There is a quote in the Bible that the revival of the Church will come from the East. Iglesia Ni Christo took advantage of that quote and claims to be the new church of God. But today, we are witnesses to the revival of the Church all over the world that comes from the faith of Filipino immigrants from the East to God. Without them, the churches will be stagnant or diminish like all the others.

Gawad Kalinga is setting an example to poor countries on how to alleviate poverty. GK 777 now has model homes in Africa started by Filipinos there. Other countries are observing the miracle happening in the Philippines to conquer poverty, and ignorance, to bring hope, peace and faith to the people and it might be another God’s instrument in revitalizing His churches and uplifting His people.

 22. Our achievement as a community by Rodel J. Ramos 

The Filipinos as individuals are succeeding well. As a community in Greater Toronto, Canada we have gained a lot. With my participation, we were successful in staging the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome bringing together more than 35,000 Filipinos together.

Most said it was impossible to bring together such number. But it was done. It brought pride and faith among our people. We proved that we can do greater things than just having gala nights and picnics. For more than 30 years, the community struggled to build a Centre.

After we put together a group and merging two competing factions, the Filipino Centre Toronto was able to buy a Centre at the corner of Wellesley and Parliament worth $1.05 million. We proved again that we can do things if we do it right. I was the publicity & promotions chair in both projects.

I left FCT because of management style, but we in the media are still protecting the group from intrigues and troubles from ambitious individuals. I also co-founded the Philippine Press Club - Ontario to give direction to the most powerful group in the community. We are not just reporting news but inspiring or moving our people to do what needs to be done. The people will follow when they see the voices of the media are more united. We inspired our people to get involved more in politics both here and in the Philippines with our writings.

We believe that we can be more visible and can get more benefits from the politicians when they see us getting involved. The government has the money and the connection to bring us more goodies. Right now, some Filipinos are running. Gene Lara for MPP at Rosedale Centre (St. Jamestown) and Rick Falco, Iggy Manlangit, Willie Reodica and others are running for councilor in T.O. and Mississauga. We worked for the dual citizenship and absentee voting.

By coming out with the stories of Dr. Jun de Villa and Ric Torres, we helped regain the faith of our people to their leaders. This is important because people will not support a community where their money will just be malversed by leaders. There are still much to be done. The foundation of the community is still weak. I am now focusing on issues that will show our people and leaders what are missing so that some of them might see the light and do something.

I have exposed some of the traditions of the community which hinders our progress like their system of fund raising wasting so much money in dinner and dances and concerts. I pointed out that this system only earns 5% to 10% net profit and throwing away 90%. In the process, when we make $1 million dollars, we are throwing away $9 million which can in fact built 10 centers. This is aside from the efforts, time and money put into the projects by the leaders and the expenses in gasoline, jewelries, clothes and shoes. We were just enriching the hotels and banquet halls, caterers and DJs.

Today, PIDC and Kalayaan hold their gala nights jointly and earning more. We have proven that we can inspire, motivate, and guide our people to greatness. But we have to build the strong foundation to achieve more. This is where we should focus our efforts. We must train more leaders the right way to harmonize their goals and mindset and create a new breed of leaders.

There is still much to be done, but we are getting there. However, time for us older people is also getting shorter. 

23. Reaching Kabayan by Rodel Ramos, October 2003                

Marami ang mga bagong dating na nalulungkot dito dahil malayo sila sa mga mahal sa buhay. Nangyari din sa akin iyan noong bagong dating kami at hindi pa nakakahanap ng magandang trabaho.

We brought our son but left our daughter Vanessa back home because my wife was sickly. Araw araw akong umiiyak at namimiss ko ang aking anak. Dati akong nagnenegosyo sa atin at maraming katulong. Dito, kayod ka na sa araw, ikaw ba ang magluluto at mag-aalaga ng mga bata. Pagod na pagod ka na bago mo mailapat ang likod mo sa kama. Kung hindi ko kasama ang asawa at anak na lalaki dito, sana umuwi na ako. Ayaw lang magpaiwan ang asawa ko, kasi marami siyang nababalitaan na nangbababae kung wala ang asawa. Pagkatapos, hindi na kinukuha ang pamilya.               

You are not the only ones who experience the loneliness, hardship, discrimination, cultural shock, stress, frustration and humiliation because your education and experiences are not recognized here. We understand what you feel because we have been there.               

You only have to reach out to your kababayan. They are all around you. Tell them what you feel. Cry on their shoulders. Huwag kang matakot na itsitsismis ka dahil natural lang ang feeling na iyan. Wala lang magawa ang gumagawa ng ganuon. Kung ibalita ka man, what is wrong with being human. But most of our kababayan has hearts of gold. Ang iba, nadala na lang sa pagtulong and pang-aabuso ng iba, pero marami pa rin ang mabait.               

When we just arrived, we were lucky to have our brother-in-law Mariano Lalog and sisters Lourdes and Bernadette.  He let us stay in his house for two months. After that we took an apartment at Richmond Square. We were buying our utensils from Honest Eds, the Divisoria of Toronto. We were short of $10.00 and were about to return some of the goods. A good-hearted Filipina by the name of Amy Kraft offered to lend us the money. Hiyang hiya kami, and we asked her address to bring back the money. It turned out they were in the same apartment we rented. Amy and husband Albert became our best friends, more than relatives. Friends of my sister gave most of our furniture. The only thing we bought was a Sony TV.               

Halos lahat ng provincia at bayan ay may association dito, kanya lapitan ninyo sila. You can get the list and addresses of your town and province organization from the Philippine Consulate and they are just willing to help you. Many times, it is still whom you know when getting a job. Marami ang trabaho na hindi advertised.               

And we have the Silayan, Kababayan Community Centre, Filipino Centre Toronto, Gateway Centre, Kalayaan and other outreach groups, which can help new immigrants. Humingi kayo ng tulong sa mga ito at ituturo sa inyo ang tamang social service groups to approach.               

There are also Churches and Canadian social services to you ask help from.               

Of course, you also have to be careful. May mga taong mapagsamantala kahit na anong lahi. But when it comes to helping people, we are the most generous, helpful and thoughtful and even merciful. Maramdamin lang kung minsan. Habaan mo rin ang pasensiya mo dahil sa hindi din sila perfecto na kagaya mo.               

At samahan natin ng maraming dasal, dahil ang tutuo, kahit na tayo ang pinakamatalino at pinakamagaling, kung ayaw ng Diyos, wala tayong magagawa.               

At kung may tumulong sa iyo, tumanaw ka rin ng utang na loob. Maaaring hindi sa kanila, but other less fortunate than you. Maging kaparis ka ng Araw, walang nakukuha sa tao at sa mundo pero nagbibigay ng liwanag at init sa mabuti at masama. Ganyan ang papel nating lahat. Ipinanganak tayo hindi lamang para sa sarili kung hindi sa iba rin. Amen 

24. Some don’t deserve to be called Filipinos by Rodel J. Ramos 

There are lots of reasons why we can’t achieve anything great as a community. We always blame our leaders for incompetence. Some accuse them as not trustworthy. Perhaps some of them are but this is not the major reason for our failure as a community.

The blame is not totally on our leaders but from us also.The major reason is the indifference of many of us to the projects of the community. A few generously souls give and they are the ones overburdened. But this group is only less than 5% of the whole. The 95% of us are mere spectators ready to criticize, cast doubt of the purpose and the character of the people involved.

Many of us are just shameless “free loaders”. You will hear them say, “Ano na namang racket iyan?Walang mangyayari diyan” and so on. But if we succeed in what we are doing, they are the first to claim the credit, honor and glory.Let us be true to ourselves. How many of us have really given to the community and how much? Many times we give because we will enjoy dancing and eating in a fund raising party, not because we are happy to give to the community. Some go to parties to be seen with their glittering jewelries and beautiful faces.

Take for an example the Filipino Centre, Toronto project. Of the $220,000.00 Lottery tickets printed, we sold around $110,000 having a net profit of $60,000. We are now more than 300,000 Filipinos in the Greater Toronto Area. If every one of us gave, it means that each of us only contributed $0.37 each. But no, it was again only less than 10% who bought tickets.

During the Walkathon of the Filipino Centre, Toronto, there were around 50 participants and it earned $1,800. The officers congratulated each other. If they only knew that the Chinese had two Walkathons that summer and they made $140,000 with thousands participating. Someone said that if only each of us would give $10.00 to the Centre, we would have $3 million dollars to start the building.

Of course the idea is not practical because you will spend more than $30.00 just to go to these people and waste 1-2 hours of your time explaining to them about the project and why they should support it.As the saying goes, no pain, no gain. If we do not contribute anything, why do we expect to gain anything?

If we are really Filipinos at heart, don’t we suppose to have some responsibility and obligation to our Filipino Community? In Canada, we pay our income taxes plus GST, PST every time we purchase something. We also pay municipal and real estate taxes. That is why the Government has a lot of money to spend and give away. We give almost nothing to our community that is why we get almost nothing. The few things that we see as achievements of our people are either individual efforts and the heroism and sacrifice of a few. Yet we have been so unkind as to suspect and accuse them of what ever sins and faults we could think of.

Indifference               

Of course, some are tired of contributing and see no progress in our causes especially with the Community Centre projects. But how many really have given and how much? Our worse problem really is the indifference and apathy of our people. We can count those who are very active and participate in activities to be just 1% of the total population. Some are even officers of various organizations. And they are ones who always contribute to the big causes. A handful is generous, but they are exceptions rather than the rule. And they are the most abused when it comes to contributions and selling of tickets.               

Of the 1% most focus on socials, cultural, spiritual and sports activities. We compete with each other on who has the best dinner and dance, the best entertainment, the best music, the most number of attendances. But what are those? Tutuo nga siguro ang kasabihan na ang Pilipino has big egos and little dreams. We are not focused on areas where there is greater future than having an evening of fun. There are only a few engaged in politics, business and government.               

Most of us would ask, “Ano ang makukuha ko diyan?” Kung wala kang ibinigay, ano ang iniasahan mong makukuh? Many of us are generous with criticism but stingy in praising or contributing.               

And we have people who do not even contribute a cent to its community yet are proud to call themselves Filipino Canadians or Filipinos. In an organization, can you claim to be a member if you don’t even pay your dues?  Of course there are those who are ashamed to be called Filipinos. We are ashamed of them too.

Lack of awareness               

We also do not have the awareness of the importance of leaving a monument of our existence for our children and future generations. Egyptians, the Incas and Mayas left pyramids to give pride to their race. Russians and Americans raced for the Moon and other Planets to prove their superiority.               

We are no different than these people. We have a Lapu Lapu, Jose Rizal, Andres Bonifacio and thousands of others who defied colonial masters to be free. We triggered the downfall of dictators and communism all over the world by showing the world the way to peaceful revolution with our EDSA 1 & 2.               

Let us together built that monument, a proof even of our existence so that future generations do not have to dig our bones but look at the wonders of our achievement by the temples we built and have proof that we once united and sacrificed to show our greatness as a people.The truth is they are trustworthy. They work very hard to attain the goals of the community. And they are very sincere with their intentions.  

25. Our people are realizing the importance of politicsRodel J. Ramos 

I was amazed at the number of Filipino candidates in the last local election compared to past elections. We were drumming them up in past articles but only a few took the challenge. Are they starting to realize that they might as well join the political maze since we now consider Canada our home? That if we want to progress as a people, we have to get involved in politics? Is it the popularity, the attractive pay check and benefits or the political power? Or is it the desire to be of service to our kababayan and the mainstream community or perhaps all of the above.

What ever the reason, their candidacy is creating visibility for us all and we are thankful. Unfortunately only 4 of them won – Art Viola of Niagara on the Lake and Alex Chu of Markham as councilors, Luz del Rosario of Mississauga and Marlene Mogado of Markham as School Trustees.

With Art Viola, having been Lord Mayor and getting involved with a lot of charities in his area, the popularity and competence are well known in spite of the absence of Filipinos or was this blessing? Alex has the support of the Chinese and Filipino votes and his being popular in other ethnic groups.

Luz del Rosario’s success I would guess is her being “Mississauga’s Woman of the Year”, her popularity as Chair of Carassauga and as head of Culture Philippines. Her interviews on Rogers Cable helped a lot with her intelligent answers to questions. Benny Cuevillas, campaign manager brought in the votes of Couples for Christ. Her name del Rosario perhaps brought in the Italian, Portuguese, Latin American votes plus the Filipinos.

Also, having a popular husband Resty del Rosario, former Chairman of Spirit of Kalayaan98 who sponsored the Philippine Centennial Festival at the SkyDome (now Rogers Centre) helped. Luz was not also so ambitious that she went for School Trustee first in spite of having the potential as councilor. In spite of having a fellow Filipino with experience as Trustee as an opponent, she won easily.

But the husband and wife team and their followers worked very hard going house to house.Marlene had been active in a lot of ethnic communities, not only the Filipinos and has in fact involved the Markham Mayor in our community. Also, she must have a mentor in Alex Chu.

Observe that all the winners did not rely on the Filipino community alone as their support. They are realistic. The Filipino votes are a minority. We still have a passive Filipino vote and many would not even care to go out and help. Sometimes, they would even be a disadvantage.

We have a long way to go to be a political force in Canada. Former MP Rey Pagtakhan, Alex Chu and Art Viola have shown as the way. These people did their homework well before they entered politics. They volunteered and campaigned for other candidates, found out the intricacies of Canadian politics, had the money, the organization and networked with other ethnic communities and the mainstream. They trained to be politicians, learned the issues, had the personality and character, and trained in public speaking. Most of all, they had good campaign managers and a great promotions strategy to make them popular among the voters.

Actually, a political campaign is a popularity contest. It is like promoting a product or a service. You can’t just go out there with your big ego and proclaim to the world that you are the best candidate for councilor or mayor.

You have to do your homework.

In fact if we really are serious about this politics business, we should long in advance prepare. I propose that we set up a Filipino Action Network, a sort of an umbrella group to gather all those who have political ambitions and community leaders to learn the ropes of this game. It is like Pacqiao going thru rigorous training before meeting Morales.

Let us invite successful Canadian politicians and their campaign managers to tell us what it takes to be a politician in Canada. How they campaigned and won. What we should learn from them. Perhaps we can ask them to create a political strategy for us and make them our campaign managers.

We should also research on how the Jews, Italians, Indians and Muslims do it. They can teach us techniques we do not know because they have already mastered the situation.They should start organizing the Filipinos in their ridings or wards into a political force. They can get the list from candidates in the last election and identify the Filipinos there. We have to start making our people aware of the potentials of being active in politics.

Every political decision affects our very lives and our future. Being there, we can make decisions on where the billions of dollars that Canadians contribute in taxes. That means that issues and concerns of Filipinos will be addressed.

We complain that we are discriminated against, that there is racism and we are victims, that our foreign education is not recognized stripping us of our dignity and chance of practicing our profession and receiving lesser pay than Canadians. Many of us have better ideas and education than those elected in office. And the benefits and pay in politics are better than being employed in private corporations.

And our people will be proud of you. And you will have the respect not only of Filipinos but mainstream Canadians.So, it is important that we get involved in politics. But please do your homework first. Preparation is the key. 

26. Leaders or followers? by Rodel J. Ramos                

We often point an accusing finger at our leaders. But are they to blame? 

All of us have potentials as leaders. Most have good education. Many have various leadership experiences with school, civic or religious groups, at work or in business.               

There are no perfect leaders. Everyone has his own weak points. It is wrong to concentrate on the negative. Build on their strengths, not on their weaknesses.

Great leader - product of followers               

The truth is, a great leader, most of the time, is a product of great followers or a combination of both. There are great people behind the scene who create a leader’s image.               

A leader cannot achieve anything if the members always create intrigues and problems. A leader is only effective if his followers cooperate with him. In North America where everybody is busy, waste of time should be avoided in fighting and intrigues.                There is a notion that some people run for positions only to be popular or for other ulterior motives. Everyone who joins an organization wants to get something. It is unethical when someone joins or runs for office but does not fulfill his job.                People like these should be weeded out by a provision in the constitution that an officer who absents himself for three consecutive meetings without any valid reason must be fined or removed and replaced.

A nominating committee must screen candidates. There should be a provision that members must at least be active for a year before running for office.

Vital to a group               

We do not seem to want to recognize any leader. Every time someone rises as a leader, somebody or a group appears to put him down. This has left our community without a viable or strong leadership.                

We must recognize that a community without a leader is like a chicken without a head, not knowing where to go or what to do. To have direction and stability as a community, a leader provides the pivotal role. The leader is the brain.                

There should only be one leader at a time. If a person has two heads, the body would not know whom to follow. Other leaders in a group must be in a supportive role and must have patience to wait for their turn. More can be achieved when there is harmony.               

Most of our organizational break-ups start from trivial reasons - someone was not elected officer, somebody’s idea was not adopted, someone’s feeling was hurt with what another said, a member was ignored.               

Unless we overcome sensitivity, immaturity and pride, we can not unite and succeed as a group. Some of us are too sensitive and childish. Remember, we are no longer small children quarreling over toys and candies. And no organization is worth losing friends for.

Present leaders               

There are really not many trained leaders active in the community. The best among us shy away from the petty politics, frustrations and questions about their integrity as if there is so much money to steal from our organizations. And to think they don’t get paid for it is most unkind.               

So we are left with people who have nothing to lose, people who just want to make a name or sell a product.               

Some leaders are masters in manipulating elections using the hakot system (bringing in supporters in the last minute). Others just have lovely faces and charisma, or are just good speakers. Yet after the elections, they don’t even know what to do, or how to lead.               

To avoid manipulations, voters can be required to be members for a year. It is unfair to those who worked hard to establish the organization. An instant member cannot also vote intelligently.               

Most leaders are sincere in their desire to contribute to the well-being of the community but sometimes their followers misunderstand their good intentions. Some are looked upon with suspicion because of their past or some unsavory rumors.               

Those who succeed in becoming leaders are sometimes trapped in a system that wastes time, effort, and money.               

Some leaders still think that it is already an achievement of a lifetime if they start with a lavish induction ball in a five-star hotel. It becomes apparent that they are just there for publicity or that is the only dream they have. Some organizations start with a bang and die.

Qualities of a leader               

To become a true leader, one must possess certain abilities and characteristics. They are: 1) Know how to plan and organize; 2) Have the commitment or dedication; 3) Have the time; 4) Know how to delegate authority and responsibility; 5)Understand the mentality and character of people; 6) Be sensitive to the feelings of others; 7) Learn to take or handle criticism, whether constructive or destructive, without hard feelings; 8) Have absolute integrity and word of honor; 9) Have good human relations; 10) Have faith in himself and his followers; 11) Recognize his responsibility to the group; 12) Encourage activities that are worthwhile and lasting; 13) See to it that all activities are goal-oriented; 14) Have initiative and resourcefulness; 15) Charismatic; 16) Have a fair knowledge of parliamentary procedure; 17) Know group discussion techniques; 18) Know creative problem solving techniques; 19) Democratic in his approach, and respectful of other’s rights; 20) Have ability to impose impartial and strict discipline; 21) Know how to supervise and follow up; 22) Know how to communicate ideas clearly and explicitly; 23) Not vindictive; 24) Humble even in his success; 25) Have faith in God and practice the Golden Rule; 2k6) Balance activities to give time also for family, fitness and finance; 27) Know his priorities.               

A leader need not have all these qualities. A combination of many of the above would suffice. The most important are commitment, time, and ability to motivate and supervise his members.

Attitude Change               

The role of the followers is just as important as the leader. An organization cannot run smoothly without the self-sacrifice of the members. We must learn to accept the vital role of a leader. As long as we have not changed our attitudes which trigger division, no matter who the leaders are, we will not achieve anything.               

Let us examine what we think, say, and do to each other - which ones trigger disunity and which ones promote unity. Learn from past mistakes or those of others. Otherwise, we will be condemned to repeat them.

Incentives               

To attract the best leaders to get involved, there must be some form of incentives.               

Leaders must agree to protect each other’s integrity and honor. The media should stop publishing articles that malign leaders without solid proof and must present both sides. They should be objective. Personal life must be exempted from scrutiny. Anomalies about money matters should be attacked with sensitivity. Poor and unethical publicity has done more harm than good to our community.               

Newspapers can profile qualified and deserving leaders.

Training program               

Most of us presume that we are trained leaders. We are not, but are too proud to admit it. Some think that training in leadership is just a waste of time. Others even surmise that leadership can be attained just for the asking. It is not so!               

We must realize the importance of training our people in leadership. This includes a study of our character and attitudes. Even our members must be trained as there are so many things we can learn from each other. Our first priority must be to create a group of quality leaders as well as quality followers. 


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Updated: Saturday, 13 September 2008 6:57 PM EDT
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Friday, 23 November 2007

Now Playing: Francisco Ramos, a Forgotten Son of Zambales
Topic: Biographies

FRANCISCO TADENA RAMOS, A Forgotten son of Zambales

October 4, 1903 to March 3, 1983

 

Rodel J. Ramos

Frank was a businessman, politician, farmer, mechanic, guerrilla fighter, miner, fisherman, and a good salesman. He was handsome, charismatic, incorruptible, hard working, innovative, a great speaker, a visionary and a leader of men.

Dedicated to the descendants of Francisco Ramos that they be proud of their roots and learn from his successes and failures.

 

Francisco Tadena Ramos

A brief summary

 
  • Born October 4, 1903 - Bo. La Paz, San Narciso, Zambales, Philippines
  • 1924 Graduated - Central Luzon Agricultural College, Munoz, Nueva Ecija
  • 1926-1930 Star Agent - International Harvester Co. - Sold & installed 77 rice mills in Zambales in 2 years. He helped industrialize agriculture.
  • 1926 - Bought & installed first demonstration Rice Mill in San Narciso Zambales.
  • 1929-1951 - Soft Drinks manufacturer - owned and operated Nepa Soft Drinks Factory of San Narciso, Zambales with 120 workers supplying Zambales, Bataan & Pangasinan.
  • 1942 - Organized guerrilla movement in San Antonio, San Narciso, San Felipe, Botolan, Iba, & Palawig.
  • 1942 - Chief Intelligence Officer, Western Luzon Guerrilla Forces, subsequently Magsaysay Forces with a rank of captain.
  • 1948-1953 - Superintendent - Non-Christian Tribes, Zambales, Pampanga, Tarlac and Bataan.
  • 1950 - Partner - Botolan Copper Mines, Bucao, Botolan, Zambales with Roy Tuggle. The Mine employed hundreds of workers and helped businesses in Zambales.
  • 1954-1957 – Appointed by President Ramon Magsaysay as Inspector General, Board of Liquidator, Office of the President to oversea corruption.
  • 1957 – Zambales Provincial Campaign Manager, Progressive Party of the Philippines (PPP) & later the Grand Alliance. Manuel Manahan won in Zambales because of his efforts and of son Jess Ramos.
  • 1959 - Manager & Stockholder, Ramos Electric Co., San Narciso, Zambales. He envisioned and was in the process of merging San Narciso, San Felipe, San Antonio and San Marcelino electric plants.
  • November 10, 1959 - Run for Vice Governor of Zambales - Grand Alliance Party

Favorite quotation: “The greatness of a man is not measured by his success but by the number of times he rises every time he falls.” 

 

 

Francisco Ramos, wife Elena, Lourdes, and Rodel with the late Senator Manuel Manahan who run for President under the Grand Alliance, Former Congressman Antonio Magsaysay Diaz, the late Senator Raul Manglapus and Comelec Chairman Jaime Ferer.  This was during a convention in Iba.

 

In the history of Zambales, Philippines as any other provinces, there are men born to create great impacts on their province and leave it better. Francisco Tadena Ramos of Barrio Alusiis, San Narciso was one of them.

Francisco was born October 4, 1903 in Barrio La Paz (Baybay), San Narciso, Zambales, Philippines. La Paz is a coastal barrio in the China Sea where the main occupation are fishing and farming. Most of the people were Ilocanos, migrants from the Ilocos region.

 

 

Francisco’s parents Hermogenes Ramos & Petrona Tadena

Corazon Galace Filarca’s research on the Ramos family tree states: Francisco’s father, “Hermogenes Ramos originated from Paoay, Ilocos Norte. The town of Batac was at that time only a Barrio of Paoay. His wife Petrona Tadena came from Sto. Domingo Ilocos Sur. “Hermogenes, the Ramos Patriarch was a talented musician who played the violin, guitar and banduria (local banjo). But he prohibited his children from touching his instruments, hanged on a wall of the living room, because from experience, a musician is hindered from success in any profession due to his urge to play his instruments the whole day and go to every fiesta. But his children inherited his artistic talents and excelled in drama, plays (sarzuelas and moro-moro) and singing, specially the girls. His observation however can be true, because many of his children became very successful specially Francisco T. Ramos.

Hermogenes was the son of Agustin Ramos and Eugenia Inocencio. Agustin died young after having 2 children, Hermogenes and Paula. Agustin’s brother Juan adapted Hermogenes, while Paula went to another brother Paulino Ramos, so they grew up separately. Hermogenes also died before he was sixty from insomnia. It weakened him to death. Paula married Nicolas Abiva.Hermogenes was easy-going, spending much time fiddling or playing music with his barkada (gang). He hated farming. He burned the nipa hut build for him by his uncle and foster parents in the farm and run away.Later, he went into buying and selling water buffalos (carabaos), cows, and horses in Zambales and Pampanga. He had three sets of sagap, a net framed to two bamboo poles, for catching fresh water fish at the Sabangan, a small lake near the mouth of the river, or at Cabarangbangan and Malabeg in San Narciso.

Neighbors or fishermen sometimes rent the nets and Hermogenes gets one third of the catch. Thus the Ramoses had abundant supply of fresh fish. Rivers and lakes in those days were teeming with fish. Dynamite, electric or chemical (cyanide) fishing were not known.

Later, the family owned a sailboat named “Florence”, and they went as far as Bolinao, Pangasinan, Candelaria and Sta Cruz, Zambales to buy hogs and transported them to Manila. Some of these livestock he slaughtered and sold in Subic (Olongapo was yet not existent.)Petrona, aside from raising the children was also a merchant, buying and selling salted fish (bagoong), dried fish (daing) and even live chicken, which she would carry with a labba (rice basket) balanced on her head walking or by boat from San Narciso to Subic.

Petrona was tall, slender and erect, energetic, industrious and thrifty. She had a soft infectious laughter. She showed her decisiveness in her choice of a husband. Her parents wanted her to marry a supposedly industrious farmer because his toes spread far side ward showing that he was hardworking. But young Petrona had no liking for him. When her parents tried to force her to marriage, she jumped out of the window and left the house. Hermogenes, who is a distant cousin, was already a close friend. He asked for her hand and they got married, saving Petrona from the farmer with spreading toes.

Hermogenes had no vices except smoking, which he himself rolled. This was the “Picadura” or sliced tobacco leaves with ready-made cigarette paper. They drank basi or gin but drinking was not a serious vice in those days. He was afraid of the dark and has to have a companion at night when serenading. Sometimes he would ask his wife Petrona to bring him to where his barkada are.”

Petrona died during the Japanese war due to distress, a victim of war scare and Japanese atrocities. Her whole family were imprisoned and threatened, to pressure her son Francisco who was a guerrilla leader (Chief of the Intellegence of Zambales) to surrender. It was a Japanese woman married to an Almazan who saved them. She testified that the Ramoses were law-abiding family.” said Corazon Galace.

 

Hermogenes Ramos – Petrona Tadena Children & Grandchildren

Back left to right: Manuel, Nanoy, Angela carrying Rolly Ralutin, Emelia (Miling) and Mariano Bustillo, Adela (Diling) Quintos Bactad, Elena Quintos, Isabel & Domingo Ramos Sr. 2nd row: Numeriano Galace, Loring Galace, Mimay Galace carrying Gloria Galace, Iluminada Calara Ramos (1st wife of Francisco) carrying Filipinas (Eddie) Ramos, Petrona Tadena Ramos carrying Josefina Ramos, Santiago & Godofreda Quintos with children Binay and Maring. Front row: Conchita Ralutin Mangalindan, Mamerto Galace, Bidoy Galace, Andring & Binay Quintos and Isabel Ramos. Not in the picture are Hermogenes who died early & Francisco Ramos.

 

Old folks say that when the Ramoses migrated to Zambales from Paoay, Ilocos Norte, some of them decided to stay in Pangasinan. Francisco and Domingo used to visit relatives in Pangasinan, and these were assumed to be Narciso Ramos, father of Former Pres. Fidel V. Ramos, his brother Dominador and sisters. This however has to be confirmed and our relationship to the President if any established.

The Ramoses were a big family in San Narciso. There are three blocks of them in the south side of town and two blocks of them in La Paz. Many have now migrated to the U.S., Canada and other parts of the world, mostly in San Diego, L.A. and San Francisco.

 

 

L-R: Maxima (Mimay), Godofreda, Francisco, Epifania Ramos, other relatives and Luis Abiva Sr.  In front are Conchita Ralutin & Mamerto Galace. 

 

Frank’s First Marriage

Kikoy or Ikoy as family members called him was first married to Iluminada Calara of Norsagaray, Bulacan and had four children with her. He went home one day with Iluminada and on those days, if you bring a woman home, she is considered disgraced and you have to marry her. It was a Filipino custom “No touch.” It means that by just touching a woman’s finger, you have to marry her. The eldest child of Francisco is Filipinas (Eddie), married Dr. Cipriano (Upid) Mauricio of Cabangan, Zambales. They have four children - Butch, Ruth, Ester (Little Girl) and Cipriano Jr. (Nonong). The second, Josefina (Josie or Pening) married Atty. Jose (Pepe) Aquino, son of a former Governor, from Balanga, Bataan. Their children are: Elizabeth (Lilibeth), married to Brian Hill with 4 children, Alyson, Alexander, Andrew and Chloe; Rosario (Chato or Rose) is married to Jimmy Chen with 3 children, Ho, Ethen, and Holly; Ray is married to Agnes with two children, Noah and Eva; Michael is still a bachelor. Two boys of Francisco in his first marriage Francisco Junior and Diosdado, died before the war in their childhood.

 

Schooling

Francisco Ramos went to school in North Central Elementary School in San Narciso. He later studied High School in Zambales Academy with the late President Ramon Magsaysay. He went to Central Luzon Agricultural School in Munoz Nieva Ecija in 1924 while Ramon went to Manila to study Commerce.

Among Hermogenes children, Francisco’s life was the most dramatic and colorful with his many adventures and turns of his career. After his course in Agriculture in 1926, he became the Star Agent of International Harvester Co. selling the most tractors, rice tracers, and rice mills. He can be credited in introducing modern agriculture in Zambales which before his days where done by the plow and furrow pulled by a carabao (water buffalo). He bought, and installed the first demonstration Rice Mill in Zambales and later sold 77 rice mills in 2 years.

Emilia (Miling) Bustillo, a younger sister recalled that to encourage people to use their rice mill, the first in Zambales, they have to entice them by giving free use for their first kerosene can of milling. People pounded rice in wooden pounders (alsong) then to remove the shell from the palay. The people loved the new technology and eventually the alsong became obsolete or where just used in the remote barrios.

In 1929, Kikoy’s family started the first and only Soft Drink Factory in Zambales, which went on until 1951. They manufactured coca-cola, sarsaparilla (root beer), soda and orange drinks.

Jesus Magsaysay, brother of the late President Ramon Magsaysay who later became a multi-millionaire for his Agusan lumber concession recalled that when Frank drove in his white top-down car, the first car in Zambales, he was one of the kids who run after Frank to see what it is like. He was inspired so much by him that he dreamed that he would also be as rich as Francisco some day and has a car like that. Jesus Magsaysay became a multi-millionaire later. His son Vic Magsaysay became Governor.

Manong Merting (Mamerto) Galace’s words about Francisco described it all, “He became so rich, was so handsome (most handsome among the Ramoses) and the best speaker, (even better than President Fidel Ramos) that it became his Waterloo.” True enough, because women run after him having the only car (white, top down at that) in the province of Zambales, and it was this that ruined his marriage with his jealous wife Iluminada. His mistake was ride with these young beautiful women and drive in front of their house. This would make his wife furious and they would fight so often. Later Iluminada left him and she died in Norzagaray, Bulacan, her hometown.

Ikoy and Ramon Magsaysay were classmates in High School at the Zambales Academy of San Narciso. They were separated when they both went to College, Magsaysay to Manila and Francisco to Munoz. They then got together again at the Yangco Transit which later became Try-V-Tran and Victory Liner. Ramon was the Manager, and Francisco was the Head Mechanic.

From a middle class family, Francisco rose to become influential and affluent at one time. They had the Ramos Electric Co., the family corporation that served electricity to San Narciso. Francisco owned the Nepa Soft Drink Factory supplying Zambales, Pangasinan, and Bataan. He had a hundred fifty hectares farm in Pasinga and Caragay east of Maloma, San Felipe. This was planted with rice, mongo, corn, large watermelons and kinaff at different times. He had two tractors, with a rice tracer, a plow, a furrow and a weapons carrier.           

Frank also became a major stockholder in Botolan Copper Mines with an American friend Roy Tuggle with his wife Mary who lived in his house for five years. They came from the State of Virginia, U.S.A. The Copper Mine employed hundreds of workers. In fact the Ramos businesses became one of the largest employers in the province with their joint industries. When all these ventures were gone, more people of Zambales left for the cities and abroad with no prospects of employment near their hometowns.

It was Kikoy Ramos who convinced Pres. Ramon Magsaysay to endorse Manuel Barretto, a close friend during that time as Governor against Cesar Miraflor of Sta. Cruz. A day before the election, when Magsaysay was already the President, he drove in a top down car with Francisco and Manoling Barreto from Olongapo to Sta. Cruz to show support. Barreto won by landslide the next day. Gov. Manuel Barretto came very often in their house and he visited Maloma often.Ikoy also recommended Angel de la Paz as director of RFC, (Development Bank of the Philippines). All the provincial politicians were frequent visitors. President Elpidio Quirino slept in his house. Gov. Archimedes Villanueva of San Marcelino, Congressman Enrique Corpus, Cesar Miraflor of Sta. Cruz, Dr. Idano of Masinloc, Duluhan of Botolan, another provincial politician, Fr. Dosac the parish priest were frequent visitors.

 

 

The San Narciso residence of Francisco & ElenaRamos designed by a Japanese before the War

A Japanese who worked with the Ramoses designed the Ramos house in Barrio Alusiis, San Narciso, Zambales. He turned out to be a spy and became a captain of the Japanese Imperial Army during the war. The house was in a one-hectare lot in the North center of the town, in Alusiis near the Zambales Academy, the school owned by Lakay Tusing and Apo Julia Valdes. The roof was made of placa romana and the wood was of narra and yakal. The floors where made of wide, long and hard yakal.

The close friends Kikoy kept were Mr. Lazaro Cawagas whose wife Martha was Elena’s best friend; Ricardo (Carding) Aguirre; Dr. Guerrerro’s family; Dr. Fortaliza, Dr. Garcia, the Fontillas; Dr. Villanueva’s family, Justice Alejo Labrador, Ceriaco Villanueva’s family; de los Reyes family, Dr. Galvez family, and the family of Admiral Octavio Posadas of the Philippine Navy.

A movie house was in front of the house and the Ramos Electric Plant was at the back accessible from a road north of the house before Zambales Academy. The Nepa Soft Drink Factory was at the north side of the house. It had 120 workers there; some of them were housed in a second story building on top of the factory. A Chinese from Macao cooked food for the workers and the family. They had two maids all the time, one in charged with the children. Mama Elena who was a Registered Nurse acted as the chemist, did the purchasing of supplies from Manila and went to market for the food. All the vendors in the Palengke run after her because she buys a Caritella (Cartfull) of food every day to feed the workers.

The front yard of the house was a well-groomed garden. It won every contest in town. Elena maintained a beautiful garden, an envy of the whole town. Sometimes, the sisters of Francisco scold her for using too much electricity to pump water in the huge tank for watering the large garden. The house had a Grotto in front, a Lady with a basket on her head full of fruits and was holding a bottle, which was feeding water to the pond below. It was the symbol of the factory.The Garden has flowers like Dona Aurora, Dona Luz, Sampaguita, and lots of other beautiful plants. It had all kinds of fruits - camachili, cherry, guava, star apple (kaymito), seniguilas, kamias, langka, santol, kalamansi, Indian mango, balimbing, chessa, atis, mansanetas etc.

Francisco & Elena built a restaurant and a refreshment parlor in front which they named Helen’s Garden. It attracted a lot of visitors. It is here, in a small room at the back where I was born and my bahay tubig (waterbag) was buried. This is below the Indian mango tree at the southeast corner of the lot. Later, a Cherry tree grew in this area. Among the children, only I was born here. The rest were in hospitals in Manila.

There are 4 big rooms with a living room where dignitaries like Ramon Magsaysay were entertained and slept, a long corridor and long dining room and large kitchen. The master bedroom had a handcrafted altar made of narra. The house has a large backyard and a huge bodega (storeroom) was in the southwest corner. It stored chemicals for the soft drinks factory, palay from a bountiful harvest and tools for the farm. A house at the back was a repair shop for trucks and tractors and had sleeping quarters on the second floor, which was used by Lolo Simplicio Jallorina, Elena’s father from Iloilo as a quarter.

A huge water tank stood on the side of the house with an electric pump. A creek, with water only during the rainy seasons, was on the south side after another house.

The entrance of the Nepa Soft Drinks Factory was on the north side corner of the lot and went into the west side where the machineries were installed. The workers quarters were on the second floor close to the water tank. Here, our Makao cook and some other workers who did not have families in San Narciso slept.

The Ramos house was historical. A Japanese who became an officer in the 2nd World War designed it. President Elpidio Quirino and Pres. Ramon Magsaysay slept here. The Magsaysay boys who later became famous senators and congressmen also slept here. Senator Manuel Manahan who run for President under the Progressive Party of the Philippines and again under the Grand Alliance, Senator Raul Manglapus who also run for President under the Christian Social Movement, Mayor Antonio Villegas of Manila, a Vice Mayor of Quezon City Vic Morales; Gen. Jorge Vargas, and others.

When the factory closed, poultry was raised in the south side of the house. They raised thousands of chicken, rabbits, doves and pigs. They also had a monkey at one time.

They had a tall dog, probably a German shepherd, named Spot. It was so intelligent and acted almost human. When Francisco and Elena go dancing in the town Plaza, it follows and when Elena dances with strangers, it gets jealous and bothers them. One day, it was so sad in the morning, and stayed close to them wanting to be coddled. Then it disappeared. When they looked for it for feeding time, they found it under a bamboo tree at the back of the house, dead. The kids cried for weeks and buried it with a cross to honor it.

This house was sold to a Barreto family and later bought by Atty. Gaudencio Cabacungan and Agnes Tadena Lontoc. The children of Agnes Cabacungan, also a grand niece of Francisco, now own it. It has a different look now because lahar destroyed it during the Mt. Pinatubo eruption. It is now divided into three parts. The one in front is owned by Martinez, the children of the Ramos family driver, the side owned by Corazon Galace Felarca, a niece.

 

Family Reunion after the War. Back L-R: Numeriano Galace, Jose Ralutin, Domingo Ramos, Alfredo Piga, Mariano Bostillo, Francisco Ramos & Santiago Quintos. 2nd row L-R: Willy Jr , Wilfredo, Lorenzo, & Maxima Galaces, Angela Ralutin, Isabel Ramos, Epifania Piga, Elena & Vilma Quintos, Emilia Bostillo, Bernadette & Elena Ramos, Numeriano Ramos. 3rd row L-R: Rolly Ralutin, Cristita Galace, Manuel & Isabel Ramos, Guadalupe, Adela, Sidney & Mary Quintos, Dicky & Doray Ramos. 4th row L-R: Dra. Conchita Mangalindan, Alexandria Tadeo Quintos, Filipinas Ramos, Gloria Galace, Lourdes Piga, Josephina Ramos, Silvina Quintos, & Dionisio Piga. 5th row L-R: Corazon Galace, Benita Ramos, Tinay Piga & Lourdes Abiva. Front L-R: Iniong Tadena, Windy Bactad, Lourdes & Domingo Ramos Jr. Jose Bostillo, Frankie Piga, Zel Ralutin, Rodel & Jess Ramos, Medy Piga, Baby Bostillo & Aurora Piga Zapanta.

 

Wife Elena Sodario Jallorina Ramos

After his first wife died, Francisco courted a former girlfriend in Laguna. It was on one of his visits that Francisco was in a bus accident and was taken to the hospital for a broken leg. Elena Ramos was the nursing student who attended to him in St. Paul Hospital. The funny thing is it was his girlfriend who chooses Elena to be his nurse because she was more matured than the others. Francisco fell in loved with Elena right there.

After the operation, Elena and Francisco wrote each other because of the distance of Manila to Zambales. For months, she did not receive any letter from Francisco. His sisters intercepted her letters because the family was opposed to their relationship. Francisco never saw any of them. Elena was desperate because she expected Francisco to be at her graduation. A day before, she sends a telegram with these words, “HELEN IS DEAD!” signed Sor Consuelo (her sister who is a nun). According to the family driver Mr. Martinez, Kikoy upon receiving this letter drove hurriedly to Manila in his car nearly falling in the ravine of Olongapo zigzag mountains many times. He was carrying with him a wreath of flowers when he knocked at Elena’s residence only to be greeted by a smiling Elena dressed up for the graduation.

Elena comes from Jaro, Iloilo, was born August 18, 1906. She thought all along that she was born on August 15, the assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mother and celebrated always on that date. She was the daughter of Simplicio Jallorina, who died May 6 in Jaro, Iloilo and Rosalia Sodario who died and was buried in San Narciso, Zambales. Elena has Chinese blood with her mother’s side with relations to the Choco family of Iloilo.

Her brothers and sisters are Sor Consuelo, who was a nun and a teacher in Concordia College; Epifanio (Panong) a teacher and was the Principal of Jaro Elementary School; Igmedio a Lawyer and an Architect in Manila, married to a lady from Atimunan, Quezon Province, Elvira. Igmedio also designed furnitures. Their children are: Vida, Delia,Linda, Rene and Junie (Igmedio Jr.). Leonora (Ono) who maintained a store in Sampaloc near U.S.T. married to Ceraphin (Apin) Abarrientos, a teacher in electronics in a Manila College. Leonora died in San Francisco in 1996, a year after Elena died. Leonora visited Elena in Toronto with her daughter Vilma. They have another daughter Baby; Nicanor (Caning) a teacher until he had a stroke, half of his body was paralyzed. Years later he died in Jaro Iloilo and Amadeo, their youngest vanished during the Japanese war, was never found and believed to have been killed by the Japanese. Aurora (Auro) was a half sister. She lived with Elena in Zambales for a long time until she went home and died in Iloilo.

Elena started schooling at the age of 13 because she was lucky in business. She had a big mole in the right chin, which Chinese believe is good luck. She has to man their fruit store in the market (palengke). One day, she rebelled against being treated differently while her sisters and brothers went to school. She went to the cemetery, which was close to their house and dug a grave. She threatened her parents that if she did not go to school, she will kill herself there. She was granted her wish. Because of her age and was very bright, she was accelerated many times until she was on her age level.

When she finished high school, she asked permission to study nursing in Manila but again was denied. She climbed a tree and threatened not to go down if they refused. She was permitted and was the first in the family to study in Manila. She went to St. Paul College of Nursing in Manila.

One of her favorite friend was Dr. Jesus Tan who became the Director of San Juan de Dios Hospital. Dr. Tan remembered her as with great sense of humor. One Christmas time, all the students were giving Christmas gifts to the sisters. Because she had nothing to give, she placed spiders, mice and cockroaches inside small boxes and wrapped them with Christmas wrappers. She placed them in the dining table just like others did with their gifts. The sisters were very happy to receive gifts from the student nurses. After breakfast, they started opening their gifts and they were startled and run away screaming. Elena had her good laugh but she was called by the Mother Superior and asked why she did it. She said that she wanted to give them gifts but can’t afford it, so she devised a way to make them laugh instead. At another time, Dr. Tan was washing his hands in a sink where you have to step on a pedal with his foot to open the faucet. Elena was wondering how water comes out of the faucet. She thought you just put your hands below the faucet. Dr. Tan was watching her all the time and had a good laugh. Actually, there was pedal that Dr. Tan steps on that opens the faucet.

 

Elena Sodario Jallorina graduates from St. Paul

Hospital in Nursing 1934, the 1st nurse from Jaro, Iloilo.

 

Elena was brilliant and artistic. She had a lot of certificates and diplomas. She was First Place in her Decorative Painting, Interior Decoration, Flower Making, Belen Making, and Dress Making. She was Second Place in cooking and refused to get her diploma. She designed and made her own wedding and graduation dresses and flowers. It was these talents, which she used when the Ramos family experienced difficulties later in life and sustained her family. She made finely crafted artificial flowers from silk or velvet and stuffed toys like ducks, dolls and dogs. She supplied them to leading Berg’s Department Store and Tesoro’s in Escolta. She had workers helping her but she hand painted them herself and her works never faded. That was her secret painting formula, which she only shared with her children.

Her suppliers in Divisoria loved her because they said that when Elena was the buena mano (the first to buy) in the morning, they were lucky and sold lots of merchandise that day. They also trusted her and gave goods in credit specially the Chinese. They say her luck comes from her mole on her right chin.

 

 

The wedding of Francisco Ramos and Elena Jallorina. Elena designed and sewed the wedding dress herself. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Francisco Ramos family 1st row are children Jesus, Rodel, Bernadette & LourdesAmelia. Behind l-r are Filipinas (Eddie) Francisco Ramos, Elena Jallorina Ramos, Aurora (Auro) Jallorina and Josepina (Josie) Ramos

 

At one time, she brought with her a cattleya orchid she made to Mrs. Luz Magsaysay in their house in San Juan. This was after President Magsaysay died. She placed them beside Luz real orchids and asked her to distinguish which one was real. Mrs. Magsaysay chose her flower. You can’t really distinguish hers from the real one.When the Magsaysays were in Malacanang, Elena made the Belen during one Christmas season and people were amazed at the creation. She also made the Belen in St. Joseph Church in Project 3, Quezon City every year, which people lined up to see during Christmas. She was very creative and innovative with her arts.

 

Elena Jallorina Ramos’ Belen at St. Joseph Church, Quezon City visited by thousands during the Christmas season.

Elena never practiced her nursing career except to nurse her children, husband Francisco, the factory workers, farm help and the Aetas in their villages. When Magsaysay became President, she asked to be a head nurse of a hospital but Monching said Frank would not like her away from him.She was a great cook and taught a lot of friends in San Narciso her recipes. She cooked cakes, rabbit meat, made jellies, jams, and fruit preserves from the guava, santol, langka, balimbing and guavano around the house. She also made smoked ham, patiently injecting and smoking them.

Elena lost all her talents and memory to Alzheimer's disease and died at the age of 86 in July 31, 1995 in Toronto, Canada. She was buried at the Glendale Memorial Gardens, Garden of the Apostles, Highway 27 and Albion, North Etobicoke, beside Violeta Ramos, late wife of Rodel Ramos who died the year before.

Francisco and Elena had four children: Jesus (Jess or Susie) who married Rita Gabriel of Manila with four children – Irish, Jade, Crystaline and Tiffany. They later divorced. Jess married again with Norma Merto of Iba, Zambales as second wife with three children – Myra, Ray and Israel; Lourdes Amelia married Mariano Lalog of Laguna with three daughters – Rhoda, Graciel and Sheila; Rodel Felix married Violeta Gonzales of Sta. Cruz, Manila and had two children – Voltaire and Vanessa. Violeta Agnes died in 1995 and Rodel again married Rhodora (Rhoda) Nillas Yang from Cebu; and Bernadette married and divorced to Julius Bueno with 1 son, Justin.

 

The Japanese War

During the Japanese war, 1942, Kikoy joined the resistance movement in the province with his brother-in-law Alfredo Piga, Bansiong Rodriguez and Ramon Magsaysay, a very close friend. They were only four Captains then. Francisco is credited for organizing the guerrilla movement’s units in San Antonio, San Narciso, San Felipe, Botolan, Iba and Palawig appointing the sector commanders. Code-named Ram, he was Chief of the Intelligence Officer W.L.G.F., subsequently Magsaysay Forces. Ramon Magsaysay’s code name was Chow.

When the war started, his family evacuated to Pampanga, which people were saying it was safer, but when they arrived, there were shelling and fighting everywhere. It was in the route of the Japanese main offensive, which landed in Lingayen, Pangasinan on its way to Bataan where McArthur decided to make his last stand.They left their family truck in a roadside and fled.  They were crossing a river by boat one night when cannon shells went overhead all the time. They also saw beheaded people in a banca. They went back to Zambales mountain ranges by walking.

Leon Beck, one of the escapees of Bataan Death March who found his way to Zambales said that he met the Ramoses in the Mountains and walked with them in those treacherous ranges with Elena just giving birth to Rodel (He was born May 7, 1942 the day Corrigedor fell) and carried the new born baby all the way. At one time, Leon threatened to kill a bulky soldier because he refused to help carry the baby. Sometimes he takes turn and was peed upon by Rodel. Pete Start who became the godfather of Rodel was with them. Leon Beck was assigned sometime in the 1960’s in Manila and had a chance to see Frank and his family again. Rodel traced his where about and found in the suburb of San Diego in 1996.

They subsisted on sweet potato, cassava, camote leaves, malungay and lugaw. They have to brave mosquitoes in the wilderness of Zambales and some of them contracted malaria. Dr. Conchita Ralutin Mangalindan used to ride a horse from San Narciso to the San Marcelino Guerrilla Camp to treat the sick and give them rations of food and medicine.  At one time, there was a raid in the Camp, and the Guerrillas scampered taking with them the half cooked food. They were forced to eat them without cooking them well and because of this most of them got sick of tapeworm including Dr. Mangalindan.

In this camp, at one time, a son of Bansiong Rodriguez put siling labuyo (hot pepper) in the penis of Susi (Jess) Ramos and he went jumping and crying in pain.

Suspected guerrilla were tortured to confession or killed. Carding Aguirre was riding a caritela (horse carriage) when Japanese soldiers caught up with him and tortured him to confess. They let him drink a gallon of water and stepped on his stomach to vomit and beat him. With others, they used a pair of pliers to pull their teeth or fingernails. They raped women. That is why Francisco’s daughters Pining (Josie) and Eddie’s hairs were cut short and were wore pants. Babies were thrown to the air and speared with bayonets while coming down.

It is ironic, but before the war, a highly educated Japanese working for Francisco Ramos designed the Ramos house in San Narciso, that is why it looked like a Japanese Pagoda. Unknowingly, he was a spy, and he became a captain when war broke out. But he was a gentleman and never reported on Francisco Ramos.

When the Japanese discovered that the code name Ram was Kikoy, they rounded up his entire family - mother, sisters and brothers, were incarcerated, threatening to kill them if Francisco did not give up. He was ready to surrender and was on his way to Fort Santiago in Manila when Ramon Magsaysay caught up with him in Sta. Mesa in the midst of typhoon and pleaded with him not to surrender. In danger was the whole roster of the Zambales Guerrilla Forces.

There was a Japanese woman Masue Masuda (called Nana Masay by the locals whose Christian name was Elizabeth baptized by Father Griffin). She was married to a Filipino, a Mr. Vicente Almazan who was executed by the guerillas suspected as a Japanese spy. Nana Masay convinced the Japanese that the Ramos family was law-abiding people and they were set free. For this his family was never billed for electricity consumption because the Ramoses owned the Ramos Electric Plant of San Narciso. Nana Masay had three children - Joyceline, Presentacion and Ajimoto (Aji) Almazan. Francisco being the Chief of Intelligence was told of all operations before they were executed. At one time, the liquidation squad came to San Narciso and passed by our house. They told Frank that they were there on a mission to execute several suspected Japanese spies. Included in the roster were the names of Mayor Sebastian Fogata, Father Dosac, the Catholic parish priest, Principal Farrales and several prominent San Narciso residences. Kikoy told the liquidation squad that these people were clear of their allegations. He later called those in the hit list and told them about it. Mayor Fogata and Father Dosac cried and begged Francisco to be spared of their lives.

Francisco and Magsaysay earned their living during the war fixing cars and trucks of clients of their first cousin Luis Abiva who had a printing shop in Manila while gathering information and supplies for their unit.

During the liberation, San Narciso was about to be shelled being suspected of the presence of Japanese soldiers in the area. Aureliano (Anong) Tadena, Kikoy’s nephew and another native paddled a banca to the American Battleship stationed near the shores of La Laz and pleaded with them not to bombard the town. They told them that the Japanese has already left and the guerrillas were in control of most of Zambales. He emerged as the hero of San Narciso sparing the townspeople of the unimaginable destruction.

Manila, which was shelled by the Americans during that war, killed almost 300,000 Filipinos and most buildings were destroyed except Manila Hotel and San Agustin Church. Rumours say that the Americans intentionally spared those places because Gen. Douglas MacArthur was married in the Church and Manila Hotel was his headquarter and honeymoon suite.

Days before, clandestine radio broadcasted to the guerrilla that the Americans were about to land and Francisco and other soldiers went to rendezvous with them, partying the whole night. This was however the most horrible of days with his family. They sighted the presence of thousands of soldiers like ants from afar and the family went to hide in the dugout thinking these were Japanese. When they were already in the vicinity, the soldiers started stabbing the walls and windows of the dugout with bayonets to bring them out.

Jess Ramos, a boy of about four was trained to speak English by her mother Elena understood the language the American soldiers were speaking and run out of the dugout in spite of the heavy protest of the family.  He told the Americans that there were only Filipinos inside and no Japanese. The Americans came in with him laughing and joking. Everybody was relived of their fears.

The Americans came with their amphibian trucks, weapons carrier, trucks, bulldozers, jeeps and tanks. A joyful crowd shouting “Victory Joe” greeted them! They gave away chocolate candies, cigarettes, and canned goods generously.

Governor of Non-Christian Tribes1948-1953 Kikoy was appointed Superintendent of the Non-Christian tribe (Aetas) of Zambales, Bataan, Pampanga and Tarlac. He brought his children to Poonbato where a miraculous Virgin of Poongbato frequently appeared and cured a lot of sick people. They also went to visit other Aeta villages to bring food, medicine and clothes. During the height of the Hukbalhap (Hukbo ng Bayan Laban sa Hapon) insurgencies, They have to go to Camp Olivas in Pampanga to bail out Aetas suspected as Huks. Kikoy and Elena taught their children to treat the rich and the poor the same way. During Fiestas in San Narciso, the Aetas would come to their house to celebrate with the festivities. Sometimes they bring gifts like bananas, shrimps, wild pig and deer meat. In exchange they were give rice or clothes.

 

Caragay & Pasinga Farms

All of their farm workers and tenants were Aetas. Mang Anding (Andres Atanacio) was the Aeta Chief. Daniel Dumlao was their main caretaker in Pasinga and Caragay properties. Later Tibo (Tiburcio Daylo) took care of the farms because Daniel was struck with TB of the bones, which paralyzed his lower body. They hired a jeepney and brought him to a Manila Hospital for treatment. He later recovered and was able to work his farm again.Two tractors tilled the farm with all the modern machineries. They planted rice, mongo beans, corn, large watermelons, and kinaffe (turned into rope and sacks). Pasinga and Caragay were beautiful valleys crisscrossed by a river like a snake below the mountains of San Felipe. Here is where Francisco and his son Jess Ramos drove the tractor, hunted birds and fished. Jess placed traps in the nearby forest to catch musang (wild cat), labuyo (wild chicken), bayawak (lizard) and wild dove. Sometimes, while driving the tractor, he runs after lizards. Many times, Jess slept near the river to wait for tikling and wild ducks in the morning.Jess cleared patches of trees in the middle of the farm sometimes pulling the big trees with the tractor.

Jess was born with a hole in his heart and would sometimes complain about it, but since he started working in the farm, he became very healthy and muscular. He also started to use barbells for exercise and carried a .45 caliber pistol and a carbine wherever he goes.

When Francisco drove the tractor and the sun is above which means it is lunch time he stops the tractor, gets his carbine, and climbs a tree near the lake to catch fish. When you hear gunfire that means he had caught a fish. Before he goes, he usually ask his children to boil water and get some vegetables (ballayba, or-ormot, paco, bisukol or berabed) from the river or ampalaya (wild bittermelon), which were plentiful at that time.

During these days they were very close to the family of Manuel Barretto who later became Governor of Zambales. They stayed in their house in Maloma, San Felipe when it was too late to go home to San Narciso at night.

Francisco went hunting during the Holy Week with Manoling Barreto, Mayor Juan Pastor of Cabangan and other close friends. They would burn a small forest and wait at the other side for wild pigs and deers. The last time he went was when Atty. Conrado Bactad, a nephew married to his niece died. Condring had a tooth pulled and drunk some liquor. He had some infection or complications. From then on, Francisco stopped hunting during the Holy Week.

 

Botolan Copper Mines

Roy Tuggle, after the war stayed with the Ramoses with Mary Tuggle, his wife, and later founded the Botolan Copper mines with Francisco as one of the major partner. There were hundreds of workers in the mountain south of Bucao River. It had gold, silver and copper. They exported the ores to Japan. They built a seaport (pantalan) in Panan, Botolan with Francisco as the foreman.The Japanese hurriedly operated this mine with lots of dynamites during the war, which explains the high ceiling of the tunnels.  Later, Roy operated a gold mine in Mindoro with the same crew - Ding Dimacali, Opong Ramos, Nicanor Jallorina (Francisco’s brother-in-law) and Manding (the cook).

 

Magsaysay becomes President

In 1954 Ramon Magsaysay became the President. It was during this time that the Ramos family was experiencing difficulty. Because of the loan from RFC, which Kikoy borrowed to revive his Soft Drink Factory after all the bottles, were taken away by supporters of Ramon Magsaysay on his pre-election rally for Congressman of Zambales. Kikoy did not want to ask help from Monching. He had a big pride. He said, “When Monching needed help, he came to me. (There were also times when Monching borrowed money from Frank) Now, he should come to help. But Monching with all his duties as President of the Philippines would not have a way to know of Kikoy’s difficulties.In the end Elena cabled Monching and asked for help. Ramon cabled back and immediately asked Kikoy to come to Manila. He appointed Franicisco as Inspector General of the Board of Liquidator under the Office of the President. The Board was in charged with disposal of all the surplus equipment and machineries that the Americans and Japanese left after the war.There was rampant graft and corruption there and his main duty is to clean it.

He traveled all over the Philippines from Cagayan to Zulu and when he comes home he would bring durian, turtle meat, wild pig and deer meat or rambutan.

But then again he would not be in this situation if Francisco did not loose money when Magsaysay was campaigning for Congressman.

The long rally was from San Antonio to San Narciso and it stopped Francisco’s place in Alusiis. Sandwiches and soft drinks were prepared for only five hundred. People took all the bottles of soft drinks and never returned them. Bottles cost at that time P1.00 even if the soft drinks only cost P.10. He never recovered and had to mortgage his house to borrow money from RFC to continue operation.

 


 

The First Lady Luz Magsaysay with Elena Ramos and several of their close friends at a house in Masinloc, Zambales

One time, a Chinese businessman came to Kikoy’s house in 54 Domingo Santiago offering a bribe to Frank. He refused it. That night also, Merting Galace, a nephew came to ask Frank for a loan. He said that he did not have money. While Merting was reading the Free Press in the living room, he found thousands of pesos between the pages. So he confronted Kikoy with it. The Chinese left the P25, 000 in the magazine. The next day, he called the Chinese to his office and gave him a verbal lashing. This incident demonstrated the incorruptibility and honesty of Francisco Ramos.

The family rented a house in No. 54 Domingo Santiago, Sampaloc near Sta. Mesa. We lived in front of his compadre Ninong Pete Start and his brother Inchong Arcilla and Roy Start’s father. An American doctor, Dr. Start, adapted the Arcillas and so some of them carried the name Start. Kikoy’s neighbor on the right was Narciso Reyes who had a high position in the Government, and a Mr. Santos on the left side.

In 1956 Elena bought a house in #9 Molave, Project 3, Quirino District, Quezon City. Frank did not want to live there because it was so small, he was used to living in a big house but Elena insisted on buying it for the family. Her decision was a blessing because when Magsaysay died in the plane crash and Frank was forced to resign from his government job, life became somewhat difficult.They built an extension at the back with two rooms, and a patio in front. Caning (Nicanor Jallorina), Elena’s youngest brother was still with them then, and he helped supervise the building of the house.

In the early morning of March 17, 1957, Frank (Francisco Ramos) of San Narciso, one of Magsaysay’s best friends could not sleep. He took a walk to his daughters Filipinas and Josephina’s place in Project 3, a few blocks away from his house. Filipinas was surprised to see her Dad at 3 a.m. It was the Fest of St. Joseph which is the patron saint of St. Joseph Parish Quezon City. During lunchtime, when the Fiesta guests were starting to arrive, the radio announced that the plane the President was riding was missing. Frank knew right away that Monching his best friend was dead. It was the reason he could not sleep. A few days later, their plane, the Mt. Pinatubo was found in wreckage in the foot of Mt. Manungal in Cebu.

The whole nation was shocked. Ramon Magsaysay was the most loved of all Philippine Presidents. He was called Man of the Masses because he went out of his way to help the poor. He eats with them with his bare hands. One of his quotes was, “He who has less in life must have more in law.” He cleaned up graft and corruption in the Government. He said, “If my father commits a crime, I will send him to jail!”

The Country was already in the verge of Communist takeover when Quirino appointed him as Secretary of Defence. The Huks controlled some towns in Tarlac, Zambales and Pampanga then. In fact the Huks burned the Municipal building of Botolan. They are usually seen passing a trail on the mountain on top of Caragay. The farm was forced to supply them with rice every month. In the South, the Muslim insurgencies were growing under Datu Kamloon. Magsaysay’s carrot and stick policy helped. He unleashed Gen. Napoleon Rama of Nenita Unit, the terror of the Huks who refused to take hostages and killed them on the spot. On the other hand, he ordered the Army Engineering battalions to built schoolhouses, roads, irrigation, and artisan well for the barrios. He also gave them working animals. He banned the slaughter of Carabaos (water buffalo) used for working animals. This brought the Government closer to the people. General Rafael Ileto, a West Pointer organized the Scout Rangers, sort of the Green Beret at that time with a team of four to hunt the huks in the jungles.He disciplined abusive Army personnel. One time he went to a Military Camp without notice and found a sleeping guard. He fired the guard on the spot. Ramon would go out at night without bodyguards and talk to ordinary people in Manila. He opened Malacanang to the people by having a day once a month when people would go there and tell the president their problems. He opened an office to hear the problems of the people. This was his way of avoiding the cordon sanitaire that surrounded him who told him only of the good things he wanted to hear.

It was during his term that Jesus Lava, the commander of the Huks was captured. Later, Ex-Congressman Luis Taruc surrendered seeing the sincerity and honesty of Magsaysay and feeling the pressure of the military. He was driven to the mountains when the Government outlawed the Communist Movement. Realizing the sincerity of Magsaysay in helping the poor, Taruc surrendered. The late Senator Benigno (Ninoy) Aquino a newspaper reporter at that time and Manuel Manahan were instrumental in the surrender of Luis Taruc.In Mindanao, Datu Kamloon, leader of the Muslim rebellion also surrendered peacefully. Magsaysay offered those who surrendered the “Land for the landless” in Mindanao giving them 15 hectares to cultivate. A lot of Christians took advantage of this offer.

When Monching died, the whole nation mourned and the funeral procession was lined up by people miles upon miles to the La Loma Cemetery, a sight never before seen by Filipinos. He was the most loved President of the Philippines.

The Pres. Garcia boys who wanted to start their corruption again begun to ostracize Frank being a graft buster. He decided to roll his mat and resign. The Magsaysay boys organized the Progressive Party of the Philippines. When election came, Kikoy volunteered as Campaign Manager of the PPP in Zambales. Manuel Manahan was their presidential aspirant. Raul Manglapus and the entire Magsaysay boys joined hands. The Party won in Zambales but unfortunately lost in most parts of the country due to lack of party machinery and money. The corrupt Carlos Garcia and his cronies continued in power.

 

Hard times

When Frank resigned, he seemed to have lost his desire to work and the family experienced hard times. They had to sell some appliances. Frank went begging from friends and from his daughters. One time, he went to the Vice Mayor of Quezon City whom he helped start his chicken farm by providing him with chicks when he was still well off. He was told that if he gave him anything, his family would go hungry. The last thing the family sold was the thick aluminum rice container.

This was the time Elena’s creativity and artistic talents were used. She started making toys out of cloth remnants and artificial flowers made of silk. Some Chinese in Divisoria trusted her and gave her materials on credit. They said that when she comes to buy from them especially in the morning (buena mano), they sell a lot that day. They attribute it to her large mole at the right chin.

In 1959, the Magsaysay boys formed the Grand Alliance, and Francisco Ramos run as Vice Governor in Zambales with Mr. Labrador from Palawig. Unfortunately, before the election, a tragic incident happened in the family business that damaged the reputation of Francisco. They lost.

 

Ramos Electric Plant Incident

Before this campaign, his brothers Domingo Ramos and brother-in-law Mariano Bustillo, major stockholders asked Frank who was also a stockholder to manage the Ramos Electric Plant in San Narciso. Francisco was in the process of merging the San Antonio Electric Plant owned by a compadre Jose (Don Pepito) Corpuz, the San Narciso, San Marcelino and San Felipe owned by another friend. This would save them a lot of money from fuel consumption and operation. The high-powered generator was already bought and was being installed. Francisco arranged for the financing and merger.The company was losing money and they needed a good manager to turn it around. At that time too Francisco went to Manila for his operation - his leg was swelling because the bolts from his fractured leg were not removed and were rusting. He was to be operated by Dr. Dick Mangalindan, a nephew who was the Director of Orthopedic Hospital in Quezon City.

The family incident broke the relationship and the merger did not go thru. The Electric Plant was sold to Mr. Fidel Gonzales later. We found out later that Mr. Gonzales got the Electric Plant without paying any cent. A Mr. Tadena who was also a relative was given a power of Attorney to sell the plant and gave the Company to Fidel Gonzales.

Years later Frank bought a big fishing boat and went fishing for a while with nets. He sometimes stations his boat at the mouth of a river in Palauig near the sea. He however got into an accident. His pants was caught in the engine and nearly lost his life. He was able to untangle himself but got a lot of bruishes and was in the hospital for some weeks.

Francisco helped his sisters and brothers in need. Isabel the youngest sister was an old maid and Nanoy (Numeriano) Ramos who was the poorest in the family with a dozen children had a monthly supply of rice for their subsistence. Francisco gave his share of inheritance from his parents, the farm lot to Nanoy and Isabel, the second youngest and poorest in the family at that time.

Archimedes (Medy) Piga, a nephew stayed with the family in San Narciso while he was finishing high school at Zambales Academy. Later, he took law at San Beda, became a lawyer and a Commissioner of the Philippine National Police. Medy was one of the brightest and eloquent of the Ramoses and was expected to succeed.In the last years of his life, Francisco Ramos lived with his wife Elena in Palanginan, Iba, Zambales, close to his son Jesus J. Ramos. He bought a lot where he was able to plant vegetables and fruit trees. He built a Nipa Hut here. He did not want galvanized sheets as roofing because it was hot. He had cogon grass instead.

His son Jess Ramos also bought a lot beside this and here is where his family moved after his Dad’s death. Francisco was still restless and kept his ambitions on. He bought a 15-hectare lot in the hills of Maligaya, Cabangan, Zambales from an Aeta. He even proposed to go to Pangasinan and build a rice mill there. But the children discouraged him because he is too old for such a venture. They send him a list of disadvantages, noting that rice mills are only good for harvest time. That he and Mama Elena should spend their lives just going on vacation and enjoying life.

Every now and then, he goes back to their house in Molave, Project 3, Quezon City to collect the rent from borders. He died March 3, 1983 at the age of 80 in Veterans Hospital, Quezon City of a heart attack. He was rushed there from Iba, Zambales. Never did he have a heart problem before. His body was intered in Loyola Memorial, Marikina, Rizal. The house in Molave was sold in 1989 because nobody was taking care of it. The lot in Iba is where Jess Ramos transferred after their house in Panibuatan was destroyed by a typhoon. Elena came to Canada in 1984, months after Francisco died.

 

 

Francisco’s grave at Loyola Memorial in Marikina, Rizal. In the picture are his grand children Crystaline and Myra Ramos, children of Jesus.


Posted by Rodel Ramos at 8:13 PM EST
Updated: Wednesday, 12 December 2007 2:35 PM EST
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Now Playing: Frank de Leon, a giant among us
Topic: Biographies

FRANK DE LEON, A GIANT AMONG US

Rodel J. Ramos

 

 

 

On the 55th Wedding Anniversary of Frank and Dory de Leon

 

 

Frank de Leon was one of the Most Outstanding Filipino in Ontario, a project of the Philippine Chamber of Commerce, Toronto. It was a long overdue recognition for his contribution to the Community.

No one in Metro Toronto knows Frank de Leon better than me, aside from his family. There are of course a few secrets which I know but would rather keep to myself. We were together in the Philippines way back in the 70’s when he was my Assistant Coordinator in the Cursillo and I have monitored his activities since then. At that time, he was the Warehouse Manager of the Rice and Corn Administration (RCA). Frank was known to us only as Paco de Leon. He was to become Frank in Canada as Juan became John, Pedro Peter and Pablo Paul.

When the Cursillo was in its lowest ebb and thousands were leaving the Christian Revival Movement, I and Frank were voted to resuscitate the St. Joseph Parish Chapter in Quezon City. Only around 30 people went to the weekly Ultreyas then. We were just starting to revitalize the group when my name appeared in the black list of Marcos for being the brain of the University of the East student uprising which ended in the gates of Malacanang Palace and was known as the infamous Battle of Mendiola. I disappeared from Manila and left the Cursillo group to Frank de Leon.

After my name was cleared, I re-appeared in Manila only to find the Cursillo bursting with thousands of new members. Frank had to use the Church to accommodate the crowd. This was an achievement only an exceptional charismatic leader can create.

Because I detached myself from the Church after my marriage, I never saw Frank until 1980, two years after my family arrived in Canada. I was walking one cold afternoon along Bay St. and there was this familiar looking man walking towards me. It is indeed a small world.

 

Man of Dedication

I learned he was still very much involved in Church and Community activities while I concentrated on the needs of my family. This man has dedicated his life for God and our people; there is no doubt about it. What has he done for our Community? Close your eyes for a moment and imagine a Filipino Community in Metro Toronto without Frank de Leon. You will see a scenario without a Black Nasareno of Quiapo celebration in January, no Santa Cruz de Mayo in May, and no Pabasa during the Holy Week which is constant reminders of our traditions and our obligations to God.

Mississauga Seniors Association would not exist. Vignette, his column in Atin Ito and now Balita reminding us of the nostalgia and stories of Philippine life will not be there. There will be no stage shows where we can laugh and cry at our uniqueness, our pride and sensitivities which are many times over reacting like the Balik Yabang and the Nakakapaso ang Lamig.

Yet this man is 78, and has undergone a triple bypass operation years ago. While most of us retire in idleness contented on dwelling on our past achievements, Frank continue to meet challenges and refuses to quit. And with his so many talents and activities he continues to amaze and surprise us. He is a proven leader, writer, producer, script writer, casanova and many others. Of course amidst all these, we know that behind the success or failure of any man is a woman.

Knowing his age and capacity, I believe that Dory de Leon has been all along not only an inspiration but a full pledged partner.But just like any man, he also has one fault; otherwise he will be canonized as a saint. His only weakness I know is his being a palikero. But you can’t totally blame him. Being handsome with great charisma, women are easily attracted to him. You can give him credit however; at least he did not go for the men who also were attracted to him. What amazes me is the total faithfulness of Dory to Frank in spite of the many discoveries she had made on his extra curricular activities.

When we were active in the Cursillo, some parish ladies were very friendly with Frank and vice versa. These ladies complained to him about a Parish Priest who is well known for womanizing. They said that this Priest asked them for dates. Frank saw a threat of competition and wanted to do something about it. Being influential, he was able to tap this priest telephone and recorded his calls. Frank found out that he was calling different women every night and was talking about intimate things only lovers and couples talk about. Wanting to get even with him, Frank took the tape to the Head Priest. To his surprise, the Head Priest asked him to have patience with priests as a whole because they also have their human needs. The truth, he said, is he also have a child with a girlfriend.

In spite of these findings, Frank did not waver in his faith in God and the Catholic Church. By giving Frank and Dory long and healthy lives, God is sending us a message. That no one yet born can step on the shoes of Frank and Dory, that God needs them to bring more souls to his Church and we still need his leadership and talents.  On this their 55th Wedding Anniversary which is rarely reached by married couples; let us offer a moment of prayer for this blessed wonderful couple. “Praise to you Almighty and loving God for all your glory and power. You are the one true and loving God from everlasting to everlasting. You have blessed our Community with a talented and dedicated couple with Frank and Dory de Leon.

By their work, they have entertained us, lead us and brought us closer to you. Be generous to them and their children Lord, and grant them the strength, good health, faith, wisdom, wealth, happiness, peace and power so that they can continue to bring honor and glory to your name. Amen.”  

With the passing of Frank de Leon, I lost a friend, a brother, and a close confidant. We always consult each other when we have problems especially about the community and we advised each other. Frank will be remembered as Filipino who dedicated his life to the service of our people and to God.


Posted by Rodel Ramos at 8:05 PM EST
Updated: Thursday, 13 December 2007 5:08 PM EST
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Saturday, 20 October 2007
Promoting the Centennial
Topic: Centennial Promotion


 

Promoting the Centennial
Philippine Centennial Festival
July 11, 1998
SkyDome (Rogers Centre) Toronto, Canada

The Division of Filipino Canadians
CENTENNIAL COMEDY & TRAGEDY

Appointment Controversy
by Rodel J. Ramos

The appointment of the Centennial National Chairman in Canada was the most controversial position in the history of our Community and the most damaging. In the beginning, we tried to convince Eddie Lee to apply for that position because of its significance in history and prestige even if we knew the conflict of interest, his being publisher of a newspaper. Who ever will be the Chairman will be remembered as the leader of the whole Filipino Community in Canada. This was his chance to unite the Filipinos. In my mind, with the SkyDome as a venue, he can invite the leaders in the different Communities and have one big celebration.
He was in a great position being the Chairman of the Philippine Independence Day Celebration in Metro Toronto (PIDC) in 1997. We worked hard to place him there even if in the beginning, we found it hard to convince him to run. He won against another heavy contender Chito Collantes.

With the national chairmanship of the Philippine Centennial Movement in Canada, Eddie said publicly, he was not interested several times.

But according to Norma Carpio who was appointed Chairperson for the Metro Toronto ahead of Eddie, which Eddie Lee applied for that position using his influence with his fraternity brothers. Norma was offered to Chairman Canada's Celebration by the Phil. Centennial Commission headed by former Vice Pres. Salvador Laurel once in Washington and again when she was in the Philippines. She rejected both times because she had the CNE project at that time with the Philippines as the host country at the end of August to September.

In fact, Mr. Boy Morales, Vice Chairman of the Commission phoned Norma to ask if she knows Eddie Lee. Norma indorsed Eddie knowing him to be active in the Community and as Chairman of PIDC.

When Gloria Angara was here to drum up interest in the Centennial during the Independence Celebration in June 1997, a year before the Centennial, Eddie Lee did not even introduce Norma Carpio to Gloria even if she was already appointed as Chairman of Metro Toronto. She has to approach Mrs. Angara herself.

Eddie was first appointed as Chairman of the Mississauga Centennial Celebration which was protested by the Kalayaan officers. In a letter to Doy Laurel, they claimed that Eddie Lee was never involved with Mississauga celebration in previous years. Eddie was busy manipulating PIDC with Mann Nacario controlling its three previous elections. Eddie was irked by this protest and said it in various occasions. This was one of the reasons why he did not support the move of Kalayaan for the SkyDome celebration. Another reason is, he was afraid, he was going to pay for any deficit if the project incur loses. He was never to forgive this group for that protest and did not even mention the SkyDome event in his advertisements of the Centennial Celebration.

We tried to broker a settlement between Eddie and Kalayaan with Sonny Lawson, and Manny Bade and for three months did just that. Eddie refused and suspected our loyalty. We even asked Consul General Francisco Santos to help in order to have one celebration of the Centennial. We failed. Eddie said that he offered Willie Cantos to take the Chairmanship of Mississauga after he was appointed Overall Chairman of Canada Centennial but he was rejected. Willie said that he was an outgoing Chairman of Kalayaan and he has to wait for the elections. The position has to be offered to the incoming Chairman. Eddie appointed Agnes Villanueva instead.

At the same time, Eddie and Mann Nacario who were best of friends split up. Mann stopped talking to Eddie. Eddie said that Mann got mad because he was interested on the Chairmanship of the Centennial but instead was awarded to Eddie.

Mann's version was different. That Chairmanship was offered to him by Ambassador Pacifico Castro and even brought him to the Commission's office to see Doy. He refused because Castro was no longer the Phil. Ambassador. Castro was proud of introducing Mann as owner of Unimover, the largest Door to Door mover in Canada, when they are in public together.

Mann said the reason he was snubbing Eddie is because he badmouth him in a debut party in front of his close friends. Consul General Francisco Santos again brokered a reconciliation inviting the two to a lunch at Mayette's Restaurant. Mann was cold and proceeded to the election of PIDC.

Regarding PICD, Eddie was approached by Dr. Francisco Portugal and Jun Cruz to call an election for the coming Centennial. Eddie refused, perhaps to hold over or for him to appoint his own men instead of a yearly election. Dr. Portugal and Jun went ahead, called an election in PICD and Dr. Portugal was elected Chairman of the Centennial Celebration. Meanwhile, Eddie appointed Carol Banez as Chairperson for the annual Gala Night. This explained why there two Gala Nights in Metro.

Eddie went ahead of his duty as Chairman for Canada and made appointments in every provinces. This was followed by protest from every area, because the persons he appointed were not recognized as the leaders of those places. The protest was the same all over. The comments were the same. "Who is this Eddie Lee who was appointing his own people for the Centennial Celebration when every year the Independence was celebrated in a democratic way, elected by popular vote by the different organizations in these provinces? Why is he trampling this democratic practice? We are supposed to be celebrating Independence, and our freedom is being taken away again." Winnepeg, Windsor, Vancouver send their protest to the newspapers and the Centennial Commission in Manila.

The long dead National Congress also resurrected with Mel Catre calling for an election. Ricky Castelvi emerged as the Chairman of this group. And under this umbrella or the merging of this group and that of Chito Collantes came the Pista Ng Bayan at Nathan Philip Square, another Centennial Celebration. Also, the flag raising at the Toronto City Hall with Mrs. Miguel as Chairperson every year. This ceremony was contested violently resulting in a fist fight between two leaders in City Hall. The police had to be called in.

Mann Nacario who chaired the well attended Independence picnic at Earl Bales the previous year held a one week Celebration with the presence of well known celebrities from the Philippines as a finale. The Philippine Sundae and newspapers loyal to him was his promotional tools.

 


Posted by Rodel Ramos at 4:11 PM EDT
Updated: Thursday, 25 October 2007 2:54 PM EDT
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